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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by lomprico(m): 11:29pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

you will get over it, just try and avoid all things that remind you of her. hang around loved ones more. pele. I was once in your shoes 7yr+

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by olusamuel01: 11:31pm On Dec 04, 2020
Bro... there's always a better person out there. Rejection is redirection. I know this because I just recently recovered from one. It might seem now like you might never get over it, but trust me you will

Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?[/quote]

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by fdigital(m): 11:32pm On Dec 04, 2020
Start flirting, selectively, only extremely beautiful women whose beauty
and intelligence surpasses hers, you'll get fine in no time.
secondly never ever ever ever confess you cheated to a person you
dating. Go to your grave with it. What you don't know don't hurt. Better
luck next time.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by MilkANDpepper: 11:33pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

I had similar experience so I can relate. The words sister, and friend you used here tells me to a very good extent what you're going through. To be honest with you, you may not get over it completely. What you should do now is let your inner self understand that THESE KIND OF THINGS HAPPEN. Don't turn to alcohol or the likes, It will only make you more miserable. Just increase your love for God and do more of volunteering to help people in need. Sorry bro.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by BlackKing555: 11:33pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful


Bros how old you be?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by paul100(m): 11:34pm On Dec 04, 2020
Sorry OP.Six years is a very long time.I fit study engineering and do Nysc join.Take heart bro.I pray you find someone better than her.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Morenikeji070: 11:35pm On Dec 04, 2020
Some folks like you don't have sense at all. The guy knew motherfucker silly ass mess folks like you are many on this page that's why this dude begged that he need fool ass Nigga
thatsleepboy1:
buy a thick towel and soak it inside hot oil and use it to massage your chest.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by BLoomfrancs(m): 11:35pm On Dec 04, 2020
SmellySperm:
good for u,wen we advise y'all simps that there's nothing like true love anymore y'all will tag us redpillers..
nothing like true love anymore, everyone is in a relationship for a beneficial reason, fall in love at ur own peril


Hahaha. The cat just depicts the mood.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by berrystunn(m): 11:39pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Drinking and smoking weed... Will go along way
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Indigine689: 11:39pm On Dec 04, 2020
look up to JESUS, repent and he will help you and set you up at the right time..shalom

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by bepositive11: 11:40pm On Dec 04, 2020
What would you do if she cheated on you?

Why are some men like this? Men like you will happily cheat on a woman, knowing that if she cheats on you, you won't be able to tolerate the pain.

You may think that it's just cheating, that it's just sex, but it's so much more than that! You broke her trust. Why would anyone want to be with someone they cannot trust? If she cheated on you and broke your trust as a result, would you ever be able to trust her ever again? Hell no, right?

If she continues staying with you, it will be tormeting for her. When you come home late, she will be wondering whether you cheated on her again. She will always be suspicious. It's mental torture. Plus, you put her at risk of contracting STDs.

I personally will never tolerate a partner who cheats, even if it's just once. She may still love you, but she is doing what's best for her mentally and emotionally. You hurt her really bad, much worse than you're feeling right now. The fact that you're feeling guilty about cheating shows that you are a good man to some extent. Let her go. Learn from this experience and next time you get into a relationship, don't cheat.

Do onto others what you want them to do onto you. If you don't want to be cheated on, don't cheat on her. If you don't want to get hurt, don't hurt her.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by CaraJewel(f): 11:41pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:

Really are we perfect?
want to ask if she was the one that cheated,would you still be there?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by berrystunn(m): 11:46pm On Dec 04, 2020
Part of life
How old are you?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by skedy1(m): 11:47pm On Dec 04, 2020
Just cast your reflection on how you survived 2020
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Epeegee(m): 11:48pm On Dec 04, 2020
My girlfriend of 6 years just broke up with me 3 weeks ago,all I had been doing since then is making more money because nothing gives me joy than money
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by One4me: 11:48pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Go on your knees and pray to God for Strength.
Read the Book of Psalms and if you can exercise Faith, you will be shocked at how much strength God will give you.
It does not matter who is at fault, God will not send away a grieving heart.

BTW, l hope this is a lesson to you men who hinge your happiness on the opposite gender.
Infact, never hinge your happiness on any humanbeing because you will be disappointed, afterall, they are just humans.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by One4me: 11:52pm On Dec 04, 2020
JovialJune:



When you cheated on her, you forgot you have someone that meant everything to you abi? Yeyenatu ni e.

Sharrap dea, Ms. Over-Righteous.
If we begin to judge you of your own sins now, you will come out as filthy rags.
All God needs is a contrite heart, not castigate sinners.
If he is sorry for his actions who the hell are you to say he cannot be forgotten?
Abeg, swerve.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Myhusband(m): 11:55pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful


who break the relationship or what break it? in this your post you didn't express who at fault or what led to the breakup

there can't be any solution, if a problem is not pointed out


a 6years relationship is better than divorce in the marriage, I've lost relationship of 10 good years before but all thanks to champion league matches and game that take that thought away from me


brace up, dilute your emotions, blocked any communication with her, delete all her pictures, download nice phone games, read motivational Novel about life and after life

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 11:56pm On Dec 04, 2020
CaraJewel:
want to ask
if she was the one that cheated,would you still be there?

Asked her same and she said she knows I would forgive n let go. But how come mine is dis hard

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by zubimete(f): 11:57pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by simplesearch: 11:58pm On Dec 04, 2020
Six years of just sulking on each other? or what could have define a relationship that linger so long and benefit you so much without you making it good. What exactly were you people doing within that long period of time, the possibles could be that you both were committing immorality all through that period, while neglecting to develop yourselves. Inorderword there was little or tangible progress in both of your lives making her believe you are done for in your pursuit of success, and may not really go far in life.
Whatever the case may be if you both have been committing sin all along, the first step to healing is seeking forgiveness from God otherwise if you bypass this important step you will only make yourself a container for trouble. After this, be steadfast in your walk with God, devil may even want to bring her back after giving your life to Christ dont accept her back its satan plot to destroy your new found faith in Christ, remember Samson. Once you do this you will be healed by the power of Gods Spirit. It doesn't take God much time to heal a brokenhearted sinner who repent of their sins.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Phemact1: 11:59pm On Dec 04, 2020
Bro, you have to be strong and be courageous, I once in your shoe all I have to do is to be smiling and focus on my work and study at the end I give thanks to God ooo.
You may not know what God has done for you now until ypu overcome it.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by tete7000(m): 12:14am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful


Your heart is not suppose to have been handed over to a human in the first instance, it belongs to God. Do the rightful, yield it to God and you will be alright.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by DOD88: 12:17am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful


So sorry for experiencing this unpalatable situation. One of the ways you can overcome this ugly trend is to avail yourself of Christian spiritual remedies. Get close to God, attend services and mingle with brethren, read scriptural stories on how God healed the brokenhearted, listen and sing gospel songs, etc. When you are engaged in all these, you will see yourself bubbling in life again.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Ejiod(m): 12:19am On Dec 05, 2020
Love is beautiful.
Just move on. 98% of men have been there.
When mine happened it was as if the earth stopped rotating. I braced up and moved on.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 12:22am On Dec 05, 2020
same thing happened to me early last year, but I converted the energy into something productive... Worked my ass out to get this money, not minding shits.
Today she is trying to get back but naahhhh, I've moved.
Good luck Brother

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Mirror97: 12:28am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

I'm sorry to say this bro.. You're a dick head
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Burgerlomo: 12:30am On Dec 05, 2020
falcon01:
well well well look who woke up, urmm you just have to pack those broken heart and make them into something beautiful.

Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Ratedgang: 12:31am On Dec 05, 2020
nothing good comes easy.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Ratedgang: 12:32am On Dec 05, 2020
;Drr grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Mirror97:


I'm sorry to say this bro.. You're a dick head
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Thavik(m): 12:33am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

So sorry you have to go through this. I hope you eventually find peace

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