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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Emeka71(m): 5:17am On Dec 22, 2020
Brandonx:
What's my business undecided
I'll allow her enjoy her marriage in peace because if I'm to do otherwise it won't go down well.
Yes some women actually love being bullied or dominated by thier man.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by benpuzzy(m): 5:23am On Dec 22, 2020
thesicilian:

Very shameful indeed. It's guys like him that would meet someone slapping his own mother and would be asking to "hear from both sides".
Ladies, i hail ooo see as una wan chop the innocent guy because he talk him church mind.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by AFONJACOW(m): 5:24am On Dec 22, 2020
Fear of me still alive will never even push him to that limit, women are annoying but don't subject them to mere slay dog no matter what .. if you can't tolerate her, complain to us , if we can't change her bad attitude, then send her back instead of torturing her
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:25am On Dec 22, 2020
etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

Pls keep it up, keep saying whatever in ur stomach, at least it free world, not only in marriage o, even in office, or ur environment. Only you will face the consequence, others will only show sympathies.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by pyro62(m): 5:26am On Dec 22, 2020
I will call his family and call my family. We would hold an urgent meeting. He would tell me if he came to my fathers house to marry a wife, or to buy a punching bag.. I too hate nonsense
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:27am On Dec 22, 2020
Vlain:


A man has no reason to lay his hands on is woman. She is not a kid and certainly not his punching bag. If he wants to show he power as a man then he should walk out of that house and come face men like me make I comot him teeth just now.
I think it had to do with training and upbringing. My dad had never paid hands on my mum no matter the level.of provocation (even if she she shouting at him at the top of her voice). He either walks out or shout back at her and that is it. Consciously or unconsciously I have emulated that. No man will date lay his filthy hands on my sister and go Scott free. Is he mad?

And what did one to say for a woman?
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:31am On Dec 22, 2020
Emperor4tune:
i will quietly relocate my sister & that will be the end of discussion with them for life..the reason why i dont want to retaliate at the spot is because i may end up killing that guy due to anger..
.

And if the man is stronger than you?

I guess Your sister will join you in ur house, ....as 2nd wife? To start rivalry with ur wife?
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by LINTUNE(m): 5:31am On Dec 22, 2020
even if she is just a stranger, i cant just watch my fellow man treat a woman this way..lol so many of u will call me a simp, obviously i'm no simp, its just normal home training for me...even if ur woman messes up, few slap is enough to reset her brain, not handling her as illustrated in this pic na..
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by pyro62(m): 5:31am On Dec 22, 2020
Fiscus105:


Pls keep it up, keep saying whatever in ur stomach, at least it free world, not only in marriage o, even in office, or ur environment. Only you will face the consequence, others will only show sympathies.

Shut up. You get luck say na nairaland be this. I would have beaten the hell out of you, and you won't even have sympathisers. Then you'll know how it feels. It is wrong to beat up another human at the least provocation because you are stronger.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:34am On Dec 22, 2020
osazsky:
she is no longer ur family..y did her hus even allow u into thier house..go and marry ur own..and u cant jumb into the matter cuz u dont know wat caused the problem..if they eventially settle themselves with sex in bed na u go be the topic of discussion face ur business .some girls lack up bringing and thier mouth na gun..though it is verry wrong for a man to beat his wife there is no justificaton to it.op if u get married u wont have the time to be visiting ur sis every day

Woman has 75% contribution (character wise) to make marriage works. I boldly say it anywhere.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by JustforMen: 5:34am On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
shame shame shame,you can as well watch him kill her because she's in her husband's house.

Madam shame, what would you do if it were you?
Spousal abuse is wrong, obviously.
But you did not provide any background to the case just that your in-law is beating your sister.
What if she started the fight?
What if she started slapping him - as it is proven that women are more likely to start physical attack than a man?
The best one could reasonably do is to stop the altercation and find out what happened before apportioning blame.

What would YOU do in such a situation?

--- on a lighter note, if you want someone to just jump and defend their sister, what if the man is stronger than all of them?
You wan the man to beat a whole family ni grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:35am On Dec 22, 2020
pyro62:


Shut up. You get luck say na nairaland be this. I would have beaten the hell out of you, and you won't even have sympathisers. Then you'll know how it feels. It is wrong to beat up another human at the least provocation because you are stronger.

If your own brother is beating ur sister, I'm sure you will stab ur brother as well. At its also male vs female
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:36am On Dec 22, 2020
pyro62:


Shut up. You get luck say na nairaland be this. I would have beaten the hell out of you, and you won't even have sympathisers. Then you'll know how it feels. It is wrong to beat up another human at the least provocation because you are stronger.


Anthony Joshua.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by udomma1005(m): 5:42am On Dec 22, 2020
Sirmuel1:
How many years for murder case in Nigeria? embarassed
E nor plenty sef, only 8 years wink
If you get luck make protest happen wen u dey Dia, men go break jail make u free joor. grin
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Smashspesh(m): 5:44am On Dec 22, 2020
Nobody fit try am. Ajeh.

I learned boxing for complete 7 years in Pero, Agege just to be able to protect my mum, dad and younger kids as the first son.

Every case no be police.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by etrange: 5:44am On Dec 22, 2020
Fiscus105:


Pls keep it up, keep saying whatever in ur stomach, at least it free world, not only in marriage o, even in office, or ur environment. Only you will face the consequence, others will only show sympathies.

Thank you.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Genea(f): 5:51am On Dec 22, 2020
rtdCivilservant:

Best answer so far.
it’s not. You have to be careful when intervening in fights. Some women can arrest their brothers for it, besides if something happens to the husband, the wife will blam the brother.

The best thing is to stop the fight and be careful while doing that, some people have died in that process

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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by RichieMichie: 5:55am On Dec 22, 2020
angelfallz:


What if its you that he beats the shit out of?

Fighting with rage, nah. He can't
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 5:57am On Dec 22, 2020
NasMaleeq:
Heey, look at all these female members oooo
so, because I met her being punish by her own husband that she got married to and promised to stay with for better for worse
the man that brought yam, bought cloth,pays her dues
I should now start fighting abi?
what even give you assurance that I will be able to beat him sef? or do you think he would be looking like slowpoke while I'll just be beating him
Do you think I'm the Jesus you've been expecting to come again?
OK, I'm coming
my sister my carry her cross alone because I know how frustrating women use to be at times


Let them be talking as people without brains, the ways some people comment are worrisome.

If its their brother and sister fighting, will they start beating their brother too?

Is brother -in -law not part of their family?

If they ask sister to leave the house without first settle the matter, will sister join them and be part of their nuclear family?

Did they even have power to instruct married woman to leave her husband?

If they succeeded separating husband and wife for "differences that can still be settled', what will happen to kids?

If they kill husband, what will be faiths of kids, their sister and even them who commit murder

People should endeavor to think wide before they write or talk ooooo not even public forum

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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Fiscus105(m): 6:08am On Dec 22, 2020
Hathor5:


Here ...



It's pretty obvious you think it is ok since you justify the man's action with 'I know how frustrating women use to be at times'.

I wish your future wife and in-laws would get to read the kind of comments you make here about domestic violence.

Sooooo everyone must put all blames on brother- in -law, no matter what sister do that led to fight, she should be ignored.

Is wife not frustrating a times?

Let me tell u fact, character wise, woman has 75% contribution to make her marriage work, I will indulge you to take this bitter truth to ur husband house, if you want to have peace and not ready for married and remarried.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by walozanga(m): 6:10am On Dec 22, 2020
thesicilian:

Very shameful indeed. It's guys like him that would meet someone slapping his own mother and would be asking to "hear from both sides".

U are ryt
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by coolfredo(m): 6:17am On Dec 22, 2020
Magnoliaa:
Op, I think you should add in a little a detail of how women are recalcitrant and sharp-mouthed—anybody's sister anyway... So, for other guys that'll be answering they should bear in mind that their sister might have pushed the good man into a position of disciplining her back into her position.
... so can a girl reason this way too. God will not forget to bless u my dear.
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Kokaine(m): 6:19am On Dec 22, 2020
boyjo:


grin For all this list wey you mention, which one you be for inside?
the religious type grin grin cheesy grin grin grin.. Na my junior brothers be warriors. The older we grow, the more we just want peace and connection to God
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by walozanga(m): 6:21am On Dec 22, 2020
The so called brother inlaw will be in a deep shit.. That belt wey dey hin hand and the the kid wey dey their go make me Fvck am up one aside
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by vickydevoka(m): 6:21am On Dec 22, 2020
thesicilian:

Very shameful indeed. It's guys like him that would meet someone slapping his own mother and would be asking to "hear from both sides".
U must hear from de both side. Wat if ur mum slapped her first

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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by vickydevoka(m): 6:23am On Dec 22, 2020
Na me choose de husband for her.
Beside Women naturally are wahala I can't fight for wahala people, rather o will advice her to leave de marriage

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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by easzypeaszy(m): 6:25am On Dec 22, 2020
Magnoliaa:
Op, I think you should add in a little a detail of how women are recalcitrant and sharp-mouthed—anybody's sister anyway... So, for other guys that'll be answering they should bear in mind that their sister might have pushed the good man into a position of disciplining her back into her position.
I hit my wife 2days ago but still apologize..came home early from work...she told me she would love to eat beans in d morning so I decide to prepare it b4 she comes back so we can all eat.
Wen she came back I told her av cooked beans so wht wl u love to use to eat it bread or garri she replied is dis useles beans u called beans...I was in d shop instead of u to come n assist me after u come back from work u r here cooking beans..I don't even kw ur use.
I was so angry n I told her whts ur use to in d house I pay all bills even tho I rented d shop for u..she said see senseless talk...so I use d half pure water n prinkle water on her...she brought d whole beans and a bucket of water n pure on me on chair...didn't even kw wen I gave her 2slaps
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Nobody: 6:27am On Dec 22, 2020
LINTUNE:
even if she is just a stranger, i cant just watch my fellow man treat a woman this way..lol so many of u will call me a simp, obviously i'm no simp, its just normal home training for me...even if ur woman messes up, few slap is enough to reset her brain, not handling her as illustrated in this pic na..
And you think the few slaps isn't an abuse? you are obviously a woman beater
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Greenback: 6:28am On Dec 22, 2020
Brandonx:
What's my business undecided
I'll allow her enjoy her marriage in peace because if I'm to do otherwise it won't go down well.

Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by dominique(f): 6:28am On Dec 22, 2020
thesicilian:

All your long story only serves to re-enforce the idea which can easily be obtained from your first two words: that you're a shameless human being and as despicable as the son of the woman who stood looking at you while you slapped his mother.

Why did she slap someone's son first? In this life, sometimes it's good to let people know that you get what you give

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Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by LINTUNE(m): 6:33am On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
And you think the few slaps isn't an abuse? you are obviously a woman beater
1 or 2 slaps to reset my woman's brain when she messes up, is obviously not an abuse, if u call that an abuse, what would u qualify the illustration pic of the op? ..dont quote me again..
Re: How Would You React If You Met Brother-In-Law Treating Your Sister Like This? by Nobody: 6:37am On Dec 22, 2020
LINTUNE:
1 or 2 slaps to reset my woman's brain when she messes up, is obviously not an abuse, if u call that an abuse, what would u qualify the illustration pic of the op? ..dont quote me again..
You are not even ashamed of typing this publicly, woman beater shior

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