Offpoint1:
Wedding a means of people wasting their funds to satisfy others people attention.


When I'm ready, I arrange meeting with both families to seek their blessings and approval, send her village people 1 quarter of what is needed and promise to get back to them and after that babies next... No public nonsense.


And for the village people waiting for me to get back to them, unto them shall my word be like that of a HR to a Nigerian job seeker.

Lol! You bad gan o

Wo oko iyawo do as you wish but remember(nigerian girls are useless all of them all of them i replY all of them) as for ME i de do mine 9year to come

As for me i plan mine for by god's grace 50million naira i know say that time 9ja go don better i go CALL seun,lala,and the rest of the crew

I know a person that spent over 4m, from his pocket alone, not including the wife's family and his immediate family's money. Musicians come, people carry take away, expensive souvenirs and stuff.

The thing no last 3 years

Funny thing is will be do it again?
If the money dey yes!!! A wedding is a thing to be celebrated. Enjoy the day. If he perish he perish.

Just don't borrow oooo. Na there wahala dey

You don't need to impress other family cause of wedding program.... let the effective of your money reflect on your wife body and open a business for her to survive, especially in this sh** country.

chatinent:
You can do a modest wedding with ₦300k, and have some amount left.


Use your religious premises as venue.
Hire a reasonable amount of canopy for the after fun.



Cook modestly. Hire your sisters to be the committee for it.

Hire a good but cost-effective wedding gown.

If you have a suit, wear it. You can only buy a new shirt.

On that day,


Get married and go home with your beautiful wife.

Don't let anyone talk you into operation feeding the nation and pleasing onlookers. Always do things according to your balance.


There's life after weddings make you no go borrow rice in the morning.

He said Modest not "As far I Marry"


Abi na 1 basket of rice He wan cook?

I will not say anything.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga better cut your Coat according to your size

Cloth

Uyi168:
...
Give her belle fess..


U never can trust ladies these days..

Wise words

150k is perfect.
Attendees: 20 or less from both family
Venue: wife's sitting room area
Attire: Anything nice and comfortable
Refreshment: small chops packaged with malt or canned juice
Souvenirs: not necessary...

500k is Okay for Modest Wedding��

300k for Preparations!!!.... while 200k for spending on that day wedding day....

200k
Bride price ,
money for Baba hear, Iya Hear , Etc

ModestGal:
3million

And after the wedding you beg to pay the bank loans right

DollarBuddy:
Hi My People,

How are y'all doing? I believe everyone's doing just fine.

Please I wanna know, considering the rising cost of things in Nigeria, how much do I need to have a Modest Wedding?

I mean, i don't even have a million naira o.

I need your honest views.

cc:

Kindly help me take this to the promised land.

Oga wedding is not by force. Do traditional rights, carry your woman enter room. Use the remaining morning for upkeep.

DollarBuddy:
Hi My People,

How are y'all doing? I believe everyone's doing just fine.

Please I wanna know, considering the rising cost of things in Nigeria, how much do I need to have a Modest Wedding?

I mean, i don't even have a million naira o.

I need your honest views.

cc:

Kindly help me take this to the promised land.

1.Hire a good wedding gown@ not more than ₦20k
2. Sew a quality shirt & suit at Aba @ ₦15k or less.
3. Plastic souvenirs only, not more that 200 pieces
4. Use your church hall to host the reception.
5. Don't hire any bus to bring in-laws or villagers to the venue.
6. Use only the people who can pay for their cloths as best man and bridal train.
7. Do not hire hotel for any guest. Rather find a nearby hotel to lodge for the wedding night while your guests who couldn't travel back sleep in your house. Anybody that feels too comfortable will extend his stay.
8. One and half bags of rice only; One bag only should be cooked for the guests while half bag for people that will sleep over.
9. Do not hire any vehicle for the wedding. Liaise with friends and church members for support.
10. Do not hire any live band. Use your church band/choir.
11. The same cake quality that people pay ₦200k to get, you can get same at ₦20k; all na packaging.
12. Organize a committee of friends who shall not just help in organizing the day but should also be able to contribute reasonable amount in support.
13. Do not rely on your invitation cards. Make use of your social media.

With the things I have listed above, you already have idea of other areas you will cut off.

Offpoint1:
Wedding a means of people wasting their funds to satisfy others people attention.


When I'm ready, I arrange meeting with both families to seek their blessings and approval, send her village people 1 quarter of what is needed and promise to get back to them and after that babies next... No public nonsense.


And for the village people waiting for me to get back to them, unto them shall my word be like that of a HR to a Nigerian job seeker.

ol' boy,u harsh ooooo0.

DollarBuddy:
Hi My People,

How are y'all doing? I believe everyone's doing just fine.

Please I wanna know, considering the rising cost of things in Nigeria, how much do I need to have a Modest Wedding?

I mean, i don't even have a million naira o.

I need your honest views.

cc:

Kindly help me take this to the promised land.

What tribe are you, and where are you marrying from?

What is your average income and that of your spouse?

Where do you intend to settle down

Let's start from there.

Kaiser20:

Now e reach your turn to throw gbedu you say that you don't like noise, but you like to enjoy it when others make the noise party.

When I go for weddings,I only check in into the hotel bar,once they are dancing,I will come and spray money,off I go.

Thanks Guys,

I think I've seen lots of reasonable suggestions already. I'm picking useful suggestions randomly and trust me, y'all are the best.

Please keep them coming.

Thanks a bunch!

MercyBam:
You no add photographer moni

Ok, thanks for the observation, photographer nah just 50 pictures with church coverage, everything with album -25k

Me no dey spend pass personal 500k. Though my woman has been pleading for 700k. But my personal expenses no dey pass that one. If she keep pestering me on her stand. I will yah move forward... Make she go find person wey go spend 5m

Drsnives:

Cloth

Oga its Coat I know

This is covid period that yo can do your wedding with very low expenses.

you do not need to invite people

no much gathering

only your family and your wife family

buy only introduction cloth and wedding gown and suite.

happy marriage life

Hmmmm omo... I have learnt a lot on this particular topic.

rainmoredays:



Have you seen the wife before.
.
How can you just conclude that she's beautiful.
.
Well, what do I know.
.

Even with the layers of photo filters, you still look like something out of a DreamWorks animated film.

oshe11:


He said Modest not "As far I Marry"


Abi na 1 basket of rice He wan cook?

There's no difference between a wedding or one basket of rice and three million basket of rice.


All got wedded.

People talked in all.

angelusbrut:


Suit-15000
Shoe-15000
Wedding gown-15000
Shoe/hair/make up,flower- 40,000
Gift(bag,take away food,drink,1bottle water) for 50-100 guest- 130,000
Cake-20,000
N225,000

No DJ,No hall,after wedding snap pictures with guests, cut your cake and give guest gift everyone go to your house

If you want hall or open space depending on location keep between 50-100k
Dj-20,000

Roughly 350,000-400,000
But I prefer the first option,I hate disturbance and unnecessary noise

God bless you sir. I have screen shot this your comment. I'll walk with it in mind if/when I see my madam.

Onelove508:


God bless you sir. I have screen shot this your comment. I'll walk with it in mind if/when I see my madam.

Ok, just add 20- 25k for pictures and video coverage. In between I'm a lady sha

angelusbrut:


Ok, just add 20- 25k for pictures and video coverage. In between I'm a lady spha

Thanks sis.

Offpoint1:
Wedding a means of people wasting their funds to satisfy others people attention.


When I'm ready, I arrange meeting with both families to seek their blessings and approval, send her village people 1 quarter of what is needed and promise to get back to them and after that babies next... No public nonsense.


And for the village people waiting for me to get back to them, unto them shall my word be like that of a HR to a Nigerian job seeker.

Laf won kill me!!

Oluromantic:
No borrow money do wedding o

not possible

chatinent:


There's no difference between a wedding or one basket of rice and three million basket of rice.


All got wedded.

People talked in all.

You didnt get Me


He was asking for a "Modest" wedding like 50 to 80 people not nuclear family kinda wedding

Do You even know how much it would cost to fulfil the traditional rights?
Abi He wouldnt Video and take pictures?

DaddyRochie1642:




Oga its Coat I know

Cloth. Go call police

Modest to you might not be modest to another fellow say your budget and people can plan it with you, your location also matters, where d you wanna use. House or Hall, wedding theme and the rest , Number of your guest