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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by IYANGBALI: 4:54pm On Dec 27, 2020
GboyegaD:
Sex is good but only in marriage.
it is even very dangerous in marriage
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by shoricha(m): 4:54pm On Dec 27, 2020
Why don't you stop reasoning like a fool and face your religion, does any body stop you from practicing your Christianity, why mentioning Muhammad in quote.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Abid2020(m): 4:56pm On Dec 27, 2020
yetunsbay:
That's why Islam is a way of life
Brief clothes, see-through clothes, and clinging clothe are the source of fornication and even adultery, that is why Islam is the right path. There is no how you will sight a woman in the aforementioned clothes without longing or lust for something in your mind. My advice for women don't waste your precious time on a man who just wants to bed with you.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by madjune(m): 5:04pm On Dec 27, 2020
tobechi74:
She should not mention money









I want to explore

My self imposed boundary

Fufil my fantasies

Over numerous eyes

Knowing I am being watched

Makes me receptive to the act

Put on revealing dress

And nothing underneath my mini skirt

To plant the desire

In the mind of strangers

Until I met a young man at the bar

Who seems willing to ride

Took bottles to summon courage

And deal with the awkwardness

I felt his hands on me

And his kiss on my neck

I fondled his shaft

And swallowed its contents

I could twist and turn

Over his strong hands that held me firm

I felt his sweat dripping down

Unsure whose name to moan

His experience intoxicated me

He satisfied my deepest longing

He left without words of love

No phone number , No email address

I feel used and dumped

I miss my husband


https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/

Is this poetry or what?
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by mentored: 5:17pm On Dec 27, 2020
Interesting15:

Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous.
Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.

One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.

Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).

Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.

So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate.
Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.

You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.

You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory.
Source



its better to obey God and offend man

than to please man and disobey God


please choose wisely

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by TemmyT002(m): 5:17pm On Dec 27, 2020
As a guy, I can tell you that if your boyfriend disturbs or demands for sex, that's is what he wanted all along. Soon, he go tire for you.
It is very rare for a guy to stay after sleeping with you, unless he loves you so much.
A lot of Guys don't like breaking up with ladies they haven't slept with.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by PastorFire: 5:19pm On Dec 27, 2020
You can tell this poetry to a white man. For all i care, they are better than you and don't give a ratass about ya marital destiny crap

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Taiwojon(m): 5:25pm On Dec 27, 2020
your boyfriend not your Husband


please avoid fornication it's kill..
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by advocatejare(m): 5:26pm On Dec 27, 2020
richmanrichard:
the idiot na bastard.i mean mo ha mmed
You're right. He was born 4 years after his supposed father had died, and science has proven that no baby can survive more than 2 years in the womb, hence Muhammad was a bastard cos Abdullah could not have been his father, yet they claim Abdullah is his father

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by abiolamitodun(m): 5:44pm On Dec 27, 2020
With what's in the church this days it's not easy...If God can make u see the past of some single ladies in the church and what they are doing presently in secret..ull run oo...The demons coming with them into marriage this days...I tell u...hmm

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by jonnyjustcome22: 5:47pm On Dec 27, 2020
yetunsbay:
That's why Islam is a way of life
So they no they Bleep for mosque or during mulod abi.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by KLand(m): 6:02pm On Dec 27, 2020
Thanks for the message. Another proof that not everyone on Maitland supports premarital sex.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by KLand(m): 6:04pm On Dec 27, 2020
OB7Foreva:
In my own case is the girl that is disturbing me for sex, she thinks sex would make the bonding much more stronger

Guide her properly if you believe premarital sex is wrong.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by KLand(m): 6:05pm On Dec 27, 2020
GboyegaD:
Sex is good but only in marriage.

God approves sex within marriage. Outside marriage, it is sin.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Oceanfield: 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2020
tobechi74:
She should not mention money









I want to explore

My self imposed boundary

Fufil my fantasies

Over numerous eyes

Knowing I am being watched

Makes me receptive to the act

Put on revealing dress

And nothing underneath my mini skirt

To plant the desire

In the mind of strangers

Until I met a young man at the bar

Who seems willing to ride

Took bottles to summon courage

And deal with the awkwardness

I felt his hands on me

And his kiss on my neck

I fondled his shaft

And swallowed its contents

I could twist and turn

Over his strong hands that held me firm

I felt his sweat dripping down

Unsure whose name to moan

His experience intoxicated me

He satisfied my deepest longing

He left without words of love

No phone number , No email address

I feel used and dumped

I miss my husband


https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/

Well written.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Fitz22(f): 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2020
Interesting15:

Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous.
Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.

One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.

Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).

Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.

So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate.
Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.

You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.

You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory.
Source



God Bless You..

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Scetrocom: 6:11pm On Dec 27, 2020
Interesting15:

Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous.
Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.

One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.

Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).

Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.

So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate.
Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.

You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.

You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory.
Source
Please allow me to copy this article and post it on another social media. It is a powerful message.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Timijo(m): 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2020
tobechi74:
She should not mention money





I want to explore



1 I want to explore

My self imposed boundary

Fufil my fantasies

Over numerous eyes

Knowing I am being watched

Makes me receptive to the act

Put on revealing dress

2 And nothing underneath my mini skirt

To plant the desire

In the mind of strangers

Until I met a young man at the bar

Who seems willing to ride

Took bottles to summon courag
And deal with the awkwardness

3 I felt his hands on me

And his kiss on my neck

I fondled his shaft

And swallowed its contents

I could twist and turn

Over his strong hands that held me firm

I felt his sweat dripping down

4 Unsure whose name to moan

His experience intoxicated me

He satisfied my deepest longing

He left without words of love

No phone number , No email address

I feel used and dumped

I miss my husband


https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/
This is a poem that you just wrote. The rhythm and meter are superb. I have divided it into a septet stanza. Well done!

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Lekan239(m): 6:17pm On Dec 27, 2020
advocatejare:


Of course Jesus spoke and have conversations with her, yet he didn't look at her lustfully.

Muhammad on the other hand, only saw a woman from afar and became sexually aroused because of his dirty mind, and had to leave the company of his companions to go and have sex.

Imagine such a sex addict that couldn't control his libido?
if its a Muslim that writr this stuff u wrote above, u guys woukd havs being shouting terrorist religion uo amd down

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by DMerciful(m): 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2020
How is sex good only in marriage? How can a human have sex with only one person all his or her life? That's such a waste of pleasure and variety
GboyegaD:
Sex is good but only in marriage.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by advocatejare(m): 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2020
Lekan239:
if its a Muslim that writr this stuff u wrote above, u guys woukd havs being shouting terrorist religion uo amd down
Is Antichristian not a Muslim? Go and check what he writes.

Besides, I didn't lie against Muhammad, I only reported what Muhammad did as documented in the authentic hadith of Islam


"Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them:
The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.
-Reference : Sahih Muslim 1403 a
In-book reference : Book 16, Hadith 10
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 8, Hadith 3240

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by BigBrother9ja: 6:31pm On Dec 27, 2020
advocatejare:

It's your Allah and Muhammad that are always after sex, that's why everything in Islam is about sex
Or deh
Show horse christain heaven nau

Confused soul.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by richmanrichard: 6:33pm On Dec 27, 2020
Farid24224:

But what he said isn't insultive to what you always do and reply to any Islamic thread.
shut up
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by xynerise: 6:35pm On Dec 27, 2020
Don't go into a relationship if you don't want to have sex. Simple! Just dey your dey until husband comes
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by richmanrichard: 6:36pm On Dec 27, 2020
advocatejare:

You're right. He was born 4 years after his supposed father had died, and science has proven that no baby can survive more than 2 years in the womb, hence Muhammad was a bastard cos Abdullah could not have been his father, yet they claim Abdullah is his father
he is a renowned mu derer that killed lots of jews just ve sex with their wives

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Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Lekan239(m): 6:37pm On Dec 27, 2020
advocatejare:

Is Antichristian not a Muslim? Go and check what he writes.

Besides, I didn't lie against Muhammad, I only reported what Muhammad did as documented in the authentic hadith of Islam


"Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them:
The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.
-Reference : Sahih Muslim 1403 a
In-book reference : Book 16, Hadith 10
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 8, Hadith 3240
the thing is we Christian like to play the victims and find every possible means to accused the other religions of wrong doing
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by GboyegaD(m): 6:40pm On Dec 27, 2020
DMerciful:
How is sex good only in marriage? How can a human have sex with only one person all his or her life? That's such a waste of pleasure and variety

If you feel this way, I do not.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 6:43pm On Dec 27, 2020
My girlfriend traveled for more than 15 months without informed me, and I don forget her side since then, she called 3 days ago that she's coming back that she missed my cucumber so much, but my only fear be say make this babe no carry disease give me, but I dey miss the babe BIG ASS die, guys say make forget about this babe or I should continue DIGGING her HOLE?
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by DMerciful(m): 6:43pm On Dec 27, 2020
Have safe sex as much as possible before you get married. If you get married as a virgin, you gonna regret it because you experience of sex will be with only one person and as such you can't do comparative analysis grin
GboyegaD:


If you feel this way, I do not.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by advocatejare(m): 6:48pm On Dec 27, 2020
Lekan239:
the thing is we Christian like to play the victims and find every possible means to accused the other religions of wrong doing
Ok
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by GboyegaD(m): 6:50pm On Dec 27, 2020
DMerciful:
Have safe sex as much as possible before you get married. If you get married as a virgin, you gonna regret it because you experience of sex will be with only one person and as such you can't do comparative analysis grin

There's no reasons for comparison and you can read as much as you need to build your knowledge on the topic.
Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Drone95(m): 6:52pm On Dec 27, 2020
Kingscee:
My girlfriend traveled for more than 15 months without informed me, and I don forget her side since then, she called 3 days ago that she's coming back that she missed my cucumber so much, but my only fear be say make this babe no carry disease give me, but I dey miss the babe BIG ASS die, guys say make forget about this babe or I should continue DIGGING her HOLE?
you are on ur own!

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