angelfallz:


The guy is right though. When you see women that have deep hatred for men, and there are many in this forum, it is because they have a bad relationship with their fathers.
Women that have good relationships with their fathers don't habour that kind of hatred.

and when men have deep hatred for women on this forum what do we call it? . Or you still don't know this forum is anti- women or you are feinging ignorance?.

I only found out the hate men have for women when I joined nairalandand for the record.It was an eye opener for me. There is even a movement of anti- women with a handful of following on this forum but for whatever reason you choose to be biased or blind .

If am a guy, I will want to marry someone like my mother, but since am a lady I can't marry someone like my father, who did not think twice leaving all the responsibility to my mother and died with nothing to takia of we his children.

Yes I'd marry a woman like my mum over and over again, just that she should be a bit less emotional,and more outspoken.

Grandmeister:
Sometimes I wonder and pity people who grew up hating either of their parents, I could never truly understand what it means for such children because I grew up in a healthy loving family and was provided with all my needs(and wants)...it is well....

lol, it's actually not hate ,I don't hate my dad ,but I don't wish to marry a man like him. Just because he is my dad doesn't mean I wouldn't see his wickedness.


The cases of men raping their daughters is now rampant ,if such a child in the future calls her father a monster would that be out of place? Of course not.

Ladycewhy:
lol, it's actually not hate ,I don't hate my dad ,but I don't wish to marry a man like him. Just because he is my dad doesn't mean I wouldn't see his wickedness.


The cases of men raping their daughters is now rampant ,if such a child in the future calls her father a monster would that be out of place? Of course not.

I am not judging those who harbour animosity towards their parent(s) because I never walked in their shoes so I'm not in the position to cast aspersions....it only makes me realise how fortunate I and my siblings were to have parents that loved and provided us with all that we ever wanted materially and otherwise.

angelfallz:


The guy is right though. When you see women that have deep hatred for men, and there are many in this forum, it is because they have a bad relationship with their fathers.
Women that have good relationships with their fathers don't habour that kind of hatred.

What makes her post any different from the OP's post, she should hate anyone she wants to

Grandmeister:

I am not judging those who harbour animosity towards their parent(s) because I never walked in their shoes so I'm not in the position to cast aspersions....it only makes me realise how fortunate I and my siblings were to have parents that loved and provided us with all that we ever wanted materially and otherwise.

you sure are fortunate and should appreciate it. You know I used to ask why my dad couldn't just be like my neighbor's dad then. But after a while I accepted what I couldn't change.

crackland:
More men will definitely want to marry women like their mothers, but very few women will want to marry men like their fathers.

Says a whole lot...

The same way it says a whole lot about your father, right. Feminist or not, the sperm that produced you still came from a man.

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Ladycewhy:
and when men have deep hatred for women on this forum what do we call it? . Or you still don't know this forum is anti- women or you are feinging ignorance?.

I only found out the hate men have for women when I joined nairalandand for the record.It was an eye opener for me. There is even a movement of anti- women with a handful of following on this forum but for whatever reason you choose to be biased or blind .

Looks like you only see with one side of the brain and the other part is dysfunctional. Women on this platform also express hatred for men. So, we can as well say the platform is anti men, can't we?

What you girls on this platform call feminism is dumbness and intentional Stupidity at its best.

Hmmmm Iife itself is hard, I just want to marry that's all

Ladycewhy:
lol, it's actually not hate ,I don't hate my dad ,but I don't wish to marry a man like him. Just because he is my dad doesn't mean I wouldn't see his wickedness.


The cases of men raping their daughters is now rampant ,if such a child in the future calls her father a monster would that be out of place? Of course not.

Mr X raised money and sold properties to sponsor his wife abroad because she had a job opportunity there. The wife on getting abroad abandoned the husband and their 3 kids in Nigeria for another man abroad.

The kids are well grown and fully understand what their mom did.

Judge by yourself, what impression do you want those kids to have about their mom and women generally? Will the boys among them ever wish to marry someone like their mother?

Your idea of feminist makes you sound stupid. Feminism shouldn't mean blindness, but that's what it means to you.

expert234:
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Looks like you only see with one side of the brain and the other part is dysfunctional. Women on this platform also express hatred for men. So, we can as well say the platform is anti men, can't we?

What you girls on this platform call feminism is dumbness and intentional Stupidity at its best.

lol,oh well I didn't expect less from you. One thing is sure,this not the 1800s when a woman will be sent back to her husband after leaving. That is one thing I like about me being in this generation,the door is now wide for women to leave their matrimonial homes intead of being caged by traditions , culture or even religion .

KingAzubuike:

Remember the kind of upbringing you had isn't the same with another person. Keep your mouth shut and stop insulting them or you have your silly self to blame.

Mumu

expert234:


Mr X raised money and sold properties to sponsor his wife abroad because she had a job opportunity there. The wife on getting abroad abandoned the husband and their 3 kids in Nigeria for another man abroad.

The kids are well grown and fully understand what their mom did.

Judge by yourself, what impression do you want those kids to have about their mom and women generally? Will the boys among them ever wish to marry someone like their mother?

Your idea of feminist makes you sound stupid. Feminism shouldn't mean blindness, but that's what it means to you.

Mrs x gave mr man money to buy land based on head of the house ,Mr x went and put his name alone, got his sales girl pregnant when madam protested ,Mr x threw her out claiming ownership to a house he didn't build.


The toxic masculinity you men show is disgusting and appalling . Now will the girls with such fathers want to marry a man like their father or ever want to support a man not to talk of even lifting him out of the gutter? Another reason no daughter of mine will ever marry a man beneath her in terms of status.

Ladycewhy:
lol,oh well I didn't expect less from you. One thing is sure,this not the 1800s when a woman will be sent back to her husband after leaving. That is one thing I like about me being in this generation,the door is now wide for women to leave their matrimonial homes intead of being caged by traditions , culture or even religion .

Lolz. I never expected anything less from you.

We all know a prostite that gets married is only on a temporary break; after a while she'll go back to her stock of trade.

expert234:


Lolz. I never expected anything less from you.

We all know a prostite that gets married is only on a temporary break; after a while she'll go back to her stock of trade.

lol. not every lady is like your mother bro.

I would my mother ten times over and my father 100 time over (if he was a woman).
Can you imagine parents who never saw the 4 walls of a primary educating their six children all the way the university!
Can you imagine the parents that never used a "curse word" on their children and would never tolerate anyone do such!
I never witnessed my parents shouting over each other throughout my stay with them, and I am the sixth child!
Can you imagine a marriage well over 51 yrs and still counting.
How much can I say about my parents but for the constraint of time and space!
How lucky and fortunate can any child be to have such parents like mine!
What a fortunate lad I am!

Ladycewhy:
Mrs x gave mr man money to buy land based in head of the house ,Mr x went and put his name alone, got his sales girl pregnant when madam protested ,Mr x threw her out claiming ownership to a house he didn't build.


The toxic masculinity you men show is disgusting and appalling . Now will the girls with such fathers want to marry a man like their father or ever want to support a man not to talk of even lifting him out of the gutter? Another reason no daughter of mine will ever marry a man beneath her in terms of status.

Lolz. You only exposed the emptiness and Stupidity of your comment.

What you wrote should tell you that both men and women have their problems. Some men and bad and some women are bad.

When you comment as if only men are bad, then you are saying sending you to school was a waste of investment and that your thinking faculty is defective.

expert234:


Lolz. You only exposed the emptiness and Stupidity of your comment.

What you wrote should tell you that both men and women have their problems. Some men and bad and some women are bad.

When you comment as if only men are bad, then you are saying sending you to school was a waste of investment and that your thinking faculty is defective.

oh! so men can be bad ? Aww finally the fool decides to say something meaningful

Ye

Ladycewhy:
oh! so men can be bad ? Aww finally the fool decides to say something meaningful

You mean the same way your deep seated dumbness makes you say women are the only victims?
Who do you resemble with your mental dumbness? Your mom?

Ladycewhy:
lol. not every lady is like your mother bro.

Are you saying your mom's prostitution is incomparable?

expert234:


Are you saying your mom's prostitution is incomparable?

I am saying yours, stop feinging dumb ,I know you are smart enough to know it's your mum .

expert234:


You mean the same way your deep seated dumbness makes you say women are the only victims?
Who do you resemble with your mental dumbness? Your mom?

lol, the question says if I can marry a replica of my dad, but then ,it seems your both parents are dumb cos this your case is a combined dna of stupidity both from your father and your mother's side.

Yes o, I want God to give me a wife that has the same compassion as my mom.

If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Psalm 11:3-7
Absolutely, nothing !

Thank God you're sensible enough to identified all these happenings in your home. The truth is the foundation was built with the wrong blocks hence all these wahala.

Your house has turned to "Fuji house of commotions" by your parents.

I would advise you to start talking sense into your siblings, to change their orientation & perspectives as well.

Do you guys pray as family at all? if not, you might want to initial that too. Prayer works!

I will marry person like mum any day , anytime!

Ladycewhy:
lol, the question says if I can marry a replica of my dad, but then ,it seems your both parents are dumb cos this your case is a combined dna of stupidity both from your father and your mother's side.

Are you trying to say dumbness unites both your father and mother? Yours must be a very absurd family.

No wonder you became such a dumb, mentally derailed, embittered adult.

crackland:
More men will definitely want to marry women like their mothers, but very few women will want to marry men like their fathers.

Says a whole lot...

hahahaha

Ladycewhy:
I am saying yours, stop feinging dumb ,I know you are smart enough to know it's your mum .

The dumbness that pervades your home has left an indelible mark on you for sure. I fear you will die this way

adadike:
My dad, a strict disciplinarian , provides for most of our needs. A strong prayer warrior, physically strong , very hard-working . Can stand by you even when the world is against you. Love you Daddy but I honestly would love to marry someone like my mom. Gently, tall, great physique, very sweet, light skin and beautiful woman. Kind to a fault. See everyone as a member of her family. Eat in the same plate with her maids and helpers. Takes good care of them as well. No difference between outsider, maid or children. Everyone is the same to her irrespective of religion and tribe, loves and caters for all . Strong and hard-working, supports her husband, keeps my extended family together. Loved and took good care of my paternal grand mother when she was alive. My Super Woman, I don't know if I can ever be like you coz you are extraordinary but I want to marry a man that near these qualities. God bless you mom

@ bolded, YOU'RE TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM YOUR MUM THEN

expert234:


Are you trying to say dumbness unites both your father and mother? Yours must be a very absurd family.

No wonder you became such a dumb, mentally derailed, embittered adult.

lol, I am thinking this your case is beyond your both parents,this stupidity of yours must sterm from your ancestors both on your father and mothers side . There is no way this is a first generation foolishness you are displaying here