Cheers

I love what your father did, the money should be griven back to the husband. I don't know why are angry about someone's money You better go find better work

If you can behave like this as a brother, I wonder how greedy you would be when you have daughters. Na auction you go just dey auction them to highest bidder so you can use the money for selfish reasons.

LMAO!

I would come back to comment!

Modified:
I was going to leave my comment now, but I realized that the good Nairalanders below my comment have done well!

porshnuel:
I was born into an average family of 3 ....two female nd me and I am 23...i will go straight to the point .my sister bride price was paid in cash (300k)recently...and my mother said my share in the money as the only son is 20k out of 300k...I became angry and refused to collect ...the only excuse she gave was that her pastor said that the money is not was waste...that giving me more than that is a waste...and she is aware of my plan of renting a new apartment January....

I just want to know if that amount is fair for the first and only son ..am not been entitled ...but put yourself in my shoes

Note:my father says he doesn't want anything from the money...that he is not selling his daughter he only wants her happiness.

Note: I stay in abuja but my mom stays in the village

Fixed 300k? Is your sister a commodity? Is your mother and other greedy members of your family selling her? Better don't partake in the sharing. If the husband later discovers she's a bad product and return her and request for a refund of his money, hope you'll be able to cough out the portion you consumed?

Lazy youth. One day you go marry.

My 3 sisters have married and my dad it a law when he was alife that only a note of the bride price should be accepted be it 1000 or 500 or 200 and that we should return the the rest and ask them to use the money and register her in all women groups that she is eligible to join in the community.
He said he wants his daughter well registered and not like a lagos wife.

Bride price in my place is 24 cowries. And because cowries are no longer in use, this was converted to 24 Naira. It is only demanded because it is customary. Female children are not meant to be 'sold for profit'. It demeans the marriage and the lady herself.

My place is different from yours, I know. My advice to you is accept 'your share' and move on, or ignore the entire money.

Born2Breed:
Lazy youth. One day you go marry.

Lol...am trying my best...naija hard....remember I stay alone in abuja

UniqRight:


Fixed 300k? Is your sister a commodity? Is your mother and other greedy members of your family selling her? Better don't partake in the sharing. If the husband later discovers she's a bad product and return her and request for a refund of his money, hope you'll be able to cough out the portion you consumed?

Seriously I just pity the husband, this guy will be a burden on him

Bola146:


Seriously I just pity the husband, this guy will be a burden on him

I have never seen him with my eyes ...don't have his number.have never spoken to him on phone.....I know my worth I don't beg .an i dont care..

thesicilian:
Bride price in my place is 24 cowries. And because cowries are no longer in use, this was converted to 24 Naira. It is only demanded because it is customary. Female children are not meant to be 'sold for profit'. It demeans the marriage and the lady herself.

Differnt culture different tradition....den no point gun for him head

porshnuel:

Differnt culture different tradition....den no point gun for him head

Bro if you do in-depth research , you'll be surprised to find out that that 300k was not set by their traditional institutions, just a greedy demand from the families that will definitely increase over time to meet up with inflation rates.

Abeg which state be that Op?

thesicilian:

Bro if you do in-depth research, you'll be surprised to find out that that 300k was not set by their traditional institutions, just a greedy demand from the families that will definitely increase over time to meet up with inflation rates.

The man see fine church girl....lol...

Mutemenot:
Abeg which state be that Op?

That is not the essence of the post....read topic again...shalom

porshnuel:


Lol...am trying my best...naija hard....remember I stay alone in abuja

If you can not sustain yourself in Abuja and need your sister's bride price to pay rent, it is a clear indication you are not doing well and better head back to the village.

Your father who gave birth and raised your sister, no put mind for the money while you are here claiming first and only son with the irrational thought that you have been cheated out. Is it not a man like you that paid the bride price?

Mindlog:


If you can not sustain yourself in Abuja and need your sister's bride price to pay rent, it is a clear indication you are not doing well and better head back to the village.

Your father who gave birth and raised your sister, no put mind for the money, while you are here claiming first and only son with the irrational thought that you have been cheated out. Is it not a man like you that paid the bride price?

Lol bro give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar ....bride price or no bride price ...rent must be paid

thesicilian:
Bride price in my place is 24 cowries. And because cowries are no longer in use, this was converted to 24 Naira. It is only demanded because it is customary. Female children are not meant to be 'sold for profit'. It demeans the marriage and the lady herself.

My place is different from yours, I know. My advice to you is accept 'your share' and move on, or ignore the entire money.

Bros are you from Benin?

porshnuel:


I have never seen him with my eyes ...don't have his number.have never spoken to him on phone.....I know my worth I don't beg .an i dont care..

You know your worth, you don't beg, but you feel entitled to money that you shouldn't even smell

You don't care, but you care enough to know that 20k is too small for you,

Go and hustle for your own accommodation money dude, nobody owes you a dime, or any share of bride price, you are not her father,

So many weak entitled dull lazy males springing up these days, it's worrisome, look at the way he said first and only son as if there is an award attached to it,

I blame your father, he didn't stamp his foot to make sure the bride price is returned, if he did, you wouldn't be here yapping about.

porshnuel:

Lol bro give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar ....bride price or no bride price ...rent must be paid

Entitlement mentality of the highest order!

Are you even Caesar in this case?

porshnuel:

Lol bro give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar ....bride price or no bride price ...rent must be paid

Through your sister's bride price?

It's either you are a troll or a legit asinwin, so which is it?

porshnuel:

That is not the essence of the post....read topic again...shalom

Each state has tradition. so it's probably a tradition to give u 20k but, how do I know if I don't know the state in question

porshnuel:

Lol bro give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar ....bride price or no bride price ...rent must be paid

It still baffles me you are at discord with your mother over the N20k given to you from the bride price paid by a brother-in-law you claimed "I have never seen him with my eyes ...don't have his number, have never spoken to him on phone."

I didn't even know brothers can receive from their sister's bride price. You sound so entitled, person go think say na you train the girl

porshnuel:
I was born into an average family of 3 ....two female nd me and I am 23...i will go straight to the point .my sister bride price was paid in cash (300k)recently...and my mother said my share in the money as the only son is 20k out of 300k...I became angry and refused to collect ...the only excuse she gave was that her pastor said that the money is not was waste...that giving me more than that is a waste...and she is aware of my plan of renting a new apartment January....

I just want to know if that amount is fair for the first and only son ..am not been entitled ...but put yourself in my shoes

Note:my father says he doesn't want anything from the money...that he is not selling his daughter he only wants her happiness.

Note: I stay in abuja but my mom stays in the village

your sister with over 100 body count do not worth 300k as bride price, she should be married for free, in fact, the simp that paid that money is mad #nonsense

Tony142:





your sister with over 100 body count do not worth 300k as bride price, she should be married for free, in fact, the simp that paid that money is mad #nonsense

Am a redpiller as well so I take no offence

porshnuel:

Am a redpiller as well so I take no offence

nice one

porshnuel:


Am a redpiller as well so I take no offence

Your sister is unfortunate to have a brother like you who cannot even defend her honour, but demands for a share of her bride price.

porshnuel:


Am a redpiller as well so I take no offence

A broke redpiller who do not believe in marriage but feels entitled to a bigger chunk of bride price paid by a "simp" to pay his bills.........shame no dey your side.at all.

I don't really need the money....bt if I must collect it must worth it....if not for security reasons.....I just patiently waiting for white wedding when contribution time reach them go remember me as man of the house....so I will just chill and take my pound of flesh....lol

Mindlog:


A broke redpiller who do not believe in marriage but feels entitled to a bigger chunk of bride price paid by a "simp" to pay hid bills.........shame no dey your side.at all.

Love na scam...what are simps for? SIMPs will continue paying our bills till de realise women are nt worth it....death to SIMPs tueh