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If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by go4value(m): 9:15pm On Jan 15, 2021
PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE!

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world,.if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love"with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.
No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite sex.
This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close
friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your heart is involved.
Set boundaries.
Be disciplined.
Be cordial.
Be respectful.
Be godly.
Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite sex friend.
It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite sex you are fond of.
If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite sex.

5. Don't tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy.
That private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick.
This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite sex.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite sex. For what?

9. Work on your Marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance.alive in your Marriage.

10. Protect your Family.
Don't share your marital problems with your opposite sex friend. It will bond you.

11. Never flirt with the opposite sex.

12. Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as sexy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

14. Don't chat with the opposite sex on the days you are Hot.

15. Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.
If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can "understand" you and make you happy aside your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual sexual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!

What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose. Don't smell it!

Don't start what you cannot finish!

Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs. They will destroy your marriage!

Let this message get to the Good Women Leader and Men's Fellowship Leader and let them share it on their various group platforms so all married men and women will get it. Let them discuss it at their meetings.

The Lord will keep our homes, marriages.�� Amen.

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Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by Bola146(f): 9:21pm On Jan 15, 2021
Thanks. I pray I see a responsible man with exact caring character like me cheesy

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Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by InfernoNig: 9:31pm On Jan 15, 2021
We pray for self control. Cos the guy down there, have a mind of his own
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by culf: 9:31pm On Jan 15, 2021
its just prayer and grace no God, its not by rules.

Have you seen when 2 people, meet themselves for the first time, one thing lead to another and they end up having unplanned sex?
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by culf: 9:34pm On Jan 15, 2021
Bola146:
Thanks. I pray I see a responsible man with exact caring character like me cheesy

they are so many around just that most of them are not flashy or conspicuous.


Good luck!!
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by Bola146(f): 9:47pm On Jan 15, 2021
culf:


they are so many around just that most of them are not flashy or conspicuous.


Good luck!!

Thanks Mr Flashy and conspicuous sad
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by NeoWanZaeed(m): 9:47pm On Jan 15, 2021
Bola146:
Thanks. I pray I see a responsible man with exact caring character like me cheesy
smiling . .BOLA o o o
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by NeoWanZaeed(m): 9:51pm On Jan 15, 2021
What i know is that, either u give ur spouse everything or not, if your spouse would leave, he or she would leave. Its really difficult these days. .extremely. . To see a well behaved spouse
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by culf: 11:28pm On Jan 15, 2021
Bola146:


Thanks Mr Flashy and conspicuous sad


Thanks Madam Responsible and caring Character
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by greencard: 2:16am On Jan 16, 2021
NeoWanZaeed:
What i know is that, either u give ur spouse everything or not, if your spouse would leave, he or she would leave. Its really difficult these days. .extremely. . To see a well behaved spouse
stop thinking this way , it's bad for your mental health
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by tobechi74: 2:31am On Jan 16, 2021
Only one rule is necessary: tell each other every detail in your life without lying.

Keep this rule, you will never cheat k owing that u will have to tell her
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by olanrewaju93375: 6:01am On Jan 16, 2021
:Thanks Mr Flashy and conspicuous Thanks Madam Responsible and caring Character
Re: If You Wish To Remain Faithful To Your Spouse by Shortyyy(f): 8:35am On Jan 16, 2021
Bola146:
Thanks. I pray I see a responsible man with exact caring character like me cheesy


Lmao, in this world or the next?

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