seanwilliam:
chase a check, never chase a bitch...(mask off)..

Yeah. That's hard.


I Ride For My Niggas, I Lie For my Bitch (Life is good ft Drake)

I think this worshipping women started from the days of aristos. When one aristo big man will carry one small girl to Mega Plaza and buy her heaven and earth. The girl will start feeling big and classy with herself and not give eye to her mates in the area. That is how area boiz will start to compete with aristos to win her heart. They will start showering the girl with attention and gifts, trying to win her over.

The girl starts to feel like a god and concludes that she is the ultimate prize for men.

Mtscheww.

Sixfeetbelle:
ayii.


In my understanding, I don't think all these 'simping' of a thing is actually from men who still have a lot going on in their lives such as Ceo of small growing companies, owners of a new kind of technology company etc. People that are grounded in making a name for themselves, especially those who had it rough growing up rarely have time to chase women. Why?

One, they have discipline. (You need it to grow your business)
Two, they are busy. (Seriously, they hardly have time for much else)
Three, they are worth something. (Net worth is a great deal to them)
Four, money makes one 'fine' so they are handsome.

The simps are lacking most of these characteristics and needs validation by sucking up to a woman. Not all though, as some actually have these things but for some reason (self esteem) still seek a woman's validation irrespective. So in essence, when a man gains all of the above, he may start to simp too.

Abeg, confusion haff enter this thing

aghh thank God a lady here is being honest with the truth .i remember those days mtn free night call used to suffer from dudes doing free night calls to call babes .while their mates are busy sludging it out studying they will be on the mattress holding their crotch and talking to numerious girls on free mtn night calls from 9pm to 5 am .the one wey no pick their call na so dem go call and call

lefulefu:
u can imagine a man telling a girl he is old enough to father that he is greatful for her accepting his friend request

The thing tire me my brother.. full grown man

lefulefu:
aghh thank God a lady here is being honest with the truth .i remember those days mtn free night call used to suffer from dudes doing free night calls to call babes .while their mates are busy sludging it out studying they will be on the mattress holding their crotch and talking to numerious girls on free mtn night calls from 9pm to 5 am .the one wey no pick their call na so dem go call and call

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. I wasted my life on doing midnight call with 2 different babes who later went on to date other guys. The thing pain me ehn

Good ol' useless days

lefulefu:
u can imagine a man telling a girl he is old enough to father that he is greatful for her accepting his friend request

Them full Facebook simpii men.

dairykidd:


The thing tire me my brother.. full grown man

brother the day my dad told me one of his childhood friend wey im dey advice bought a large plot of land for his single mom side chick dats when i realised some men no get sense .This is a man wey no get land of his own and he stays in a face me i face u room but he bought a huge plot of land for his sidechick and he training the child of this single mom in school but his own blood children he abandoned them.u see how foolish some men can be

glimpse33:


Yeah. That's hard.


I Ride For My Niggas, I Lie For my Bitch (Life is good ft Drake)

I don't know her name, she wanna have my child( last name ft lil durk.. )



That guy too sabi....






Anyone wey no embrace redpillsm will regret it directly of indirectly... and tbh, redpill can also be applied to other aspects of life

xendra:
lmao.... Men are the reward?? that's not how the bible said it


But every thing else you wrote is true, I've got one nuisance following me with all his monikers and kissing my ass all about. he will soon come, he acts like he don't like me but he really just wants to get my attention. i don't have to mention him here, he will do the mention

How does the bible say it? just curious.

pDudd:


Hahahahahahahahahahaha. I wasted my life on doing midnight call with 2 different babes who later went on to date other guys. The thing pain me ehn

Good ol' useless days

that mtn free night call just waste some guys lives .i am sure mtn did that thing on purpose .thank God i never made use of that mtn free night call cos i knew it was just time wastage .Most guys na babes dem dey use the free night call to call.and wetin dem dey call them for e no pass have u eaten? how was ur day? what did u eat today?

lefulefu:
that mtn free night call just waste some guys lives .i am sure mtn did that thing on purpose .thank God i never made use of that mtn free night call cos i knew it was just time wastage .Most guys na babes dem dey use the free night call to call.and wetin dem dey call them for e no pass have u eaten? how was ur day? what did u eat today?

I swear. Useless talk for hours. Mtscheww. Wasted time.

Meeyankee:


Them full Facebook simpii men.

overfull abeg

UyaiIncomparabl:


Awwwn. So beautiful.

Let's leave here. It's too toxic. Don't let them say you're asslicking, dear.

esha kora yin bota

Naija246:
preach!! my brother preach!!
Coach red pill did a video talking about this same issue.

Anyone interested in it should watch below



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LwJY8MWoLU

Youtube demonetized him. Even on Quora, many guys speaking about the simping of men are banned and chased off. The system actually wants men to be simps, from music that glorifies women, and a culture that perceives them as delicate and incapable of cruelty. I see the simping also all the time and it pains me to the blood.

lefulefu:
overfull abeg

This is what I kept on posting on my WhatsApp status. So many niggaz don complain tired that I am trying to break people’s relationship that I should stop such teachings. Well I just Dey tell them say they are simp that they need some redpill to librate from ladies manipulation.

pansophist:


Youtube demonetized him. Even on Quora, many guys speaking about the simping of men are banned and chased off. The system actually wants men to be simps, from music that glories women, and a culture that perceives as delicate and incapable of cruelty. I see the simping also all the time and it pains me to the blood.

baba I hail you oooo...

"It is not about what is right, but about what works"
I got that from you last year ...boss I hail again

lefulefu:
brother the day my dad told me one of his childhood friend wey im dey advice bought a large plot of land for his single mom side chick dats when i realised some men no get sense .This is a man wey no get land of his own and he stays in a face me i face u room but he bought a huge plot of land for his sidechick and he training the child of this single mom in school but his own blood children he abandoned them.u see how foolish some men can be

Chai.. God forbid if that kind man na my papa i for done set am up since. Na from young age them dey start am na. You go see guy when ordinary deodorant dey hard am to buy go dey buy perfume of 70k for babe. I know of guy those days for uni when mobile phone just come out. He bought a phone for his babe and him sim card dey him pocket. Him dey borrow phone to take talk to the babe. And no be say he done fvck am sef na only lick the girl dey allow am lick pussie. Bad bini girl when dey fvck different guys anyhow. Some guys love to be used by women.. na part of their trips i believe because no other explanations dey say man go open eyes just become fool willingly

Meeyankee:

This is what I kept on posting on my WhatsApp status. So many niggaz don complain tired that I am trying to break people’s relationship that I should stop such teachings. Well I just Dey tell them say they are simp that they need some redpill to librate from ladies manipulation.

they wont listen to u until the lady don show them pepper

Premiumwriter:
This topic has been on my mind for a long time but I really haven't found a better time to write than today.

I have always been puzzled why girls act the way they do. You know the snubbing, the seemingly high self-esteem and the almost queen-like behavior. It was really frustrating to me and I hate seeing men begging for love and some pussies.

So, early this year I created a female account to run a few tests and my results were mind numbing. I wouldn't say I was surprise because I already have an idea of what to expect but really seeing the result was something else.

I'll first explore a little of my finding.

As a guy, i rarely get pm request from other guys or ladies. Maybe once in a while when i offer to post a freebie or talk about helping someone to do something to make money online, then I may recieve just one or two pm from other people.

On my lady's account however, the reverse was the case. A lot of dudes here kept sending me request to the point i had to schedule my replies to these PMs.

Now just so you know, my reply most times is only a hello to the pm to get an idea of what these people actually want because a Pm may just be a Pm or may actually mean something else.

After the first hello response, a lot of guys start praising how beautiful I am and then proceed to say they like men and would like us to be friends and then request for my whatsapp number.

the second group are those that will say, i seem like a very intelligent lady or that they like the way i comment and would like to get my number so that they can know me more. of course any sensible person here will know that their dicks were amazed and not their brains.

now after they say want to get on with me, I normally respond that i cant give out my number to strangers and most times they will not respond to the message. A few will respond and say that they will really like to know me and try to convince me to hand out my phone number because according to them, "how can we get to know each other more if we don't connect on the phone?" this is where i normally cut off my interactions as there's really nothing more interesting to say.

I n anyway, out of the hundreds - yes you read that well, out of the hundreds of PMs i received, Only one impressed me and actually had a meaningful line of approach. I responded and we actually hit a dead end again after he requested for my phone number.

Here is the bottomline: This ladies are bombarded with average of about 5 PMs per day and more than 35 PMs in a week. If they dont respond to yours, dont take it to heart, nobody is paying them anything to respond to emails. talkmore of responding to 35 new emails per week and then type new response to the previous week's 35 who are waiting for her response.

so dont take it to your heart if the ladies dont resply your PM.

secondly, as a guy, know your worth. I always see Milleniumlady signature saying every dude on NL wants to wife her and then i loomk at myself and say why but now i know why. the below is coming from a lady who has not contributed meaningfully to any guys life here. again, nigga know your self worth
www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602799_screenshot202005251833172_png9005f19ba87aa4a96d192b1bd199bfc7

and this trash below is also coming from a girl who has not contributed to her family not to talk of the world in any meaningful way:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602802_screenshot202005251834172_png8a2380b4862be724af2202c60bb343bf

Dudes are giving these girls attentions back-to-back and this only comes back to haunt them. I mean, imagine what 35 new emails from different ladies complimenting you about your handsomeness can do to your self-esteem in real life. It will give you that king feeling and make you feel like you are the new god and you'll end up seeing any new comment as common.

Niggas know your self-worth. Give your attention only when it is actually needed.

Another thing i noticed is that ladies get way more mention than guys. You get response to almost every mention which always ends with the guy saying how beautiful your profile is.

then there are those who will like to proof themselves to you. they will try and tell you that they are very intelligent. I don't know their end goals but it wasn't funny.

and then there are those whose job it is to say, that your profile picture is not you. they will tell you she's too beautiful to be on nairaland and in the end still send you a PMs

And there are those who will be rude just to get a response from you. They try to act tough but i can always see the neediness through their attack and push for me to just respond to them.

And should i talk about the number of followers i get almost daily? Like seriously. this lady is not posting anything meaningful or something that could help you to make money online or address any issue you may have, but she kept getting on average of 3 followers per day, all men, like seriously where are you following her to?

after following, some will start answering all of her comment, attacking her or send a PM.

The thing is a lot of men today are failing one of the most important rules in manhood and dating: Treat a lady like a celebrity and she will treated you like a fan.

Men are simply nuisance on this platform to the ladies and to be sincere that is what i am convinced about. If you are guy that follows every lady, praises and support her every mentions and then send a Pm, you are more of a fan and she the celebrity.

Guys for chrissake, go swallow some redpills. Learn to focus on your goals, your dreams and ambitions. Girls will come with the shelter as an extra. you are the reward for a woman.

I see this thing a lot on facebook and instagram. Go to instagram and checkout any female profile. It is only men you'll see commenting "oh what a beauty" "so beautiful" "you are an angel" etc. like seriously why won't these girls in turn, treat you like trash when you treat them like the air you need.

After deactivating my female account, I have since taken a little break to observe things. No longer chasing women. Just relax now and very observant while working on myself and my ambition.

Bro, even if you told them that you saw God. And that he asked them to stop, they'll never listen.

We have only about 20 percent ladies that worth good attention. But we have 80 percent of men who don't even value their time, and they keep chasing those typical Nigerian girls.

The good thing is that 10 precent learn after they get duped, dumped, broken, cheated on, lied against, and rejected.

Hopefully our society would get the kind of fathers she deserves. I can remember Dr Myles Munroe of blessed memory emphasising on this.

Hmm so na here all the guys de?

dairykidd:

Chai.. God forbid if that kind man na my papa i for done set am up since. Na from young age them dey start am na. You go see guy when ordinary deodorant dey hard am to buy go dey buy perfume of 70k for babe. I know of guy those days for uni when mobile phone just come out. He bought a phone for his babe and him sim card dey him pocket. Him dey borrow phone to take talk to the babe. And no be say he done fvck am sef na only lick the girl dey allow am lick pussie. Bad bini girl when dey fvck different guys anyhow. Some guys love to be used by women.. na part of their trips i believe because no other explanations dey say man go open eyes just become fool willingly

aghhh! if such a guy has a parent the parent suppose talk sense into am.there was a guy then i knew in school ..this guy was so obsessed with one girl that he stole some clothes from a boutique and gave it to her as gift on valentine day.The guy was caught and arrested but them call im parents.im parents come sch then settle the matter then carry the guy go house then give am one strong spiritual bath to cleanse himself off the girl"s manipulation.then they warn the girl if they ever saw her near their son again they will arrest her.the guy came back to school and was back to his normal better sef .If as a parent u see say ur son dey go astray because of woman u need to strong action ooo.no just siddon dey call onto God cos if na wetin u do be dat then he will grow up to be a weak fool that will be easily manipulated by a woman.

Society looks at a woman's past but looks at the man's future. As a man, your worth grow with time, time is your best friend. Develop yourself (mentally, physically, financially, etc), and you will remain at the top of the sexual marketplace pretty much all your life, punching down into the pool of youthful young. You have the advantage of ''created value'', that is, your attractiveness is in your own hands, and doesn't fade with time. You create the lifestyle, and woman adapts to the lifestyle you create. That is a privilege. Go be a king, and assume your throne. SayNoToSimping

Do you want to be this type of a guy that a girl will go out with you out of pity?


Why do you then beg them or simp for them if not dat you want them to pity-love you?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Your reply reeks of insecurity. See, no matter how many threads you people create from dawn till dusk, there shall always be "arselickers" . Stop fighting for what will and always be.

I have the right to quote you because the thread clearly stated " for men."

What are you doing here?

Pack and go immediately!!!

Scot1255:
Bro u nailed it.. My babe will break up with me at least twice weekly and I would start begging. A gal I give up to 20k every month n she has absolutely nothing to offer me. So much attention from guys online. I have to man up n decide not to beg again after she broke up with me last week.

Good for you bro, good for you.
I commend you for taking that bold step.
Throw are back to the street she belongs

I no sabi rush woman maybe because I dy quick vex. I dy vex because dem go dy feel as if dem won do u a favor by agreeing to date them. And na dem like Bleep pass. If I mistake carry face for my babe, she go be like who won die. But yet she go dy vex for me like say na me be Nigeria problem. I can't kill myself at all. If I send u message, and e take you 2 days to reply for WhatsApp. I go use 4 days reply you back with only OK. At least I never see girl when dy feed me or gimme money, na me still dy do for dem....abeg, I no fit for wahala.

The kind of attention some guys give girls,if they give themselves that kind of attention,their life will be better....


Na we do ourselves but e go better

I have always known that ladies in this graveyard come under gratuitous pressure in form private message, but I had never imagine it is odiously nauseating.The good news is that they have learnt not to respond to these messages because they can easily predict the intention of the senders. It is the reason, as you correctly noted, some of them develop over bloated sense of worth, and are quick to insult and misinterpret your words because they see every male as one of the senders, because majority of the senders don't engage in this show of shame with their famous monikers.

The consequence is that ladies, as a result of the attention they receive, become incapable of discriminating fleeting online fame with real life experience. In other words, some of these ladies "come alive" only when they log into nairaland. You would have expected that given the purported gender war that has seemingly become the staple of this section, guys will loathe the idea of sending to these ladies.

Nevertheless, the indiscretion of some of the guys cannot diminish nairaland, since it has firmly established its reputation as a powerful tool available to any reasonable individual to exploit.

myles16:




Exactly, they be looking at you like you've made it in life, the way they stare at guys walking with a fair lady is more irritating than the way they stare at guys in a benz

Damnnnn niggarrrrrrrr... Spot on!

Don't save her she don't want to be saved just bl3ep her then kick her thru the door.

Problem is thirsty males and attention seeking females have invaded this forum just like the rest of the social media, quite sad.