Bornu1stSon:
Words

Nairalanders should take their time and read this. It is rich indeed.

We are not in any battle with anyone. If you say you want to take up the duty of the men in the family since you like power, we won't complain.Have we ever complained about you trying to be the head of the family, was it written on our forehead that we are the head of the family.

All these are just pictures painted on your head by your shortsidedness or your unfortunate relationship. It is not and never a yardstick for judgement

Lalasticlala Seun Rocktation

Donald95:

So my dear friends, there is no competition between men and women, a man here may refuse his wife power like our president that doesn't mean that there is no men like Willie Obiano that allowed his wife to wield powers.

mynd44 lalasticlala Seun dominique Rocktation

Chizuru01:


Olosho will always be Olosho, home and away.

I saw that thread and went down on my knees, begging God to please give me a wife that won't look for a fault in me and will be able to stay with me if there is a problem already

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jimmychang:
I go down on my knees and pray God I never wanna looseguard

Donald95:


Thanks for understanding.

My girlfriend when I was in Secondary school once told, "I had sex with your guy, go and Die " because she thought I was doing such with my new friend.

Today, this thought are still yet to leave some married people. Some people will align with outsiders just to deal with there partner that did them wrong or lied and most times they end up destroying everything.

Most people are in marriage but are not matured enough for it

phazotron:



The stupidity is real.

Bornu1stSon:


Lol, a woman or girl decided to be sleeping around like men, just to prove equality with men

Isn't that funny she think that she is doing me not knowing she is doing herself.

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Scientists:

apatheticme:


Well, from my own viewpoint, Cheating on your spouse/partner as the case may be while married or in a relationship, regardless of gender or circumstances is wrong and condemnable!! Highly condemnable!!!

Having read through this her story (at least the first page), I'm of the opinion that she's either a good story teller for blog related/traffic/revenue reasons, or she's just here to chase clout. Personally I wouldn't be too surprised if it's actually a male behind that moniker, especially owing to several areas of exasperating exaggerations and innuendos!

However, moving forward, if your spouse is impotent/sterile and you can't look for other means of pleasuring both yourselves and opting for IVF, artifical insemination etc to get kids or adoption, then the honorable thingy would be to divorce rather than turn into a public dog!

She's not a feminist! The word feminism has been abused on this site/in this country to mean or imply man-hating. No, feminists (true ones) do not hate men, they only advocate and push for equal opportunities for both genders.

There exists 3 major schools of thought of feminism, the 3rd school of thought which is the radical feminists are those who hate men and propagate battle of the sexes as well as unhealthy rivalry between the sexes!

Men and women are unequal, we can never be. We are unique in our different ways, and play various roles. We ought to complement each other, rather than fight for supremacy! What is being advocated is equal OPPORTUNITIES rather than equality of the SEXES!

Good morning!

BRATISLAVA:


This scientists matter is still ongoing? Scientists, stop mentioning me on such matters. Most are invented scenarios by a few misogynists with multiple accounts.

Nairaland has been so boring in past months as every thread is used to abuse and batter women, so much do that it's not worth it responding to mentions. The paid stories are getting out of hand. The technique is so clear. Create thread in which man is the supposed victim, use multiple accounts to bash women, silence any contrary opinion and in a short time you have people who are genuinely influenced by looney social experiment threads.

But anywhere I see men using those threads to wreak havoc in the life of a woman needlessly by extension, to abuse and denigrate women needlessly and endlessly, to create baseless assumptions and brainwash themselves with senseless male plots, fantasies and agendas -- I will debunk it.

But to engage with scientists? No. That single, first exposure was filled with so much misogyny from him that there's no point engaging further.

Good points up there, Apatheticme.

apatheticme:


Sure, I concur with all you said! That's exactly the scenario playing out on this forum, paid/sponsored misogyny, tribalism and/or contemporary day slavery and subservience to anything Caucasian! I don't blame them, sensationalism/traffic is what puts food on their table! Wahala for who nor understand their tactics! They're just tryna survive!


@bolded, on the humor me part of life is why I responded to his mention, seeing as it was imperative he got my view as regards the topic/story/falsehood even after several instances of being insulted by him.

It is what it is, I know who I am, and according to Theodore Roosevelt, No ONE can actually make ME feel inferior WITHOUT my CONSENT!!

Millions of him, both online and offline ain't got nothing on me! I'll say it as I see it, regardless of whose Ox is gored!

BRATISLAVA:




This forum will be alright one day, but certainly not now. Some mentions truly aren't worth a reply because you know you are dealing with misogynistic parrots, even common sense and logic don't work on them anymore. I'm surprised you would even reply him.

Keep riding on the clouds, they got nothing on you

apatheticme:


@the bolded, I don't hold grudges! What you see is basically what you get with me! You play it cool, I'm the coolest chick on the block! You act like a jerk, then I could also become the greatest jerk ever liveth!

apatheticme:
Oh, sure sounds like fun. I'll check it out whenever I'm less busy. Tnks!

BRATISLAVA:

It's a good way to live -- free and without any burdens -- and it's admirable. Doubtful you've ever been a jerk here. Been killing then with niceness, esp this guy.

Problem is I don't suffer fools gladly, so can't engage him again when he turns up.





You won't regret the food pics and recipes. You're welcome!

BRATISLAVA:


This scientists matter is still ongoing? Scientists, stop mentioning me on such matters. Most are invented scenarios by a few misogynists with multiple accounts.

Nairaland has been so boring in past months as every thread is used to abuse and batter women, so much do that it's not worth it responding to mentions. The paid stories are getting out of hand. The technique is so clear. Create thread in which man is the supposed victim, use multiple accounts to bash women, silence any contrary opinion and in a short time you have people who are genuinely influenced by looney social experiment threads.

But anywhere I see men using those threads to wreak havoc in the life of a woman needlessly by extension, to abuse and denigrate women needlessly and endlessly, to create baseless assumptions and brainwash themselves with senseless male plots, fantasies and agendas -- I will debunk it.

But to engage with scientists? No. That single, first exposure was filled with so much misogyny from him that there's no point engaging further.

Good points up there, Apatheticme.

apatheticme:


Well, from my own viewpoint, Cheating on your spouse/partner as the case may be while married or in a relationship, regardless of gender or circumstances is wrong and condemnable!! Highly condemnable!!!

Having read through this her story (at least the first page), I'm of the opinion that she's either a good story teller for blog related/traffic/revenue reasons, or she's just here to chase clout. Personally I wouldn't be too surprised if it's actually a male behind that moniker, especially owing to several areas of exasperating exaggerations and innuendos!

However, moving forward, if your spouse is impotent/sterile and you can't look for other means of pleasuring both yourselves and opting for IVF, artifical insemination etc to get kids or adoption, then the honorable thingy would be to divorce rather than turn into a public dog!

She's not a feminist! The word feminism has been abused on this site/in this country to mean or imply man-hating. No, feminists (true ones) do not hate men, they only advocate and push for equal opportunities for both genders.

There exists 3 major schools of thought of feminism, the 3rd school of thought which is the radical feminists are those who hate men and propagate battle of the sexes as well as unhealthy rivalry between the sexes!

Men and women are unequal, we can never be. We are unique in our different ways, and play various roles. We ought to complement each other, rather than fight for supremacy! What is being advocated is equal OPPORTUNITIES rather than equality of the SEXES!

Good morning!

apatheticme:


Sure, I concur with all you said! That's exactly the scenario playing out on this forum, paid/sponsored misogyny, tribalism and/or contemporary day slavery and subservience to anything Caucasian! I don't blame them, sensationalism/traffic is what puts food on their table! Wahala for who nor understand their tactics! They're just tryna survive!


@bolded, on the humor me part of life is why I responded to his mention, seeing as it was imperative he got my view as regards the topic/story/falsehood even after several instances of being insulted by him.

It is what it is, I know who I am, and according to Theodore Roosevelt, No ONE can actually make ME feel inferior WITHOUT my CONSENT!!

Millions of him, both online and offline ain't got nothing on me! I'll say it as I see it, regardless of whose Ox is gored!

BRATISLAVA:

It's a good way to live -- free and without any burdens -- and it's admirable. Doubtful you've ever been a jerk here. Been killing then with niceness, esp this guy.

Problem is I don't suffer fools gladly, so can't engage him again when he turns up.





You won't regret the food pics and recipes. You're welcome!

LadySarah:
SMH. you guys don't get it do you?Theres no competition with he goats. The thread only exposed what Nigerians esp the malefolk don't wanna hear/know.That your sex starved wife may cheat and most times with a married male.
That women love sex the way men do.
Is it that we hate the truth or what?

I did advice her later to discontinue cos one day an angry wife will douse her with acid or death. .

Her husband knows what she's doing. why is it our problem?