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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Nobody: 8:29pm On May 25, 2020
COOL10:
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Some men don't deserve to be liberated though. Such knowledge is not something you waste.

True but sad cry

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Zabiboy: 8:31pm On May 25, 2020
lefulefu:
is it only nigerian guys they created with libidio and testoterone? i have never seen a black american guy or a carribean acting the way we do.na inferiority complex be our bane nothing else cheesy


Bro...trust me...there are even worse simps abroad..
Simping is everywhere....

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by COOL10(m): 8:31pm On May 25, 2020
glimpse33:
@ premiumwriter

It's not our fault. It's God's fault, Our Creator.
He created us with so much Testosterone and Libido, this makes 99% of us to always crave for what's under ladies leg.


It's not just male humans,
but also male dogs, male lizards, male chickens. Take your time to observe how they chase over other females animals , trying to get them laid, the libidos in male creatures are just too high.

If the new generation of men born into this world starting from 2020 start having little or no libido at all, then women will be worthless, useless, and irrelevant in the society, they would start kneeling and begging guys to choose them for relationships.

Sex is the number 1 thing we want from females, that's why we're constantly on their inbox and PMs




.

Then it's your obligation to figure out the number 1 thing, women need from us. Once you do so, you would've succeeded in solving a large part of the equation.

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Nobody: 8:33pm On May 25, 2020
pDudd:


I swear cheesy cheesy grin cheesy cheesy grin grin

When did women become the price? My dad was a handsome man with swag and I saw how ladies always wanted to be around him and how mom was always making sure to be around him at all times. And then I understood that MEN ARE THE PRICE.

Bleep SIMPS cheesy
even women fighting on the street over a man should tell u men are the ultimate price cheesy.there was one acident i witnessed then and this two single ladies bathed each other with acid over a married man cos one of them accused the other of trying to snatch the married man from her cheesy.guys who beg and cry for ladies contacts have no self worth and no sane lady would even agree to date such a guy

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Nobody: 8:38pm On May 25, 2020
lefulefu:
even women fighting on the street over a man should tell u men are the ultimate price cheesy.there was one acident i witnessed then and this two single ladies bathed each other with acid over a married man cos one of them accused the other of trying to snatch the married man from her cheesy.guys who beg and cry for ladies contacts have no self worth and no sane lady would even agree to date such a guy

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. So wetin the wife go come do na? cheesy cheesy

Men hold the price which is the resources and security. Women only have a pussy. I don't know why men will waste their time and resources just to get pussy when there is thousands of free pussies out there. It beats me.

Women are constantly searching for that security and that is why when they find a guy that can supply such, they never let him go. Men are the ultimate price but they don't realize it. They will be simping up and down because of one dry, stale, pussy. Mtscheww.

I have never seen 2 guys fighting on the streets over a woman cry

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Sixfeetbelle: 8:40pm On May 25, 2020
grin grin grin grin ayii.


In my understanding, I don't think all these 'simping' of a thing is actually from men who still have a lot going on in their lives such as Ceo of small growing companies, owners of a new kind of technology company etc. People that are grounded in making a name for themselves, especially those who had it rough growing up rarely have time to chase women. Why?

One, they have discipline. (You need it to grow your business)
Two, they are busy. (Seriously, they hardly have time for much else)
Three, they are worth something. (Net worth is a great deal to them)
Four, money makes one 'fine' so they are handsome.

The simps are lacking most of these characteristics and needs validation by sucking up to a woman. Not all though, as some actually have these things but for some reason (self esteem) still seek a woman's validation irrespective. So in essence, when a man gains all of the above, he may start to simp too.

Abeg, confusion haff enter this thing tongue

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Zabiboy: 8:42pm On May 25, 2020

I discovered TRP at a very young age..All ubunja's miseducations is a summarized write-up of what we call THE SIDEBAR in TRP subreddit community....
THE SIDEBAR is like an introduction for newbies into TRP community...
Normally TRP doesn't FULLY focus on women...it teaches me how to strive towards becoming a person person in every aspect....But THE SIDEBAR is all about women Bcz we believe that once a guy can remove females from his mind, or act like they dont exist, he is on the path of becoming a BETTER VERSION OF HIMSELF....
One Example so my post wont be lengthy.
A guy goes into a business and after investing, it fails for one reason or the other, He can pick himself up, research for where he made mistakes and move on..BUT a guy that has invested on a girl, if the girl leaves, its like his life has ended...
THIS IS THE REASON WHY THE SIDEBAR ( UBUNJA'S MISEDUCATION'S) DEALS AND TALKS MOSTLY ABOUT WOMEN...LIKE I SAID...IT'S AN INTRO FOR NEWBIES
GL cool

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Nobody: 8:46pm On May 25, 2020
lefulefu:
grin grin grin grin grin and dont be surprised if the barrister is a married man grin.most of these guys will go about giving ladies attention on social media but they will be starving their own wives of attention.u can imagine a married thanking a girl accepting his friend request.i dont just understand some of these guys and especially married men cheesy
And the girl will be like 17-19. The thing dey tire me as if she just saved his life. The painful part is when u check these girls background u go hate. Shigan no dey and they will be forming all manner of nonsense... Its the stupid guys that send PM's and DM's that i blame tho

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by NYCnextStop(m): 8:48pm On May 25, 2020
xendra:
lmao.... Men are the reward?? that's not how the bible said it cheesy cheesy


But every thing else you wrote is true, I've got one nuisance following me with all his monikers and kissing my ass all about. he will soon come, he acts like he don't like me but he really just wants to get my attention. i don't have to mention him here, he will do the mention

men are the prize. It pains me when I see guys that don’t know their worth. I mean who are they trying to please? Same girls that other guys use and get tired of? Same girls that only marry who they can? Same girls that breathe just like men? It’s just a shame really

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by NYCnextStop(m): 8:49pm On May 25, 2020
Women are the gate keepers of sex and men the gate keepers of relationship/marriage. If only men knew the power they’ve got.

Once you have abundance mentality as a guy and realize that no woman is irreplaceable, then you will stop taking nonsense from these women

Guys we are the prize... don’t let anyone deceive you. These are how men simp to these ladies

By being too available
By being too agreeable and
By focusing too much on her

Work on these three issues and know your worth

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 25, 2020
Zabiboy:


@ emboldened
Bro....just the way you are craving for whats under their legs, they crave for your D too...
But they want a D with class, authority...not just any wayward D...and they wont tell you or show it....They want to have the luxury of being able to choose for themselves..
But guys ( simps) just want any hole to put their D into...
Thats why we say guys should KNOW THIER WORTH....ignore all these ladies for the now....build your life physically, financially, mentally, eductionally..etc and Give yourslef the luxury of having to choose the pvvsy you want..
GL cool


You spitting truth bro. Chop knuckle.

When you hustle and make enough resources, then you can relax and watch how these women will be scrambling over each other to Bleep you silly. Hahahahahaha. I love the game grin grin

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by lilmax(m): 8:51pm On May 25, 2020
This is GOLD
Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Amiraqfaith(f): 8:54pm On May 25, 2020
Lol... Men
Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by GeneralPula: 8:54pm On May 25, 2020
Sometimes I just don’t get it with the stories I read on here..

Females are not hard to relate with. Just be a man, a woman will always act like a woman. Yours is just to be a man..

I don’t give women attention at all, nah them Dey seek for my attention. That’s what woman want, lemme struggle for my man!

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by traihit: 9:02pm On May 25, 2020
Kudos to you op. I once met a marine engineer who was telling me what he has achieved so far and how short it took him to get there. What he told me "you seem like a serious guy. Be careful of women. They can be the deliverer or doom of men. But to be on a safe side, stay away unless you're getting hooked".

Men are biologically wired to chase women about and like beasts, we keep succumbing to this biological demand. Lack of self control is what made an 80 year old to be called 'baby' by a mate of his granddaughter. Men need to be more self controlled.

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by sexylassie2(f): 9:10pm On May 25, 2020
TonyeBarcanista na you be premiumwriter too shebi grin
Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by luvyaself95(m): 9:22pm On May 25, 2020
As a guy you have to know your worth.
I for once fvck up with a girl not because i don't know my worth, but love blinded me talking about now if you are a girl and i message you.
You need to go to church on Sunday and do testimony.
Not that am rich or whatever is just that the pride in me won't just let me.

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Nobody: 9:23pm On May 25, 2020
Amiraqfaith:
Lol... Men

Yes men cheesy

We are exposing y'all secret. Just be quiet and read. Enough of y'all bullshit. Men need to learn some lessons about you females

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Zabiboy: 9:23pm On May 25, 2020


Another thing i noticed...
This thread MIGHT end up not getting up to 5 or 6 pages...
But u'll see an attention seeking thread by a female moniker reaching 7,8 or 10+ pages..full of guys ass-licking....even their fellow females dont comment sef...( just like that one telling people to like her dp)...

Anyways...ITS NOT BY FORCE TO LEARN AND IMPROVE.....YOU EITHER LEARN THE HARD WAY( HERE) OR LEARN THE HARDER WAY( EXPERIENCE)..
These two pages alone can inject sense into someone...
Goodnight

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by MedicH: 9:28pm On May 25, 2020
These things are sad and basically from men with no game and have not been able to find their footing on this planet. One thing is if they are lucky, nature will have mercy on them. If they are not, they are doomed.

I was never like this, never shed a tear. If i see you and like you i hang my self esteem on you and you come under pressure.

But you see these ones sending pms in their hundreds it's crazy. No matter what a man thinks of himself on this forum, the PMs from the females cant be up to that amount.

I have been on this forum for about a year plus and i have seen only 4 pms from the females and one person asked for money, one other person, something serious, the others never talked.

As a man here before you send that PM looking for hookup or date or something ask yourself what are the odds of you both being together?

some are so foolish they think they can score a point or just strike a relationship out of the blues from a wild goose chase.

pls if you manage to verify that the person you are sending a PM is female, what about the location or even her relationship/marriage status.

A man here ignores all these and starts to pour in PMs like a starving baby e no make sense.

when i give birth to my own children i have a lot to teach them.

Moderation to all things but study

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by MedicH: 9:36pm On May 25, 2020
glimpse33:
@ premiumwriter

It's not our fault. It's God's fault, Our Creator.
He created us with so much Testosterone and Libido, this makes 99% of us to always crave for what's under ladies leg.


It's not just male humans,
but also male dogs, male lizards, male chickens. Take your time to observe how they chase over other females animals , trying to get them laid, the libidos in male creatures are just too high.

If the new generation of men born into this world starting from 2020 start having little or no libido at all, then women will be worthless, useless, and irrelevant in the society, they would start kneeling and begging guys to choose them for relationships.

Sex is the number 1 thing we want from females, that's why we're constantly on their inbox and PMs





Exactly at the bolded. I want nothing else from the ladies if not sex and some good food for those that can cook. sometimes i am too busy with main hustle that side hustle suffers on the computer and i just wish i have a woma that can fit in and fetch some money but i know that won't come easy. this doesnt man i will go and be barging into PMs constituting nuisance even when the odds are against me but rather i will make it seem like an exchange. I have to be the man here and build up myself to the point that i acquire what the ladies want and that way, they are at my mercy and it's fair that way.

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by DontBullshitMe: 9:40pm On May 25, 2020
Redpill is an obligation not a choice.

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Premiumwriter: 9:44pm On May 25, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
Redpill is an obligation not a choice.

yes. It is an obligation.

To all you guys reading this, go get some redpills. Swallow them and see if plenty scales will not fall from your eyes.

It's like waking up from a dream and seeing the world in a new light.

We do not hate women. We just don't like how they are tampering and bending the fabrics of our values as men

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 9:44pm On May 25, 2020
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xendra:
lmao.... Men are the reward?? that's not how the bible said it cheesy cheesy


But every thing else you wrote is true, I've got one nuisance following me with all his monikers and kissing my ass all about. he will soon come, he acts like he don't like me but he really just wants to get my attention. i don't have to mention him here, he will do the mention

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 9:45pm On May 25, 2020
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xendra:
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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Premiumwriter: 9:48pm On May 25, 2020
luvyaself95:
As a guy you have to know your worth.
I for once fvck up with a girl not because i don't know my worth, but love blinded me talking about now if you are a girl and i message you.
You need to go to church on Sunday and do testimony.
Not that am rich or whatever is just that the pride in me won't just let me.
you see that feeling of falling in love and thinking this is the best or only girl for you?

It is your worst enemy.

Aside from makin a lot of men to give all they have to a woman including their lives, it also make a man put a woman on a pedestal that makes her think she has more value.

That's why most women stop chasing you and fall back once they realise you are into them

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by AstroG: 9:52pm On May 25, 2020
Premiumwriter:
This topic has been on my mind for a long time but I really haven't found a better time to write than today.

I have always been puzzled why girls act the way they do. You know the snubbing, the seemingly high self-esteem and the almost queen-like behavior. It was really frustrating to me and I hate seeing men begging for love and some pussies.

So, early this year I created a female account to run a few tests and my results were mind numbing. I wouldn't say I was surprise because I already have an idea of what to expect but really seeing the result was something else.

I'll first explore a little of my finding.

As a guy, i rarely get pm request from other guys or ladies. Maybe once in a while when i offer to post a freebie or talk about helping someone to do something to make money online, then I may recieve just one or two pm from other people.

On my lady's account however, the reverse was the case. A lot of dudes here kept sending me request to the point i had to schedule my replies to these PMs.

Now just so you know, my reply most times is only a hello to the pm to get an idea of what these people actually want because a Pm may just be a Pm or may actually mean something else.

After the first hello response, a lot of guys start praising how beautiful I am and then proceed to say they like men and would like us to be friends and then request for my whatsapp number.

the second group are those that will say, i seem like a very intelligent lady or that they like the way i comment and would like to get my number so that they can know me more. of course any sensible person here will know that their dicks were amazed and not their brains.

now after they say want to get on with me, I normally respond that i cant give out my number to strangers and most times they will not respond to the message. A few will respond and say that they will really like to know me and try to convince me to hand out my phone number because according to them, "how can we get to know each other more if we don't connect on the phone?" this is where i normally cut off my interactions as there's really nothing more interesting to say.

I n anyway, out of the hundreds - yes you read that well, out of the hundreds of PMs i received, Only one impressed me and actually had a meaningful line of approach. I responded and we actually hit a dead end again after he requested for my phone number.

Here is the bottomline: This ladies are bombarded with average of about 5 PMs per day and more than 35 PMs in a week. If they dont respond to yours, dont take it to heart, nobody is paying them anything to respond to emails. talkmore of responding to 35 new emails per week and then type new response to the previous week's 35 who are waiting for her response.

so dont take it to your heart if the ladies dont resply your PM.

secondly, as a guy, know your worth. I always see Milleniumlady signature saying every dude on NL wants to wife her and then i loomk at myself and say why but now i know why. the below is coming from a lady who has not contributed meaningfully to any guys life here. again, nigga know your self worth
www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602799_screenshot202005251833172_png9005f19ba87aa4a96d192b1bd199bfc7

and this trash below is also coming from a girl who has not contributed to her family not to talk of the world in any meaningful way:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602802_screenshot202005251834172_png8a2380b4862be724af2202c60bb343bf

Dudes are giving these girls attentions back-to-back and this only comes back to haunt them. I mean, imagine what 35 new emails from different ladies complimenting you about your handsomeness can do to your self-esteem in real life. It will give you that king feeling and make you feel like you are the new god and you'll end up seeing any new comment as common.

Niggas know your self-worth. Give your attention only when it is actually needed.

Another thing i noticed is that ladies get way more mention than guys. You get response to almost every mention which always ends with the guy saying how beautiful your profile is.

then there are those who will like to proof themselves to you. they will try and tell you that they are very intelligent. I don't know their end goals but it wasn't funny.

and then there are those whose job it is to say, that your profile picture is not you. they will tell you she's too beautiful to be on nairaland and in the end still send you a PMs sad

And there are those who will be rude just to get a response from you. They try to act tough but i can always see the neediness through their attack and push for me to just respond to them.

And should i talk about the number of followers i get almost daily? Like seriously. this lady is not posting anything meaningful or something that could help you to make money online or address any issue you may have, but she kept getting on average of 3 followers per day, all men, like seriously where are you following her to?

after following, some will start answering all of her comment, attacking her or send a PM.

The thing is a lot of men today are failing one of the most important rules in manhood and dating: Treat a lady like a celebrity and she will treated you like a fan.

Men are simply nuisance on this platform to the ladies and to be sincere that is what i am convinced about. If you are guy that follows every lady, praises and support her every mentions and then send a Pm, you are more of a fan and she the celebrity.

Guys for chrissake, go swallow some redpills. Learn to focus on your goals, your dreams and ambitions. Girls will come with the shelter as an extra. you are the reward for a woman.

I see this thing a lot on facebook and instagram. Go to instagram and checkout any female profile. It is only men you'll see commenting "oh what a beauty" "so beautiful" "you are an angel" etc. like seriously why won't these girls in turn, treat you like trash when you treat them like the air you need.

After deactivating my female account, I have since taken a little break to observe things. No longer chasing women. Just relax now and very observant while working on myself and my ambition.


Correct!!


Abeq,hold one cool

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Premiumwriter: 9:56pm On May 25, 2020
NYCnextStop:
Women are the gate keepers of sex and men the gate keepers of relationship/marriage. If only men knew the power they’ve got.

Once you have abundance mentality as a guy and realize that no woman is irreplaceable, then you will stop taking nonsense from these women

Guys we are the prize... don’t let anyone deceive you. These are how men simp to these ladies

By being too available
By being too agreeable and
By focusing too much on her

Work on these three issues and know your worth
abundance mentality is the one thing women have that men don't have.


In stories, women are portrayed as waitin for the one prince charming but in reality men wait for the princess Charmin.

A man will see a lady that says she's a virgin and he'll instantly think he's lucky to have her and will give almost anything to make her stay.

They don't know that for any good woman they have met, there are a thousand and one more who are better than her.

Women have that sort of abundance mentality and as such will continue hopping from one man to another without fear.

But most men fear to give up. They want to play the "I will work for this love" while the ladies are ever willing to take their chances to let go.


If you are reading this, that girl you're diein ontop her matter, is not the only pretty girl you'll meet, she's not the only good girl or virgin out there. She's not in any way 'destined' for you. You can find a thousand and one other better and much more prettier than her.

No the kill yourself ontop only one girl matter. If she wan play game, switch to another girl, them borku.

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Zabiboy: 10:03pm On May 25, 2020


Jzt like the saying
"SHE IS NEVER YOURS...ITS JUST YOUR TURN"

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:03pm On May 25, 2020
Wailers. grin tongue
Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 10:06pm On May 25, 2020
xendra:


But every thing else you wrote is true, I've got one nuisance following me with all his monikers and kissing my ass all about. he will soon come, he acts like he don't like me but he really just wants to get my attention. i don't have to mention him here, he will do the mention

I have really humbled you on this forum grin
You no longer make senseless comments anyhow.
When people insult you, you don't insult them back cos you know I'm following you and monitoring your comments as I won't hesitate to call for your ban.
You're now careful with the way you choose your words so as to avoid being banned.
Asides that you also don't comment anyhow as I have scattered your mentions with cancellation.
I have at least achieved what I wanted and have put you in your place.
It's now left for you to apologise to me and I will forgive you, unfollow you and leave you alone cheesy

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Re: Know Your Worth Nigga: A Thread For Men by marti198(m): 10:07pm On May 25, 2020
myles16:
Asin very irritating something, facebook is the worst you start seeing things like "Thanks for your acceptance", some be commenting wow wow like an ambulance on girls picture, as a guy it irritates me and it makes me feel bad like are we supposed to bring our self this low before they can appreciate us or become friends with us, I don't toast girls, mutual friendship is what i do even tho i know i am not that handsome, i know some girls still crush on me... I don't have to be sending "Good morning" messages every morning. Seriously we guys should know our worth.

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