Are you married or single?
If you're single, do not say someone did not tell you before hand.

GboyegaD:


There's no reasons for comparison and you can read as much as you need to build your knowledge on the topic.

BigBrother9ja:

Or deh
Show horse christain heaven nau

The Christian heaven is where the Holy God resides, there won't be sexual filthiness or orgy there. Only Satan can promise you a sex party paradise.

Jesus had already told us that there won't be anything like people marryijg each other in the holy heaven

Matthew 22.30 -
At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.


Heaven Will Be Filled with Peace, Joy, and Praise
“Therefore they are before the throne of God, and serve Him day and night in His temple. And He who sits on the throne will dwell among them. They shall neither hunger anymore nor thirst anymore; the sun shall not strike them, nor any heat; for the Lamb who is in the midst of the throne will shepherd them and lead them to living fountains of waters. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes”
-Revelation 7:15-17

Drone95:
you are on ur own!

Guy I need your advice naw

paxonel:
Definition of fornication according to the bible :

1 Corinthians 5:1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife.

So fornication means sleeping with your father's wife according to the bible, it is not sleeping with your bf or gf or premarital sex.

Infact, the word premarital used this modern day is confusing people.
Marriage should begin at the point were the girl has accepted the boy's proposal as it happened between Rebecca and Isaac in the old testament, not when they are formally wedded.

Wedding does not define marriage.

hmmm..una don come o.

paxonel:
Definition of fornication according to the bible :

1 Corinthians 5:1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, [b]that one should have his father's wife.

So fornication means sleeping with your father's wife according to the bible, it is not sleeping with your bf or gf or premarital sex.

Infact, the word premarital used this modern day is confusing people.
Marriage should begin at the point were the girl has accepted the boy's proposal as it happened between Rebecca and Isaac in the old testament, not when they are formally wedded.

Wedding does not define marriage.

[/b] I have nothing to add.

Interesting15:

Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous.
Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.

One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.

Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).

Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.

So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate.
Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.

You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.

You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory.
Source

I told my boyfriend that there would be no sex in our rship till we get married , he accepted few weeks into the rship, boyfriend man said he wasn't feeling fine , and I asked what the problem was, he said his he was having abdominal pain, and I am like have you seen a doctor , he said yes. He said his doctor said he was suffering from accumulated sperm in his balls and stomach, that's why he is having such pain ..... Within me I laughed,����� see sense oo, he expects me to pity him. Or was he thinking I am an illiterate that could be easily deceived..?.... Merry Xmas nairalanders

Interesting15:

Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous.
Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.

One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.

Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).

Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.

So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate.
Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.

You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.

You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory.
Source

God bless you real good for this post.

You see sex is such a deep mystery because it binds 2 people as 1 flesh.

It's so pleasurable, yet so destructive outside marriage. The pleasures of premarital sex has destroyed the destinies of so many of our youths today; so really, very sad.

Abeg go tell wizkid and Naira Marley that one ,
Na them the spoil the society

"Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God." - 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

"Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart." - 2 Timothy 2:22

Living Before the World
"Beloved, I beg you as sojourners and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul," - 1 Peter 2:11

Agreed but some of these church brothers are the first to flee when you tell them you are celibate

How do some posts make it to front page
Is there any active jaruma working for nairaland?

Interesting15:

Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous.
Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.

One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.

Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).

Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.

So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate.
Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.

You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.

You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory.
Source

richmanrichard:
shut up

Why will I?
Isn't what I said the truth? Or is it hurting you like it always does?!

stanliwise:

Preacher of doom. Please repent. You literally just cherrypicked a verse and naively interpreted it to match fornication chai

in what way?
You mean 1 Corinthians 5:1 didn't define fornication as one sleeping with his father's wife or what?
Is there any other interpretation of that scripture that point anything otherwise, or is there any other scripture of the bible that outrightly define fornication differently?

stanliwise:

Preacher of doom. Please repent. You literally just cherrypicked a verse and naively interpreted it to match fornication chai

in what way?
You mean 1 Corinthians 5:1 didn't define fornication as one sleeping with his father's wife or what?
Is there any other interpretation of that scripture that point anything otherwise, or is there any other scripture of the bible that outrightly define fornication differently other than what 1 Corinthians 5:1 has said fornication is?

benji93:

Why don't you humble yourself and learn. That verse doesn't emphatically specify that taking one's father's wife is fornication. It's only an instance of it as indicated by the bolded.

why will such instance be given on the only scripture that attempted to give us a picture of what the bible meant by fornication in other scriptures that the word fornication was mentioned?
And why didn't the only instance given in that scripture not portray fornication as premarital sex like we believe it to be today but one sleeping with his father's wife?

Why?

DMerciful:
Are you married or single?
If you're single, do not say someone did not tell you before hand.

I am married and I believe we are both happy.

Ha ha! After you don run things while single, you nor want the new guys to run things, loool

GboyegaD:


I am married and I believe we are both happy.

AntiChristian:


Jesus chatted with her for several minutes yet he didn't lust at her.

Who reported Jesus' lustful mind?

You are simply a wimp. Muhammad went to his wife. An exemplary example for us to do same in this world full of nude ladies.

Jesus can even chat with your sister and not lust after her since you can see Jesus' heart.

God will change your heart...And, your OP will change to Christian by God's Grace!!

yetunsbay:
That's why Islam is a way of life

Christian is a WAY OF LIFE!!!!

DMerciful:
Ha ha! After you don run things while single, you nor want the new guys to run things, loool

How did you come to this conclusion? If there was anything I was running, it was my education.

Scetrocom:

Please allow me to copy this article and post it on another social media. It is a powerful message.

Go ahead sir. GOD bless you

I know, right? Let boys be boys and men be men. We should only advice safe sex. There were guys who were told to wait until marriage only to be denied sex regularly in marriage. It is well

GboyegaD:


How did you come to this conclusion? If there was anything I was running, it was my education.

DMerciful:
I know, right? Let boys be boys and men be men. We should only advice safe sex. There were guys who were told to wait until marriage only to be denied sex regularly in marriage. It is well

We were told and we do appreciate one another for it. I will tell my kids to and tell them why. No basis for comparing anything however, I have read enough to know what expectations should be.

advocatejare:

Jesus said whoever looks at a woman lustfully has committed fornication already, Muhammad didnt need to mix up with opposite sex before he fornicated with them. He lusted after a woman who was fully covered and blamed women for it and called women devil.


"Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them:
The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.
-Reference : Sahih Muslim 1403 a
In-book reference : Book 16, Hadith 10
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 8, Hadith 3240

stop comparing jesus christ with any man. jesus is a virgin birth, a strange mysterious being like that. no one come close pls. don't ever compare him with dat yahoo messenger again. less i split your throat

lets be guided

TemmyT002:
As a guy, I can tell you that if your boyfriend disturbs or demands for sex, that's is what he wanted all along. Soon, he go tire for you.
It is very rare for a guy to stay after sleeping with you, unless he loves you so much.
A lot of Guys don't like breaking up with ladies they haven't slept with.

i would she know the extend of his love if she refuse to sleep with him.

walkingshadow911:


i would she know the extend of his love if she refuse to sleep with him.

If she refuses and he threatens to break up or he breaks up with her, then it is obvious.

advocatejare:

The Christian heaven is where the Holy God resides, there won't be sexual filthiness or orgy there. Only Satan can promise you a sex party paradise.

Jesus had already told us that there won't be anything like people marryijg each other in the holy heaven

Matthew 22.30 -
At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.


Heaven Will Be Filled with Peace, Joy, and Praise
“Therefore they are before the throne of God, and serve Him day and night in His temple. And He who sits on the throne will dwell among them. They shall neither hunger anymore nor thirst anymore; the sun shall not strike them, nor any heat; for the Lamb who is in the midst of the throne will shepherd them and lead them to living fountains of waters. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes”
-Revelation 7:15-17

Lol
Or deh

I won't stoop so low for a hypocritr and ignoramus.


You don't know your Bible boi

Farid24224:


Why will I?
Isn't what I said the truth? Or is it hurting you like it always does?!

take your truth and get out of this thread. go to ur terror thread

TemmyT002:


If she refuses and he threatens to break up or he breaks up with her, then it is obvious.

Its both ways, if she isn't a virgin or God fearing and she denied him sex.Then she had neva really loved him too. what bout dat

BigBrother9ja:

Lol
Or deh

I won't stoop so low for a hypocritr and ignoramus.


You don't know your Bible boi

advocatejare:


Of course Jesus spoke and have conversations with her, yet he didn't look at her lustfully.

Muhammad on the other hand, only saw a woman from afar and became sexually aroused because of his dirty mind, and had to leave the company of his companions to go and have sex.

Imagine such a sex addict that couldn't control his libido?

I can send you 50k all I want is for you to put your profile picture on the nairaland forum please in the name of God, you will know that we don't joke with prophet Muhammad. Or please can you tell me your address or even state and your full real name?

OB7Foreva:
In my own case is the girl that is disturbing me for sex, she thinks sex would make the bonding much more stronger

Yes in some cases.