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Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 6:32pm On Jan 12, 2011
The pains of marrying late are overwhelming especially for Ladies. How many ladies out there are aware that it is dangerous and delicate for them to get married late. The problems range from getting pregnant to complications at child birth. Also ladies that marry late end up marrying people they never prayed for. It is either a divorcee or a widower.
How can you come out of singleness and pains of the past?  This book provides the solutions. I believe this is issue is a life issue and should be taken serious.
Get this e book-HOW TO SURVIVE HEARTBREAK AND PROLONGED SINGLENESS on www.wsicebooks.com, www. amazon.com or you contact me for PDF format.
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Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by iyatrustee(f): 6:46pm On Jan 12, 2011
Ok oh. We don hear
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 6:50pm On Jan 12, 2011
It is just a must read for guys and ladies,
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Busta(f): 6:51pm On Jan 12, 2011
to marry na by force?
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Imani(f): 6:58pm On Jan 12, 2011
@ poster,

Are you actually concerned about the singles "plight" or just trying to make some quick bucks?

And i noticed your post was more directed at the ladies as well. Hmmm
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 7:01pm On Jan 12, 2011
The emptiness of being single could be damaging. Within us, there is a strong yearning for companionship. No matter how hard we try to negelect this yearnings, it shows in us in our dispositions, emotions, reactions.etc. It is God's ordination that we marry. Also, we can avoid bing tempted to fornicate.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 12, 2011
Busta:

to marry na by force?
yes. the holy book says a man must leave his father & mother and be joined to his wife for them to become one
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Coolabbie: 9:55pm On Jan 12, 2011
Sorry not interested. Im single & loving it.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Mygoldie(f): 10:02pm On Jan 12, 2011
is it by force?? carry go jare!!
Note: im not against marriages.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Phate07(m): 10:23pm On Jan 12, 2011


Marriage- the holiest of vows.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Dsense(m): 2:47am On Jan 13, 2011
OP.
Thanks for this . . .Mrs eve needs it badly. grin
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by iice(f): 3:24am On Jan 13, 2011
bankylan:

The emptiness of being single could be damaging. Within us, there is a strong yearning for companionship. No matter how hard we try to negelect this yearnings, it shows in us in our dispositions, emotions, reactions.etc. It is God's ordination that we marry. Also, we can avoid bing tempted to fornicate.

being single is not synonymous with being empty.
Neither is alone equal to loneliness. Your vast swipe of assumptions are sometimes more damaging than good to the flock you wish to get under your wing. So will reiterate what others have said. . .is it a must to marry?
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 11:41am On Jan 13, 2011
The book does not contain assumptions, There are empirical facts inside. It is not everything in a book that will apply to you, but there is somebody somewhere who soaks his/her pillow at night because of the pains of heartbreak and prolonged singleness. The problem is compounded because there is no trusted friends to talk to. So while some people believe there is nothing bad in being single for a long time, there are thousands praying for a life partner. So this book is meant for those who are praying to God for this good thing.
Being single does not connote emptiness, and I never said that, but there are times when we feel our world is void and we tend to do things not expected of us to fill it.
I have come to understand that experiences of the past have made many out there not to believe in the institution called marriage. But I believe you can be healed of your broken past.
Making a fast buck? This is far from the intention!, I have come accross hundreds of men and women who messing up their lives, being used and dumped, looking older than their real age, taking to drugs, and being frustrated as a result of past hurts and prolonged singleness. These people are the targets, and I believe God to heal them, The book may not be for everybody, but if it is just one soul that it affects, May God be glorified.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by 79733139(m): 11:44am On Jan 13, 2011
Another street hawker, trying to force us to buy his oranges!
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 11:59am On Jan 13, 2011
It is good to buy wisdom, It is good to hawk oranges and not destinies. How many out there are hawking their bodies for the affections they have been denied. How many have sold their destinies for a depreciating NAIRA, A single mistake in life can cost one the entire life, and a word, just a word, can change a man's destiny.
What we need for a change is nothing but information that will transform us,
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by iice(f): 2:53pm On Jan 13, 2011
Rofl. Broken heart? I can't fit laugh.
Like i said assumptions. Just because a person sees something a certain way doesn't make it the outcome of horrible experience or any experience for the matter. So you're not advising people to find trusted friends?
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 12:11pm On Jan 17, 2011
Is your singleness a result of your broken past? Start a new life!
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by harakiri(m): 1:33pm On Jan 17, 2011
@Poster

Can you honestly admit to yourself that the likes of George Clooney and 50-cent are in "danger" of loneliness or unhappiness? One things i have learned the hard way in life is that : No one can love you as much as you love yourself. If you cannot generate happiness from within you, NOTHING on earth can make you happy. True happiness comes from within not outside. It's too much media and religious misconceptions that have the people engulfed in a state of delusion.

Dangers of singleness indeed! ! !

Happy sales with your book though. . .lol
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 2:13pm On Jan 17, 2011
get a copy on amazon, wsicebooks or contact 08029406228
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 10:07am On Jan 21, 2011
Heal your broken heart
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by bankylan: 6:03pm On Jan 25, 2011
Loneliness kills,
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Zahnda(f): 3:00am On Jan 26, 2011
Is it customary in Nigeria for The Wives to never be seen in public with their hubbies?
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by MMM2(m): 4:58am On Jan 26, 2011
poster i need my own copy in german language.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by toyemz(f): 5:38am On Jan 26, 2011
@zahnda,
is it customary in Nigeria for the wives to never be seen in public with their hubbies?

why dont you take a trip to nigeria and find out?
pointless question!
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Nobody: 7:16am On Jan 26, 2011
gosh!! u guys are rude sad
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by koolchicco: 10:25am On Jan 26, 2011
Pornodude:

gosh!! u guys are rude sad

Yea, saw that too. embarassed
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by 190: 10:26am On Jan 26, 2011
ROTFL,


@ 2 marry na by force!!
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by Spclst900: 10:48am On Jan 26, 2011
M M M:

Zahnda link=topic=584496.msg7604208#msg7604208 date=1296007219:

Is it customary in Nigeria for The Wives to never be seen in public with their hubbies?   
where you hear that one from? So you follow among those people wey dey spoil our good name.
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by sessy2(f): 10:54am On Jan 26, 2011
if we buy the book read we go see husband marry? am just asking tongue
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by 190: 11:09am On Jan 26, 2011
sessy2:

if we buy the book read we go see husband marry? am just asking tongue
grin grin grin

Husband's don scarce Ohh grin grin grin

Kai woman life nor easy,
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by sessy2(f): 11:30am On Jan 26, 2011
[/quote][quote author=190 link=topic=584496.msg7605825#msg7605825 date=1296036588]
grin grin grin

Husband's don scarce Ohh grin grin grin

Kai woman life nor easy,

e no easy my brother i no go lie grin grin grin grin
Re: Dangers Of Prolonged Singleness-FOR NAIJA LADIES AND MEN. by 190: 11:34am On Jan 26, 2011
sessy2:

e no easy my brother i no go lie grin grin grin grin

Lol, Kai
You ladies would just be bent on satisfying one man for the rest of your lives
Just so he can cement it with a marriage

You panic over everything
Am i beautyful enuf
Am i cooking well enough
How do i satisfy him in bed enough so he aint going no where,

Hmm, You ladies are trying

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