surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Do not give yourself unnecessary stress or hypertension over nothing because there is nothing new under the sun, so my advice to you is to just gather yourself together and move on period, I wish you all the best.

Werey dey disguise! You cheated, she left you and na you dey cry about heartbreak? Karma's a biatch my nigga, you're lucky she no cut off your joystick

surebona:


That's the point brother. I really don't have friends in Lagos that we are that close. And the few times I drank made the whole thing worse I was force to start bugging her lines....

before you go drinking...delete all her contacts

surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

So you're a simp and an idíot at the same time. This is very rare

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Well can’t say much bcs I don’t know what led to the heart break. But there is this Igbo saying! “Ihe Oma Adiro Agwu Agwu” translates better things no dy finish. Just brace your self for a better relationship. Forgive whom ever that broke your heart bcs if you don’t you will be holding yourself down. Cry when the heart get heavy and laugh also to the beautiful memories. Then set your heart to making better memories. During these times devil gon play you many tapes don’t listen to the loser he would say anything to make you as miserable as himself. Good luck finding that better half of you.

surebona:
Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?

The obvious answer is yes, from what you posted below.

surebona:
I have cried and still crying.....
Na me cheat, na me confess, na me dey cry...

I really don't know if it's a sign of weakness but believe me, I cry basically everyday begging her not to leave me but everyday is always worse than the previous. I no even know when I go stop to dey cry self....

So yes, I cry for a girl I love. Because I cheated on her. But wait, how can you cheat on a girl you say you love?

Nazgul:

Suicide what....don't say that again. You want to kill yourself over a woman who has made it crystal clear that it's over between you too. Haba don't say that again.

One of the best way to make your ex regret leaving you is to work hard and attain massive success. She would sit in agony and regret why she left you. So begin your journey to the top, and forget about her. When you get to the top everyone including her would celebrate your success.

Good luck

let him commit suicide plz! After all he won't be the first and not the last to do that. Deputy Romeo go die cos of kpekus

surebona:
That's the point brother. I really don't have friends in Lagos that we are that close. And the few times I drank made the whole thing worse I was force to start bugging her lines....

Always remember that there is value in scarcity.

Bigggloadofcum:
Just wake up every morning then scream

FVCK Y'ALL BITCHES. It works magic. Trust me

surebona:
How can I mean nothing to her after those years

Because you confessed your cheating.

hmmm

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

naso the thing go, las las u will be alright,common guy u will get over it,my heartbeak issue is worse than yours,so for me to get over it,I believe u will

You'd be fine bro, We all experience heartbreaks at some point. You just need to be strong for yourself. No one is worth making you sad especially someone who leaves you heart broken.

Get up and shake it off Bro.

surebona:
She is at no fault.. I'm just wondering

Try wondering that she cheated on you, but was not foolish enough to confess, as you did.
Such wondering should ease your breakup pain.

break her leg

She is not meant for u bro, ''person no de marry person wife''. What ever'll b, will always b.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

I don't know if I'm in the best position to advice you cos no girl has actually broke up with me without running back but one thing I know that works well is for you to act composed.

Don't even act as if you care and always think about the things you don't like about her as this will help you move on fast.

I also understand that there are always better girls out there but you won't realize this until you learn to let go.

Having one girlfriend is like having none
Una no they hear word now you are looking for help

surebona:
Asked her same and she said she knows I would forgive n let go. But how come mine is dis hard

So sorry to say that she knows you are a simpleton in love, AND she may have cheated on you already without confessing.

Block her off all social media . Stop communication for now.
To heal a wound you have to stop touching it
But you have to give it time...allow you go thru the process.

To begin your healing stop touching it....disconnect from her . If possible ghost on her ,no calls ,no chats ,no communication, just move on...

So many were even caught and nothing happened,
Just stop blaming yourself and move.
Just continue moving she might rush with Keke to come and meet you in the front, but if she doesn't then definitely you will meet your real partner in the front.

surebona:



She has made it clear that she can't. And have never seen her so certain.. I am just confused and wish I could find myself in the future feeling better

If you want her back just send her a WhatsApp or text message telling her she failed the test. That you set a test for her and she failed Try to get her to know that no sane man will cheat on his woman and confess to her. After saying all these don't call or visit her. She'll start thinking and getting confused and if she really loves you she come back.

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Nature abhors vacuum, fall in love with another person.

Move on, time is the ultimate healer

surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind

Mumu! you better forget her already because you were obviously an option to her. ANY woman who is not a virgin should be treated as second hand. Don't worship pvssy.

Succeeding in life got me over my biggest heartbreak.

God just saved you from a future disaster and you are crying on Nairaland because you missed her kpekus . Cheer up, increase hustle and divert attention to flow of your new hustling and you will thank God later when you hear about her misdemeanors .

Damn man I’ve been through that road myself to be honest it’s not an easy drive. Please send me your number let’s talk.

Raylight2:

you're funny. guess this is to make him cheer up and to let him know that it's never the end of life. there's someone better.

you got what I meant.....

OdefaGirl:

Don't show yourself here...go and sleep

your moniker says it all

odefa m kwo ókwú gị gbụo onwé gí

Las las you go dey alright