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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by kolade560: 7:48pm On Aug 05, 2020
Intrepid01:


Just look at another anus thinking empty headed simp! @ pocohantas ��

A weakling and woman wrapper thinking everything shud b abt babee babee, that's how ur wife will slap ur mother and u will b saying I will handle it.
know when to act harshly as a man.
instead of this indomie generation to learn from elders they will b here arguing senselessly
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Abasman008(m): 7:49pm On Aug 05, 2020
Nuttella:
I really pity your wife, it must be such a misery living with such a
psychotic self servicing cunt like you. My heartfelt sympathy goes to her.
Sharap... Mumu
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by edoairways: 7:49pm On Aug 05, 2020
alramon:


which of them is not true?
"the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them" this is it

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Coldfeets: 7:50pm On Aug 05, 2020
Nuttella:
She didnt beat the niece, she only gave her a knock, which is very wrong but beating her back does not make any sense. I dont believe in an eye for an eye, an eye for an eye makes the world go blind, why should you beat someone you love, na see finish dey cause am sha.

Just a knock abi?

Look at how easy it sounds to you abi?

Well sha, I pray that all your children will be receiving just a knock from their aunties, uncles, teachers, neighbors...

By their words you shall know them.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by lenghtinny(m): 7:50pm On Aug 05, 2020
Nuttella:
Why should you beat someone you claim you love, why didnt you just send her away, break up with her and cancel the wedding, you are not even a good partner, thankGod this happened, now she knows you are a woman beater and you dont deserve her. I guess this is not your first time of beating her, woman beater.
It’s really scary that majority of the females are more concerned about what the op did to his girl than what she did to a minor....

Now I know why anytime there is a post about women maltreating wards left in their care, most of the comment chastising such women is always from the males than females.

If he sent her away without that factory reset beating, she will never learn her lesson which means she would still maltreat another person’s kid if the opportunity arise. But these one incident she will never forget for the rest of her life.....

You hypocritical lots will always have the guts to condemn men that sleeps with or rape minor, yet you will lay your hands on a minor without remorse just because you are not the mother.......

I don’t support domestic violence but the moment she talked back when he tried to correct her was the moment she opened herself to any and every possibilities that could arise from that situation...

Anigreat Na man you be, I love the fact that you have already set the disclaimer before all these weaklings and their goddesses come for you angry tongue

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Brightgem(f): 7:51pm On Aug 05, 2020
Lolz! Dude said insults are welcomed. Identifying that she's the wrong woman is good enough. Your niece visiting was all you needed. Neice came to chill with her uncle, not turn to house girl. But why will you beat somebody till she's bleeding, if she dies in your hands, you think people will buy the niece story?

Waka jeje inside life o.

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:51pm On Aug 05, 2020
edoairways:

"the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them" this is it

grin alright then
others are saying so too
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by freshkpomo(m): 7:52pm On Aug 05, 2020
Anigreat
Verdict :cancel any plans you have for her, she is only been nice to you now to get you to marry her, once she entangles you that's when you will see her true colour...
She is not a wife material and the self centred kinda woman.




A united youth is an unstoppable force


#NYM

God bless Nigeria
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by HolyTitus(m): 7:52pm On Aug 05, 2020
This is where most single women f'up - what's too much there in accomodating your niece? A very reasonable girl having realized the bond between your prospective hubby and his siblings; you sharply form this unbreakable friendship with them; that would even made your guy to be jealous - but 'no' they wouldn't do that; na stupid 'orogun' dem go dey do upandan.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by membranus: 7:52pm On Aug 05, 2020
flyingpig:
get a life, useless man.

I have a life, and a beautiful one too.

But you have not answered my question?

Are you married?
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by dingbang(m): 7:52pm On Aug 05, 2020
You did well.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:52pm On Aug 05, 2020
donproject:

Third party including her own family?
yes!
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:53pm On Aug 05, 2020
Coldfeets:


Just a knock abi?

Look at how easy it sounds to you abi?

Well sha, I pray that all your children will be receiving just a knock from their aunties, uncles, teachers, neighbors...

By their words you shall know them.

Do you know how many knocks I received from my parents while growing up, its a form of correction, to correct a bad behavior.

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by AmbFitsaint(m): 7:54pm On Aug 05, 2020
Won't beat a woman for anything but can't say if she touches my family members. I will try to hold myself still but I am sure the relationship is over
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Coldfeets: 7:54pm On Aug 05, 2020
Nuttella:
Do you know how many knocks I receive from my parents while growing up, its a form of correction, to correct a bad behavior.

No wonder you sound so senseless.

Because they must have knocked all the sense comot from your brain.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 05, 2020
flyingpig:
I bet it was not deliberate. Just an anger reflex. He should have the remorse to regret it. I can only beat a woman when she is offensive against me; trying to go physical with me. Because even in court of law it is called self-defence.

OP, you shouldn't have beat her. You should have urged her by the side and separately to apologise to your niece in your absence, and also desist from en-slaving her with chores. She can de-list some chores to your niece while she handles the others. That would have been mature and wise from her. Sometimes we don't meet the perfect wife material, we can only mould them to our taste. But if they resist to be moulded or don't make deliberate attempts to change for the better, that's where I call it QUITS!

Sorry sir, are you married? If yes, do you think we can mould them like you have said? I am still single and want to marry soon, I'm getting afraid of wedlock because of all these marriage things I read and see...
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ImaIma1(f): 7:55pm On Aug 05, 2020
Enchantaurl:
I'm in support of him beating her back. He was only protecting a minor that couldn't protect herself.

Some women think it's okay to bully those they feel are weaker than them but when such is dished to them they start forming victim. This lady in particular the beating fit her.

That makes him no better than her.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Yemisi87: 7:55pm On Aug 05, 2020
You did the right thing.

Most of nowadays girls turn you to ATM and prosperity immediately you say ' I love you' to them. They next step is to drive your family members away from you and bring on their family. It's only real men that can recognize and jump the trap.

God just save you. Some mumu guys would have sided their girlfriend and latter live to regret it.

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by MrFly(m): 7:56pm On Aug 05, 2020
ur a real man. I love ur guts
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by flyingpig: 7:56pm On Aug 05, 2020
membranus:


[s]I have a life, and a beautiful one too.

But you have not answered my question?

Are you married?[/s]
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:58pm On Aug 05, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
... If she thinks her life is miserable,then let her walk away. grin
You know, its such a pity that some women will never experience true care and love, good sex, they will never know what it feels like to be treated like an egg, to be pampered like a baby girl, to be loved beyond measures and your wife is one of them. They can only hear about it from other women, I feel for her really, that she will spend the rest of this hard life with someone like you. Such a damn pity! If only she have the courage to walk away, maybe she is masochist, who knows?

Thinking hard!!!
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by articlewriter: 7:58pm On Aug 05, 2020

I advise you to use words when a woman anger you rather than beating, remember she is someone's child too, if her father was buhari would you beat her?
Use words as a means of expressing your points and send her away when you are deeply angry. You still owe her apology for the beating but i advise you let her go afterwards.

I understand she beat your niece but the worse you should do is use words to embarrass her in front of your niece knowing fully well she will never be part of your family again.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by kolade560: 7:59pm On Aug 05, 2020
flyingpig:
I bet it was not deliberate. Just an anger reflex. He should have the remorse to regret it. I can only beat a woman when she is offensive against me; trying to go physical with me. Because even in court of law it is called self-defence.

OP, you shouldn't have beat her. You should have urged her by the side and separately to apologise to your niece in your absence, and also desist from en-slaving her with chores. She can de-list some chores to your niece while she handles the others. That would have been mature and wise from her. Sometimes we don't meet the perfect wife material, we can only mould them to our taste. But if they resist to be moulded or don't make deliberate attempts to change for the better, that's where I call it QUITS!

u can't change an adult, its impossible.
people rarely change but pretends....

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by fof1: 7:59pm On Aug 05, 2020
alramon:
grin I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. grin u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually cheesy

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

NONESENSE TALK. The Display of d Girlfriend on d Niece is a No No. Am not in Support of Beating her at all. Also, a No No. But there must be a Balance of Thought here. D Niece is an Endangered Specie requiring PROTECTION BUT NOT OVER PAMPERING. She can work and does work with Joy,but for d inhuman treatment Observed by d Man in d House... it is Obvious he has a Life to Live,Pls.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 05, 2020
alramon:


yes!

I doubt this...this is my 10th year away from my own home, I'm living with third family, they are all my uncles. The first hasn't married though when I was with him, his girlfriend was nice to me though. The second and the third are married, I can tell you how their wives treat their family members and how they treat husbands' family members.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 8:00pm On Aug 05, 2020
lenghtinny:
It’s really scary that majority of the females are more concerned about what the op did to his girl than what she did to a minor....

Now I know why anytime there is a post about women maltreating wards left in their care, most of the comment chastising such women is always from the males than females.

If he sent her away without that factory reset beating, she will never learn her lesson which means she would still maltreat another person’s kid if the opportunity arise. But these one incident she will never forget for the rest of her life.....

You hypocritical lots will always have the guts to condemn men that sleeps with or rape minor, yet you will lay your hands on a minor without remorse just because you are not the mother.......

I don’t support domestic violence but the moment she talked back when he tried to correct her was the moment she opened herself to any and every possibilities that could arise from that situation...

Anigreat Na man you be, I love the fact that you have already set the disclaimer before all these weaklings and their goddesses come for you angry tongue
Now listen, there is no greater lesson than your wedding being cancelled because you maltreated an in-law, no greater lesson, beating her is really unnecessary, ko necessary o, make we talk true small.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Azurevermillion: 8:00pm On Aug 05, 2020
alramon:
grin I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. grin u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually cheesy

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!
Respect baba

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by mranova(m): 8:01pm On Aug 05, 2020
I always tell people one thing.
Never go to any home you are related to the man to stay, you will have problems. People that are related to the wive's usually have a smooth sail.

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Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 8:01pm On Aug 05, 2020
Purplekush:
[s]First of all, no be yur niece suppose do the house chores as baby of the house?

2ndly, understand that most times it's the wife and her family that'll be around your place most of the time.

3rdly, u sound like no be today this wahala start. For. u to kpokpo the young girl like means you've been low-key prepping for this moment.
[/s]
well, na una sabi.. but then You guys should learn to accommodate each other or better yet learn how to talk things over as against being physical.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by ogunsbanjul(m): 8:01pm On Aug 05, 2020
Wahooooooo, what, if the niece died in the process of the girlfriend knocking the little girl? Are you now saying the guy should pamper the girlfriend and ask the girl to go and complete the work additionally assigned to her?
Ladies in the house you better drop your PRIDE if truly you want to be a wife or a mother and not baby mama or unmarried or remain in your father's house.
Ishilove:

You are quite wrong, and myopic in your view. I am in support of the cancellation because I detest people maltreating other people's children. However, some people are walking dead. Their cases have been finished in the spirit and they are just looking for who to hang their death on. If, while beating your ex she dies, we will not be talking about her ill treatment and abuse of your niece. We will be talking about lawyers and years in jail.

I have often said it here; if my relative is misbehaving, send them away. Don't harm them because you think you have a monopoly of violence.

You never pay bride price and you're beating her bloody. Thank God it is not my sister you beat up like that. Every bone in your body will be broken by men with stronger hands than yours.

There are ways to correct a person, but beating her bloody to the extent of hospital treatment is taking it too far.
Re: I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece by Nobody: 8:01pm On Aug 05, 2020
Abasman008:
Sharap... Mumu
You shut up, I know you hate the truth, may it purge you.

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