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Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 4:06pm On Jun 10, 2020
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow. My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families. Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well. Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed by God’s grace....
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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:14pm On Jun 10, 2020
LMAO @marry now with the little that you have.....grin

A wonderful advice though but most ladies don't want that kind of a guy ...


marriage is not for everyone sha

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by PUSSYHOE(m): 4:16pm On Jun 10, 2020
Na thunder go fire the idiot that sold you the weed!


First of all this generation is the worse to select a wife, almost every girl had slept with 3-infinity guys before thinking of marriage, marry with the little you have that is if the girl is bringing as much as you, but you know naija girls mind set he must feed me, His money is our money my money is mine.
for your own good manage yourself and enjoy your life till you feel the need to marry, you are a man you can marry at any time, marry any girl of any age above 18. don't add liability to the little you are managing.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jun 10, 2020
Clearly you,re tired of waiting for a rich husband and your time is running out.

Now you want an innocent young man to deceive into marriage and frustrate his life.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Enoch07: 4:21pm On Jun 10, 2020
if your three square meal never dey complete, pls ignore this advise.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by NettyNelly(m): 4:27pm On Jun 10, 2020
Good advice, But a man should be able to take care of himself and another before thinking of marriage, rather than waiting till all your dreams are achieved. I Design catchy Logo's for your Business, check out my signature.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by mrfoxx(m): 4:28pm On Jun 10, 2020
Na them ooo

LOL this Wan has hit the Wall already ��

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by paulolee(m): 4:29pm On Jun 10, 2020
Awon motivational speaker...early marriage is very good because it gvs u more lifespan to spend with ur family and children bt

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by SirWhiteFish: 4:34pm On Jun 10, 2020
Everyone wants to marry but you will be an irresponsible man if you can't Fred your wife and can't afford basic things easily after marriage.

Mind you, kids will soon start popin in. But when you can bearly feed you and your wife, how do you feed your First child?

Don't go and die of frustration although the sweetest thing is to marry between 28 - 30.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Everrest9(m): 4:36pm On Jun 10, 2020
I have read something like this before... Recycling motivation letter.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by ibkonekt(m): 4:41pm On Jun 10, 2020
advice from a rider that has hit the wall....the only women fit for marriage are young virgins....if you have another man's dna then go be a mistress....today's man can see femalee nature clearly....all used us slept around garden tools

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Boredasf: 4:45pm On Jun 10, 2020
undecided
anyman who heeds this advice is a fool.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by yanabasee1(m): 4:50pm On Jun 10, 2020
OBELz



It's not easy to marry at the speculated age..... Especially young men from the South-south and southeast...


The bride price for a learned girl is way too much and if you want to marry someone that is a graduate, she will need trads and white and Court marriage all together and as a struggling young man, your demands might not be upto the reach....

Moreso, advice your sisters to accept struggling young men..... Because many of them are of the opinion that they don't want to suffer in marriage....

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by yomi007k(m): 4:50pm On Jun 10, 2020
Boredasf:
undecided
anyman who heeds this advice is a fool.

I dey tell u.

Stupid advice of life.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jun 10, 2020
will you eat children? or they will be used to bury you when dead?

what are children if you can't raise them?



I can't bring a woman to make me uncomfortable now that I am just starting life

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Crownstar01: 4:55pm On Jun 10, 2020
OBelz:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God’s grace....
50
It's not about getting married but sustaining a family. A lot of people now live in an abject poverty in Nigeria and you never did something about that. But only to canvass marrying early. Ask your government to create jobs and provide basic amenities for them first and of course other things would follow naturally.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OmoAlakija: 5:00pm On Jun 10, 2020
OBelz:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God’s grace....
50

Because it didn't work for you that way does not,mean it won't work for someone else. , stop that mentality of generalization. This mentality will make other rich men end up screwing most middle or lower class men's wife , you just rush into marriage and you can't even sustain a reasonable life.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by ettaetta(m): 5:02pm On Jun 10, 2020
marry ke, what happens when responsibilities start coming? who will I run to for assistance in paying children school fees, feeding, house rent, wife upkeep, marriage pls wait till I make money after all I'm a guy,no age is too late for me. I don't want my wife and kids to suffer biko.
#teammoneyfirst






https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7PLL1bMTb8

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Degrezhaa: 5:11pm On Jun 10, 2020
who i wan go kill for marriage...
I won't advice any guy who is not financially stable to heed to this advice...

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by onwuakpachris(m): 5:34pm On Jun 10, 2020
as a struggling but hardworking young man..if u lucky enough to find a decent hardworking girl that really loves you in this our crazily materialiristic generation... then build up ur future with her(encourage nd support each other)...then marry "lowkey" when u guys can feed well together... u must not spend millions 4 wedding nd all d other wedding related stuff..(Igbos..our own worse pass..cus we too dey like to show off)..then when married..both of u shouldn't just start popping up babies everywhere like rabbits..embrace family planning...boy or girl..child na child...two kids at most will do 4 me...then enjoy ur lives together and make sure u give ur kids the very best of life...then die nd go and rest...nothing dey this life las las..u must not have it all..

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Meedon: 5:34pm On Jun 10, 2020
.....


Who cares


I cannot bring any child to this earth that I'm currently regretting from being inside.


.....

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Liposure: 6:05pm On Jun 10, 2020
onwuakpachris:
as a struggling but hardworking young man..if u lucky enough to find a decent hardworking girl that really loves you in this our crazily monetized generation... then build up ur future with her(encourage nd support each other)...then marry "lowkey" when u guys can feed well together... u must not spend millions 4 wedding nd all d other wedding related stuff..(Igbos..our own worse pass..cus we too dey like to show off)..then when married..both of u shouldn't just start popping up babies everywhere like rabbits..embrace family planning...boy or girl..child na child...two kids at most will do 4 me...then enjoy ur lives together and make sure u give ur kids the very best of life...then die nd go and rest...nothing dey this life las las..u must not have it all..
god bless u abundantly

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by seniorgozman(m): 8:40pm On Jun 10, 2020
Motivational speaker avoid me

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by HotPoundedYam(m): 8:42pm On Jun 10, 2020
PUSSYHOE:
Na thunder go fire the idiot that sold you the weed!


First of all this generation is the worse to select a wife, almost every girl had slept with 3-infinity guys before thinking of marriage, marry with the little you have that is if the girl is bringing as much as you, but you know naija girls mind set he must feed me, His money is our money my money is mine.
for your own good manage yourself and enjoy your life till you feel the need to marry, you are a man you can marry at any time, marry any girl of any age above 18. don't add liability to the little you are managing.

I planned to marry at 22 now I am revising the plan
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by kiddkash(m): 9:54pm On Jun 10, 2020
OBelz:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God’s grace....
50
i must say you've made very good point.
like me, I'm 24. I've been living alone since I was 16, working so hard all day everyday so that if I ever get married,
I'd be able to give them a good life. I speak to my family from time to time.
i did get lonely, after a while I got used to living alone. now all I crave for is living alone.
I've been institutionalized in the art of been lonely

I don't like someone visiting me (my guyz) or staying over.
it makes me feel out of sorts. I prefer going out to see my friends. we do meet on neutral ground
to watch football, bet and work. barely 2 or 3 knows where I live.
sometimes, with this attitude i do wonder if I'd ever get married

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Lordfranklin(m): 10:09pm On Jun 10, 2020
I was only able to read the first 5 lines and just couldn't endure to read on. The thing is, you can't compare your father's era and our own era. Life was simple, our mothers weren't choosy and our fathers were at liberty to either become farmers for life or pursue their education with our supportive mothers. You dare not say that with the current breed of some daughters of Delilah.
You don't have any business with marriage if you're struggling financially.
Adam had everything. Everything! Aside companionship. I believe God has already set the standard; the pattern we must follow.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jun 10, 2020
No vex oh... Wetin good for A fit no good for B oh. i just say make i waka pass.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by DaInferno(m): 10:28pm On Jun 10, 2020
i get your point, the summary is marry early, not necessarily 25

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by LedRock: 10:30pm On Jun 10, 2020
Babymama all the way.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by tydi(m): 11:37pm On Jun 10, 2020
PUSSYHOE:
Na thunder go fire the idiot that sold you the weed!


First of all this generation is the worse to select a wife, almost every girl had slept with 3-infinity guys before thinking of marriage, marry with the little you have that is if the girl is bringing as much as you, but you know naija girls mind set he must feed me, His money is our money my money is mine.
for your own good manage yourself and enjoy your life till you feel the need to marry, you are a man you can marry at any time, marry any girl of any age above 18. don't add liability to the little you are managing.


You dey mind the fool, trying to break a hoe code into a wife code.. One olosho don use her over stretched pvssy water use cook for am chop.

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