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Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by mikaelzX(m): 9:19am On Jun 17, 2020
chii8:
A Godly man can!!!
But Godly men are only wanted on paper. The girls always find them boring.
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by InformationTV: 1:30am On Jun 18, 2020
BeautifulWoman:
I have had this thoughts bother me for some pretty years. Though it may not be the only part of a relationship, sexual chemistry and overall satisfaction can act as a pretty big factor when it comes to your happiness level.

Even the loviest of couples could hit a rut if things start to feel a little repetitive in the bedroom.

Sure, there are ways to spice up your sex life, but what if you exhaust your options? What if sex starts to feel mundane and routine instead of fiery and passionate?

That's when you start to think about marriage: the bond between two people who say that they will love one another 'til the bitter end and will only take the train to pound town with each other.

While polyamorous or Player lifestyles operate differently, on average, the sex life of a married couple stays between only those two. With a lifelong relationship comes a lifetime of sex with the same person.

The question is, would a man be able to do that? Or would he get too bored?

Great Question.

Thread Bookmarked to read comments.

What's your own thought anyway?
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Boss13: 1:46am On Jun 18, 2020
BeautifulWoman:
I have had this thoughts bother me for some pretty years. Though it may not be the only part of a relationship, sexual chemistry and overall satisfaction can act as a pretty big factor when it comes to your happiness level.

Even the loviest of couples could hit a rut if things start to feel a little repetitive in the bedroom.

Sure, there are ways to spice up your sex life, but what if you exhaust your options? What if sex starts to feel mundane and routine instead of fiery and passionate?

That's when you start to think about marriage: the bond between two people who say that they will love one another 'til the bitter end and will only take the train to pound town with each other.

While polyamorous or Player lifestyles operate differently, on average, the sex life of a married couple stays between only those two. With a lifelong relationship comes a lifetime of sex with the same person.

The question is, would a man be able to do that? Or would he get too bored?

I do not know your age but I guess you are concerned that is why you created the post. Women like fantasies - which is beautiful. However, fantasies are not realities, and huge reasons women get upset when their fantasies don't come true or exist. Madam, the answer to you question is - CAPITAL NO.

For starters, the biological nature of men is different from women. The average man thinks of sex mostly within an hour or two. Second, sex for men is purely physical with an end goal of reliving their urges. However, for women, it is emotionally. To connect with someone they care about. Except a woman has a huge testosterone level, the urge to have sex regularly does not occur frequently as it does with men.

In marriage, many women get bored with having sex regularly. While men still stay active even at old age. Also, men can get bored having sex with the same woman too except the man has other life ambitions in which he commits his time and energy.

To answer your question - Marriage is not about having continuous repetitive sex except you want to procreate. Marriage is more than that. if having sex or the fear of having boring sex scares you, then marriage is not for you because definitely you would have to endure a lot of boring sex if you want to stay in your marriage. However, if spicing up your sex life includes keeping other partners or including them in your marriage, do have a healthy conversation and a proper agreement with your partner, and well good luck.

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Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by InformationTV: 3:36am On Jun 18, 2020
Boss13:


I do not know your age but I guess you are concerned that is why you created the post. Women like fantasies - which is beautiful. However, fantasies are not realities, and huge reasons women get upset when their fantasies don't come true or exist. Madam, the answer to you question is - CAPITAL NO.

For starters, the biological nature of men is different from women. The average man thinks of sex mostly within an hour or two. Second, sex for men is purely physical with an end goal of reliving their urges. However, for women, it is emotionally. To connect with someone they care about. Except a woman has a huge testosterone level, the urge to have sex regularly does not occur frequently as it does with men.

In marriage, many women get bored with having sex regularly. While men still stay active even at old age. Also, men can get bored having sex with the same woman too except the man has other life ambitions in which he commits his time and energy.

To answer your question - Marriage is not about having continuous repetitive sex except you want to procreate. Marriage is more than that. if having sex or the fear of having boring sex scares you, then marriage is not for you because definitely you would have to endure a lot of boring sex if you want to stay in your marriage. However, if spicing up your sex life includes keeping other partners or including them in your marriage, do have a healthy conversation and a proper agreement with your partner, and well good luck.


Words of Wisdom!

Keep Kinging.
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by foolbuster: 8:23am On Jun 18, 2020
BeautifulWoman:
I have had this thoughts bother me for some pretty years. Though it may not be the only part of a relationship, sexual chemistry and overall satisfaction can act as a pretty big factor when it comes to your happiness level.

Even the loviest of couples could hit a rut if things start to feel a little repetitive in the bedroom.

Sure, there are ways to spice up your sex life, but what if you exhaust your options? What if sex starts to feel mundane and routine instead of fiery and passionate?

That's when you start to think about marriage: the bond between two people who say that they will love one another 'til the bitter end and will only take the train to pound town with each other.

While polyamorous or Player lifestyles operate differently, on average, the sex life of a married couple stays between only those two. With a lifelong relationship comes a lifetime of sex with the same person.

The question is, would a man be able to do that? Or would he get too bored?

Marriage or life is not all about sex. Couples can be perfectly happy without sex. How do you think couples that have been together for decades do it? You think they keep inventing new sex styles or what?
Please take your mind off sex and put your mind to building a life with your partner.

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Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by ABOVEDELAW: 10:25am On Jun 18, 2020
DID YOUR GRAND PARENTS DO ALL THOSE THINGS TO KEEP THEIR MARRIAGES AFLOAT?
vickydankal:
You have to understand that sexual satisfaction comes from many factors other than sex. But I will center on sex but in all money is a requirement to:
1. Stay in shape
2. Eat healthy
3. Maintain smell (deodorants)
4. To go to the gym
5. Room environment
6. Good cream
The reason for the above is because sexual satisfaction for a married woman is philosophical and emotional. When the above is met we can start talking about changing styles, weekend gateway, reassurance of your love for us and always telling us how beautiful we have remained to you etc the above don’t have to cost an arm, good planning and right timing is key . Ok a bit of my self.
After breakfast my husband and I will say wish good day to each other.
1 Hour he will call or sms to know how business is moving
Some afternoon he will send someone to get me lunch not up to 600 naira most times.
3pm his sms will come telling that an ugly girl just left his office but he had sanitize his eyes with my pics(yes I know he is lying)
Few minutes later he will tell me how he wants to devour me, tie my pant and shaft my womb.
By 4pm I’m coming home knowing that after the children has gone to bed we have unfinished business to settle. In the night it could take 2 -4 rounds to quench that fire and it could last us for maybe 2 days depending how busy our work are it could repeat the next day. Some other time we will send our children to grandma at WBHE and go to the next state for some good time. I’m married for 6 years though.
I’m speaking from a woman’s perspective so it is not a general rule.




Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by vickydankal(f): 1:50pm On Jun 18, 2020
ABOVEDELAW:
DID YOUR GRAND PARENTS DO ALL THOSE THINGS TO KEEP THEIR MARRIAGES AFLOAT?

I didn’t get know my grandparents to ask them
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Boss13: 2:04pm On Jun 18, 2020
vickydankal:
You have to understand that sexual satisfaction comes from many factors other than sex. But I will center on sex but in all money is a requirement to:
1. Stay in shape
2. Eat healthy
3. Maintain smell (deodorants)
4. To go to the gym
5. Room environment
6. Good cream
The reason for the above is because sexual satisfaction for a married woman is philosophical and emotional. When the above is met we can start talking about changing styles, weekend gateway, reassurance of your love for us and always telling us how beautiful we have remained to you etc the above don’t have to cost an arm, good planning and right timing is key . Ok a bit of my self.
After breakfast my husband and I will say wish good day to each other.
1 Hour he will call or sms to know how business is moving
Some afternoon he will send someone to get me lunch not up to 600 naira most times.
3pm his sms will come telling that an ugly girl just left his office but he had sanitize his eyes with my pics(yes I know he is lying)
Few minutes later he will tell me how he wants to devour me, tie my pant and shaft my womb.
By 4pm I’m coming home knowing that after the children has gone to bed we have unfinished business to settle. In the night it could take 2 -4 rounds to quench that fire and it could last us for maybe 2 days depending how busy our work are it could repeat the next day. Some other time we will send our children to grandma at WBHE and go to the next state for some good time. I’m married for 6 years though.
I’m speaking from a woman’s perspective so it is not a general rule.





I am happy that you and your husband have a good routine to keep your sex life exciting. Many readers here can gain some insight, but one's playbook may not work for another.

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Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by AlphaSoul: 10:17pm On Aug 15, 2021
BeautifulWoman:
I have had this thoughts bother me for some pretty years. Though it may not be the only part of a relationship, sexual chemistry and overall satisfaction can act as a pretty big factor when it comes to your happiness level.

Even the loviest of couples could hit a rut if things start to feel a little repetitive in the bedroom.

Sure, there are ways to spice up your sex life, but what if you exhaust your options? What if sex starts to feel mundane and routine instead of fiery and passionate?

That's when you start to think about marriage: the bond between two people who say that they will love one another 'til the bitter end and will only take the train to pound town with each other.

While polyamorous or Player lifestyles operate differently, on average, the sex life of a married couple stays between only those two. With a lifelong relationship comes a lifetime of sex with the same person.

The question is, would a man be able to do that? Or would he get too bored?
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by GTCO: 10:55pm On Aug 15, 2021
1 single sexual partner is boring
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by SonofGod231: 11:31pm On Aug 15, 2021
I'm not sure you're a good Christian.
Provbs 5:19
King James Version
"Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love".
Old couples that have stayed together for 40 to 50yrs you think they just fell from the sky.
As a man find a good wife ooo.
Wey her yansh and breast go always dey satisfying.No go carry 2 by 2 when you like 2 by 4.shikinah
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Gifttie21: 2:39am On Aug 16, 2021
Acidosis:
If you like, exercise more than Anthony Joshua, write and quote more notes than Chinua Achebe, whoever wants to cheat will cheat. Once you marry a potential cheat, no amount of acrobatics and bedmatics can tame him/her. You can't marry a devil and expect righteousness just because you know all the verses in the Bible.

To stay sexually satisfied with one man or woman is a choice. It takes walking out of your house and seeing another man or woman on the road to cheat. It is as simple as that.

Not all cheating men and women behave badly to their spouse. And if there is one person that will likely cheat on you, it is that man or woman that knows all the right and sweet words, the latest sex styles in town and all the trending acrobatics.

ALL The Right And Sweet Words, The Latest Sex Styles In Town And All The Trending Acrobatics.cry
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Ndidi2: 4:01am On Aug 16, 2021
Emexicoman:
Can your wife stick with you all through? if she can then you should.
I am married and I can't even fathom the thoughts of another random woman touching my pim pim
Love men like this.

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Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Marco9: 8:54am On May 04, 2022
Faithful people need to be valued and protected. Although I read that some people cannot live without visiting Player clubs, after the first visit. For some, it just helps build relationships.
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Johnniegee: 10:54am On May 04, 2022
What if the man want sex and his wife denies him for two month?is there something fishy with the wife?
Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by Eminem21: 8:25am On May 06, 2022
Marco9:
Faithful people need to be valued and protected. Although I read that some people cannot live without visiting Player clubs, after the first visit. For some, it just helps build relationships.

I heard several times that some couples were starting to deteriorate their family life, they lacked diversity. These couples decided to visit Player clubs for a change. Some of them found the information they needed on the https://allswingersclubs.org/swingers-clubs-location/central-america/usa/ms/. It is said that many reviews for such clubs can be found here. Maybe it will be useful to someone.

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