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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 9:52am On Mar 16, 2021 |
fedorahat:......hahahaha,....just keep your cool and vibe. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Yewandequeen(f): 9:53am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Michelle55:aint u just a perfect sweetheart...... Yee e choke |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by fedorahat: 9:54am On Mar 16, 2021 |
MeekySmudger: You lost me there |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by mariahAngel(f): 9:56am On Mar 16, 2021 |
gabazin080: If she knew that you were married and still went along with it, then she deserved what came to her. If not, then you deserve the consequences for deceiving her by using her and leading her on. People should learn that for our every action to others, fairly or unfairly, there are rewards/consequences. 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Idamond: 9:58am On Mar 16, 2021 |
mariahAngel: I'm sure u didn't read to understand. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by meobizy(f): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021 |
I ghost people until I get Hot. There’s nothing worse than crawling back to your vomit. It happens, sha, the dating game is too complicated. Familiarity always comes with comfort. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by mariahAngel(f): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Idamond: Break it down for me please. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021 |
fedorahat:,...I thought have told you about the mixture stuff. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 10:02am On Mar 16, 2021 |
fedorahat:,.OK,..I just understood,....where I am,..I don't think it's nearby to your side,..where do you stay? |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by fedorahat: 10:06am On Mar 16, 2021 |
MeekySmudger:Somewhere in PH, |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by omaclarry(m): 10:06am On Mar 16, 2021 |
MeekySmudger: Guy na she ghost you.... not the other way round.... my condolence sha 8 Likes |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by BarrElChapo(m): 10:10am On Mar 16, 2021 |
KINGPINE: Lmao 3 Likes
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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by chiagozien(m): 10:22am On Mar 16, 2021 |
IamBroke:Na she ghost you. Talk true. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by gentleibraheem(m): 10:23am On Mar 16, 2021 |
fabiano09: Are you me or I am you |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Tedpgrass: 10:28am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Reex12: Man, y didn't you just fess up.. If she was game, she'd have jumped you.. This is why the chicks think badly of chaps. Blurred or crossed lines . |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Tedpgrass: 10:31am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Mrscarter: Depends on the extent of the trauma.. Some take longer. . |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Walkee: 10:36am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Reex12:sounds like hallucinations to me |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Reex12(m): 10:41am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Walkee:okay |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Reex12(m): 10:43am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Tedpgrass:aint got time to sympatize with a hoe 1 Like |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by 77up(m): 10:44am On Mar 16, 2021 |
This married woman s been calling and chatting with me for some months now , though we are far away. I hate having things with married women honestly cos i wouldn't want same with my wife. She ll be video calling me all the time , even when she knew I obviously ignores her , she still won't stop . Thank God we are faraway,she for don rap... 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Sacrosanct12(m): 10:51am On Mar 16, 2021 |
gfon:no vex gee, no be fault say for bed you be like stallion. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Chummynoni(m): 10:51am On Mar 16, 2021 |
77up:it is good that you kept your cool. tho, not have anything to do with her doesnt mean guy/guys won't do anything with your wife if she is the promiscuous type. it is the irony of life bro. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by gfon(m): 10:56am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Sacrosanct12:lolz,i come pity the babe join sef,she go just dey gasp for breath.i kuku free am before i go kill person pikin. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Lordave: 11:11am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Ok, after sex on 29th December, I accompanied her to where she took a bus to her village. She arrived her village later that day and informed me. We kept communicating till 1st Jan when she called at around 12:07 am to wish me a Happy New Year from her church where she attended crossover night. We spoke for 2mins and that was it. This spirit took over me, I didn’t call her throughout that day and when she called in the evening and the next day I didn’t pick up. After 4 days she was tired of calling, she then started to write messages asking if I’m ok and why I haven’t bothered to pick her calls. Omo, that spirit dey tell me say “na wrong messages be these, no be you get these messages” I was trying to overcome the attitude but the spirit dey tell me say “if you pick this call you be bastard” I had to keep ignoring the messages and chats, I sabi my mama and papa. A week later she left village and paid a surprise visit to my office, fortunately I wasn’t around and one of my colleagues told her that I haven’t been to work since this year and na lie oo. She texted and told me that she came to my office and couldn’t find me, that I should better be home cos she’s going to my house immediately. Thank God I wasn’t home either. She reach house knock tire, luckily my brother came around, met her outside and sensed we haven’t been in good terms from the way she was talking. My brother wey wan come catch cruise throughout the day come say he just came to pick up something he forgot last night. So my bro went inside house and just randomly picked up my router and told her he’s going back to his place. There’s no way he’s leaving her alone in that house without my consent and she also needs to return to the village. To cut a very long story short, I don’t even know why I refused picking her calls or replying her messages. She go write some sweet things to take trap me, but that spirit of ghosting strong pass anything you can possibly throw at it. She wrote many bad shits accompanied with curses on how I was treating someone I claim to love and call my girlfriend. Many dramatic scenarios took place while I was ghosting her till time for me to travel got close. By then her Mum don even call me tire and she has told most of her friends that we have broken up and that they should stop calling me on her behalf or for whatever reason, but she was still texting me like mad saying that I should have let her know earlier that She wasn’t in my plans for 2021, I that should give the chance to see so that I will tell her to her face that I don't want her anymore. 4 days before traveling, I intentionally bumped into her, if you see as this girl take grabbed me : e be like where Sars come raiding for Bunk, she hold my hands begin dey shed something like tears and I was like “oh my babe I have missed you, it was a long story, that my travelling plans have materialized and I’m leaving soon and that’s why I haven’t been available anywhere she could think of. That tears like something come dey commot wella, I had to control myself else I would have shed that thing too. As soon as we were done talking 2hrs later, I started to realize say body no be firewood bro, this Linda to fine for someone to see and still decide to be criminally celibate. The next day, she came over and I took her out to our favorite spot. It was fun as usual and she looked genuinely happy, was unusually all over me even some of the staff noticed, one even asked me if I bought her a Benz . After 4 hrs there, she started asking me how tomorrow is gonna be and since I have resigned and not going to work, we should spend time together. I knew it was going to be a bloodbath, awar of love so I chose a hotel rather than home make family or even Jehovah witness no spoil things for this girl. Quarreled about how I ghosted her for 3weeks and all that, of course we wrestled like usual, this babe loves a lil bit of rough play before going down. Come see me that day, didn’t give this babe any chance, this choke wey una choke for internet bah, I choke sense commot for her body eye red and she was loving it but I was like, I'm too harsh take it easy bro. The I come remember say my I never even wrap my SK shit, I had to abort mission. Rush the wardrobe, took the SK, na 2 e dey, commot my purple colored Riz tie 2 blunts. While she was all over me, Babe decided to get high on Kiss Apple Ciders, you know women and these fancy drinks Jesus should have been only ghosting experince I come dey write shit join.. Will come back to remove the unnecessary post. 24 Likes |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Humanoid01(m): 11:24am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Reex12:And you think this is something to be proud of? You treat people like crap and you come online to brag about it. Shame on you. 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by daniel7328(m): 11:30am On Mar 16, 2021 |
77up: where she dey stay na |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by eazyduzit: 12:00pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
gfon: Just exactly my case with one Southern Kaduna babe recently.Painfully,she go come my house come chop food finish before we knack oooo0 she go come first me cum afterwards,come dey complain of tiredness na so my anaconda go com weak join. As Tarzan wey I be,I spirited her from my list of babes. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Mrscarter(f): 12:10pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Tedpgrass: I guess but from my experience n i had alot of tearing n still only took cpl weeks. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by BabaIbo: 12:13pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
I have done that severally. Few of the times... 1. Promised to take her younger sister on shopping because the mumu girl don yarn her did sey I get money. 2. I was chatting with this babe and she has already fallen but then she replied my chat with "K",that was the end. She message me sotey she commented "is that so/na wa o" on my post but I still no send. 3. I had two ladies I was using for cruise during my NYSC program,i didn't tell them I have rounded up the program, when they realized they tried reaching me but I don move on and I wasn't giving them any attention. The third one that knows because she is my neighbour's gave up when she tried checking on me and I was posting her. 4. The recent one, this one has already fallen in love kpatakpata, she's even thinking we may be getting married(when I never open my mouth ask her out) but for my mind I'm looking for a way to push her off without hurting her because I don't want to hurt ladies anymore. I just want to marry and be a responsible husband not all these games. 9 Likes |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 1:04pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
omaclarry:,..yes nah,...she ghost me,..we come meet for class,..me too kon ghost her,.for exam hall,...I no look her face,...she kon dey try in many possible way's to make me notice her but I no send. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 1:09pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
fedorahat:,..I stay in Lagos,..but I school in Ondo state,...so that distance is far. |
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by omaclarry(m): 1:19pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
MeekySmudger: guy once u hav been ghosted, u re a ghost no clap back for ghosting 6 Likes |
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