easzypeaszy:
I hit my wife 2days ago but still apologize..came home early from work...she told me she would love to eat beans in d morning so I decide to prepare it b4 she comes back so we can all eat.
Wen she came back I told her av cooked beans so wht wl u love to use to eat it bread or garri she replied is dis useles beans u called beans...I was in d shop instead of u to come n assist me after u come back from work u r here cooking beans..I don't even kw ur use.
I was so angry n I told her whts ur use to in d house I pay all bills even tho I rented d shop for u..she said see senseless talk...so I use d half pure water n prinkle water on her...she brought d whole beans and a bucket of water n pure on me on chair...didn't even kw wen I gave her 2slaps

apparently u did the right thing, Zzor what's ur take on this, cos i knoq u will always be bias in ur criteria, u are a typical naija feminist, wanting equal opportunitirs with men, but u dont want to share responsibilities..women should learn to take responsibility for thier actions

LINTUNE:
apparently u did the right thing, Zzor what's ur take on this, cos i knoq u will always be bias in ur criteria, u are a typical naija feminist, wanting equal opportunitirs with men, but u dont want to share responsibilities..women should learn to take responsibility for thier actions

She's the abusive one in this case,she lacks wisdom, she talks anyhow to her man too

Zzor:
She's the abusive one in this case,she lacks wisdom, she talks anyhow to her man too

this the exact case that justifies a man giving his woman few slaps, to atleast, reset her brain and calm her down..

LINTUNE:
this the exact case that justifies a man giving his woman few slaps, to atleast, reset her brain and calm her down..

No man should ever hit a woman no matter what

Things like this just can't happen.

Drsnives:
I don't care if my sister is at fault or not, I go make sure I so beat the guy to stupor

Haha
What if the guy come beat you join your sister?

Zzor:
shame shame shame,you can as well watch him kill her because she's in her husband's house.

you for once get brain na, why is your head so full with cums of your customers.

Marshalees10:
For the guy� I'll tek him to suplex city a couple of times, One RKO and then I'll cap it off with a Kevin Owen's Pop_up SuperBomb

For my sister, she's definitely not staying. Not until he comes back to his senses at the least.

We talking real life not a staged scenario like wrestling. Her husband fit deck two of wuna join self

Drsnives:
I don't care if my sister is at fault or not, I go make sure I so beat the guy to stupor

What if the guy can take on two of ur type in a fight wud u dare him or calm d mata down because na lazy man body una take dey get power...

The best thing to do is to stop the husband from assaulting her then I will ask the husband what happened then I will also hear from my sister after which I will ask my sister if that's how he has been behaving when they were dating then I will warn the husband that's not her to treat his wife that she's not a slave.

Guy u no get chill
uote author=Offpoint1 post=97257250]Get their wedding CD, play and fast forward to the part the pastor was saying... -"for better for worse, in sickness and in health... " then skip to the part she say "Yes, I do"... Then get cold teem soda from the freezer and relax my soul... For what God has joined together, let no man put sand sand.

The last time I interfered in married people wahala, I go scar while the two where MOANING loud the next day afternoon while I was GROANING in pain.

The best help I could offer here based on the illustrative picture... Is to take the kid out and get him one sachet of Chelsea to help him erase the sad memories. [/quote]

englishmart:
What's your reaction going to be like if you meet your brother in-law treating your sister this way?

Marry your sister.

Zzor:
No man should ever hit a woman no matter what

thank u madam some men are also victim of domestic violence but many always see the man's action or reaction and label him culprit of domestic violence

I've never laid my hands on any of my sisters. While I'm alive, no guy should, particularly in my presence.

rtdCivilservant:

Best answer so far.

And his sister will started hate him..

Gjackzy:

What about the mother that slapped the innocent guy, what blessing is she going to receive from God? Rubbish.

If the guy didn't return it, the woman would have received severe punishments. God is Judge, and He's not a partial Judge. Now that the guy has returned the assault, the woman is free.

uuzba:

What if the guy gives you the RKO? And continues with the original beating?
Don't just assume that you will be stronger than him.

Bros u need to see me o
No be everybody fit change am for me o

Besides, in matters like this one, you to an extent, can't explain where the unusual strength is coming from.

We go just kee ourselves

seanwilliam:
amen to all your prayer but you made no points

The world is built on Spiritual laws. That's where cause and effect comes in. Nemesis and Providence are obvious signs of spiritual laws in action. If you can slap your mum, then you can slap any elder. I'm sure the situation would be different if the person in question was an elderly man.

The things I told you above are so true and amazing, and if you've been in this world long enough, you wouldn't even argue.

You can't say Amen to the prayers without embracing the actions that activate the prayers.

ayusco85:


We talking real life not a staged scenario like wrestling. Her husband fit deck two of wuna join self

Tufia
I fit die on top my sister matter o
He shouldn't only deck the two of us, he should kuku kill us coz if he fails in his bid to do so, my sister could be the last person he would call wife.

Some men hit their wives not because they deserve to be hit. Rather, they just want to show that they are real men and of course they think real men are rough and tough, but NO!
That day you'll ever raise your hand on a woman, that's the day you'll officially assume the name "weak man"

#stophittingwomen

Fine, take it up and act fast.

I don't care to know what my sister did. I will never lay my hands on someone's child/sister so no fvcking guy should do same to mine. There are many ways to kill a rat, you must not beat a woman to discipline her.


One of us will join our ancestors that day and it won't be me.

Zzor:
No man should ever hit a woman no matter what

that one na if you behave normal.. if you do nonsense I no go beat u ( because I might end up killing you ) but I will give you a very good slap that will send your brain to factory

Brandonx:
What's my business
I'll allow her enjoy her marriage in peace because if I'm to do otherwise it won't go down well.

I don't know why y'all are coming to my mention.
I won't do anything I'll rather drive back to my house because an abuser definitely cannot hide it for long so she probably knew what she was getting into.
Only a tout and a foolish man would start fighting and for those ladies coming to my mention I weep for the men around you, go and cause problem in reality for them and stop coming to my mention to drop crap.

I won't come to social media to say otherwise, I'll only act if they were separated and he went to her to beat her up.

I can not let go even if it's another person let alone my sister.
I am going to remove her from her husband house for real except if she is enjoying the show, then I have no option. The act is against the law, religiously, traditionaly it's wrong so why will I keep quiet? Becos she made a mistake marrying him? Who could have know before marriage?

uuzba:

You see a violent situation and approach it with your own violence!?
How stupid..
What if the man escalates his own violence?
Then kills you and continues beating the woman? What would you have solved then?

Please always approach violence like a referee of a boxing match. Separate the two individuals. DO NOT FIGHT anybody. You have not tested your own fighting with the man before. He can have knife or gun or be stronger than you. He is in his domain, his house. YOU are NOT in your domain.

You don't know me, or what I have done, or quite capable of doing... So, don't make assumptions or dish out worn out theories. Been there, done it all.

I move with real men, strong even dangerous individuals... We never lay even a finger on a woman!!! Domestic violence is the unerring trait of very weak and despicable men! Talking to them is okay, but sometimes, breaking a few bones gets them better educated!

NobleRace:


If the guy didn't return it, the woman would have received severe punishments. God is Judge, and He's not a partial Judge. Now that the guy has returned the assault, the woman is free.

will just shut up and stop this nonsense jare.. look if someone’s mother slaps me without me doing no wrong , I swear to almighty that created me, I will slap her till she looses her sight .. so because a woman is an elderly person she should not have sense ? Am I not someone’s pikin too? I am a peace maker but not dumb or stupid. And if the woman’s son picks a fight with me, I will calculate fast to determine if I can beat him or not.. if yes I’ll make sure I leave him with enough bruise he will leave to show his children.. if no, I’ll pay for his beating ..



If my mama slaps someone else son just for the sake of ‘ I am a woman and I’m old’ honestly I’ll tell her sorry and we will go home in peace , provided she’s wrong .. and if she was right and I see the opponent is more powerful and influential than us, then I’ll choose to fight another day ..


Stop bringing spirituality to physical battle.. stop spoiling Nigeria .. of all the respect we Dey give elders and spirit we Dey worship , what have we achieved as country ? Don’t quote me if you have nothing reasonable to say .. good day

Offpoint1:
Get their wedding CD, play and fast forward to the part the pastor was saying... -"for better for worse, in sickness and in health... " then skip to the part she say "Yes, I do"... Then get cold teem soda from the freezer and relax my soul... For what God has joined together, let no man put sand sand.

The last time I interfered in married people wahala, I go scar while the two where MOANING loud the next day afternoon while I was GROANING in pain.

The best help I could offer here based on the illustrative picture... Is to take the kid out and get him one sachet of Chelsea to help him erase the sad memories.

you're too funny

As much as we are against violence to women , we should be against violence to men too ..

We can’t all be gentlemen.. as a woman don’t think because you’re woman then you will be running your mouth like tap, or you will be locking one’s shirt, or you will give the first slap thinking after all law is on your side , not every man has a dove heart .. I will not beat you atall .. but you will just loose your beautiful teeth

angelfallz:


The bolded, I generally agree with your sentiment. But I want to ask, where is it written that a REAL MAN does not hit a woman except in self defence?

There are many unwritten laws, like the brothers code and sisters code. Some things are just simply or generally accepted norms.

A real man would rather fight, hit and best his fellow man of equal strengths. He doesn't need to damage or subdue his woman with extreme violence. Extreme violence is what he reserves for war, gangs, gym, etc... But, never on a woman!!!

Reex12:
sadly not everyone you can do that tolol all this ranting sef
will boldly tell you that YOU CAN'T TRY THAT WITH A HIGH SMV MAN

A Real Man will never lift his hands on a woman except in self defense! Period!!!

So, cut out that High whatever man shit!!! You forfeit the class when you stoop so low to indulge in domestic violence!!!

You young people need to learn and learn fast!!! Smh.

...And, I don't rant! Real men don't rant!!!

I'd do nothing. It could be their style sex. I mean nothing is impossible.

There is a dirty case in hand, the man beats his wife and when you ask him why he says it is anger. The beating started three months after wedding because the wife said she cannot be going to the market to be taking samples of laces snap and send abroad to his sister because they have to start planning their home. The husband said she was ungrateful and gave hers slaps. She got pregnant she was starved claiming she has too much urge for food. She was a sorry sight. She ost two pregnancies as a result of continuos beating. When she got pregnant again he made another attempt to beat her she ran back home which is reason she has the baby now. Now three months after delivery he beat her and tried strangling her, she slapped him so that he can leave her with promise to slit her throat and kill her and bit his hand and he gave her a blow in the eye which was covered with blood. She ran out of the house a neighbour took her to the hospital. She went to someone's house to stay until she was able to go to their house once again. He said she should come back to her marriage because he paid her dowery and he said he will not go to Lagos to bring her back because she was not driven from the house. She was threatened by his family that she should not come back to her marriage because she had the ordacity to go to Lagos when her in-laws told her not to travel. Her husband is telling people she will never try it again to go to Lagos. Meanwhile, the woman's eye is infected.