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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by travelagent101: 11:41pm On Jun 10, 2020
Hmmm
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by cooooooks(m): 12:28am On Jun 11, 2020
Don't be turned by slay princesses. Pursue meaningful relationships with mutual respect and love.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by APOPTOSIS: 1:46am On Jun 11, 2020
Lostz:
will you eat children? or they will be used to bury you when dead?

what are children if you can't raise them?
I can't bring a woman to make me uncomfortable now that I am just starting life
U have a Point.
No one should reinforce failure.
If you are struggling, don't make it worse except the person you spotted and got interest in, will help you shorten the transient time of the suffering.

SUFFER dey real.
People have forgotten why most poor people fight and disgrace themselves everyday despite the numerous kids they have.
Kids fetch more happiness in fairly stable homes.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 5:46am On Jun 11, 2020
DanDeeBoss:
LMAO @marry now with the little that you have.....grin

A wonderful advice though but most ladies don't want that kind of a guy ...


marriage is not for everyone sha
na u go gv me food mk I feed dem abi

B4 u talk think n rethink stop saying trash.

Born pikin come this life mk e come suffer becuz u want to grow with them

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 5:48am On Jun 11, 2020
Enoch07:
if your three square meal never dey complete, pls ignore this advise.
no mind d poster


E no dey use e head
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Hypnotise: 6:37am On Jun 11, 2020
Na woman nau. What do you expect than to convince men for marriage
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Uyi168: 6:46am On Jun 11, 2020
Yawns..

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Keketu(m): 7:13am On Jun 11, 2020
OBelz:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your

happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God’s grace....
50
wow hi please message me today please thanks

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by ruggedtimi(m): 7:24am On Jun 11, 2020
This thread seems old and smell of plagiarism from a previous nairaland post

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 7:29am On Jun 11, 2020
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Keketu:
wow hi please message me today please thanks
ok
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 7:34am On Jun 11, 2020
kiss
onwuakpachris:
as a struggling but hardworking young man..if u lucky enough to find a decent hardworking girl that really loves you in this our crazily monetized generation... then build up ur future with her(encourage nd support each other)...then marry "lowkey" when u guys can feed well together... u must not spend millions 4 wedding nd all d other wedding related stuff..(Igbos..our own worse pass..cus we too dey like to show off)..then when married..both of u shouldn't just start popping up babies everywhere like rabbits..embrace family planning...boy or girl..child na child...two kids at most will do 4 me...then enjoy ur lives together and make sure u give ur kids the very best of life...then die nd go and rest...nothing dey this life las las..u must not have it all..

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 7:35am On Jun 11, 2020
y?
HotPoundedYam:
I planned to marry at 22 now I am revising the plan
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Kfaaji(m): 7:46am On Jun 11, 2020
Am not surprised that is a female giving men this kind of advice. Your advice is obsolete and not applicable in our present day ma'am

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Freetruth(m): 7:56am On Jun 11, 2020
If we were educated earlier about marriage, the numbers of singles above 30yrs might have greatly reduced, but the imperfection we see and hear has made this generation extremely care and choosy. God help us all

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by lammylam(f): 7:57am On Jun 11, 2020
I have seen this somewhere!!!

This isn't the OP's handwriting!


Back to the topic!
The same people who ask guys to marry early, are the same people who will tell ladies "if he can't pay for your hair , then he isn't a real man!"

You people are confusing us to ahn ahn


If you are advising the men to marry now! What would you tell the ladies that don't have that mindset to settle with struggling guys??


Guys! Better hustle! Ladies una too hustle (legit hustle ni o)

And if you wanna follow that advice, abeg marry person wey dey hustle like you so the load won't be on you alone! IRE O

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Effulgent(m): 8:08am On Jun 11, 2020
Op ,I get your point

But at this present age where almost every lady is looking for ready made, don't you know love without money ain't sweet, both y'all will be tired of love because love shouldn't even be the basis for marriage in the first place, it will fade off

And something you need to understand is, when a guy is single is when he can make maximize his potentials, hustle and the money he makes, he will be able to channel it to something good

But in the case whereby, he goes into marriage, where do you think all those money will go? . Straight into feeding you are and child, accommodation.... Tell me when will that guy have time to save and do tangible things with his life

Albeit, giving birth early is good, and I support it if you are capable of taking the responsibilities

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by csamii: 8:24am On Jun 11, 2020
Baby mama is allowed too since it's to have children and grow with them.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by drmikeadams(m): 8:47am On Jun 11, 2020
ibkonekt:
advice from a rider that has hit the wall....the only women fit for marriage are young virgins....if you have another man's dna then go be a mistress....today's man can see femalee nature clearly....all used us slept around garden tools
grin grin grin

All used up,slept around tools. Hahahahaha

Huna don keee naija gehs finish

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Stewart883(m): 8:57am On Jun 11, 2020
kiddkash:

i must say you've made very good point.
like me, I'm 24. I've been living alone since I was 16, working so hard all day everyday so that if ever get married,
I'd be able to give them a good life. I speak to my family from time to time.
i did get lonely, after a while I got used to living alone. now all I crave for is living alone.
I've been institutionalized in the art of been lonely

I don't like someone visiting me (my guyz) or staying over.
it makes me feel out of sorts. I prefer going out to see my friends. we do meet on neutral ground
to watch football, bet and work. barely 2 or 3 knows where I live.
sometimes, with this attitude i do wonder if I'd ever get married

Hahahaha we are on the same table oo. I'm a guy 34 years old, started living alone from the age of 19 years. Damn I love my privacy!! I'm sure u can relate that guy's like us make our homes very very cool and cozy this makes all this yeye Lagos girls be bugging u for marriage although I have a 10 year old daughter already I just don't feel like getting married seriously.

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Daricon(m): 9:08am On Jun 11, 2020
onwuakpachris:
as a struggling but hardworking young man..if u lucky enough to find a decent hardworking girl that really loves you in this our crazily monetized generation... then build up ur future with her(encourage nd support each other)...then marry "lowkey" when u guys can feed well together... u must not spend millions 4 wedding nd all d other wedding related stuff..(Igbos..our own worse pass..cus we too dey like to show off)..then when married..both of u shouldn't just start popping up babies everywhere like rabbits..embrace family planning...boy or girl..child na child...two kids at most will do 4 me...then enjoy ur lives together and make sure u give ur kids the very best of life...then die nd go and rest...nothing dey this life las las..u must not have it all..


THIS GUY NAILED IT

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Mandela27: 9:54am On Jun 11, 2020
God is the master planner..He knows we ought to birth kids and have our own family..HE even wishes us to prosper,so LET HIS WILL BE DONE!

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Taywon: 10:15am On Jun 11, 2020
Dat was in the past...
Try dat shit nau..... Na another man go oil ur wife
NB.: OP stop smoking weed

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 6:52pm On Jun 11, 2020
Taywon:
Dat was in the past...

Try dat shit nau..... Na another man go oil ur wife

NB.: OP stop smoking weed
shocked

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:54pm On Jun 16, 2020
peterangelo:
na u go gv me food mk I feed dem abi

B4 u talk think n rethink stop saying trash.

Born pikin come this life mk e come suffer becuz u want to grow with them
Is my first statement too hard for you to comprehend??
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jun 16, 2020
DanDeeBoss:
Is my first statement too hard for you to comprehend??

Yes no

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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 9:56am On Jun 17, 2020
y
peterangelo:


Yes no
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by hstar: 6:14pm On Dec 26, 2020
Ok
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by lexy2478(m): 7:59pm On Dec 26, 2020
This advice is great if the hustling is from both sides I mean the woman and the man, at least someone will surely make it and help out the other,but in my country it seems men are meant to hustle�
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by TheVictim01(m): 8:50am On Dec 27, 2020
HotPoundedYam:
I planned to marry at 22 now I am revising the plan
You could be mould into your moniker in no time grin
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by OBelz(f): 8:16am On Jan 02, 2021
TheVictim01:
You could be mould into your moniker in no time grin
Lol
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by PoliteActivist: 3:15am On Jan 03, 2022
OBelz:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Why do people like giving advice about what they never experienced?? This advice should be given by someone who married early in poverty! There are many of them. That's why you see people who never experienced marriage being marriage counselors!
Let people who married in poverty be the ones to come out to say that's the best thing they ever did!
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by IyaTola: 10:06pm On Jun 07, 2022
cooooooks:
Don't be turned by slay princesses. Pursue meaningful relationships with mutual respect and love.
True

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