ololo12:
Nigga is you gay?

What does that have to do with anything? Not all men want to break dance and can we stop with these false narrative that only gay men take ballet classes. The first rule to being a man is doing whatever you want as long as no one gets hurt. If he's trying to please society, aka you people, and do what you people deem masculine then he's not a man but a puppet y'all wanna making his life miserable. Let men be their own men and not get shamed for it, women do it to us all the time, it's worse coming from your fellow man because you don't view him manly enough

ok

Greengrazz12:
One day baba go pick my call ooo

If na buhari you dey wait he call guy enter house sleep because buhari nor dey use phone

XVIDEOSMOD:
That dance is too feminine, I won’t allow my son do it

You see African pple problem ... Isn't that his choice to decide ?

Audio help, just like funke akindele

Wow, congrats to him, he was hopeful despite the present situation.

Waris dis?

tillaman:
He’s very good but it’s a no no if he was my kid!!!
I’ll rather have him attend judo or ju jitsu classes other than ballet
That’s me though

See how parents mislead their children. Ask yourself, why do you feel those things you mentioned are better than ballet? Because of your perceived monetary and social accolades.



There was a professor in faculty of Agriculture in my school those days. He drove the lastest cars. He was driving Hummer then. Doctors in the school were using him as example of how doctors do not have money. This man lived purely on agriculture. He was a consultant to many organizations. I am trying to imagine his parents feeling disappointed for reading Agriculture. And he did it at a time when it was very easy to be a doctor.

tillaman:
He’s very good but it’s a no no if he was my kid!!!
I’ll rather have him attend judo or ju jitsu classes other than ballet
That’s me though

Tupac did ballet

tillaman:
in all fairness I really don’t wish to raise a gay or bisexual son, this dude you told me to look up was a gay, I am not homophobic but that’s just how I feel

You really should Google what homophobia is because that's homophobic. Kevin Hart said the exact same thing and his career almost paid for it. Yet again, it's ok, people should be allowed to be themselves than support in pretense but if you are leaning into the belief that all gay men are feminine, then that's where you are wrong. I know a lot of gay men who are even more hypermasculine than you, you won't even know they are gay.
Statistics shows that masculine gay men are five times more masculine than an average straight man because they feel they have something to prove

ehinmowo:


See how parents mislead their children. Ask yourself, why do you feel those things you mentioned are better than ballet? Because of your perceived monetary and social accolades.



There was a professor in faculty of Agriculture in my school those days. He drove the lastest cars. He was driving Hummer then. Doctors in the school were using him as example of how doctors do not have money. This man lived purely on agriculture. He was a consultant to many organizations. I am trying to imagine his parents feeling disappointed for reading Agriculture. And he did it at a time when it was very easy to be a doctor.

Not really about "money or social standards". Most people think ballet is feminine and weak (they have no idea how hard it is) thereby making the man weak instead judo will make him more masculine

hahn:


Tupac did ballet

There were multiple gay rumors of pac especially on his album cover where he wears a woman's sort of corset but again, what man in the entertainment world is free from gay rumors? I loved the fact that he defined his masculinity and told society to take an L despite the rumors

tillaman:
He’s very good but it’s a no no if he was my kid!!!
I’ll rather have him attend judo or ju jitsu classes other than ballet
That’s me though

Better still you can send your child to learn traditional wrestling or trado medical medicine. Don't you think those two would fit your pickin? That's my thought for you though!

tillaman:
He’s very good but it’s a no no if he was my kid!!!
I’ll rather have him attend judo or ju jitsu classes other than ballet
That’s me though

My guy dey try protect I'm pikin anu*

Palehair:

You really should Google what homophobia is because that's homophobic. Kevin Hart said the exact same thing and his career almost paid for it. Yet again, it's ok, people should be allowed to be themselves than support in pretense but if you are leaning into the belief that all gay men are feminine, then that's where you are wrong. I know a lot of gay men who are even more hypermasculine than you, you won't even know they are gay.
Statistics shows that masculine gay men are five times more masculine than an average straight man because they feel they have something to prove

no bro, I never subscribe to that belief of all gay men being feminine as a matter of fact I don’t have any thing against gay people I have met a couple of them though and most of them are huge guys on steroids and all that, we sit and drink smoke hookah and that’s it
I just don’t think I will like the idea of my boy doing that Ballet thing
It’s just me

See the mother at the background.
Before now she will be like;
This lazy boy, shebi you won't come and help me let's prepare food.
Don't worry when your father comes back, I will tell him
You know hw he use to flog u when u start misbehaving like dis.

But now she will be like

Yesss oooo.....he is MY SON ooooo.
Very good boy right from birth.
Hard working and very humble.
Even when he started this dance oooo, I use to give him my full support and prayers
I knew he will go far in life.
God has answered all my prayers I have bn praying over his head.


Mothers, Una Too Much

tillaman:
no bro, I never subscribe to that belief of all gay men being feminine as a matter of fact I don’t have any thing against gay people I have met a couple of them though and most of them are huge guys on steroids and all that, we sit and drink smoke hookah and that’s it
I just don’t think I will like the idea of my boy doing that Ballet thing
It’s just me

Ok

The boy try shaa, but if na me notwithstanding how far I am, na air I dey do all those things. I no go even touch ground with my legs. [color=#990000][/color]

Palehair:

I don't blame him though. He's just leaning into the stereotype of a black man. I really pity Black straight men because their masculinity is so fragile, any crack and it flakes and questions will follow regarding their sexuality. A black man is not suppose to smile, a black man isn't suppose to wear pink, a black man isn't suppose to cry or be emotional or even ask for a hug or help, a black man is suppose to be excellent in sports. any black man who don't into those descriptions is a sissy gay***, these were the words of my father. Thankfully, I left him before I became him leaning into the stereotype of "an angry black man" or all black men are lovers of pain and suffering. What am I saying? Black men are obsessed with masculinity that it's become toxic and it's getting worse by the day. Hypermasculinity does nothing but brings pain and heartache to the black man because it's literally a competition.

Did you read Things fall apart by Chinua Achebe. What you wrote up there ( hypermasculinity) happened to a character ( Okonkwo)

Olatara:
Did you read Things fall apart by Chinua Achebe. What you wrote up there ( hypermasculinity) happened to a character ( Okonkwo)

You are definitely right. Okonkwo's strive for masculinity so that he won't become his father and this drove him to suicide

tillaman:
He’s very good but it’s a no no if he was my kid!!!
I’ll rather have him attend judo or ju jitsu classes other than ballet
That’s me though

Do some reading on the topic “Toxic Masculinity” and enlighten yourself.

XVIDEOSMOD:
That dance is too feminine, I won’t allow my son do it

Omo igbo