hashtagged:
I would stop the guy and find out why he is beating her if it's for a useless reason I would make sure he breaks at least 2 bones but if she obviously started the fight nor be my concern she would find how to stop him herself.
I would also tell her to leave divorce him if he beats her for no reason. if she refuses and want to continue staying with a man who beats her any other beating he gives her won't be my business except he kills her then I would see to it he rots in jail.

Can you imagine the rubbish this guy wrote? So you would willingly allow anyone to put hands on your sister. What kind of people roam this earth?

NasMaleeq:
Where did you keep ur mind while reading my comment? have you seen where I said it's okay to use belt on anybody?
all I was trying to say is that the ball is in her court anyway anyhow she want it she should play it and she'll carry her cross alone

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NasMaleeq:
Heey, look at all these female members oooo
so, because I met her being punish by her own husband that she got married to and promised to stay with for better for worse
the man that brought yam, bought cloth,pays her dues
I should now start fighting abi?
what even give you assurance that I will be able to beat him sef? or do you think he would be looking like slowpoke while I'll just be beating him
Do you think I'm the Jesus you've been expecting to come again?
OK, I'm coming
my sister my carry her cross alone because I know how frustrating women use to be at times

It's pretty obvious you think it is ok since you justify the man's action with 'I know how frustrating women use to be at times'.

I wish your future wife and in-laws would get to read the kind of comments you make here about domestic violence.

Etinosa1234:
I won't do anything...

Why? I've always disliked my sister right from when I was a little boy.. she's very rude, disrespectful, arrogant and proud... I used to formerly beat her up but when I reach around that 15-16, I stopped beating her... I was now matured and anything she does I'll just overlook or warn her sternly... Na mumu dey beat woman

So knowing how my sister behaves, I won't be surprised if her future husband beats her... In fact e sure for me pass Liverpool and Manchester City match..

I always knew you were a dimwit.

Nuel4:
then one of you should marry her. I have seen what women(my sisters very much included) do to their husbands. I won't give a shiiit if my sister's husband slaps her. Provided he is not an alcoholic loser who take maltreating her as a sport

the picture in this story is not slap ooooohhh

Check it well again. The man is holding belt and the kids are all afraid. Shes not even fighting back. Shes scared. Even you as a strong man I dont believe you will bully your wife like this no matter what. Na from clap dem take dey enter dance ooooh. Those wen kill their wives didn't start one day. They were getting away with all the small signs and red flags.

If they bully my sister like this she will come home. Honestly its better to be divorced than killed.

Zzor:
shame shame shame,you can as well watch him kill her because she's in her husband's house.

my Friend ll u get out of here with ur 2k mentality

Rubbish

I hate men who beat their wives no matter what

Adebowalay:
Hmm.... check me well...how u see me??
I don't know what I'll do...My anger is like a raging Storm....I can kill him instantly

only if you can beat him
and if the man is my type you'll join ur sister to pack her load inside keke napep ASAP

Hathor5:


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It's pretty obvious you think it is ok since you justify the man's action with 'I know how frustrating women use to be at times'.

I wish your future wife and in-laws would get to read the kind of comments you make here about domestic violence.

and I hope ur future family in law also the kind of wife you would be before wasting their hard earnings on you

englishmart:
What's your reaction going to be like if you meet your brother in-law treating your sister this way?

Op first I will take my sister out of there.
Secondly investigate to the abuse. If it had been going on for a while madam your life is precious. You decide on what to do. If you can't continue please file for divorce and I will not encourage her to stay in an abusive relationship. Na one life God give all of us. Better use it wisely.

As for the guy I won't say a word to him. Just tell him to come and take. Back his bride price. I gave my sis to you to. Marry not a ponging bag.

No matter the anger or whatever my sis said to him he has no right to hit her. If you can't take it leave that environment. Go cool off and come back.

For me I have trained myself on how to keep mute when am angry or when I know there's going to be quarrel. I go just turn mumu and my reply will be one one word. Yes, No, OK.. Whatever you say in anger whether you don't mean it those words can never return. It's better to keep quiet.
It's not easy oooo. It take the grace of God I tell you. When you see your partner screaming and you can't scream too as both parties are not listening to each other. There are no captains in a ship, two people cannot be mad at same time.

AfroKnight:
All of you saying you will beat your brother in-law, what if he is more powerful and he beats the sh!t out of you?

You’re saying he will sleep in cell but if he’s in Nigeria, do you think he came to this world alone? Have you considered that he might be better connected than you and you may be the one to sleep in cell instead? Only mumu boys think they will win every fight. The only opponent you can overpower all the time is your punching bag at the gym.

Plan your moves even when you’re angry.

More importantly, try not to intervene in married people’s matters except to remove the vulnerable one from imminent danger. Don’t go about supporting one over the other. You will be surprised how they will reconcile for stupïd reasons and turn you into the interloper.

the matter tire me, see as every body is shouting "i will beat him, i will kill him as if their brother inlaw will be watching them with folded arms as they kill him" those that have never been in a serious fight are always hungry for a fight because they dont know that fighting is the only venture whose outcome cannot be predicted. in your head you will imagine your self doing the beating and punching while your opponent will be crying in pain, the day you will engage in a real fight then that day you will humble, dont pray for a fight, but if it comes to you directly, plan it before executing it else it will not end well

shantti:


ur mad, so becos na him mama she is automatically right, anybody i mean anybody can be wrong. a woman slapped me at the atm just becos i told her she has to join the queue if she has to withdraw money as she was trying to jump the queue becos we that have been in the queue for so long were not fool, when she slapped me i held my atm with my mouth and gave her a resounding slap in front of her son, she was so shocked, her son was so shocked, everyone was so shocked, i waited patiently for my turn till i withdrew my money, she was still looking at me when i left. i swear to God if her son had tried to pick up a fight with me, i would had peforated his eyes with bottle, the only tin u expected him to do was to mediate peace since his mother is at fault, i woudnt encourage my mom to go about looking for trouble, if u slap her becos she slapped u first i will come in and mediate peace, but if u slapped her without she doing anytin to u then .......

Seems, you do not understand that raising a hand against a hoary head for whatever reason is a curse.

If the woman you slapped is an elderly woman, you missed it. Perhaps, if you mom slaps you for the wrong reason, you'll return it.

The repercussions include:

1. The young shall not attain the age of the person he/she slapped.

2. Young people will slap him too in future.

3. Number 1 above could extend into his generation. His/her children may die before attaining the age of the aged woman slapped.

Ask God for mercy. You should have allowed God to vindicate you instead. God does not overlook assaults against the aged.

May you find mercy, and may your life be prolonged. May you not die before your time.

osazsky:
kid.i hear u are the numb one man.in a cult .but have u met an executioner

leave am, he never see bloody fight before, i bet he hadnt even fought with an axe or cutlass before, he think it will play out the way he is imagining in his head. The day he will engage in his first serious fight he will humble

AfroKnight:
All of you saying you will beat your brother in-law, what if he is more powerful and he beats the sh!t out of you?

You’re saying he will sleep in cell but if he’s in Nigeria, do you think he came to this world alone? Have you considered that he might be better connected than you and you may be the one to sleep in cell instead? Only mumu boys think they will win every fight. The only opponent you can overpower all the time is your punching bag at the gym.

Plan your moves even when you’re angry.

More importantly, try not to intervene in married people’s matters except to remove the vulnerable one from imminent danger. Don’t go about supporting one over the other. You will be surprised how they will reconcile for stupïd reasons and turn you into the interloper.

In most cases women beaters are unaccomplished weak men with no pedigree.. a weak man doesn't really go far in life.
But if he happens to be stronger or more connected than me, I'd simply help my sister move out of the house but I'd have the guy in mind, and when he's most exposed I'd attack him...weak men will always find themselves in exposing situations.

I WILL NEVER LEAVE MY SISTERS TO GO THROUGH THIS. NEVER.

thesicilian:

Very shameful indeed. It's guys like him that would meet someone slapping his own mother and would be asking to "hear from both sides".

you think every one is stupid like you

Zzor:
What a shameful comment

you think everyone stupid like you

shantti:


ur mad, so becos na him mama she is automatically right, anybody i mean anybody can be wrong. a woman slapped me at the atm just becos i told her she has to join the queue if she has to withdraw money as she was trying to jump the queue becos we that have been in the queue for so long were not fool, when she slapped me i held my atm with my mouth and gave her a resounding slap in front of her son, she was so shocked, her son was so shocked, everyone was so shocked, i waited patiently for my turn till i withdrew my money, she was still looking at me when i left. i swear to God if her son had tried to pick up a fight with me, i would had peforated his eyes with bottle, the only tin u expected him to do was to mediate peace since his mother is at fault, i woudnt encourage my mom to go about looking for trouble, if u slap her becos she slapped u first i will come in and mediate peace, but if u slapped her without she doing anytin to u then .......

Come here Mr perforator. Where are you going Come and complete your statement. Let's know if you are going to perforate his eyes with bottle ;

Hahahahaha. People dey this country oo

Magnoliaa:
Op, I think you should add in a little a detail of how women are recalcitrant and sharp-mouthed—anybody's sister anyway... So, for other guys that'll be answering they should bear in mind that their sister might have pushed the good man into a position of disciplining her back into her position.

Except that woman is not ur blood, it will be somehow to allow him continue beating her irrespective of what she's done. Beating is not the only way of correcting someone. Besides, what if she dies in the process?

thesicilian:

All your long story only serves to re-enforce the idea which can easily be obtained from your first two words: that you're a shameless human being and as despicable as the son of the woman who stood looking at you while you slapped his mother.

He is shameless because he slapped the woman back?

Goldmaxx:
if you no fit beat am nkor?

Co ask

Kayharry:
The husband will have to beat us together . The husband should be fighting man like himself not a woman . No matter what the lady did she is not your horse

I can never agree with the statement, "no matter what a lady does".
That statement gives women the licence to misbehave. If a woman behaves like a thug she should be treated like a thug.

Kingscee:
God have mercy on me, heaven go fall that very day, especially with her baby by her side, I go beat the hell out of him

What if he is the one that beats you?

RichieMichie:
There'd be blood. I don't ever joke with my sisters. I'd beat shit outer him and make sure that marriage ends. Nonsense

What if its you that he beats the shit out of?

Drsnives:
I don't care if my sister is at fault or not, I go make sure I so beat the guy to stupor

God bless you

Angelfrost:
A real man never hits a woman, except in self defense.

To beat up my sister in my very presence shows 2 things: You have no regard for her, and none for her family... That's unacceptable in tradition and the law!

I can easily promise not send the idiot to the great beyond... But there will be blood.

He can write his statement and apologize from the ICU.

The bolded, I generally agree with your sentiment. But I want to ask, where is it written that a REAL MAN does not hit a woman except in self defence?

The right thing to do in this situation is to stop the abuse but not by getting violent or being abusive. A right thinking man would stop the violent once another person gets involved. The real solution here is to talk more with your sister and perhaps get the parents or elders involved to see why she chose to stay with a violent man. You want to find out the root cause of the issue because if your sister is a public toilet or her husband caught her putting jazz in his food, it will be very hard for you to look such a man in the eyes and say brother why you dey para?

shantti:


ur mad, so becos na him mama she is automatically right, anybody i mean anybody can be wrong. a woman slapped me at the atm just becos i told her she has to join the queue if she has to withdraw money as she was trying to jump the queue becos we that have been in the queue for so long were not fool, when she slapped me i held my atm with my mouth and gave her a resounding slap in front of her son, she was so shocked, her son was so shocked, everyone was so shocked, i waited patiently for my turn till i withdrew my money, she was still looking at me when i left. i swear to God if her son had tried to pick up a fight with me, i would had peforated his eyes with bottle, the only tin u expected him to do was to mediate peace since his mother is at fault, i woudnt encourage my mom to go about looking for trouble, if u slap her becos she slapped u first i will come in and mediate peace, but if u slapped her without she doing anytin to u then .......

really love you bro,you sound mature and better knowledgeable

NobleRace:


Seems, you do not understand that raising a hand against a hoary head for whatever reason is a curse.

If the woman you slapped is an elderly woman, you missed it. Perhaps, if you mom slaps you for the wrong reason, you'll return it.

The repercussions include:

1. The young shall not attain the age of the person he/she slapped.

2. Young people will slap him too in future.

3. Number 1 above could extend into his generation. His/her children may die before attaining the age of the aged woman slapped.

Ask God for mercy. You should have allowed God to vindicate you instead. God does not overlook assaults against the aged.

May you find mercy, and may your life be prolonged. May you not die before your time.

What about the mother that slapped the innocent guy, what blessing is she going to receive from God? Rubbish.

osazsky:
when u marry...comeback to this ur statement..i go dey waite u...some wife thier mouty na 2 edged sword.

Oga, you don think am say, e fit be say, na you no get self control? How you go take stabilizer knack human being? Even if na man, haba naw...

milann:
seriously, i'm tempted to marry into your family. I dont care what u guys do 2 me on behalf of your beloved sister

Why you come dey make me laugh like this?

Kokaine:

Honestly if my brother in-law ever thinks of doing this, I'm sure the next thing he will think about is me and my brothers. Because my sister is the only girl our parents had and we are many boys. He must have heard all the stories of what I did when boys were toasting her aggressively even at a younger age when I was still scared of jail. I can't imagine him going ahead to treat her like this now that he knows I have fought soldiers and fought cult guys in uniben. He will kiss her and settle his differences like the gentleman that we gave our sister out to. We have all the type of boys in our family. The cool headed ones, the religious ones, the cunning ones that will shake hands and hug him but will send boys to beat him up codedly, the hot tempered ones that will travel by air to beat him up, the preachers that will advice after the beating, all types of boys. Any one he wants to see that day he will see

For all this list wey you mention, which one you be for inside?