[FOR WOMEN]
How Obsessing With Sex Lands Women In Poverty.

First things first...

HOW SEX KILLS WOMEN'S SELF-ESTEEM.
Sex is the quickest way for a woman to lose value especially in her own eyes.

A girl is raised to believe that men will do anything for sex. That men will give a woman anything she asks for, even marry her, for what is between her legs. So she grows up with that mentality that what she possesses possesses value beyond measuring.

It makes her feel special.

Then she meets a man who promises her the world, if she sleeps with him. But after the sex he dumps her. Another man comes. He makes his promises, sleeps with her and dumps her. Third man. Same story. Fourth man. Same story. Now the woman starts wondering about the VALUE and the POWER of what she possesses. Wasn't she taught all her life that it could make any man give anything? But men are hitting and quitting.

Could it be, that the power of the pussy, was overestimated?.

Is the pussy *less* powerful than women imagined? Because where's the magic? Why are men not falling under a spell?

Now because the woman went through life feeling special for possessing the Most Wanted Thing in the world, when men don't seem to want that thing as badly as she anticipated, or when they want it but for a fraction of the price she was taught to expect - it kills her. Because she has measured her worth by the worth of her pussy, if the pussy is not as valuable as she thought, then by extension SHE HERSELF is not as valuable as she thought.

That thought process is the day a woman's self-esteem dies.

Sex that leads to nowhere leaves a woman feeling inadequate, lacking, not enough - like she could have done better, because apparently her best wasn't enough. If a woman sleeps with men who treat her poorly, make false promises or don't care for her, that sex degrades her psychologically because her mind knows she's betraying herself by selling herself short. Her value in her own eyes drops to the value men place on her.

It is for this reason that promiscuous women, hoes and sluts struggle with issues of self worth, self-esteem, depression, loneliness and feelings of emptiness. Things virgins and chaste women never battle with.

Secondly...

BEWARE THE BROKE MAN'S DICK.
There are rich men. And there are broke men. A rich man impresses women financially, he doesn't impress them sexually. A broke man can't impress women financially, so he impresses them sexually. A rich man's dick is his money but a poor man's money is his dick.

Meaning a man with money feels women must be grateful for his financial generosity and as long as he meets their every need in life, it must not matter what he does inside the bedroom.

Meanwhile a broke man uses his dick as a substitute for money. When a man has no money and can't provide for his woman, to gain her respect and to keep her, he proves his worth through mindblowing A1 sex.

Sleeping with him is a suicide mission.

He puts too much into it - too much effort, too much energy, too much heart, too much soul, too much of himself - into the sex, to compensate for his other shortcomings and in the process he gets women hooked on something no responsible hardworking man busy earning a living for his family can give a woman. The productive man lacks the time, energy and skill to give a woman that kind of sex.

This is what makes a broke man's dick a dangerous and perilous thing for women. Broke men have the most high powered dick of them all.

LET'S SAY a woman dates a broke man, for whatever reason. He proceeds to screw her into another dimension. She may wish to leave because there's no cash, but she finds herself held hostage by the flesh. Logically there's no reason to stay. Sexually there's no reason to leave.

Mind and pussy are at war.

The woman's spirit longs to break free and aim for higher but the flesh refuses to disengage from the situationship. She has become a slave to pleasure. And there's no slavery more brutal and cruel than the slavery to pleasure. Because the body is in heaven but the mind is in hell. The mind is anguished at being reduced to the broke man's level where the woman can't see past her next round of sex. But the body is asking for moreeeee.

And so the woman will stay in a trance, held captive by the sex while time, blessings and opportunities pass her by.

She's being fvcked into poverty.

"MY EX GF WAS GOOD IN BED, BUT MY WIFE IS DEAD BORING".
Men always complain about how boring their wives are in the bedroom compared to their exciting Ex girlfriends who had superb bedroom skills and a wholesome love for dick: "My Ex GF was good in bed, but my wife is boring".

And women, when they hear that statement they hear it wrong. They hear like men are looking for sex queens to marry. But that's NOT what men are saying. Men are simply lamenting how it is male nature to favour women who don't have sex as wife material while disqualifying women who love sex.

Men are wired to marry prudes.

But prudes don't turn men on. Men find them boring as hell. Still, men pay fortunes in bride price for prudes every year.

It's not a coincidence that when men complain about their wife being boring in sex, the exciting woman who loves sex whom they highly praise and miss IS ALWAYS THE EX IN THE PAST. Ask yourself, "If the ex was so hot in sex, why didn't she get the ring?"

It's because men are wired to marry prudes. Even though they don't like prudes. Even though they stay missing the sex vixen exes.

THE PRUDE.
As a woman, if you have boundaries men will respect those boundaries. If you have standards men will acknowledge those standards and act accordingly. If you respect yourself, men will respect you.

But men's respect comes at a price.

When you respect yourself and when men respect you, in their eyes, you stop being "fun" because there's a limit to the things you will do. Men respect boundaries but boundaries are a turn off. They respect standards, but standards are a killjoy.

In the short term, your boundaries and your quiet boring chaste life will work against you because men will avoid you. You'll be lonely. But when men finally have their assets together and are ready to settle down, guess who is considered wife material...

"MEN MARRY WOMEN WHO ARE USELESS IN BED BUT CHEAT WITH SLUTS AND HOES".
This is the complaint of many women.

Why do men marry women who are useless in bed but cheat with exciting sluts and hoes? Why does a man married to a clean classy wife still want sex from some trashy cheap girl at the street corner?

The thing is simple:
Yes, a man with a clean classy wife will still seek after a cheap hoe. Because that cheap hoe turns him on in ways his respectable wife will never do. Dealing with a cheap hoe is exciting. The idea that a man can do anything and everything to this girl, is what makes it exciting. This excitement is not there with the respectable wife the man has at home who is the mother of his children.

Respectable women don't turn men on.

Degraded hoes do.

As a woman you can't change this about men anymore than you can change the temperature of the sun. But what you can change - the only thing within your power to change - is YOURSELF.

If men marry women who are boring in the bedroom but have fun with trashy hoes, then the thing is as simple as you CHOOSING which one between these two women you are going to be: The Boring Wife or the Exciting Hoe.

No wailing, no curses, no shouting - just choose.

But bear in mind that between the Respectable Boring Wife and the Exciting Hoe only one gets the ring, gets her rent and bills paid, gets to have the man's children, is legally entitled to some of his property and will be in the man's Will.

Do you want men to love you? Then be a hoe. Men love hoes. Because men love sex, so any woman who gives sex freely is beloved of men. OR do you want marriage? Then respect yourself and have standards and boundaries. But this will make you boring. You'll have to learn to love yourself because men don't love women such as yourself. They just marry them. But it's okay, Men don't marry for love anyways.

So you choose. Will you be the respectable boring wife or the exciting hoe? You can not be both. Because even if you can be both, men are not wired to accept these two personalities from the same woman. It's called the Madonna-Wh0re Complex. This is essentially a Good Girl - Bad Girl way of seeing women where the Bad Girls are beloved but the Good Girls are trusted.

There's a woman men want fun with. There's a woman men want something serious with. These two women are as different from each other as night is different from day. And females 100% confuse the woman men want fun with, with the woman men want something serious with. Hence females' popular lament: "Why do men feel entitled to virgins after screwing women up and down?"

"WHY DO MEN FEEL ENTITLED TO VIRGINS AFTER SCREWING WOMEN UP AND DOWN?"
Because even though men marry for sex, sex plays such a tiny role in the decision-making process that takes place within a man when he considers who to marry.

Who to fvck is a secret decision a man makes thinking with his dick that he can enjoy in secret. But who to marry is a public decision a man knows his parents, siblings, church brethren, business associates and society will scrutinise and judge; this forces him to engage his higher powers of logic in making that decision. And when logic takes over, all the decisions that the dick has made about a woman that fed into the man's lower passions (desire, lust, pleasure etc), get overturned. The woman's provocative dressing, dirty talking, superb bedroom skills and wholesome love for dick that the man finds a supreme turn on, suddenly become liabilities.

Where the dick was like, "This girl is the one. She's always ready for sex and never says no!"; Logic goes, "If this girl is so easy for me to fvck, then it means she's easy for the next guy to fvck as well. She's not the one."

And thus the woman a man gets serious with
turns out different from the women he fvcked around with.

Men hate women who play hard to get, but the more a woman plays hard to get, the more it makes sense for the man to marry her. Because he figures, " If I'm struggling this much to bed her, then I can trust her to be a wife who won't be easily seduced by other men."

Male logic: If I can fvck you I can't marry you. If I can't fvck you I can marry you.

A MAN'S DECISION-MAKING PROCESS.
It will irritate many women that the things that make a woman the top choice for sex make her the last choice for marriage.

But it's actually better this way.

For a woman to build on a man's excitement over her body is to build on sand. It won't last. It is in a woman's best interest to be chosen to be a wife for qualities that have NOTHING to do with sex, because the less thirsty a man is when making the wife decision, the more secure the chosen woman will be, because the man's decision will not be based on his lust - which is temporary - but on something more permanent: his logic. The rock that never changes.

CHASING SEX IS MASCULINE.
Men want sex. Women want commitment.

When a man chases commitment he's being girly and feminine. He's doing a woman's job. When a woman chases sex she's being manly and masculine. She's doing a man's job.

Or to put it another way:
Greed is for women, Thirst is for men.

Men have money. Women have pussy. Money attracts greedy women. Pussy attracts thirsty men. Greed is to women what thirst is to men.

Female greed is the equivalent of male thirst.

Thirst is a manly thing. And thirsty women who chase sex - Promiscuous women, sluts and hoes - are Masculine. The sluttier a woman is, the more masculine she becomes. That is why hoes and nice guys end up together. Because the hoe's aggressive sexuality is masculine, while the innocent chaste Nice Guy who values a woman's commitment and friendship is Feminine. Its the Player/Virgin union but in reverse, where the slut is the Player and the Beta Nice Guy who barely gets laid is the Virgin.

INVITATION IS NOT INITIATION.
In sex ALWAYS make your guy think it was HIS idea. Because men, for all their love for sex, have too many insecurities about it:

Man: "I want a girl who'll blow my mind with sex"
girl blows his mind with sex
Man: "You're very good at this. Who taught you? You must be a hoe!"

Men have a fvcked up relationship with sex and even giving a man something he's asking for will not stop him from insulting you:

Man: "I wish women gave sex easy since they also enjoy it"
woman gives him sex easy
Man: "You gave in too easy. You must be a hoe!"

Where men and sex are concerned, tread carefully. Let a man lead. Or he'll think the worst of you. Even though you gave him the best of you.

Have you seen those videos where a woman is sleeping next to a guy and she keeps twisting and turning, exposing ass as her guy looks on but is busy with whatever he's doing, until desire overcomes him and he starts touching and kissing her? That's how it's done:

INVITE. That's feminine.
Don't initiate. That's masculine.

Do you want sex? Don't ask for it, don't touch your man up and down, instead put on something sexy that you know turns him on then do your things where he can see you. Don't initiate. Invite. And when he pounces on you act surprised like it was never your intention to turn him on. (You must have seen this in the movies)

Is your man starving you? Don't demand for more sex. Simply reinvent yourself by working out, getting new clothes and new hairstyles to attract him back.

Sex is your only leverage in a relationship. It must always be you giving it to him, not him giving it to you. Or else he'll stop showing appreciation because he figures he's doing YOU a favour since you're always so thirsty. Never must you be thirsty before a man. But greedy. Chase only his dollars not his dick. And the only thing you must be unzipping is his wallet not his trousers.

All this may sound old fashioned and primitive, but when it comes to sex, men are old fashioned and primitive. No matter what they say. That is why the sexually expressive vixens they talk so highly of ARE ALWAYS THE EX. NEVER THE WIFE. THE WIFE IS ALWAYS THE BORING ONE. BECAUSE THE BORING ONE ALWAYS GETS THE RING. If by now you don't get it, I don't know how else to explain it.

"WE BOTH ENJOYED, WHY MUST I GIVE YOU ANYTHING?"
I'm sure you've come across a conversation like this one before:

Girl: "I love sex. Any guy who wants to fvck contact me. It's cheap and I offer discounts"
Guy: "If you love sex why are you charging?"

And it's true. If you love and enjoy sex why must a man compensate you for what you love and enjoy?

Sex is loveable and enjoyable but to benefit from sex, as a woman, you have to PRETEND that you don't care for it. That way you get compensated for something you also enjoy.

Women play this game in love: They hide their love to exploit a man's love:
If a girl loves a guy she doesn't tell him because it gives him too much power over her. Instead she'll do things, and act in ways, that will make HIM fall in love with her. The trick being to make the guy believe he loved the girl first, all on his own. That way he stays chasing, appreciative and thankful.

It is in sex that women play this game best: If a girl is craving sex she simply posts a provocative pic and thirsty guys stampede into her inbox offering cash to smash. That money the girl will get from the sex is actually her being paid to do something she was going to do anyways.

And that's the female game: Being paid to do something you were going to do anyways, by acting as if you don't want it.

"THAT GIRL WAS PRETTY BUT I DIDN'T ENJOY ANYTHING."
If you want money, men will give you money for sex. It's simple. Any dumb girl with a pussy can do it. But it's low value. And it won't get any woman much money because sex is cheap.

Now here's something high value:
A man, when he meets a new woman, he wonders what that woman looks like naked. What her boobs are like. How they feel. What her pussy looks like. What it tastes like. Is it phat? Is it juicy? Is it hairy? What aroma does it have? Is it tight? Will it make him lose his mind and make his head spin?

Because a man's imagination is an active imagination, all these questions form a mental picture. An expectation. Once a man builds that expectation of how sex with you will be like, YOU DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM. For the simple reason that YOU WILL NOT MEASURE UP to that expectation. The male mind always overestimates pussy because men are visual and the prettier a girl is, the sweeter they imagine her to be. Hence men's popular complaint, "That girl was pretty but I didn't enjoy anything".

You can have the boreholest pussy in town, but if you're pretty with a good body, in a man's mind, he's picturing you with the tightest most gripping pussy. In other words: You'll always be sweeter in fantasy than in reality. That is why the game must remain in fantasyland.

THE GHOST PUSSY.
As a Gold Digger you don't sell pussy. That's for prostitutes. And you're not a prostitute. What you sell is the expectation and the anticipation of sex. You sell a Promise. You have what is called a Ghost Pussy. You give a man pussy, but in his head not in his bed.

To men the "Promise" of sex has the same value as the sex itself. Through this dynamic a man can give you money WITHOUT you giving him sex. As long as you make him believe if he meets your desires now you'll meet his desires later. This is the high value game. And not just any girl with a pussy can do it. Because do it to the wrong man (a broke man) and you'll be dead in a ditch by tomorrow morning. Gold Diggers, as a rule, never scam broke men. Because broke men have nothing to lose. And a man with nothing to lose is the most dangerous man. If a Gold Digger owes a broke man money she pays it back in full.

But successful men are the perfect target because they're often respectable men in society and in business, so they won't retaliate if scammed because they've too much to lose if their reputation is tainted by sex scandals.

Again, this is a game not every girl can play because girls have been trained to rely on pussy. Not brains. But Gold Diggers as a rule are celibate. They don't have sex. Because sex gets them emotional. And emotions mess up their game.

If you love sex you're better off being a prostitute. Because prostitutes get paid to have sex. Gold Diggers, they get paid not to have sex. Because at the end of the day rich men don't even have time for sex.

# SecureTheBag

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ubunja:
[FOR WOMEN]
How Obsessing With Sex Lands Women In Poverty.

First things first...

HOW SEX KILLS WOMEN'S SELF-ESTEEM.
Sex is the quickest way for a woman to lose value especially in her own eyes.

A girl is raised to believe that men will do anything for sex. That men will give a woman anything she asks for, even marry her, for what is between her legs. So she grows up with that mentality that what she possesses possesses value beyond measuring.

It makes her feel special.

Then she meets a man who promises her the world, if she sleeps with him. But after the sex he dumps her. Another man comes. He makes his promises, sleeps with her and dumps her. Third man. Same story. Fourth man. Same story. Now the woman starts wondering about the VALUE and the POWER of what she possesses. Wasn't she taught all her life that it could make any man give anything? But men are hitting and quitting.

Could it be, that the power of the pussy, was overestimated?.

Is the pussy *less* powerful than women imagined? Because where's the magic? Why are men not falling under a spell?

Now because the woman went through life feeling special for possessing the Most Wanted Thing in the world, when men don't seem to want that thing as badly as she anticipated, or when they want it but for a fraction of the price she was taught to expect - it kills her. Because she has measured her worth by the worth of her pussy, if the pussy is not as valuable as she thought, then by extension SHE HERSELF is not as valuable as she thought.

That thought process is the day a woman's self-esteem dies.

Sex that leads to nowhere leaves a woman feeling inadequate, lacking, not enough - like she could have done better, because apparently her best wasn't enough. If a woman sleeps with men who treat her poorly, make false promises or don't care for her, that sex degrades her psychologically because her mind knows she's betraying herself by selling herself short. Her value in her own eyes drops to the value men place on her.

It is for this reason that promiscuous women, hoes and sluts struggle with issues of self worth, self-esteem, depression, loneliness and feelings of emptiness. Things virgins and chaste women never battle with.

Secondly...

BEWARE THE BROKE MAN'S DICK.
There are rich men. And there are broke men. A rich man impresses women financially, he doesn't impress them sexually. A broke man can't impress women financially, so he impresses them sexually. A rich man's dick is his money but a poor man's money is his dick.

Meaning a man with money feels women must be grateful for his financial generosity and as long as he meets their every need in life, it must not matter what he does inside the bedroom.

Meanwhile a broke man uses his dick as a substitute for money. When a man has no money and can't provide for his woman, to gain her respect and to keep her, he proves his worth through mindblowing A1 sex.

Sleeping with him is a suicide mission.

He puts too much into it - too much effort, too much energy, too much heart, too much soul, too much of himself - into the sex, to compensate for his other shortcomings and in the process he gets women hooked on something no responsible hardworking man busy earning a living for his family can give a woman. The productive man lacks the time, energy and skill to give a woman that kind of sex.

This is what makes a broke man's dick a dangerous and perilous thing for women. Broke men have the most high powered dick of them all.

LET'S SAY a woman dates a broke man, for whatever reason. He proceeds to screw her into another dimension. She may wish to leave because there's no cash, but she finds herself held hostage by the flesh. Logically there's no reason to stay. Sexually there's no reason to leave.

Mind and pussy are at war.

The woman's spirit longs to break free and aim for higher but the flesh refuses to disengage from the situationship. She has become a slave to pleasure. And there's no slavery more brutal and cruel than the slavery to pleasure. Because the body is in heaven but the mind is in hell. The mind is anguished at being reduced to the broke man's level where the woman can't see past her next round of sex. But the body is asking for moreeeee.

And so the woman will stay in a trance, held captive by the sex while time, blessings and opportunities pass her by.

She's being fvcked into poverty.

"MY EX GF WAS GOOD IN BED, BUT MY WIFE IS DEAD BORING".
Men always complain about how boring their wives are in the bedroom compared to their exciting Ex girlfriends who had superb bedroom skills and a wholesome love for dick: "My Ex GF was good in bed, but my wife is boring".

And women, when they hear that statement they hear it wrong. They hear like men are looking for sex queens to marry. But that's NOT what men are saying. Men are simply lamenting how it is male nature to favour women who don't have sex as wife material while disqualifying women who love sex.

Men are wired to marry prudes.

But prudes don't turn men on. Men find them boring as hell. Still, men pay fortunes in bride price for prudes every year.

It's not a coincidence that when men complain about their wife being boring in sex, the exciting woman who loves sex whom they highly praise and miss IS ALWAYS THE EX IN THE PAST. Ask yourself, "If the ex was so hot in sex, why didn't she get the ring?"

It's because men are wired to marry prudes. Even though they don't like prudes. Even though they stay missing the sex vixen exes.

THE PRUDE.
As a woman, if you have boundaries men will respect those boundaries. If you have standards men will acknowledge those standards and act accordingly. If you respect yourself, men will respect you.

But men's respect comes at a price.

When you respect yourself and when men respect you, in their eyes, you stop being "fun" because there's a limit to the things you will do. Men respect boundaries but boundaries are a turn off. They respect standards, but standards are a killjoy.

In the short term, your boundaries and your quiet boring chaste life will work against you because men will avoid you. You'll be lonely. But when men finally have their assets together and are ready to settle down, guess who is considered wife material...

"MEN MARRY WOMEN WHO ARE USELESS IN BED BUT CHEAT WITH SLUTS AND HOES".
This is the complaint of many women.

Why do men marry women who are useless in bed but cheat with exciting sluts and hoes? Why does a man married to a clean classy wife still want sex from some trashy cheap girl at the street corner?

The thing is simple:
Yes, a man with a clean classy wife will still seek after a cheap hoe. Because that cheap hoe turns him on in ways his respectable wife will never do. Dealing with a cheap hoe is exciting. The idea that a man can do anything and everything to this girl, is what makes it exciting. This excitement is not there with the respectable wife the man has at home who is the mother of his children.

Respectable women don't turn men on.

Degraded hoes do.

As a woman you can't change this about men anymore than you can change the temperature of the sun. But what you can change - the only thing within your power to change - is YOURSELF.

If men marry women who are boring in the bedroom but have fun with trashy hoes, then the thing is as simple as you CHOOSING which one between these two women you are going to be: The Boring Wife or the Exciting Hoe.

No wailing, no curses, no shouting - just choose.

But bear in mind that between the Respectable Boring Wife and the Exciting Hoe only one gets the ring, gets her rent and bills paid, gets to have the man's children, is legally entitled to some of his property and will be in the man's Will.

Do you want men to love you? Then be a hoe. Men love hoes. Because men love sex, so any woman who gives sex freely is beloved of men. OR do you want marriage? Then respect yourself and have standards and boundaries. But this will make you boring. You'll have to learn to love yourself because men don't love women such as yourself. They just marry them. But it's okay, Men don't marry for love anyways.

So you choose. Will you be the respectable boring wife or the exciting hoe? You can not be both. Because even if you can be both, men are not wired to accept these two personalities from the same woman. It's called the Madonna-Wh0re Complex. This is essentially a Good Girl - Bad Girl way of seeing women where the Bad Girls are beloved but the Good Girls are trusted.

There's a woman men want fun with. There's a woman men want something serious with. These two women are as different from each other as night is different from day. And females 100% confuse the woman men want fun with, with the woman men want something serious with. Hence females' popular lament: "Why do men feel entitled to virgins after screwing women up and down?"

"WHY DO MEN FEEL ENTITLED TO VIRGINS AFTER SCREWING WOMEN UP AND DOWN?"
Because even though men marry for sex, sex plays such a tiny role in the decision-making process that takes place within a man when he considers who to marry.

Who to fvck is a secret decision a man makes thinking with his dick that he can enjoy in secret. But who to marry is a public decision a man knows his parents, siblings, church brethren, business associates and society will scrutinise and judge; this forces him to engage his higher powers of logic in making that decision. And when logic takes over, all the decisions that the dick has made about a woman that fed into the man's lower passions (desire, lust, pleasure etc), get overturned. The woman's provocative dressing, dirty talking, superb bedroom skills and wholesome love for dick that the man finds a supreme turn on, suddenly become liabilities.

Where the dick was like, "This girl is the one. She's always ready for sex and never says no!"; Logic goes, "If this girl is so easy for me to fvck, then it means she's easy for the next guy to fvck as well. She's not the one."

And thus the woman a man gets serious with
turns out different from the women he fvcked around with.

Men hate women who play hard to get, but the more a woman plays hard to get, the more it makes sense for the man to marry her. Because he figures, " If I'm struggling this much to bed her, then I can trust her to be a wife who won't be easily seduced by other men."

Male logic: If I can fvck you I can't marry you. If I can't fvck you I can marry you.

A MAN'S DECISION-MAKING PROCESS.
It will irritate many women that the things that make a woman the top choice for sex make her the last choice for marriage.

But it's actually better this way.

For a woman to build on a man's excitement over her body is to build on sand. It won't last. It is in a woman's best interest to be chosen to be a wife for qualities that have NOTHING to do with sex, because the less thirsty a man is when making the wife decision, the more secure the chosen woman will be, because the man's decision will not be based on his lust - which is temporary - but on something more permanent: his logic. The rock that never changes.

CHASING SEX IS MASCULINE.
Men want sex. Women want commitment.

When a man chases commitment he's being girly and feminine. He's doing a woman's job. When a woman chases sex she's being manly and masculine. She's doing a man's job.

Or to put it another way:
Greed is for women, Thirst is for men.

Men have money. Women have pussy. Money attracts greedy women. Pussy attracts thirsty men. Greed is to women what thirst is to men.

Female greed is the equivalent of male thirst.

Thirst is a manly thing. And thirsty women who chase sex - Promiscuous women, sluts and hoes - are Masculine. The sluttier a woman is, the more masculine she becomes. That is why hoes and nice guys end up together. Because the hoe's aggressive sexuality is masculine, while the innocent chaste Nice Guy who values a woman's commitment and friendship is Feminine. Its the Player/Virgin union but in reverse, where the slut is the Player and the Beta Nice Guy who barely gets laid is the Virgin.

INVITATION IS NOT INITIATION.
In sex ALWAYS make your guy think it was HIS idea. Because men, for all their love for sex, have too many insecurities about it:

Man: "I want a girl who'll blow my mind with sex"
girl blows his mind with sex
Man: "You're very good at this. Who taught you? You must be a hoe!"

Men have a fvcked up relationship with sex and even giving a man something he's asking for will not stop him from insulting you:

Man: "I wish women gave sex easy since they also enjoy it"
woman gives him sex easy
Man: "You gave in too easy. You must be a hoe!"

Where men and sex are concerned, tread carefully. Let a man lead. Or he'll think the worst of you. Even though you gave him the best of you.

Have you seen those videos where a woman is sleeping next to a guy and she keeps twisting and turning, exposing ass as her guy looks on but is busy with whatever he's doing, until desire overcomes him and he starts touching and kissing her? That's how it's done:

INVITE. That's feminine.
Don't initiate. That's masculine.

Do you want sex? Don't ask for it, don't touch your man up and down, instead put on something sexy that you know turns him on then do your things where he can see you. Don't initiate. Invite. And when he pounces on you act surprised like it was never your intention to turn him on. (You must have seen this in the movies)

Is your man starving you? Don't demand for more sex. Simply reinvent yourself by working out, getting new clothes and new hairstyles to attract him back.

Sex is your only leverage in a relationship. It must always be you giving it to him, not him giving it to you. Or else he'll stop showing appreciation because he figures he's doing YOU a favour since you're always so thirsty.

All this may sound old fashioned and primitive, but when it comes to sex, men are old fashioned and primitive. No matter what they say. That is why the sexually expressive vixens they talk so highly of ARE ALWAYS THE EX. NEVER THE WIFE. THE WIFE IS ALWAYS THE BORING ONE. BECAUSE THE BORING ONE ALWAYS GETS THE RING. If by now you don't get it, I don't know how else to explain it.

"WE BOTH ENJOYED, WHY MUST I GIVE YOU ANYTHING?"
I'm sure you've come across a conversation like this one before:

Girl: "I love sex. Any guy who wants to fvck contact me. It's cheap and I offer discounts"
Guy: "If you love sex why are you charging?"

And it's true. If you love and enjoy sex why must a man compensate you for what you love and enjoy?

Sex is loveable and enjoyable but to benefit from sex, as a woman, you have to PRETEND that you don't care for it. That way you get compensated for something you also enjoy.

Women play this game in love: They hide their love to exploit a man's love:
If a girl loves a guy she doesn't tell him because it gives him too much power over her. Instead she'll do things, and act in ways, that will make HIM fall in love with her. The trick being to make the guy believe he loved the girl first, all on his own. That way he stays chasing, appreciative and thankful.

It is in sex that women play this game best: If a girl is craving sex she simply posts a provocative pic and thirsty guys stampede into her inbox offering cash to smash. That money the girl will get from the sex is actually her being paid to do something she was going to do anyways.

And that's the female game: Being paid to do something you were going to do anyways, by acting as if you don't want it.

"THAT GIRL WAS PRETTY BUT I DIDN'T ENJOY ANYTHING."
If you want money, men will give you money for sex. It's simple. Any dumb girl with a pussy can do it. But it's low value. And it won't get any woman much money because sex is cheap.

Now here's something high value:
A man, when he meets a new woman, he wonders what that woman looks like naked. What her boobs are like. How they feel. What her pussy looks like. What it tastes like. Is it phat? Is it juicy? Is it hairy? What aroma does it have? Is it tight? Will it make him lose his mind and make his head spin?

Because a man's imagination is an active imagination, all these questions form a mental picture. An expectation. Once a man builds that expectation of how sex with you will be like, YOU DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM. For the simple reason that YOU WILL NOT MEASURE UP to that expectation. The male mind always overestimates pussy because men are visual and the prettier a girl is, the sweeter they imagine her to be. Hence men's popular complaint, "That girl was pretty but I didn't enjoy anything".

You can have the boreholest pussy in town, but if you're pretty with a good body, in a man's mind, he's picturing you with the tightest most gripping pussy. In other words: You'll always be sweeter in fantasy than in reality. That is why the game must remain in fantasyland.

THE GHOST PUSSY.
As a Gold Digger you don't sell pussy. That's for prostitutes. And you're not a prostitute. What you sell is the expectation and the anticipation of sex. You sell a Promise. You have what is called a Ghost Pussy. You give a man pussy, but in his head not in his bed.

To men the "Promise" of sex has the same value as the sex itself. Through this dynamic a man can give you money WITHOUT you giving him sex. As long as you make him believe if he meets your desires now you'll meet his desires later. This is the high value game. And not just any girl with a pussy can do it. Because do it to the wrong man (a broke man) and you'll be dead in a ditch by tomorrow morning. Gold Diggers, as a rule, never scam broke men. Because broke men have nothing to lose. And a man with nothing to lose is the most dangerous man. If a Gold Digger owes a broke man money she pays it back in full.

But successful men are the perfect target because they're often respectable men in society and in business, so they won't retaliate if scammed because they've too much to lose if their reputation is tainted by sex scandals.

Again, this is a game not every girl can play because girls have been trained to rely on pussy. Not brains. But Gold Diggers as a rule are celibate. They don't have sex. Because sex gets them emotional. And emotions mess up their game.

If you love sex you're better off being a prostitute. Because prostitutes get paid to have sex. Gold Diggers, they get paid not to have sex. Because at the end of the day rich men don't even have time for sex.

# SecureTheBag

Epic........you're a rare specie.

In essence Ubunja is trying to send a good vibes to the virgins to keep it intact, but it will make more sense if they can be full of life don't be boring, so men can get both package in you.

Spot on ubunja. No wonder they no let me rest lol

XXXXTENTACION:
Sex brings in lots of money if you doubt me check the porn industry.


ubanja some of your posts are not evidence based. I would be happy if you can add some form of evidence to back up your claims.

If sex brings in that much money, how many of these porn stars have made it to Forbes?

Or u tink say, dat hooker for Quilox (and other bars, Nightclub), instamessage etc, wey dey hustle different dicks every weekends and manage to get iPhone, use some costly hair extensions and buy some flashy dresses, come post for social media, don finally make money? Use your 6. Na street u dey.

The ladies that you see in the society who are rich and influential like the Alakijas (not your flashy, fake instagram celebrities who give an illusion of wealth. I'm talking about those with multi-million dollars assets. Celebrity flashiness is a lot different from true wealth) are women who either inherited wealth from their very wealthy families or who use their femininity in getting wealthier men to sponsor their business or career without throwing pusssy around excessively (some nollywood "actresses" who build businesses and are successful without being talented lol, fall into this category despite being also flashy).

Later, they will say ubunja's miseducation is for males only. even just the title sef says it's not just for male only.



ubunja, ride on. I'm relishing it.


ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery.

Ubunja you are here miseducating girls to stop giving out sex easily but if girls stop giving you sex the same you will still complain and I know how Hot you are always
You don't have sense at all
The girls you should only miseducate are your daughters and sisters
Stop trying to spoil pussy for us

Lemme chase clouts on this thread by being girly

Ubanja, are you trying to teach ladies to prey on us...

I do tell my female siblings nd some girls I can never bed only if they know the power of their pvssy nd body no man born of woman would take them for granted.

The moment a lady is trying to impress his man with what she's capable of by initiating instead of inviting trust me she has lost the game b4 it started.

Note: Men love to take the lead you as a woman never try to take that position once u take it you've lost your feminine power.

I feel this miseducation is targeted at ladies.. anyway nice one ubunja

Vicboy1:
Ubunja you are here miseducating girls to stop giving out sex easily but if girls stop giving you sex the same you will still complain and I know how Hot you are always
You don't have sense at all
The girls you should only miseducate are your daughters and sisters
Stop trying to spoil pussy for us

He's not spoiling pvssy for you, lets use this as a case study if I give you a gun to protect yourself do you know two things are involve is either the gun bring good or bad to you it all depend on the usage.

Now apply the above scenario to his post is either u use his miseducation post positively or negatively.

In short underneath he is saying date them hoe marry them virgin nd for the ladies never give your pvssy to a man who doesnt know the value

Vicboy1:
Ubunja you are here miseducating girls to stop giving out sex easily but if girls stop giving you sex the same you will still complain and I know how Hot you are always
You don't have sense at all
The girls you should only miseducate are your daughters and sisters
Stop trying to spoil pussy for us

Lol, nobody is trying to spoil pvsssy for you. Even if all the women are to read this very misEducation, the fact remains that all are never gonna apply it, probably because of their penchant for attention, desperation and validation. Especially in this our social media era. There must be the ones who will go the hoe way. It's left for you to use the knowledge to your advantage. If you want satisfy your lust, go for the hoes. If you want to settle down go for the Virgins. Which have always been Ubunja's phrase of advice from the day one. It's left for the women to choose the one they want to be. However, your own is to play the game to your advantage.

Jmk9292:
Epic........you're a rare specie.

Guy why?

Ubunja this is a very low blow to the MAN's world na

You just took food out of our mouths and exposed us bare butt and all...

XXXXTENTACION:
Sex brings in lots of money if you doubt me check the porn industry.


ubanja some of your posts are not evidence based. I would be happy if you can add some form of evidence to back up your claims.

There is a reason why Bella Thorne made over $2M on OnlyFans without a single nude pics even though she promised to supply them. They paid in anticipation. I and Ubunja know why. If you read the write up again, you will know why. How many pornstars has paid over $2M from porn?

Prymestrr:
Ubunja this is a very low blow to the MAN's world na

You just took food out of our mouths and exposed us bare butt and all...

Not quite, all you need to do is smell the game from a mile a away flip the script to suit you or walk away it's that simple

Makes sense!

Regex:
I'm gonna train my daughters to be gold diggers. Idc. And my sons to be masculine enough.

it's what I've been saying. Daughters dig for money. Sons dig for pussy.

Martinez39s:
There is a reason why Bella Thorne made over $2M on OnlyFans without a single nude pics even though she promised to supply them. They paid in anticipation. I and Ubunja know why. If you read the write up again, you will know why. How many pornstars has paid over $2M from porn?

Isi ri gi nma nna..

You are very much sensible. Thank you for bringing it home. I mean the example.

ubunja:
it's what I've been saying. Daughters dig for money. Sons dig for pussy.

Told my friend this and he was like, are you insane? Gold diggers you hated for years. I told him, yes I hated them for years, just like every human subject to change, I now love em!

Snow02:
Not quite, all you need to do is smell the game from a mile a away flip the script to suit you or walk away it's that simple

Now it's gonna be all game bro... where there's no plan to commit, the game will most often be too stressful for a man to even try.

I'm sure you can appreciate the headaches that comes with selling a commitment facade everytime you just want to f.uck and move.

Man can never live by soapy alone na