angelfallz:


you're being evasive.


Sorry oga, you're the one with the baggage, if you can't even acknowledge that women should be held accountable for their actions. smh


The man is not a real man according to you.
Again you are silent on the actions of the woman and downplaying verbal abuse/assault. A woman that resorts to verbal abuse needs serious psychological help. But of course you would never admit it would you?


i am very sure the law is not silent on verbal assault. so you see, your bias won't get you anywhere. This is the real world too.

Please go back and answer my questions and stop being evasive.

the law would rather adjudicate on physical assault becos its universally frowned upon

Fiscus105:


Sooooo everyone must put all blames on brother- in -law, no matter what sister do that led to fight, she should be ignored.

Is wife not frustrating a times?

Let me tell u fact, character wise, woman has 75% contribution to make her marriage work, I will indulge you to take this bitter truth to ur husband house, if you want to have peace and not ready for married and remarried.

the best you can do is avert danger

easzypeaszy:
I hit my wife 2days ago but still apologize..came home early from work...she told me she would love to eat beans in d morning so I decide to prepare it b4 she comes back so we can all eat.
Wen she came back I told her av cooked beans so wht wl u love to use to eat it bread or garri she replied is dis useles beans u called beans...I was in d shop instead of u to come n assist me after u come back from work u r here cooking beans..I don't even kw ur use.
I was so angry n I told her whts ur use to in d house I pay all bills even tho I rented d shop for u..she said see senseless talk...so I use d half pure water n prinkle water on her...she brought d whole beans and a bucket of water n pure on me on chair...didn't even kw wen I gave her 2slaps

women!

LINTUNE:
1 or 2 slaps to reset my woman's brain when she messes up, is obviously not an abuse, if u call that an abuse, what would u qualify the illustration pic of the op? ..dont quote me again..

some people will call it an assault

Hathor5:


Too bad!

Because you are the product of dysfunction upbringing

Fiscus105:


If your own brother is beating ur sister, I'm sure you will stab ur brother as well. At its also male vs female

My brother would never beat my sister or any woman at all.. We are properly cultured and well trained by our parents.. When you cannot tolerate a woman, walk away. Don't bully because you are stronger it is wrong!

pyro62:


My brother would never beat my sister or any woman at all.. We are properly cultured and well trained by our parents.. When you cannot tolerate a woman, walk away. Don't bully because you are stronger it is wrong!

.the way you sound says a lot about ur upbringing, indeed you are cultured, in ur own family, you don't use to angry not to talk of quarrel, madam park well, if you like take it if you leave it.

Ur brother in law is also part of ur extended family ,killing, maiming or forcefully separate them without first settle rift will not solve problems, it will on aggravate it, none of ur family can take care of ur sister and kids with his or her responsibility

Fiscus105:


.the way you sound says a lot about ur upbringing, indeed you are cultured, in ur own family, you don't use to angry not to talk of quarrel, madam park well, if you like take it if you leave it.

Ur brother in law is also part of ur extended family ,killing, maiming or forcefully separate them without first settle rift will not solve problems, it will on aggravate it, none of ur family can take care of ur sister and kids with his or her responsibility

Well, at the end of the day, you are entitled to your own opinion. For me, whoever is marrying my sister came to ask for a wife and not a punching bag. And that is why I insist that if such occurs, his family that came to marry the wife with him must be summoned for a crucial meeting. That's how things are done where I am from.

Liposure:
the law would rather adjudicate on physical assault becos its universally frowned upon

You're right. however, there is a growing awareness about the dangers of verbal abuse.

Liposure:
some people will call it an assault

ok

nautybride:
He is in danger already. I will silently move out of the house to get petrol and matches. I will pour him petrol and threaten him with matches.Next time, I will gun him down or acidify his body.

ah!

TheLionofLasigi:


I always knew you were a dimwit.

Said by a known fool... E nor surprise me

missyblissy:


Op first I will take my sister out of there.
Secondly investigate to the abuse. If it had been going on for a while madam your life is precious. You decide on what to do. If you can't continue please file for divorce and I will not encourage her to stay in an abusive relationship. Na one life God give all of us. Better use it wisely.

As for the guy I won't say a word to him. Just tell him to come and take. Back his bride price. I gave my sis to you to. Marry not a ponging bag.

No matter the anger or whatever my sis said to him he has no right to hit her. If you can't take it leave that environment. Go cool off and come back.

For me I have trained myself on how to keep mute when am angry or when I know there's going to be quarrel. I go just turn mumu and my reply will be one one word. Yes, No, OK.. Whatever you say in anger whether you don't mean it those words can never return. It's better to keep quiet.
It's not easy oooo. It take the grace of God I tell you. When you see your partner screaming and you can't scream too as both parties are not listening to each other. There are no captains in a ship, two people cannot be mad at same time.

You are very discipline, I like that

seanwilliam:
If I was the one , I’ll try separate the fight amicably. I won’t even take the kids away, cos marriage people no be am.. I can’t be fighting another man in his domain .. what if I get killed in the process ?
and if someone’ slaps my mama, I will still settle it amicably. In as much as she was at fault.. and even if was not at fault, I’ll play a role of Jesus Christ , what if the opponent is much more stronger than I am? It will be a case of ‘ he beat the mother and him pikin join ‘ if instablog kon carry am we don be for us

My mom is actually a peace maker so I kinda doubt if she would get into a fight not to talk of getting beaten up .

And if my wife provokes me, I will not beat her , but I will just give her a two or three resounding slaps to make her head correct , then I’ll commot for house for two weeks straight,


I’m a lover of peace jare

you are redpilled

Obarofrederick:
You are very discipline, I like that

True story.

Woman went to her family home to show her big swollen eye where her husband punched her.

Thankfully wise heads prevailed and the asked the man what happened.

They had an argument over something (she started the argument by the way not that it matters) at the time he was holding their 1 year old son.

She then started pulling his shorts down threatening to tear his blokos away from his body and punching the general area (remember he was carrying their chid).

When he realised that the one hand he was using to pull his shorts up wasn't working and the shorts were indeed coming down, he punched her in the face.

In the end, her family made her beg him. All the hot heads that wanted to extract retribution joined in begging him.

Those of us that were insulted for being cautious about such a one sided story and not wanting to immediately go and retaliate, especially knowing the nature of both the man and the womam, are still waiting for an apology.

Husband are wife are together occasionally arguing in but still enjoying their 10+ years marraige.

Regardless of the picture you see, especially between a man and his wife, do not jump in immediately.

Brandonx:
I already dropped my opinion, I think I was the first to comment or so. Have I bullied you before?

If it's a queston , then ask google .

Mckhala80:
If it's a queston , then ask google .

Are you sure you are okay ?
Why would you mention me on a thread I've even forgotten I dropped a comment ?
For months now I barely drop comments on threads, I read and Move on to the next so where is this coming from ?

Brandonx:

Are you sure you are okay ?
Why would you mention me on a thread I've even forgotten I dropped a comment ?
For months now I barely drop comments on threads, I read and Move on to the next so where is this coming from ?

Glad u knw that u dropped comments months back. Wise up inugo, sound minded man.

Brandonx:

I already dropped my opinion, I think I was the first to comment or so.
Have I bullied you before?

Yeah you did ! You bullied our girl friend .