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Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 2:51am On Dec 31, 2020
RegalBeast:


While I understand your point, this is a "grey area" subject:

You see, back in the day when social media was new and pop culture was still decent, I made an intuitive observation that I shared with my female friends then. I said "most girls are only ever 80% straight, which means given the right circumstances, they can turn bisexual. But I cannot say the same for males" To my surprise, these girls agreed without much debate. Fast forward to today, that phenomenon is now common in society. So what ACTIVATED this dormant feature in many females? Feminism! You see, while trying to eradicate patriarchy (which I also would eradicate if I could), femisnism made the terrible mistake of pitching the genders against each other. A cold war ensued, and lead to people seeking alternatives to the opposite sex. Some shifted to porn (hence the rise in porn usage among men and women), some focused on career advancement (hence the rise in materialism), and some chose sexual experimentation! So yes, feminism is DIRECTLY responsible for the rise in bisexuality (or lesbianism) more common among women.

But it's hard to blame feminism when a lot of males out there still think it is okay to disrespect and mistreat women! That's why I call the subject a grey area.

You're not making any sense! People were always lesbians and bi before the rise of feminism.
Nothing activated nothing. It's not too hard to deal with the fact that they're ladies who are not sexually attracted to men.

Stop blaming different things because you're not in the equation. Feminism didn't pitch the genders against each other since men can also be feminists if they understand the true meaning and not run around in insecurity
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 2:53am On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
ANOTHER THRASH . WHO IS THIS PERSON THAT WILL PROTECT THEIR RIGHT ? WHATS THE RIGHT THAT HAS BEEN DENIED FROM THEM. WOMEN HAS NEVER QUESTION THE FACT THAT MEN ALWAYS PAY BRIDE PRICE, THEY NEVER WANTED TO GO INTO WAR WITH MEN ETC, BECUS THEY WANT AN EASY WORLD. WOMEN HAVE BEEN ONTOP OF ANY LEVEL THEY WANTED WITH 100% OF HELP COMING FROM MEHN. A WOMAN CN GET ANYTHING SHE WANTS, AND NO ONE CAN HELD THEM BACK

Okay you wanna act like and tell me that women are not the victims of alot of issues in the society??

The person who is going to protect their rights is "NOT YOU" but the LAW!
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 2:54am On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:



U KNOW BETTER. FEMINISTS ARE JUST SELFISH

Selfish because they said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH??
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 2:56am On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
. Trash. someone fighting for equality only where it favours them . feminism my foot

Won't it favour you? Won't you have daughters in future or don't you have mothers and sisters??
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by VickyRotex(f): 2:56am On Dec 31, 2020
ajepako:
Attention Babangbali/iyangbali/enemyofprogress//enemyofpeace( 5-man Werey)

See Fagin wife you dey find..

Vickyrotex, you're in charge of aso ebi and food

Funjosh, you hold him down so he doesn't run away..

Bwhahahahahaha finally we're bundling this ogbeni out of here.

Sister mi, trust me to handle those 2 areas judiciously grin grin

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Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 3:01am On Dec 31, 2020
Creeza:
My daughters will definitely learn to spot the manipulative tendencies of both men and women. Woe betide me if I let them grow up without telling them the bitter truths and get them ready for life

The problem is our parents in their bid to shield us from the sexuality and trivial side of life did us more harm than good. My sons and daughters will take the miseducations of ubunja like daily manner. Three times a day, seven days a week until their brains are programmed to see the harsh realities of life. While of course I spoil them sparingly with fatherly love every rare purple moon.

No room for excuses and telling me one idiot broke your heart or manipulated you and because of that all men are scum.


Only women who grow up without strong father figures turn out to become feminists and most definitely pickmeshas!


Hahahaha grin grin you wanna talk down the rights of other women and then think your daughter won't be affected too in the future because of how you will train them?? Hilarious! grin

So you want better for your daughters but not for other women? Better thing dey sweet you abi? cheesy
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 3:03am On Dec 31, 2020
Tango123:


U know nothing John Snow

I will not argue with u

Just buy any book on feminism

As for me, i believe in equality of genders.

But i disagree with any brand of feminism that essentialises women as good, and men as bad


No brand of feminism said "all men are bad", stop believing tales cooked up by weak and insecure men to hide the fact that oppressive power will be taken away from them
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Suuuru: 3:11am On Dec 31, 2020
Here is my application if you eventually change your opinion about marriage.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by CHoccolaTE: 4:32am On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
I HAVE SEEN WOMEN MADE IT TO THE TALLEST HEIGHT YET THEY HAD AN ADMIRING FAMILY . HAVE U EVER HEARD A FEMINIST WANTING TO PAY A GROOM PRICE ?
Stop quoting me with your archaic reasoning, thanks.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Funjosh(m): 6:50am On Dec 31, 2020
ajepako:
Attention Babangbali/iyangbali/enemyofprogress//enemyofpeace( 5-man Werey)

See Fagin wife you dey find..

Vickyrotex, you're in charge of aso ebi and food

Funjosh, you hold him down so he doesn't run away..


Make me hold mad man down, you no even like me. I go pay warders make them help me do the work.

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Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by IYANGBALI: 7:36am On Dec 31, 2020
VickyRotex:


Bwhahahahahaha finally we're bundling this ogbeni out of here.

Sister mi, trust me to handle those 2 areas judiciously grin grin

yinmu!
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 8:28am On Dec 31, 2020
CHoccolaTE:

Stop quoting me with your archaic reasoning, thanks.
U WANT TO BE EQUAL TO SOMEONE WHO DOES ALL THE WORK ? SLAY QUEENS ALWAYS WANTING A SELFISH RELATIONSHIP
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 8:33am On Dec 31, 2020
HuntSon:


Won't it favour you? Won't you have daughters in future or don't you have mothers and sisters??
I PRAY MY DAUGHTER BECME HARDWORKING ,AND NT A SLAY IDIOT FIGHTING FOR EQUALITY . ARE THERE NO PROMINENT FEMALES ? HOW DID THEY MAKE IT UP THERE ? U CNT HEAR THEM TALK ABT FEMINISM. U CN GET ANYTHING U WANT REGARDLESS OF GENDER
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 8:36am On Dec 31, 2020
HuntSon:


Selfish because they said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH??
WHAT IS THE ENOUGH THAT IS ENOUGH ? CANT THEY SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH WHEN IT COMES TO HARDWORKS ? CANT THEY SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH WHEN IT COMES TO MONEY SPENDING ? CNT THEY SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH WHERE IT DOESN'T FAVOUR THEM ?
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 8:42am On Dec 31, 2020
HuntSon:


Okay you wanna act like and tell me that women are not the victims of alot of issues in the society??

The person who is going to protect their rights is "NOT YOU" but the LAW!
AND THE LAW IS WRITEN BY WOMEN ? MEN HAVE TRIED ACCOMODATING WOMEN, BT WOMEN WANT MEN TO FALL TO THE FEET. FEMINISM IS THRASH. BT I STILL HAVE TO THANK U 4 UR CALM RESPONSE BRO, NT THE SO CALLED SLAY QUEENS FORMING FEMINIST
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Tango123: 9:12am On Dec 31, 2020
HuntSon:


No brand of feminism said "all men are bad", stop believing tales cooked up by weak and insecure men to hide the fact that oppressive power will be taken away from them

Go and read. .
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Tango123: 9:16am On Dec 31, 2020
HuntSon:


No brand of feminism said "all men are bad", stop believing tales cooked up by weak and insecure men to hide the fact that oppressive power will be taken away from them

Just a 3 second google search threw this up.

https://www.tutor2u.net/politics/reference/feminism-essentialism

Read and be educated. Stop arguing about what u know nothing. You dont know nothing.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by CHoccolaTE: 9:33am On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
U WANT TO BE EQUAL TO SOMEONE WHO DOES ALL THE WORK ? SLAY QUEENS ALWAYS WANTING A SELFISH RELATIONSHIP
Who is the one doing which all the work?
Lazy Nigerian men that cannot provide for their families, they are always crying that women must do 50/50 meanwhile they are not helping her at home with anything.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by RegalBeast: 9:43am On Dec 31, 2020
HuntSon:


You're not making any sense! People were always lesbians and bi before the rise of feminism.
Nothing activated nothing. It's not too hard to deal with the fact that they're ladies who are not sexually attracted to men.

Stop blaming different things because you're not in the equation. Feminism didn't pitch the genders against each other since men can also be feminists if they understand the true meaning and not run around in insecurity

Sorry, I thought you were capable of deep reasoning hence my taking time to expound on the grey areas most people miss. But the fact that you began with "you are not making any sense" already tells me enough. I apologise.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Nobody: 10:03am On Dec 31, 2020
foleskay:

Yeyeyen because it suits your narrative. Best comment my foot. undecided
Bros snipper na #50.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Sophiecutie: 10:10am On Dec 31, 2020
I have just gone to read up about Kemi Olunloyo.
From what I was able to deduce from her story, she had a very frightening and abusive background. Imagine a girl child having children from her own biological father, her family wasn't a peaceful one.
According to her, her father used charm to have sex with all his daughters. She hates her father. She is always afraid of touch. Her case is a truly from sexual abuse and molestation.
I think she should be pitied and not condemn.
You can also pray for her in your closet. It's only Christ that can heal such pain, only Him and there are many out there with such trauma. It is well with her.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Nobody: 10:24am On Dec 31, 2020
The person wey break your heart no dey here abeg....
Take it easy grin
HuntSon:


This is one of the reasons why most women prefer being single moms because phew!!!!!!!!

You can't even take properly care of the so called "expired newspapers" but you're here running your mouth, bitch ass men!
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 11:08am On Dec 31, 2020
CHoccolaTE:

Who is the one doing which all the work?
Lazy Nigerian men that cannot provide for their families, they are always crying that women must do 50/50 meanwhile they are not helping her at home with anything.
MENTION ONE MAN WHO DOES WHAT U JUST SAID. THE WHITES WHO BROUGHT THIS FEMINISM OF A THING RESPECT THEIR MEN ALOT, AND THATS WHY THEIR MEN TEND TO PUT UP LAWS TO PROTECT THEM. WHAT WE HAVE HERE IN NIGERIA IS LAZY SLAY QUEENS WHO DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO OFFER TO THIS WORLD.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by foleskay(m): 11:13am On Dec 31, 2020
iamloyalty:


Bros snipper na #50.
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I guess one of ur elders committed suicide by snipper undecided
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Derinofzion(f): 11:53am On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
and u ended up talking thrash. WOMEN ARE STILL PROTECTED BY MEN, AND IF THEY DNT ALSO WANT WOMEN TO HAVE STAND, ITS JUST EASY . WIMPY GENDER
You know what i wrote is correct but you have to call it thrash because it dosen't suit you.You people feel you are the owner of power but you are just decieving yourself with stupid theories to make you feel better.Also your mother and your female relative you claim to protect are wimps not the whole female gender.Mr protector continue talking thrash.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 2:04pm On Dec 31, 2020
Derinofzion:
You know what i wrote is correct but you have to call it thrash because it dosen't suit you.You people feel you are the owner of power but you are just decieving yourself with stupid theories to make you feel better.Also your mother and your female relative you claim to protect are wimps not the whole female gender.Mr protector continue talking thrash.
WHAT HAVE A WOMAN EVER OFFERED TO THIS WORLD? UR MOTHER, GRAND MOTHER , FEMALE RELATIVES AND YOU ARE WIMPS BECAUSE THEY ARE WOMEN TOO.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Derinofzion(f): 6:17pm On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
WHAT HAVE A WOMAN EVER OFFERED TO THIS WORLD? UR MOTHER, GRAND MOTHER , FEMALE RELATIVES AND YOU ARE WIMPS BECAUSE THEY ARE WOMEN TOO.
Like i said earlier your female relatives are the coward and weak you mentioned not the female gender and not my female relative cos they are not cowards but yours.You also need to get a life and work hard to be able to contribute something to the world since you are a man instead of crying all over nairaland and attacking every comment that does not suit you,COWARD.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 6:24pm On Dec 31, 2020
Derinofzion:
Like i said earlier your female relatives are the coward and weak you mentioned not the female gender and not my female relative cos they are not cowards but yours.You also need to get a life and work hard to be able to contribute something to the world since you are a man instead of crying all over nairaland and attacking every comment that does not suit you,COWARD.


I HAVE DONE 100% BETTER THAN ANY LADY MY LEVEL. U ARE THE ONLY ONE WANTING AN EASY WORLD. WHAT HAVE YOU AND YOUR FEMALE RELATIVES DONE ON THIS EARTH? ALWAYS CRYING TO REAP EVEN THEY DIDN'T SEW ANYTHING. YOUR FEMALE RELATIVES HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD . simps
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Derinofzion(f): 6:51pm On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
WHAT HAVE A WOMAN EVER OFFERED TO THIS WORLD? UR MOTHER, GRAND MOTHER , FEMALE RELATIVES AND YOU ARE WIMPS BECAUSE THEY ARE WOMEN TOO.
When i checked your picture i saw that you are not the type of person i should be arguing with and please stop mentioning me cos i wont reply you,so BYE.
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by Akuruoulo(m): 7:04pm On Dec 31, 2020
Derinofzion:
When i checked your picture i saw that you are not the type of person i should be arguing with and please stop mentioning me cos i wont reply you,so BYE.

At least I proudly uploaded mine.
I Wish u do the same if u are truly better .
That's is my 2016 pics, and it's still good to go
Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by CHoccolaTE: 9:19pm On Dec 31, 2020
Akuruoulo:
MENTION ONE MAN WHO DOES WHAT U JUST SAID. THE WHITES WHO BROUGHT THIS FEMINISM OF A THING RESPECT THEIR MEN ALOT, AND THATS WHY THEIR MEN TEND TO PUT UP LAWS TO PROTECT THEM. WHAT WE HAVE HERE IN NIGERIA IS LAZY SLAY QUEENS WHO DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO OFFER TO THIS WORLD.

Many Nigerian men are just criminals and scammers, they don't deserve respect or submission.

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Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by HuntSon(m): 12:40am On Jan 01, 2021
Tango123:


Go and read. .

You too undecided

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