So u have been distributing... All Ur life? Well kwantinu....

The truth is that not every woman will get married
And many of them live a fulfilled life
We need to get this into our heads


My aunt was never married
She has reached the highest level in her career
A director in the federal parastatal
Adopted a daughter
The girl is in her secondary School now
Has landed properties for that girl
And many other assets


Another of my sister's friend
My sister is married with kids
But her friend an Edo lady
Never married
But fortunate she had a daughter early
Today that lady is loaded
Travels around the world with her daughter every summer
US UK Europe Dubai etc
The daughter now has grown into a very beautiful young woman


Not every woman actually needs a man
And they are still fulfilled
Even more than a lot married women

Being happy in life
Depends on each individuals emotional stability
Some can be married but miserable
Some can be single and miserable
Some can be married but happy
Some can be single but happy and fulfilled

So let's get that facts straightened out
There are many married people that are miserable

If you are not fulfilled and satisfied with life when you are single
Marriage, children, etc can't change that fact

You must be fulfilled and satisfied with your life to enjoy this life

ajepako:
Attention Babangbali/iyangbali/enemyofprogress//enemyofpeace( 5-man Werey)

See Fagin wife you dey find..

Vickyrotex, you're in charge of aso ebi and food

Funjosh, you hold him down so he doesn't run away..

let Dominique catch you, you hear? Da ile ru? da ile iru ore osika

Femi Kemi, I had always known u were not mentally stable.

What is she said is not the problem but her female followers that will swallow what she wrote hook, line and sinker and make the same mistake she has made.

Marriage is not by force, the choice is urs.

Like every thing in life, u must be ready to face the out come of ur choice later and dont cry foul.

Submissive doesnt mean weakness, it is a part of the human virtue.

Of course, if u as a woman cant submit to a man u better not marry as no sane man can put up with an obstinate woman. Just continue ashawoing and see the end the result.

Social media will certainly ruin alot of destiny cos that is where most people get fed with poisons like kemi is doing

SimpDetector:
Submitting to a man doesn't indicate weakness, rather it indicates femininity. The desire to submit to a man is the quintessence of being a woman. Every woman wants to submit to a man, but there is a caveat: It has to be an attractive "alpha" man that's higher than her financially and in terms of social status.

Even so called feminists and independent women still have men that they submit to in private. These men own their bodies and they do whatever these men ask them to. But they'll come online to pretend and talk rubbish.

Even this Kemi has a powerful man that has her pussy on his beck and call. The reason she isn't married is because no man in his right senses will want to get married to a 56 year old woman with serious mental issues.

Another thing is that the kind of men that wealthy, successful independent women like Kemi, LindanIkeji, Genevieve etc would be attracted to, tend to be on the top 10% percent of men, and these men are so alpha and so high value that their commitment and attention is so difficult to get. These men find it hard to commit to women, hence why most of these successful women hardly get married.

The more successful a woman becomes, the harder it is to get commitment from the high value men they are attracted to, because these men simply will not commit. So they either have to settle for the low value beta men that will willingly commit and endure a boring, unsatisfying relationship with him, or become sex partners/baby mamas to the high value men that won't commit.

Continue decieving yourself with the rubbish you wrote,your eye go soon clear.

Infolenka:
On a recent Instagram post Kemi Olunloyo stated that she doesn't want to get married because she won't submit to a man.

Quoting her she says:



https://m.facebook.com/KemiOlunloyo/photos/a.405424202878728/3584831488271301/?type=3

CONFUSED SOULS.

Infolenka:
On a recent Instagram post Kemi Olunloyo stated that she doesn't want to get married because she won't submit to a man.

Quoting her she says:



https://m.facebook.com/KemiOlunloyo/photos/a.405424202878728/3584831488271301/?type=3

This idiot again.wayray woman

NiRfreak:
She craves diick....she must be tired of her Dildos

NiRfreak:
She craves diick....she must be tired of her Dildos

Aunty kemi is a very strong woman to be able to decide she dosen't want to be a slave to a man that blood runs through his veins like her,to obey him,live in bondage and be controlled like she dosen't have brain to think for the rest of her life because african men are superior to their women,can think better than their women,but they never did something applaudable in the world's history with their brains other than opress their women,that is what makes them fufiled in life.Even though i didn't like aunty kemi before but with what she said,she has my respect.

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She still never get sense @ 56. See useless thinking. Was her mother stupid for being submissive to her father before Kemi could come this world?

BreconHills:


You addressed a biased generalised statement with a biased generalised statement which is fair enough. Neither of your points is accurate because they are both based on a polar " either or" basis. Polarity makes things clear - especially when tne prior statement is insulting or false. But its a reaction that ends up being as wrong as the original statement.

Lesbianism is not about "MEN" simple!

People are not lesbian because they miss men or are feminist or whatever trash y'all think about!

DamZik:
What is feminism?
Are you a woman?
Go and study feminists that have happy home. At home, they are opposite of what they preach.

Feminism is not about being a "woman" before you can understand that they deserve equality from a biased world!

Men can be feminist too so their daughters, sisters, girlfriends and female relatives can be protected from unfair treatments!

Tango123:


In ur bid to criticize the other man's opinion of feminism, u went with an opinion of feminism that is incorrect too, or should i say, an over generalisation

There is no one feminism. There are many. Ur notion of feminism is only one of them.

There are some types of feminism that wants to dominate men, that wants us to lockup any man a woman accuses pf rape or domestic violence, even without proof.

Have u read of essentialist feminism. This type of feminism believes that women are inherently or essentially good, nurturimg, kind, but men are inherently evil, wicked.

I believe in equality of the sexes and genders. But i disagree with some brands of feminism, such as the 2 i highlighted above

They are no other brands of feminism bro.

Why do y'all wanna talk about how "feminism" should be but refuse to address the issues that created feminism??

jajeri3216:


This nigga gay gay and a simp.

Listen to a gays advice on hetero sexual relationship at your peril.

Where are my redpillers at ;

So can you point out where I was wrong there?

Even if I'm gay or anything, I have sisters, cousins and girlfriends that I won't like that they go through the unfair treatments women has been receiving for years!

So bro sexuality aside, stop being bothered when women desire a fair hearing! Quit hiding behind "redpillers" and "non-simp" to facade your weakness and insecurity!

Creeza:
simp

I hope you do realize you'll have daughters someday mr non-simp

mattfeuter:


More balderdash!

Dang, your sickness is worse than I thought.

Lesbians are not attracted to YOU how hard is it to understand?? LESBIANS are not lesbians because they can't get diick or whatever useless opinions you make up in your head! Everything doesn't revolve around "YOU!!"

Stop being scared of successful women

mattfeuter:


[s]Shut up fool.

We’re taking about men with balls, not men who dey collect steady for yansh[/s].

You made zero point. I wonder how being toxic and cruel to women makes you a "real man"

Deep down you know it's the bitter truth!

helpee:
What is feminism? Cover up for frustrated women..That was how Linda ikeji was busy shouting feminism all over the internet while begging one guy secretly to wife her. This same aunty kemi even told us linda had to steal the sperm of the guy to make her baby. Feminism my foot

Why do you think feminists are women who don't want anything to do with men or lesbians?? why so insecure?

paix:
They're even aven angry with their fathers.

Like Asin not sexuality attracted to men! Not because they hate them

HuntSon:


Why do you think feminists are women who don't want anything to do with men or lesbians?? why so insecure?

well, kemi olunloyo that started this thread makes it look.like getting married is against her own form of feminism. Therefore, we can say that feminism like religion has different doctrines and chief among them is the desire to do without men. As per insecurity, who cares? I have too many wonderful women around me to be bothered about few frustrated ones who hide under the canopy of feminism to cover up their frustration.

No wonder this lady talks carelessly without caution. Please, marriage is not a scam. That you have no interest in it doesn't make it a scam. Many people are still enjoying their marital union with bliss. Kemi should be compelled to desist from misleading innocent young ladies who are still trying to understand the tenets of marriage. A bride price with accompanying traditional rites was paid on ur head as a bride and later you won't submit to the man that paid it? Who does that

HuntSon:


They are no other brands of feminism bro.

Why do y'all wanna talk about how "feminism" should be but refuse to address the issues that created feminism??

U know nothing John Snow

I will not argue with u

Just buy any book on feminism

As for me, i believe in equality of genders.

But i disagree with any brand of feminism that essentialises women as good, and men as bad

helpee:
well, kemi olunloyo that started this thread makes it look.like getting married is against her own form of feminism. Therefore, we can say that feminism like religion has different doctrines and chief among them is the desire to do without men. As per insecurity, who cares? I have too many wonderful women around me to be bothered about few frustrated ones who hide under the canopy of feminism to cover up their frustration.

I respectfully disagree with you. It's not surprising that men see women who advocate for equality as being hateful but if we keep sentiments aside, feminism is an English word, it has a definition and hating men isn't part of it. Please, do not get me wrong, there are women who really hate men. And they might even call themselves feminists but we aren't going to change the definition of feminism for these women, are we? If we do that, it would be a conscious and opportunistic attempt on our part to undermine the true goal of feminism. There's a name for hating men and that is misandry. Call them out.

Feminism is not a group where you sign up to join. It's a mindset and many people with that mindset don't even come out to say "we are feminists". You see it when they talk or act. So as an educated mind, it's up to you to decipher if someone is a feminist or a misandrist instead of putting them in the same box. Feminism is what it is and misandry is another thing. So when you see a misandrist, call her by that name regardless of what she chooses to call herself. Tell a misandrist who calls herself a feminist that she's being delusional cause feminism doesn't encourage what she does. That's the essence of education.

WoundedLamb:


I respectfully disagree with you. It's not surprising that men see women who advocate for equality as being hateful but if we keep sentiments aside, feminism is an English word, it has a definition and hating men isn't part of it. Please, do not get me wrong, there are women who really hate men. And they might even call themselves feminists but we aren't going to change the definition of feminism for these women, are we? If we do that, it would be a conscious and opportunistic attempt on our part to undermine the true goal of feminism. There's a name for hating men and that is misandry. Call them out.

Feminism is not a group where you sign up to join. It's a mindset and many people with that mindset don't even come out to say "we are feminists". You see it when they talk or act. So as an educated mind, it's up to you to decipher if someone is a feminist or a misandrist instead of putting them in the same box. Feminism is what it is and misandry is another thing. So when you see a misandrist, call her by that name regardless of what she chooses to call herself. Tell a misandrist who calls herself a feminist that she's being delusional cause feminism doesn't encourage what she does. That's the essence of education.

thanks. I have no reason to disagree with you. I think you are right

HuntSon:


I hope you do realize you'll have daughters someday mr non-simp

My daughters will definitely learn to spot the manipulative tendencies of both men and women. Woe betide me if I let them grow up without telling them the bitter truths and get them ready for life

The problem is our parents in their bid to shield us from the sexuality and trivial side of life did us more harm than good. My sons and daughters will take the miseducations of ubunja like daily manner. Three times a day, seven days a week until their brains are programmed to see the harsh realities of life. While of course I spoil them sparingly with fatherly love every rare purple moon.

No room for excuses and telling me one idiot broke your heart or manipulated you and because of that all men are scum.


Only women who grow up without strong father figures turn out to become feminists and most definitely pickmeshas!

HuntSon:


Feminism is not about being a "woman" before you can understand that they deserve equality from a biased world!

Men can be feminist too so their daughters, sisters, girlfriends and female relatives can be protected from unfair treatments!

unfair treatments such as?

My sister, there's nothing negative you can talk about marriage because God ordained it to be so. A woman that is submissive to her husband and nurture him experiences the best and successful marriage. A woman has all the power it takes to make her marriage work by being submissive, ignoring little things, forgive quickly, love hard, and above all, RESPECT her husband. Good sex, good food, looking good, without respect a man doesn't care. So my aunty, marriage is not a scam, and men are good. Stop misguiding single ladies because it is irrational to say the least.

Anty, you wor work well well.
My brother's cannot manage a remnant like you.
If you wan marry, go find omo Igbo, na them dey marry used olosho like you.

Told Zinny same thing I've been telling other girls. That I want a FWB stuff with her, since we fancy each other very much. No need to commit since it involve more serious emotions, and I will definitely not ask for commitment. Still got the same answer as before: No. No commitment, no "entanglement". You are only free to run your hands all over my whole body the way you like, and I don't mind taking off every piece of cloth on me for you. But my honey-hole is out of bounds....till you commit. I committed, and enjoyed wifely duties from her and the girls before her, and even though I didn't ask for it, they were submissive to an extent.

I'd prefer to run things with the Kemis of this world, at least since they won't need commitment too. But the truth of the matter is this: women are very possessive and territorial, and the moment a Kemi meets the man of her dreams(a man of higher social & financial status as well as good in bed), she will demand commitment from him, and will submit to him. It is just natural for women to submit in heterosexual relationships. The question is if the man is worth the submission in the first place.

For those who would mention me for counter-argument purposes, no much need doing so. The marriage institution may be living its last days. After that, baby-mamaism and other related cousins of relationship with marital strings attached would take over. I would love the new development, because I so much hate the idea of bride-price. Let's see which gender will enjoy the new order more

SimpDetector:
Submitting to a man doesn't indicate weakness, rather it indicates femininity. The desire to submit to a man is the quintessence of being a woman. Every woman wants to submit to a man, but there is a caveat: It has to be an attractive "alpha" man that's higher than her financially and in terms of social status.

Even so called feminists and independent women still have men that they submit to in private. These men own their bodies and they do whatever these men ask them to. But they'll come online to pretend and talk rubbish.

Even this Kemi has a powerful man that has her pussy on his beck and call. The reason she isn't married is because no man in his right senses will want to get married to a 56 year old woman with serious mental issues.

Another thing is that the kind of men that wealthy, successful independent women like Kemi, LindanIkeji, Genevieve etc would be attracted to, tend to be on the top 10% percent of men, and these men are so alpha and so high value that their commitment and attention is so difficult to get. These men find it hard to commit to women, hence why most of these successful women hardly get married.

The more successful a woman becomes, the harder it is to get commitment from the high value men they are attracted to, because these men simply will not commit. So they either have to settle for the low value beta men that will willingly commit and endure a boring, unsatisfying relationship with him, or become sex partners/baby mamas to the high value men that won't commit.

LOL....95/100! You obviously haven't met an alpha female.....Now these ones are reserved for the top 2% "high" value alpha male! craze pass craze my friend!