ALOCORA:
Nairalanders, please i need your candid opinion on this issue. Would you as a christian allow your wife of 17years practice islam which she claimed to be her new faith in your home as against your wish. Even bringing Alfas /Clerics to come and appeal to you.

thorpido:
Where did she find the new faith?
An ideal home should be of one faith.

Foreseer:
Which kind question be this

How can a sane person choose islam over christianity, except the person wants to go into the business of banditry and terrorism.

Without islam, the world would have been relatively safer and peaceful.

Jeon:
lolz since I'm not religious


I left this for ppl with and practice the religion but still have black heart...


*leaving the thread *

Suspect1:
Then you should'nt have comment noise maker!

Foreseer:
Which kind question be this

How can a sane person choose islam over christianity, except the person wants to go into the business of banditry and terrorism.

Without islam, the world would have been relatively safer and peaceful.

Kobojunkie:
According to whom? Jesus Christ who instead said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 ?

rickleye:
1. Dude we are still in this world, In early bodies.

2. So until we are in heaven in his kingdom . Marriages abound.

3. Sin abounds but grace abounds much more.

ALOCORA:
Nairalanders, please i need your candid opinion on this issue. Would you as a christian allow your wife of 17years practice islam which she claimed to be her new faith in your home as against your wish. Even bringing Alfas /Clerics to come and appeal to you.

Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ told you that the moment you become born-again, you enter into the Kingdom of God - John 3 vs 1 - 8 - this while you are still here in this world. So, are you somehow insinuating that you are under no obligations to obey Jesus Christ while you are here on earth or something?

And what early bodies do you speak of? Do you somehow need another kind of body before you can be expected to obey Jesus Christ's commandments to you?

2. Your marriages are bound according to whose law? God's or the world's laws?

3. Sin abounds but grace much more? What does that even mean? Are you insinuating that sin and grace are in some sort of competition??

rickleye:
1. What I am insinuating is that when you become born gain . Your spirit is alive - reborn . Your spirit is the real you . We live in an early flesh ( body) and possess a soul . We now have to present our bodies as a living sacrifice etc etc in Romans 12.

2. We are still on earth and subject to gravity and laws of this physical earth. Yes,’we obey Jesus Christ and in which he laid down his life to his bride the church .
There is no marriage in heaven but here on earth … As Jesus is the head of the church ( his bride) and the bridegroom so is man the ordained head/leader of his marriage.

ALOCORA:
Nairalanders, please i need your candid opinion on this issue. Would you as a christian allow your wife of 17years practice islam which she claimed to be her new faith in your home as against your wish. Even bringing Alfas /Clerics to come and appeal to you.

ALOCORA:

Reading all opinions have cleared a substantial part of my frustration.

I deliberately twist the case the other way. This is a true life situation in my home/marriage
1. 17years of marriage
2. Married my wife as a muslim lady then
3. She started visiting churches when i was out of the country in 2018 just for 3 months
4. All sort of pastors will invite her to mountains for prayers.
5. Started attending sunday services in my environ. Estate.
6. Going to vigils on fridays
7. Going with the children when am not home.

In all of this situations i let her know that i will not be able to bear her practice but she was adamant

Fast forward, she has turned to prayer warrior now, most nights she will not allow me sleep.

She even packed all her things and moved to the children room.

She brings her pastors to our home mostly when am not home for prayers.

She has turned our children to her new faith.

Any little matter in the home she calls her pastors to report and they could not even call me , the church is in my estate i know all of them

Now my concern is
1. Is it morally right for pastors to encourage a woman whose husband is of a different faith and who they new quite well is a Muslim to attend their church without confirming the husband position.
2. Will it be seen as excessive or inordinate if i choose to part way with her as she is no longer submisive to the marriage vows and peace but to her pastors.
3. I am a moslem and have chosen to be abide by my believes while i also understand her rights too but i will rather live with a woman of a similar faith as that was a condition i set for my marriage.
4. She has not be submissive since her going to church.

This has degerated to crisis in my home since last year september while i have chosen to stay away from her.

How dare you twist the whole thing

Honestly, what she did was wrong by taking the kids to her new faith without informing you or discussing it with you... And the pastor has no right to force your wife to attend church service....She attended on her own freewill without informing you... pastors have no say if the congregation will or will not attend church service...

So you know, Christianity does not teach women not to be submissive...Can two work together except they have agreed?...

In my opinion, religion should not be the reason why both of you should go your separate ways. But if you are not happy anymore with the relationship, instead of committing murder and we have another Osinachi's husband in our hand, file for a divorce based on irreconcilable differences.....

rickleye:


I’ll tell you a personal story.
My cousin a Christian married his Muslim wife. It was an issue with his dad as he did not see a way the couple could unite and survive conflicts in the marriage.
It was such an issue that he said they would get married over his dead body. The wife’s family came over and tried to appeal to him. He put his foot down and said nope.
They got married and the dad didn’t attend.
He became a pastor and the wife maintained her Islam faith. They would celebrate both holidays - Christmas , Easter , Ramadan , Big and Small ileya. They have kids - they all have both Christian and Muslim names.
The wife after 17 years of seeing her husband minister and show his faith up close decided that she seen enough and converted to Christianity. Her family are still Muslim but some have converted also due to the power on display through prayer and acts of faith.

Side Note - I see a lot of caucasians move from Christianity to Islam ( mostly those that do are from Catholic backgrounds and out of curiosity ) and most blacks that do are usually those that had a stint in prison and they see Christianity as the white mans religion.
Your case is the first I’ve heard someone who was a practicing Christian convert to Islam.

So to your question - my advice would be that they keep the Alfas and Pastors outside of the home or when one party is not home. Except if they have come to visit ( party etc) but all religiosity should be conducted at the various places of worship. It’s not an ideal situation but hey, crap happens !!!

blazingblender:
Jeeez women
Are so confused why ?
So what made her leave the Christianity na ??
Well me no go gree ooh
Two people with different belief cant work together to achieve one purpose

ALOCORA:

Reading all opinions have cleared a substantial part of my frustration.

I deliberately twist the case the other way. This is a true life situation in my home/marriage
1. 17years of marriage
2. Married my wife as a muslim lady then
3. She started visiting churches when i was out of the country in 2018 just for 3 months
4. All sort of pastors will invite her to mountains for prayers.
5. Started attending sunday services in my environ. Estate.
6. Going to vigils on fridays
7. Going with the children when am not home.

In all of this situations i let her know that i will not be able to bear her practice but she was adamant

Fast forward, she has turned to prayer warrior now, most nights she will not allow me sleep.

She even packed all her things and moved to the children room.

She brings her pastors to our home mostly when am not home for prayers.

She has turned our children to her new faith.

Any little matter in the home she calls her pastors to report and they could not even call me , the church is in my estate i know all of them

Now my concern is
1. Is it morally right for pastors to encourage a woman whose husband is of a different faith and who they new quite well is a Muslim to attend their church without confirming the husband position.
2. Will it be seen as excessive or inordinate if i choose to part way with her as she is no longer submisive to the marriage vows and peace but to her pastors.
3. I am a moslem and have chosen to be abide by my believes while i also understand her rights too but i will rather live with a woman of a similar faith as that was a condition i set for my marriage.
4. She has not be submissive since her going to church.

This has degerated to crisis in my home since last year september while i have chosen to stay away from her.

Kobojunkie:
According to whom? Jesus Christ who instead said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 ?

ALOCORA:

Reading all opinions have cleared a substantial part of my frustration.

I deliberately twist the case the other way. This is a true life situation in my home/marriage
1. 17years of marriage
2. Married my wife as a muslim lady then
3. She started visiting churches when i was out of the country in 2018 just for 3 months
4. All sort of pastors will invite her to mountains for prayers.
5. Started attending sunday services in my environ. Estate.
6. Going to vigils on fridays
7. Going with the children when am not home.

In all of this situations i let her know that i will not be able to bear her practice but she was adamant

Fast forward, she has turned to prayer warrior now, most nights she will not allow me sleep.

She even packed all her things and moved to the children room.

She brings her pastors to our home mostly when am not home for prayers.

She has turned our children to her new faith.

Any little matter in the home she calls her pastors to report and they could not even call me , the church is in my estate i know all of them

Now my concern is
1. Is it morally right for pastors to encourage a woman whose husband is of a different faith and who they new quite well is a Muslim to attend their church without confirming the husband position.
2. Will it be seen as excessive or inordinate if i choose to part way with her as she is no longer submisive to the marriage vows and peace but to her pastors.
3. I am a moslem and have chosen to be abide by my believes while i also understand her rights too but i will rather live with a woman of a similar faith as that was a condition i set for my marriage.
4. She has not be submissive since her going to church.

This has degerated to crisis in my home since last year september while i have chosen to stay away from her.

ALOCORA:
Nairalanders, please i need your candid opinion on this issue. Would you as a christian allow your wife of 17years practice islam which she claimed to be her new faith in your home as against your wish. Even bringing Alfas /Clerics to come and appeal to you.

simpleseyi:


The people that exported your forefathers to their land to work as Slaves are Christian Missionaries

thorpido:
Na wa for you o Kobojunkie. God initiated marriage.

And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Gen 2:22-24.

ImaIma1:


Kobo's understanding and interpretation of the Bible is obviously twisted. No point in engaing in an argument. It will just rip you of what you already know. And that is the point of the "twistedness"

thorpido:
Na wa for you o Kobojunkie. God initiated marriage.

And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Gen 2:22-24.