How Cold Hearts Get Gold Diggers Paid.

Gold Diggers. Two words that invoke images of cold-hearted greed and manipulation. Yet rich men can't seem to get enough of these icy, empty, conniving creatures. Nice Girls have never been a hit with rich men.

As a woman it might be puzzling how an icy cold heart makes men bust open their bank accounts.

It all begins with understanding how men fall in love versus how women fall in love.

HOW MEN AND WOMEN FALL IN LOVE.
When a man starts dating a new woman, usually he's in conflict with his friends and he hates the advice they give him. Most of the times they're disapproving of his actions because most of the times he's acting dumb doing too much too soon for too little.

On the other hand, when a woman starts dating a new man, usually she's in harmony with her friends. They're all of one mind. The woman agrees with them, welcomes their advice and follows it.

Why do men and women start out so differently?

A man is roughly 80% logical and 20% emotional. A woman is about 80% emotional and 20% logical.

When a man is attracted to a woman and approaches her, he's in a rare EMOTIONAL STATE. His 20%. He's in his feelings and even his friends can't reason with him because he'll do anything, say anything and give anything to have her. He's thinking with his heart. That is why emotional him stays in conflict with his logical friends.

On the other hand, although women are emotional by default, the woman, when she's first approached by a man, he'll find her in a LOGICAL STATE (her 20%). Because at that point he's a nobody to her. She doesn't love him. She doesn't hate him. She's simply indifferent. AKA Logical. And because her friends are logical as her concerning her suitor, there's harmony in the girls camp.

Unlike in the guys camp.

And so the woman, with a cold pragmatic eye and reasoning logically, she closely scrutinizes her suitor's credentials, his financial state, his character and his friends. She's as logical and as calculating as a man considering a business deal.

THE GREAT SWITCH.
Now, as time goes and things progress, the man and the woman start to switch places...

Because the woman has sufficiently studied her new man, shared sensitive information, bonded with him through shared experiences like going on dates and trips, or even slept with him, she stops being indifferent (logical) and gradually gets into her feelings. Now what her friends and family have to say about the guy starts to clash with what she has to say. And she begins standing up for him when they badmouth him.

She's finally emotional and can no longer be reasoned with. This state she's in now, the man started out in.

Meanwhile, the man, because he has got what he wanted (sex), cooling his head and getting him back to his senses, the emotions that have controlled him all this time evaporate and he goes back to his old logical self. Now he's the one sober minded and thinking straight. This is when he'll start acting funny and ghost the woman.

This state he's in now, the woman started out in.

The man and the woman have switched places.

She who started out indifferent, is now in her feelings. And he who started out in his feelings is now indifferent.

THE GAME GETS COLDER AND COLDER.
Ever noticed this? A guy pursues you and you give him cold shoulder after cold shoulder, which ironically makes him pursue even harder. Then at some point, finally impressed and satisfied with his determination, you turn around and become kind to him. At which point he starts acting funny and pulls back!

What just happened??

You were supposed to stay cold that's what!

A Gold Digger, when she's finally satisfied with a man's determination - when she realizes he's sincere - instead of warming up to him and becoming soft and kind like other women do, she gets colder and colder. The man's determination inspires manipulation. He's so lost in emotions by the time he snaps out of it, he'll have paid mountains of bills, bought bags and bags of groceries, given accommodation, allowances, investments - and if the spell was particularly strong - bought even a car.

And the scam that scams him is a simple scam...

A gold digger DOES NOT ask for money. What she does is She presents a problem. If a man loves her enough, he offers a solution. By spending. Without being asked.

That's the standard method. And it works everytime. While protecting the gold digger.

By talking about her problems to a man the gold digger is dropping hints that she needs his help. Hints are preferred because men don't like to be asked for money. It's crucial that if and when a man decides to help with money, he imagines his offer originated within himself. He must not realize that the woman is infact asking for help otherwise he'll feel used and demand for something in return (sex).

How does this approach protect the gold digger?

You've heard this angry argument before, even in the movies:
Man: "Remember I did this, this and that for you! I did it all for you."
Woman: " But I didn't ask you to!"

Of course she didn't ask him to. Not directly anyway. What she did is she mentioned a problem a few times, she spoke about her situation a couple of times, which put the idea in the man's head to help. By spending. But the idea was put in such a way that it can't be traced back to the woman. That's why she can confidently say, "Did I ask you to do those things for me?" And the man can't answer.

It works everytime.

When a gold digger voices her struggles and a man offers his help, she, to strengthen the man's belief that his offer to help is self motivated, she will flat out refuse his help - Waiting for him TO BEG HER TO ACCEPT HIS HELP. It's a mind trick that allows her to gauge the strength of his love by how strongly he'll insist and press his offer on her. If he doesn't insist and force her to accept his help but instead feels relieved his offer has been declined and he gets to keep his money HE'S THE WRONG TARGET. He doesn't prioritize her happiness high enough. Moving forward getting anything from him will always be a chore.
A Gold Digger needs men so keen on seeing her happy that they put money in her hand by force to solve her problems.

Guys know what I'm talking about here.

Almost every guy has that one girl he cared about so much he personally put money in her purse by force even after she turned it down. That's exactly what gold diggers are aiming for. But with rich men.

If a gold digger speaks about a problem a couple of times but a man ignores and doesn't offer his help, she doesn't beg, cry or put a gun to his head. He's the wrong target. She quietly moves on to the next man.

When Gold Diggers fail to achieve with a man, they know it just means one thing: "It's not that they're asking for too much, THEY'RE ASKING FROM THE WRONG PERSON."

Gold digging is NOT the ability to scam every man but the ability to pick that One Man who can't say NO to you. It's not about begging men for things but finding that man you don't have to beg for anything - because there's nothing he won't do for you.

ALL women do this. But gold diggers do it on a grand scale.

The average girl knows that if she complains long enough to a guy about her old phone and how its cracked screen makes it hard for her to read his messages, IF THE GUY LIKES HER ENOUGH, he'll offer and get her a new phone. It's a common scam. By a common girl.

Gold Diggers run massive scams.

A gold digger tells a man she hasn't fvcked yet that she can't invite him where she stays because she's sharing a flat with two friends and there's no privacy. To which he assumes she's ready for sex, so he tells her to look for a place of her own. To which she tells him she's broke. To which she tells her not to worry. A month later she tells him she's found a nice apartment. To which he makes the bank transfers for the rent. To which she tells him she can't move in because it's just empty rooms. To which he again makes the bank transfers for the furniture.

Now here's the scam:

The apartment already belonged to the WOMAN, so deposit and rent money goes straight to her pocket. The furniture bought is bought at inflated prices, so money goes straight to her pocket. Some of the property bought is secretly resold, so money goes straight to her pocket. Some of those items bought at normal prices are taken back for cash refunds - without the man's knowledge, so money once more goes straight to her pocket. Now the woman has a flat full of furniture. And pockets full of money. But not a single drop of sperm in her pussy.

Such is how a man's bank accounts are emptied. Without showing him even a panty.

It doesn't matter if he's seeing other women's panties, the gold digger with her legs closed always wins. Because of one little-known fact: a man can fvck 10 women but he can love only 1. While a woman can love 10 men but she can only fvck 1.

This is the center core of male-female sexual dynamics. Everything revolves around this little-known truth >>>Women open legs, Men open hearts.

It's not about who a man fvcks, it's about who he loves. And it's not about who a woman loves, it's about who she fvcks. A man's dick any woman can have, even hoes. And a woman's heart any man can have, even a simp in her DMs. It doesn't matter who, where, how, a man is fvcking; to win his heart all you have to do is spend his money. Because his heart follows his money.

NOW, THE MORE COLD-HEARTED AND RUTHLESS A GOLD DIGGER IS in emptying a man's bank accounts, while he's blinded by emotions willing to do anything and everything for her, the stronger will be her grip on him when he finally snaps out of it and comes to his senses - He can't trivially toss her to the side because he has spent too much on her. It will be in his best interest to make sure the relationship works out. With or without sex.

AS REFRESHING AS AN ICE COLD HEART.
Here's the summary of what we're saying: You get a man irreversibly invested in you while he's hopelessly smitten with you (and while you're still cold before you feel anything for him), so that by the time you yourself fall hopelessly in love with him (which coincidentally will be when he starts going cold on you), he can't play you because he's bound to you through his investment in you.

MEN FALL IN LOVE BY BEING LOGICAL.
Men are logical in nature. But when a man sees a woman, he's drawn to her by what he sees and how that makes him feel, which makes him emotional in that he's acting by his feelings. A man will see a woman for the very first time and shout "That's my wife right there!", genuinely believing he's in love. But what he's really experiencing is a rush of feelings and emotions that he's incorrectly decoding.

This rush of feelings and emotions is not a man's natural state. It is a temporary state. And his weakest state.

When that temporary/emotional state passes - usually after sex - what remains AFTER, in the man's head, when he becomes logical again, is what determines if he's in love or not.

A man's shift from being emotional to being logical again is best understood in the context of something called Post Nut Clarity, where a man does not know if he's in lust or in love with a woman until he sleeps with her. Men are emotionally clouded until sex which clarifies their emotions for them. MEN KNOW IF THEY LOVE A WOMAN BY HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT HER AFTER FVCKING HER.

Whatever a man might say about loving you, there's a 50% chance sex will prove HIM wrong. A guy can honestly believe he loves you, but toss you aside after sex. Not because he's a Player. But he was feeling this rush of feelings and emotions but which turned out to be lust. Sex clarified this for him.

Post Nut Clarity is a man getting back to his logical state after starting out in his emotions. Any scam or manipulation to get to his money must happen BEFORE this clarity. Before sex. It is before sex that a man's logic is disconnected. Sex reconnects his logic.

Because of Post Nut Clarity if a man gives you, let's say a phone for sex, one second after ejaculation he's already regretting his own stupidity in giving you that phone and he's wishing to take it back. He has come to his senses. Any man who has ever fvcked a prostitute knows that the minute you climax is the minute you regret wasting your money paying for sex. This is also why guys promise women money for sex but after sex guys change their mind and refuse to give women the money. Sex gets men back to their right senses.

But it's the opposite for women.

Women have PRE NUT CLARITY.

As opposed to men's Post Nut Clarity.

Where men get clearheaded AFTER the sex, women are clearheaded BEFORE the sex.

In dating, because it's the man who usually pursues women, women start out cold and indifferent and have a full understanding of their feelings about him - that is, UNTIL SEX HAPPENS and suddenly they're not so sure.

A woman can read her own emotions clearly as day as long as she keeps her legs closed. But the minute she opens her legs, her mind becomes clouded because emotions have poisoned her judgment: "Does she love this guy or is it just good sex?"

All this means: A woman may hate a man before sex only to like him after sex. While a man may like a woman before sex but hate her after sex.

It also means:

Sex simplifies things with a man.
Sex complicates things with a woman.

Sex pushes a man away.
Sex pulls a woman closer.

Sex makes a man logical.
Sex makes a woman emotional.

And because manipulation works best when a victim/target is emotional since then they're not thinking straight, a man is easiest to manipulate BEFORE sex. While a woman is easiest to manipulate AFTER sex. Which is why gold diggers stay celibate. It keeps men emotional while they themselves stay logical.

When it comes to sex, men are easy. They'll sleep with anything. But when it comes to commitment they're extremely choosy. Because then they're logical. Who men fvck is an emotional decision but who they marry is a logical decision.
When a man commits for marriage, that decision comes from a calm, quiet and sober place. A cold place. The same cold place his business decisions come from. And that place a man only enters after the excitement of emotions have passed and he has cooled down.

When a woman rains pussy on a man - overdosing him with sex - it's the harder she makes it for him to make a decision about their future because his logic has not engaged. The big head will not engage until the small head disengages. Small head handles the small decisions (sex). Big head handles the big decisions (marriage). That's why it's when a woman finally closes her legs, cuts off the sex and sometimes moves away temporarily or even temporarily breaks up with him, that a man will propose. Because the handover-takeover between dick and brain gets a chance to happen.

Sex will get you nowhere with men. You can put your panties back on. Because you're only hurting yourself trying to use sex to gain marriage.

YOU'RE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF TRYING TO USE SEX TO GAIN MARRIAGE.
When a woman opens her legs for a man, she opens her mind to that man. By taking her panties off, she's putting a gun to her own head. Because sex, for women, triggers the release of very powerful hormones in their brain which have a very specific job: to bond the woman with her sexual partner. These hormones are called bonding hormones. Think of them as super glue. And oxytocin is the strongest of them.

If sex is a gun, oxytocin is the bullet. And its the WOMAN HERSELF who takes this bullet in the brain. Oxytocin is dangerous because it awakens something peacefully sleeping inside a woman's mind: Love. And when a woman's love is awakened by sex with the wrong man at the wrong time, then the woman has hurt herself.

Song of Solomon 8:4 "I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awaken love, until it please."

AWAKENING LOVE BEFORE THE TIME.
When a man approaches a woman he's in his feelings. But the woman is indifferent/logical because at that stage the guy is but some random guy she just met. She's indifferent. Logical. But as the woman gets to know the guy she starts getting emotionally attached.

And it's easy to see that change happen:

At the beginning (the indifferent/logical stage), a woman is calculating and inquisitive because SHE'S SEARCHING FOR REASONS TO DISQUALIFY THE GUY. So it's always complaints: "he's a bad dresser", "he's not very good looking", "his house is not big enough", "his car is too old", "his job is not that great".

And her friends agree.

Then a few weeks or months later the complaints cease. And when her friends attack the man, the woman now comes out DEFENDING HIM and MAKING EXCUSES for him: "He's not that bad though", "He's a good guy once you get to know him", "he's been through a lot", "you guys don't know him like I do"...

What has changed?

The woman.

By getting to know the guy the woman has become attached. She has shifted from indifferent to caring. And most of the time it's because she has slept with the guy. Love is a game that women lose the moment they catch dick.

Women need to hold off sex with a new man for as long as possible - not to prove his love - but because the longer a woman waits on sex the longer she stays logical and rational, and able to keep her head in the Game. To properly strategize and play to win.

Sex gets women emotional, and sex before the right time (Premature Sex) gets women emotional BEFORE THE RIGHT TIME. And when a woman gets emotional before the right time, she'll be scoring own goals till infinity.

Premature Sex - sex before a woman has fully vetted a man - is dangerous for women because it cuts short the woman's process of correctly scrutinizing a man by moving her too soon from being Objective (unbiased and realistic because she's not attached) to being Subjective (biased and idealistic because she's now attached after sleeping with the guy). That all-important work of properly studying a man and gathering all the facts about him, to make an informed decision whether to accept or reject him, is canceled the moment sex happens.

Sex must only happen after this process completes. If sex happens BEFORE the process completes then that whole process - that entire fact finding mission - gets aborted. That sex is called Premature Sex.

Premature Sex is how women get stuck in relationships with broke men, abusive men and unproductive men.

The heart got involved before the head completed its work. The women shot themselves in the head. Shot themselves in the head with their own pussy.

Legs must remain closed. Because as long as a man's dick stays in his pants he stays emotional and dumb. While you stay logical and smart.


Happy 2021.

This guy still dey exist..

Nairaland residential feminist nightmare

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Nightsmoker:
Ubunja what you wrote doesnt apply to me, you failed here. If I chase a girl and she acts cold or indifferent I immediately drop her that moment, I only chase girls who shows quick interest in me.

I am the last man on earth that can ever be manipulated, right from my childhood I acted differently from the average human being.

failure will be when a woman disregards my words and wastes her time on you.

This writeup is for women to pick their target wisely. That's where you miss the point. ITS NOT ABOUT YOU.

Dope. Picked a thing or two already. Some men won't like this . They still don't understand. It's like fighting a war, you have knowledge of the opponent methods, use it to your own advantage & vice versa. Make yourself the wrong man. Aspiring Gold diggers also would learn when to move on. Or you can refuse to learn & make yourselves the victims

Holosho sisterhood have finally bought ubunja over. Ubunja is now standing with the enemies

SKhanmi:
Dope. Picked a thing or two already. Some men won't like this . They still don't understand. It's like fighting a war, you have knowledge of the opponent methods, use it to your own advantage & vice versa. Make yourself the wrong man. Aspiring Gold diggers also would learn when to move on. Or you can refuse to learn & make yourselves the victims

Exactly

ubunja:

MAKE YOURSELF THE WRONG MAN. That's about it bro. Yes.

Brothers need to read these writeups in reverse. Every trick that teaches women to gold dig, is a chance to learn to avoid it if you're a man. That's how the game goes.

Guys need to know that the things in the female Miseducations can really help them forge business arrangements with gold diggers. Find a cute girl and help her gold dig dumb men and see how you'll also benefit. The Game is broad. Guys need to understand it goes beyond just getting a GF.

In simple words be stingy with your money.

Regex:
Ubunja here is another bomb. Tbh I'd like you keep releasing female miseducation.

Key points/summary:

1. Although there are ice cold gold diggers, there are women who would want to Bleep you the minute you meet them. Points above is avoid the ice cold gold diggers.

2. Try to be logical whilst you can in your emotional state. Know when she's playing.

3. You don't have to reply everything that comes out of a woman's mouth so long as it's indirectly. The minute she makes her request usually indirectly, ignore but also plan what to say to her for when she will come directly.

I also forgot to add.

When you meet those ones ready to fuvk you instantly, YOUR VETTING STARTS IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE SEX

Gbam

PUNAengineOIL:
Holosho sisterhood have finally bought ubunja over. Ubunja is now standing with the enemies

big talk from someone who has named himself after a woman's private part.

Great work Mr. Ubunja!

ubunja:
big talk from someone who has named himself after a woman's private part.

ubunja:
big talk from someone who has named himself after a woman's private part.

SKhanmi:
Dope. Picked a thing or two already. Some men won't like this . They still don't understand. It's like fighting a war, you have knowledge of the opponent methods, use it to your own advantage & vice versa. Make yourself the wrong man. Aspiring Gold diggers also would learn when to move on. Or you can refuse to learn & make yourselves the victims

MAKE YOURSELF THE WRONG MAN. That's about it bro. Yes.

Brothers need to read these writeups in reverse. Every trick that teaches women to gold dig, is a chance to learn to avoid it if you're a man. That's how the game goes.

Guys need to know that the things in the female Miseducations can really help them forge business arrangements with gold diggers. Find a cute girl and help her gold dig dumb men and see how you'll also benefit. The Game is broad. Guys need to understand it goes beyond just getting a GF.

ubunja:
big talk from someone who has named himself after a woman's private part.

God forbid! It's just the moniker, not me.
But the way you now advice all these females...it's disturbing. No matter how much you teach them, they will still hate you.

Ubunja ubunja

Ubunja on the beat!
Nice one brother.Its only the wise guys that will learn from this writeup.The more u post such writeups about women, the more I learn about their game.Gracias bro.

I like reading your articles

PUNAengineOIL:
God forbid! It's just the moniker, not me.
But the way you now advice all these females...it's disturbing. No matter how much you teach them, they will still hate you.

and why are you bothered?

Agreed,

LadyTianna:
I like reading your articles

thank you. Stay blessed.

NoLotty7:
Agreed, when a man spend less on a woman equal to less commitment.Getting into the pant of any lady less her guard about you.
Happy New Year Ubunja.

that's the summary of it bro. Money is a man's emotions really.

And yes once you've fvcked a woman she's weak for you going forward. You can scam her any way you want.

Ubunja here is another bomb. Tbh I'd like you keep releasing female miseducation.

Key points/summary:

1. Although there are ice cold gold diggers, there are women who would want to Bleep you the minute you meet them. Points above is avoid the ice cold gold diggers.

2. Try to be logical whilst you can in your emotional state. Know when she's playing.

3. You don't have to reply everything that comes out of a woman's mouth so long as it's indirectly. The minute she makes her request usually indirectly, ignore but also plan what to say to her for when she will come directly.

I also forgot to add.

When you meet those ones ready to fuvk you instantly, YOUR VETTING STARTS IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE SEX

lkillbrokehoes:
Nairaland residential feminist nightmare

But he has been helping those dunderheads with miseducashins not to be exploited by men.

Only if some of the equally dumb men can read it in reverse and see how these ladies run format on them. It saves them a lot of pain.

"Sex gets women emotional, and sex before the right time (Premature Sex) gets women emotional BEFORE THE RIGHT TIME. And when a woman gets emotional before the right time, she'll be scoring own goals till infinity." - Ubunja

"Premature Sex is how women get stuck in relationships with broke men, abusive men and unproductive men." - Ubunja



Me: Mad Oooh. It is what it is �.

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[quote author=ubunja post=97686141]that's the summary of it bro. Money is a man's emotions really.

Regex:
Ubunja here is another bomb. Tbh I'd like you keep releasing female miseducation.

Key points/summary:

1. Although there are ice cold gold diggers, there are women who would want to Bleep you the minute you meet them. Points above is avoid the ice cold gold diggers.

2. Try to be logical whilst you can in your emotional state. Know when she's playing.

3. You don't have to reply everything that comes out of a woman's mouth so long as it's indirectly. The minute she makes her request usually indirectly, ignore but also plan what to say to her for when she will come directly.

I also forgot to add.

When you meet those ones ready to fuvk you instantly, YOUR VETTING STARTS IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE SEX

True man. I once talked about writing a Miseducation titled "Ice Kings", it is going to explore the same themes explored in this writeup. But deeper and from a male point of view this time.

But for men to stay logical at the start will be a challenge, unless they let women choose. Then this whole writeup is reversed.

Thanks man. How is your 2021 so far.

ubunja:
and why are you bothered?

Thanks for the Scope. Lemme go look for the right man to gold dig

Girls that tried writing female miseducations should be ashamed of themselves