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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:22pm On Jan 21, 2021

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:33pm On Jan 21, 2021
Scientists:


I never insulted you. I am very careful with my choice of words.

As the op pointed out here, there is no competition anywhere, I was trying to let you understand my point but you ended up being Emotionally unstable, which is understandable sha, after all you are a lady and it's nature.

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by phazotron(m): 11:48pm On Jan 21, 2021
Bornu1stSon:


Lol, a woman or girl decided to be sleeping around like men, just to prove equality with men cheesy

Isn't that funny she think that she is doing me not knowing she is doing herself.


Many Nigerian girls stupid though.

When stingy men association dey trend

Na so dem start their own say them no go open leg

Money for hand back for ground people

Commodities

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Sixfeetbelle: 1:50am On Jan 22, 2021
I don't get why Op made this post. What is it for exactly?

A lady posted about her affairs because she wanted to. It has nothing to do with competition, or power drag or anything. If women wanted to drag power with men, cheating is definitely not the way to go about it, trust me.

If her husband was cheating and she cheated as a revenge, then you can say it was a competition or a power drag or whatever tag you deem fit. But, no, none of that was the case here. She willingly and heartily went into cheating, so I don't get the essence of the preaching.

Tbh, for you to post that men are not in competition with women says a lot about what you felt after reading that thread. I mean, you could have opened this 'notice me' thread last year, or last two weeks, why wait till after that particular thread? Obviously, you saw it as a competition and came out on behalf of the rest of the guys to state "It's not a competition" as if anyone ever said it was. When you post a big signage that has in red, bold letters the words: I'm not scared, it actually shows you are. That's common psychology, my dear.

Finally, dear Op, women will continue to cheat because they want to, same way women will continue to do everything they do simply because they want to.

Cc: Donald95

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by BRATISLAVA: 2:00pm On Jan 22, 2021
apatheticme:


@the bolded; Between me and you who is emotionally unstable?? And not just emotions now, you're obviously mentally challenged and deranged!!

I stated my opinion, somehow the only thing your warped mind could come up with is "afterall you are a lady". You must have really suffered in your first life in the hands of a woman!!

Cos the way your brain has been wired to think only in terms of gender divide as regards every little thing, rather than perceive people as humans first before seeing and blaming their gender for whatever issues present is simply astonishing!!

May you find healing for your troubled soul and low self esteem!

You can see why I would not respond to that fellow, even if he uses his g.enq friendly handles.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 4:07pm On Jan 22, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


You can see why I would not respond to that fellow, even if he uses his g.enq friendly handles.

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by BRATISLAVA: 5:41pm On Jan 22, 2021
apatheticme:


Exactly!!!

You warned me, and that was the one thing that crossed my mind when I saw the rubbish he responded with in his mention!

The guy is just plain hopeless and exasperating!


The men who put up hateful posts about women can never change. Leopards can't change their spots -- they can only try to hide them.

Any thing you say will become, "the feeble thoughts of a woman" because their manhood will disappear if anything a female says is true.

Heck, there are the ones who immediately shut down any female post because, they know what you are saying is right but they have been programmed to dismiss and brand anything that doesn't follow misogyny as "female thoughts, and they will never regard them". Once you see them, you'll just know it's one of those types who are hopeless. You cannot reason with their programming.

Wonder how they function in reality. Probably so damaged and full of baggage. The women in their lives must be desperados.

The thing that made them so bitter is yet to be uncovered, but I think some of them are actually angry gays or incels.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 8:59pm On Jan 22, 2021
apatheticme:


@the bolded; I remember telling you that your thought processes were absurd!

I'm neither parochial nor biased. I call it as I see it, no time to edit!!


It's a woman sign. You are too emotional. That's why you people are too dangerous when invested with power.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 9:15pm On Jan 22, 2021
phazotron:



Many Nigerian girls stupid though.

When stingy men association dey trend

Na so dem start their own say them no go open leg

Money for hand back for ground people

Commodities

Those SWAN girls just verified our assertions that whether she is in brothel, hotel, Class room, Lecture hall,e.t.c so far as money was exchanged for sex, they are all Oloshos
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 9:21pm On Jan 22, 2021
apatheticme:


Exactly!!!

You warned me, and that was the one thing that crossed my mind when I saw the rubbish he responded with in his mention!

The guy is just plain hopeless and exasperating!

I wanted our conversation to be as friendly as possible. But, you got emotional listening to BRATISLAVA that is purposely painting a bad picture in ur Head against me just to make u her friend.


Is it a crime to call your action "Women nature or pattern" ?
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:23pm On Jan 22, 2021
BRATISLAVA:



The men who put up hateful posts about women can never change. Leopards can't change their spots -- they can only try to hide them.

Any thing you say will become, "the feeble thoughts of a woman" because their manhood will disappear if anything a female says is true.

Heck, there are the ones who immediately shut down any female post because, they know what you are saying is right but they have been programmed to dismiss and brand anything that doesn't follow misogyny as "female thoughts, and they will never regard them". Once you see them, you'll just know it's one of those types who are hopeless. You cannot reason with their programming.

Wonder how they function in reality. Probably so damaged and full of baggage. The women in their lives must be desperados.

The thing that made them[b] so bitter is yet to be uncovered[/b], but I think some of them are actually angry gays or incels.


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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:29pm On Jan 22, 2021
Scientists:


It's a woman sign. You are too emotional. That's why you people are too dangerous when invested with power.

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:32pm On Jan 22, 2021
Scientists:


I wanted our conversation to be as friendly as possible. But, you got emotional listening to BRATISLAVA that is purposely painting a bad picture in ur Head against me just to make u her friend.


Is it a crime to call your action "Women nature or pattern" ?


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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by BRATISLAVA: 8:47am On Jan 23, 2021
apatheticme:


Ogbeni, suit yourself! I got stuff to do!

Woman bad, no wahala, woman good no wahala! Do whatever you fvkng like! It's a free world!
I knew he was not a reasonable person, so no matter how many times he called me out, I would not react.

He is looking for how to blame a perceived female. I knew he would do that. He's now playing victim.

Did I feed scientists the words he used to show that he's bigoted? Did I respond for him?

In his mind everything about women is emotional, even when it's not. He comes off as emotional.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by BRATISLAVA: 9:04am On Jan 23, 2021
apatheticme:


As in, it's rather amusing!

@bolded or just plain broke! Most Broke niggars are naturally angry! And the easiest target to take out their anger on is a female, cos she's supposedly weak and can't throw punches!

Hmm, they will never address if the brokeness is what makes them such bitter incels. Instead they will say you're gold digging if you tell them that it's poverty that makes them so concerned in women matters. Poor men naturally take to bullying women and trying to assert their superiority.[i]


A funny incident occurred in recent times to me that made me wonder just how bad this gender discrimination thing is in our society, coupled with the current level of poverty and hatred of anything female and comfortable!

[i]If I tell you half of them are poverty-stricken men with nothing to live for, whose only pleasure is in bullying women and thinking about sex, you may not believe it. The other half have mummy issues. And the other half of that half have been taught a lesson in life that they refuse to learn from, only to grow bitter. And some are just plain gays.



I took my car to a car wash last week and I sat down waiting for the boys to finish their job while surfing the web on my phone, to my amazement, I just heard a man raising his voice and quarelling in anger with the car wash boys, I unplugged my earphones and tried listening, and I was genuinely amazed to hear him say "why would you wash a woman's car before my own", and the car wash boys were making attempts to calm him down that someone was already assigned to wash his car. The way he said the "woman" was so derogatory that, you could practically feel his frustrations and pain as he vibrated with hate and anger. It was quite funny a sight to behold!

It will interest you to know that the hatred they reserve for women who drive is a very special one. Who did this thing up them? I wonder if their wives will ever hold a steering wheel.

However, I looked around and soon realized the major source of his angst, he drove a Toyota Matrix meanwhile I drive a 4matic Benz 2015. I just quietly plugged my earphones back on and ignored his rantings, I didn't say a word. He soon got tired and drove off in a rage. When I got home, I told my husband and he just shook his head and said if it were to be him, he would have ignored the man too! I told my husband if it were you, he wouldn't behave that way.

Exactly! Laughing at the angst part. Inferiority complex is a dangerous thing. Can you see how emotionally stable men like that are? See how he missed the opportunity to have his car washed at once.

I think I'll take finally take your advice, just ignore them and live my life!

Please, ignore them.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:29am On Jan 23, 2021
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Inferiority complex is very dangerous, it eats them inside out!

It also reflects the kinda upbringing they had, their mothers and the females around them were probably treated like trash, and kept out of the scheme of things such that they could only depend on the overrated egoistic males around for feeding or taking any reasonable decision, so they go on to project that image on every female out there.

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:32am On Jan 23, 2021

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 4:38pm On Jan 23, 2021
BRATISLAVA:

I knew he was not a reasonable person, so no matter how many times he called me out, I would not react.

He is looking for how to blame a perceived female. I knew he would do that. He's now playing victim.

Did I feed scientists the words he used to show that he's bigoted? Did I respond for him?

In his mind everything about women is emotional, even when it's not. He comes off as emotional.


You are wrong. I don't look for how to blame a perceived female. But i pity them whenever I see them controlled by there emotion. I just play big brother wen they haul me insults because I already know that women are female and must always be one
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 4:48pm On Jan 23, 2021
apatheticme:


I nor blame you, it's a faceless forum!

If you knew me in real life, you'll know that 'emotional' is the least of the ways/words to describe me! You and your ilks specialize in AWALT, so there's no way you'll believe I'm not like any other woman out there.

I'm as apathetic as you can ever think, but then again na you get your mouth/hand, anything you like you use am talk/type. I'm done explaining or proving myself to you, I owe you no damn explanation for anything!


Okay
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 4:51pm On Jan 23, 2021
apatheticme:


Inferiority complex is very dangerous, it eats them inside out!

It also reflects the kinda upbringing they had, their mothers and the females around them were probably treated like trash, and kept out of the scheme of things such that they could only depend on the overrated egoistic males around for feeding or taking any reasonable decision, so they go on to project that image on every female out there.

My mum understood that she doesn't have power to make some certain decisions, That's why she always suggest her points not impose it on the family and I think to very huge extent, our family where actually peaceful
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 4:55pm On Jan 23, 2021
apatheticme:


Honestly, I clearly grasp your line of thought right now. It's almost as if he just talks, and yaps away with no single atom of sense!

I wonder if he actually has a brain!

For a self acclaimed nairaland resident scientist, he sure sounds like a human who suffered cerebral palsy at birth!

You talk intelligently mostly when you don't allow Emotions to take over you.

It is actually a good thing if u look at it from an angle as it will be hard for u to hide your feelings when things are not right in ur family. But, it is not good when having a conversation
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:15pm On Jan 23, 2021
Scientists:


My mum understood that she doesn't have power to make some certain decisions, That's why she always suggest her points not impose it on the family and I think to very huge extent, our family where actually peaceful


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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:19pm On Jan 23, 2021
Scientists:


You talk intelligently mostly when you don't allow Emotions to take over you.

It is actually a good thing if u look at it from an angle as it will be hard for u to hide your feelings when things are not right in ur family. But, it is not good when having a conversation

Mtchewwww!

Read what you wrote again, is this even intelligible?? Why not just type in pidgin English or your dialect, cos obviously you are having some trouble putting your befuddled thoughts to words!
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 8:31am On Jan 24, 2021
apatheticme:


Mtchewwww!

Read what you wrote again, is this even intelligible?? Why not just type in pidgin English or your dialect, cos obviously you are having some trouble putting your befuddled thoughts to words!
Parrot
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Scientists(m): 8:42am On Jan 24, 2021
apatheticme:



No one is talking about imposing decisions, you're the one yapping about women too emotional to make decisions. If your mom was emotional, doesn't mean I am. Stop tagging me emotional when you don't even know me, that's just plain dumb!

Good luck to your mom, but don't ever think for once that everywoman particularly me is relegated to the backstage of life!

Infact, if I haven't spoken in certain circumstances, my husband will categorically tell you that 'pls wait until I discuss with my wife'. Depicting the fact that my opinion matters and I have a voice! Even if we are going to do what he says, he still runs it by me!


We have exhausted this topic and we are now in deadlock. When another reasonable trend comes up, i will tag u.

I home u wont get emotional like small girl who lost her toy. Bye

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:31am On Jan 24, 2021
Scientists:
Parrot

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by apatheticme(f): 10:33am On Jan 24, 2021
Scientists:


We have exhausted this topic and we are now in deadlock. When another reasonable trend comes up, i will tag u.

I home u wont get emotional like small girl who lost her toy. Bye

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Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Magnoliaa(f): 7:38pm On Dec 31, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
You can see why I would not respond to that fellow, even if he uses his g.enq friendly handles.

So that monicker belongs to that dude? What ever gave you the impression that h* is friendly with h*s main? HAHA!
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by BRATISLAVA: 8:16pm On Dec 31, 2021
Magnoliaa:


So that monicker belongs to that dude? What ever gave you the impression that h* is friendly with h*s main? HAHA!

Bringing heat to the coals? cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin

From his excessive quotes back to back, and certain mannerisms, it was clear that they were the same. They/he is now blissfully quiet.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Magnoliaa(f): 8:18pm On Dec 31, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Bringing heat to the coals? cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin

From his excessive quotes back to back, and certain mannerisms, it was clear that they were the same. They/he is now blissfully quiet.

Lmao. I no even care. I just wan know how you take find out ni. I'll keep it in mind to stay away from that monicker, amongst others.

H*s e-life, h*s choices.
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by BRATISLAVA: 8:47pm On Dec 31, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Lmao. I no even care. I just wan know how you take find out ni. I'll keep it in mind to stay away from that monicker, amongst others.

H*s e-life, h*s choices.



He would come with one moniker then hide four blocks away with another one to strike like wet tissue. Same MO. He would be lucid and yet deranged all at once.

When "they" were at it there were a lot of campaigns on my alternate monikers. I am Hathour and Pocahontas. I am MariahLavina. I am you, too —and enjoying this monologue. I run Jalopy2008 on good days. grin

Have you began censoring those words now? I thought it was only Instagram where h* is forbidden cheesy
Re: Addressing Adultresss issue and Other matters Arising by Magnoliaa(f): 9:11pm On Dec 31, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
He would come with one moniker then hide four blocks away with another one to strike like wet tissue. Same MO. He would be lucid and yet deranged all at once.

When "they" were at it there were a lot of campaigns on my alternate monikers. I am Hathour and Pocahontas. I am MariahLavina. I am you, too —and enjoying this monologue. I run Jalopy2008 on good days. grin

Have you began censoring those words now? I thought it was only Instagram where h* is forbidden cheesy

cheesy I see. I guess it's because you and I started interacting fairly recently, I was wrongly attributing this newness to your moniker. 'Cos I was wondering how you knew that guy and the nonsense they all do. I forgot you're an old-timer. Plus I hardly see any older member without a gender next to their usernames - only 'new' monickers do that.

grin All of us have been all of us at one point o. I think that's very peculiar to that guy. Accusing some lady's monicker of being a thousand other monickers.

How the heeeeckkk did they ever accused of you of being Jalopee2008?? Whaat?? What's the link? How??

Oh, yeah. My own censoring is self-induced o. If I no want, I no dey like to dey refer to them directly. I didn't know 'he' is censored on Instagram.

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