etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

best comment by some distance..judging by the goings in nigeria, i can boldly say that africa is moving backwards on a very fastlane

Offpoint1:
Get their wedding CD, play and fast forward to the part the pastor was saying... -"for better for worse, in sickness and in health... " then skip to the part she say "Yes, I do"... Then get cold teem soda from the freezer and relax my soul... For what God has joined together, let no man put sand sand.

The last time I interfered in married people wahala, I go scar while the two where MOANING loud the next day afternoon while I was GROANING in pain.

The best help I could offer here based on the illustrative picture... Is to take the kid out and get him one sachet of Chelsea to help him erase the sad memories.

Offpoint onpoint

I hope i made simple sense?

God sees me, I will break at least two of his bones, no matter what a lady will do,it's wrong in all ways to beat her like a slave, haba why will you use belt on your wife.


The guy go regret that day, and if he try am again, I go still break another two bones.

Lol. The assumption that some brothers and fathers won't even join sef

Thank God for my family.

Offpoint1:
Get their wedding CD, play and fast forward to the part the pastor was saying... -"for better for worse, in sickness and in health... " then skip to the part she say "Yes, I do"... Then get cold teem soda from the freezer and relax my soul... For what God has joined together, let no man put sand sand.

The last time I interfered in married people wahala, I go scar while the two where MOANING loud the next day afternoon while I was GROANING in pain.

The best help I could offer here based on the illustrative picture... Is to take the kid out and get him one sachet of Chelsea to help him erase the sad memories.

On point, but still you the craze

Brandonx:
What's my business
I'll allow her enjoy her marriage in peace because if I'm to do otherwise it won't go down well.

I jighi ume m'otu! Alika!

Ndi otu "I won't interfere"

Lodikero:
God sees me, I will break at least two of his bones, no matter what a lady will do,it's wrong in all ways to beat her like a slave, haba why will you use belt on your wife.


The guy go regret that day, and if he try am again, I go still break another two bones.

when u marry...comeback to this ur statement..i go dey waite u...some wife thier mouty na 2 edged sword.

thesicilian:

All your long story only serves to re-enforce the idea which can easily be obtained from your first two words: that you're a shameless human being and as despicable as the son of the woman who stood looking at you while you slapped his mother.

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Think before you type.... What right does a woman has whether old or young to slap an adult in public? That woman must be a mother to a bitter home. The person she slapped is someone's son u remember? I beg you when you grow old try and slap an able body man in public.... Then you will know there's difference between 6 and half a dozen...

Kokaine:

ever thinks of doing this, I'm sure the next thing he will think about is me and my brothers. Because my sister is the only girl our parents had and we are many boys. He must have heard all the stories of what I did when boys were toasting her aggressively even at a younger age when I was still scared of jail. I can't imagine him going ahead to treat her like this now that he knows I have fought soldiers and fought cult guys in uniben. He will kiss her and settle his differences like the gentleman that we gave our sister out to. We have all the type of boys in our family. The cool headed ones, the religious ones, the cunning ones that will shake hands and hug him but will send boys to beat him up codedly, the hot tempered ones that will travel by air to beat him up, the preachers that will advice after the beating, all types of ys. Any one he will see

seriously, i'm tempted to marry into your family. I dont care what u guys do 2 me on behalf of your beloved sister

A real man never hits a woman, except in self defense.

To beat up my sister in my very presence shows 2 things: You have no regard for her, and none for her family... That's unacceptable in tradition and the law!

I can easily promise not send the idiot to the great beyond... But there will be blood.

He can write his statement and apologize from the ICU.

Offpoint1:
Get their wedding CD, play and fast forward to the part the pastor was saying... -"for better for worse, in sickness and in health... " then skip to the part she say "Yes, I do"... Then get cold teem soda from the freezer and relax my soul... For what God has joined together, let no man put sand sand.

The last time I interfered in married people wahala, I go scar while the two where MOANING loud the next day afternoon while I was GROANING in pain.

The best help I could offer here based on the illustrative picture... Is to take the kid out and get him one sachet of Chelsea to help him erase the sad memories.

THIS IS THE BEST ANSWER SO FAR...GOD BLESS YOU...

Bluezy13:


Your handle has feminine display, your comment is not common among the feminine gender; may I know if you are feminine in reality ??

she's right. I've seen my very own sister hold her husband's trousers, squeeze it to the extent that I thought his penis was going burst and she then started daring him to touch her. When the guy now beat the hell out of her she will now crying and start calling people. Very idiotic.

osazsky:
when u marry...comeback to this ur statement..i go dey waite u...some wife thier mouty na 2 edged sword.

Your wife?

Heey, look at all these female members oooo
so, because I met her being punish by her own husband that she got married to and promised to stay with for better for worse
the man that brought yam, bought cloth,pays her dues
I should now start fighting abi?
what even give you assurance that I will be able to beat him sef? or do you think he would be looking like slowpoke while I'll just be beating him
Do you think I'm the Jesus you've been expecting to come again?
OK, I'm coming
my sister my carry her cross alone because I know how frustrating women use to be at times

Hmm.... check me well...how u see me??
I don't know what I'll do...My anger is like a raging Storm....I can kill him instantly

milann:
seriously, i'm tempted to marry into your family. I dont care what u guys do 2 me on behalf of your beloved sister

bro we give you peace. But also know that there are some stubborn ones who dont agree that peace is a good solution. The girl I'm dating has strong junior brothers. If I disrespect them enough to maltreat their sister, then I should not expect them to lick my shoes. Blood is thicker than water. Its not easy to watch your sister cry. Humans are different. Some will settle amicably by pleading and preaching, others will jump at your throat. Omo guy... Na our golden egg be that oh. Men go guard am.

etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

people beat people up every single minute for saying something offensive to them. Even as I'm typing this now I'm 100% certain that someone is getting beat up because he/she said something stupid to the wrong person. If a fellow male who is stronger than you will beat you up for insulting him why shouldn't the same be applied to females?

osazsky:
see mumu so its only when a man beats a woman u term it assult u didnt read the part where she slapped him first. God knows i dont take nonsense when i am angry.me way done use stabilizer stone my girlfriend.last last na money follow am nonsense

lol..werey!

NasMaleeq:
Heey, look at all these female members oooo
so, because I met her being punish by her own husband that she got married to and promised to stay with for better for worse
the man that brought yam, bought cloth,pays her dues
I should now start fighting abi?
what even give you assurance that I will be able to beat him sef? or do you think he would be looking like slowpoke while I'll just be beating him
Do you think I'm the Jesus you've been expecting to come again?
OK, I'm coming
my sister my carry her cross alone because I know how frustrating women use to be at times

Are you saying that it is ok to use a belt on your wife when she frustrates you? Are you ok?

shantti:


ur mad, so becos na him mama she is automatically right, anybody i mean anybody can be wrong. a woman slapped me at the atm just becos i told her she has to join the queue if she has to withdraw money as she was trying to jump the queue becos we that have been in the queue for so long were not fool, when she slapped me i held my atm with my mouth and gave her a resounding slap in front of her son, she was so shocked, her son was so shocked, everyone was so shocked, i waited patiently for my turn till i withdrew my money, she was still looking at me when i left. i swear to God if her son had tried to pick up a fight with me, i would had peforated his eyes with bottle, the only tin u expected him to do was to mediate peace since his mother is at fault, i woudnt encourage my mom to go about looking for trouble, if u slap her becos she slapped u first i will come in and mediate peace, but if u slapped her without she doing anytin to u then .......

I wish we could do voice notes here man. I go don shower accolades on top you. You know the probs be say we dey always get the impression say 'na only me fit reprimand my mama' whereas the truth is that na the name you call your mama Dem go help you call am outside. People should learn to behave well outside and not use elderly status to justify their proclivities. Else dem go chop your eyes well well. Bless you.

For wetin na...

Drsnives:


Omoh.. if na me be the guy whose mum was slapped I nor go put mouth for the matter na to look for your own mum give her better slap weh go deaf her two ears. As if you go fit watch a younger guy slap your mum for your front even if your mum dea wrong. Bloody fool

did his mum slap you first?
So because a female gave birth to a child she now has the right to start slapping people wherever she goes?
What's special about giving birth?
Even female rat give birth.

etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

I Love your comment

etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

Best comment.

Brandonx:

Excuse me ? Am I suppose to start fighting with her husband? If you can't take it file for a divorce I'll only intervene if after the divorce the man went to her house to beat her up.

May this character not lead to the death of your loved one before you learn. Amen.

Kokaine:

Honestly if my brother in-law ever thinks of doing this, I'm sure the next thing he will think about is me and my brothers. Because my sister is the only girl our parents had and we are many boys. He must have heard all the stories of what I did when boys were toasting her aggressively even at a younger age when I was still scared of jail. I can't imagine him going ahead to treat her like this now that he knows I have fought soldiers and fought cult guys in uniben. He will kiss her and settle his differences like the gentleman that we gave our sister out to. We have all the type of boys in our family. The cool headed ones, the religious ones, the cunning ones that will shake hands and hug him but will send boys to beat him up codedly, the hot tempered ones that will travel by air to beat him up, the preachers that will advice after the beating, all types of boys. Any one he wants to see that day he will see

then one of you should marry her. I have seen what women(my sisters very much included) do to their husbands. I won't give a shiiit if my sister's husband slaps her. Provided he is not an alcoholic loser who take maltreating her as a sport

Lodikero:
God sees me, I will break at least two of his bones, no matter what a lady will do,it's wrong in all ways to beat her like a slave, haba why will you use belt on your wife.


The guy go regret that day, and if he try am again, I go still break another two bones.

Drsnives:
I don't care if my sister is at fault or not, I go make sure I so beat the guy to stupor

sadly not everyone you can do that to

Angelfrost:
A real man never hits a woman, except in self defense.

To beat up my sister in my very presence shows 2 things: You have no regard for her, and none for her family... That's unacceptable in tradition and the law!

I can easily promise not send the idiot to the great beyond... But there will be blood.

He can write his statement and apologize from the ICU.

Drsnives:
I don't care if my sister is at fault or not, I go make sure I so beat the guy to stupor

lol all this ranting sef
will boldly tell you that YOU CAN'T TRY THAT WITH A HIGH SMV MAN

Hathor5:


Are you saying that it is ok to use a belt on your wife when she frustrates you? Are you ok?

Where did you keep ur mind while reading my comment? have you seen where I said it's okay to use belt on anybody?
all I was trying to say is that the ball is in her court anyway anyhow she want it she should play it and she'll carry her cross alone

Etinosa1234:
I won't do anything...

Why? I've always disliked my sister right from when I was a little boy.. she's very rude, disrespectful, arrogant and proud... I used to formerly beat her up but when I reach around that 15-16, I stopped beating her... I was now matured and anything she does I'll just overlook or warn her sternly... Na mumu dey beat woman

So knowing how my sister behaves, I won't be surprised if her future husband beats her... In fact e sure for me pass Liverpool and Manchester City match..

we r in d same boat, some sisters sef nah temptation to commit murder, i am so supportive of her husband becos i know how she behaves

I'd break his neck

Nuel4:
people beat people up every single minute for saying something offensive to them. Even as I'm typing this now I'm 100% certain that someone is getting beat up because he/she said something stupid to the wrong person. If a fellow male who is stronger than you will beat you up for insulting him why shouldn't the same be applied to females?

Because it's generally not good. Even beating another guy up cause you're bigger/stronger is somewhat barbaric. That singular act can be used to measure the level of civilisation of a place cause it's only early men that settle disputes that way. Fighting should be an act of self defense against physical harm and nothing more. Hitting your husband, wife, etc only makes you a beast and it's more much common in places where the law is not active or easily accessible or places where there's clear gender bias.