Michelle55:
You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two?
You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.

Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.

Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.

Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.

shut up... But woman have right to lay hands on somosom abi... Mumu

Nuttella:
I really pity your wife, it must be such a misery living with such a
psychotic self servicing cunt like you. My heartfelt sympathy goes to her.

....She is very happy and not complaining.

She can't maltreat any of my siblings or give them a knock.

adanny01:


Did I hear you say third party? His own niece?

His own father or mother come be destitutes be that.

A wife marries into a family not a husband. The earliest young girls of these days realise, the peaceful their marriage shall be.

I hate women who think all the family i should have is her and our children.

I believe in family and friends so no woman should limit me if she needs peace.

you are not married to ur niece, u are joined together by the pastor or whatever to ur wife. So the niece is still a third party. You and ur wife or husband are ONE!

Enchantaurl:
I swear. The said niece is also a woman so what are they saying?
The op over did it Sha. He could have just knock her back and end the relationship.

And that is what everyone is saying.

The question should be, what are you saying?

I came here ready to be proud of and hail you for taking a stand against child abuse but the last part of the narration made me sick to my stomach.
You're also an abuser and the way you handled conflict showed how much of a coward you really are. You two are birds of a feather, ready to oppress anybody deemed weaker at the first chance you get.

Enchantaurl:
I swear. The said niece is also a woman so what are they saying?
The op over did it Sha. He could have just knock her back and end the relationship.

I know he over did it i said so in my earlier comments he should have sent her out of the house or at least slap, not beat her like that, but some of these ladies are ignoring that his fiancee was maltreating this girl and are blaming the man

yettymuse:
Alaye say na Insults are welcome

I’m more concerned about a woman living with a man that is yet to put a ring on it.

These women go learn hard!

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And ring signifies an award.

rafindo:
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Is cohabitation illegal now.

very illegal!

strangest:
your wife is a bully and what you did was to bully the bully... like "why don't you pickup someone your own size"

Exactly, even if he over did it.

I can see Nigerians here blaming op for living together with his girlfriend and her doing the chores.. Fiancée not girlfriend, goes to show most Nigerians don’t even understand the concept of a relationship and actually feel their archaic teachings is still relevant in today’s world

That is the right thing to do. Cancel it.
Some women are chameleons around their potential husband. You find out his or her true character by observing how they treat people
@anigreat I didn’t read your long story though.
I simply made a conclusion based on your topic title

Bro, If You Will Take My 2 Cents Advice. It Is Not Only Your Niece, It Is Crystal Clear That Your Fiancee Will Not Be Able To Tolerate Any Of Your Family Members. However, You Need To Be Hard-hearted At This Time Cos She Will Come And Beg You. It Is Only To Get What She Wants Oo. Bro, The Lord Has Opened Your Eyes To A Crucial Red Flag Which Cannot Be Toyed With. #shalom

Poster I saw some signs that should have made me stop my marriage to the woman I'm married to, but I ignored thinking she will change after we marry, but she grew worse. Today I wish I can turn the hands of the clock back. Wise people learn from the foolishness of others, but a fool learns from his folly. A word is enough for the wise. You need to be firm in your decision. Thank God for the revelation.

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Abasman008:
say it was her sister nko? Shut up man when it's time to say the truth men become fools... The young man shouldn't have beat her fine... But let's imagine she wants to bring her own nice, do you think you'd say what you are saying... Shame on your penis

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Run!
Nor look back!

Nuttella:
She didnt beat the niece, she only gave her a knock, which is very wrong but beating her back does not make any sense. I dont believe in an eye for an eye, an eye for an eye makes the world go blind, why should you beat someone you love, na see finish dey cause am sha.

Love na SCAM! So you never know why should his girlfriend physically abuse his niece, don't you think he loves his niece? Nope an eye for an eye makes the whole world Wise don't be fooled! The golden rule states that "You do unto others how you want them to do to you". He gave her ,her own dose.witches everywhere motherless child oooo

JONNYSPUTE:
....She is very happy and not complaining.

She can't maltreat any of my siblings or give them a knock.

I doubt she is happy, you and I know she isn't. Keep making her life miserable, I bet she is cheating on you, you dont deserve to be loved.

Lightangel65:


I know he over did it i said so in my earlier comments he should have sent her out of the house or at least slap, not beat her like that, but some of these ladies are ignoring that his fiancee was maltreating this girl and are blaming the man

No lady did that, the ladies you have been quoting/insulting didn’t at least. You are the one twisting comments and bringing out narratives, while insulting people. I guess you should be beaten too. Something to tame that your “sharp mouth”.

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

no 5. But I am pretty sure if it's her family member, she wouldn't have a problem with it. you are not a good adviser. I wonder how any body can even fault the niece in this circumstances. Did he tell you his niece was misbehaving or disrespecting the witch he calls a gf? btw u sound like a very weak man

JONNYSPUTE:
..,.I'm more responsible than your simp of a husband or any simp that will ever marry you.

Predictable.
That was the other word I was looking for in the OP's post.
He forgot to use it.

It is time we explore the relationship between low intelligence and violence.
It is almost a given that violent aggressors and their supporters often use similar
limited vocabulary which suggest that someone somewhere is doing their thinking for them.

PrecisionFx:




""4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...""


Th are false.

they ain't false

Nuttella:
I doubt she is happy, you and I know she isn't. Keep making her life miserable, I bet she is cheating on you, you dont deserve to be loved.

...Lol.She knows the bad niggar she got married to and will never think of cheating on him.

Marry first and come so we can talk.

TrebleChamp:
Unless the 3rd party is her own family members of course, some women are just pure evil being. Na this type go maltreat househelps so tey police will be invited to arrest her.. The guy mumu sha for beating her, i no do again isn't that difficult na...

abi ooo

alramon:
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you can hide the truth..but the truth is the truth man...

pocohantas:


And that is what everyone is saying.

The question should be, what are you saying?

No that's not what everyone is saying. Some People are blaming the OP for laying a finger on the said bully. They are not concerned with the gravity of the beating, they just think he shouldn't retaliate at all because she's a woman. That is what I'm against.

So guys still want to marry in 2020.. okay ooo

nedekid:

She beat the child and she was beaten back.
Do to others as you wish don to you!

She gave the child a knock while the caveman boyfriend went berserk with violence.
They are not even close.

alramon:



very illegal!

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Please I need you to back it with law. Not what your pastor told you

alramon:



they ain't false

"truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house"



This is blatantly false.

Nuttella:
Why should you beat someone you claim you love, why didnt you just send her away, break up with her and cancel the wedding, you are not even a good partner, thankGod this happened, now she knows you are a woman beater and you dont deserve her. I guess this is not your first time of beating her, woman beater.

Ha, Women! When are you going to stop playing the victim card?

Ma'am, do you by any means have any word for the poor helpless little girl that was abused and maltreated by said girlfriend

Enchantaurl:
No that's not what everyone is saying. Some People are blaming the OP for laying a finger on the said bully. They are not concerned with the gravity of the beating, they just think he shouldn't retaliate at all because she's a woman. That is what I'm against.

Did the people your second quoted say that?
Are you not also concerned with the GRAVITY of the beating? That is what we are all against.