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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 9:52am On Mar 16, 2021
fedorahat:

THANKS
Can you give me the mixture formulate



For educational purposes only wink
......hahahaha,....just keep your cool and vibe.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Yewandequeen(f): 9:53am On Mar 16, 2021
Michelle55:

Here ma'am
aint u just a perfect sweetheart...... Yee e choke
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by fedorahat: 9:54am On Mar 16, 2021
MeekySmudger:
......hahahaha,....just keep your cool and vibe.

You lost me there
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by mariahAngel(f): 9:56am On Mar 16, 2021
gabazin080:
mine was when wifey wouldn't give me sex 2 months after the birth of our twins. always saying its until after 6 months and she mean it. I just bone, got 1 girl but we never had sex, but I just love her company.
after one month, wifey noticed i didn't ask for sex, that's wen she willingly asked for sex, me sef do shakara and made her beg for it but the sex was sweet after 3 months with no sex , we started banging regularly again and I had to ditch the other girl before man will go astray

If she knew that you were married and still went along with it, then she deserved what came to her. If not, then you deserve the consequences for deceiving her by using her and leading her on.
People should learn that for our every action to others, fairly or unfairly, there are rewards/consequences.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Idamond: 9:58am On Mar 16, 2021
mariahAngel:


If she knew that you were married and still went along with it, then she deserved what came to her, if not, then you deserve the consequences for deceiving her by using her and leading her on.
People should learn for our every action to others, fairly or unfairly, there are rewards/consequences.

I'm sure u didn't read to understand.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by meobizy(f): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021
I ghost people until I get Hot. There’s nothing worse than crawling back to your vomit. It happens, sha, the dating game is too complicated. Familiarity always comes with comfort.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by mariahAngel(f): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021
Idamond:


I'm sure u didn't read to understand.

Break it down for me please.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021
fedorahat:

You lost me there
,...I thought have told you about the mixture stuff.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 10:02am On Mar 16, 2021
fedorahat:


You lost me there
,.OK,..I just understood,....where I am,..I don't think it's nearby to your side,..where do you stay?
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by fedorahat: 10:06am On Mar 16, 2021
MeekySmudger:
,.OK,..I just understood,....where I am,..I don't think it's nearby to your side,..where do you stay?
Somewhere in PH,
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by omaclarry(m): 10:06am On Mar 16, 2021
MeekySmudger:
I did of recent,..I ghosted this babe have been chatting with for a very long time,But what she said and did of recent pained me, She put off her WhatsApp read receipt and I would text,she wouldn't reply, then until one day, someone replied on her behalf maybe the person replied on her behalf,..I kept my cool till the day she told me, she finds chatting boring,what about calls either WhatsApp or phone,..she said no too,..then I left her and kept my cool,Saw her in lecture room and exam hall but I did not give her attention and i pretended like nothing happened not because of what happened,I just felt,..i don't need stress, lemme just finish my exam's,keep hustling and vibe on the low,,..Lean is currently my partner for now,..

Guy na she ghost you.... not the other way round.... my condolence sha

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by BarrElChapo(m): 10:10am On Mar 16, 2021
KINGPINE:
As time passes you I'll learn that this is trip to destruction ...

Lmao

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by chiagozien(m): 10:22am On Mar 16, 2021
IamBroke:
I met this girl when I went to get ma national ID card...at first I didn't wanna talk to her but one qee were I meet there just dey ginger me.. coincidentally she walked over to where we were sitting...
Long story short...I talked to her and we xchange numbers... since then we've been texting...when she travel back to PH things change...and the girl na big time olosho...
I wish I was set when she wanted to come over to my place...e still dey pain me but I don ghost am tey tey
Na she ghost you.


Talk true.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by gentleibraheem(m): 10:23am On Mar 16, 2021
fabiano09:
i don't know if i have a problem ,i get tired of people too quick,i act just like the OP described

Are you me or I am you
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Tedpgrass: 10:28am On Mar 16, 2021
Reex12:
I bleeped a bitch and ghosted her the next day, I couldt even remember her name thereafter, c-somtin, whatever, I threw her outta my house, stupid hoe kept buzzing my line, i didnt even bother

I guess I can call it a one night stand

Man, y didn't you just fess up..
If she was game, she'd have jumped you..
This is why the chicks think badly of chaps.

Blurred or crossed lines


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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Tedpgrass: 10:31am On Mar 16, 2021
Mrscarter:


It only takes a couple of weeks to heal dwn there after a baby.

Depends on the extent of the trauma.. Some take longer.


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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Walkee: 10:36am On Mar 16, 2021
Reex12:
I bleeped a bitch and ghosted her the next day, I couldt even remember her name thereafter, c-somtin, whatever, I threw her outta my house, stupid hoe kept buzzing my line, i didnt even bother

I guess I can call it a one night stand
sounds like hallucinations to me
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Reex12(m): 10:41am On Mar 16, 2021
Walkee:
sounds like hallucinations to me
okay
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Reex12(m): 10:43am On Mar 16, 2021
Tedpgrass:

Man, y didn't you just fess up.. If she was game, she'd have jumped you.. This is why the chicks think badly of chaps.
Blurred or crossed lines

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aint got time to sympatize with a hoe

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by 77up(m): 10:44am On Mar 16, 2021
This married woman s been calling and chatting with me for some months now , though we are far away. I hate having things with married women honestly cos i wouldn't want same with my wife.

She ll be video calling me all the time , even when she knew I obviously ignores her , she still won't stop angry .


Thank God we are faraway,she for don rap... lipsrsealed grin

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Sacrosanct12(m): 10:51am On Mar 16, 2021
gfon:
Just ghosthed one now,babe been calling me for days now,not picking.Reason been we got to knack twice now,babe wouldn't let me cum,always complaining of fatigue during the match.Shey na my fault i dey last long...omo the thing pain me die,i just ghost am sharpaly
no vex gee, no be fault say for bed you be like stallion.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Chummynoni(m): 10:51am On Mar 16, 2021
77up:
This married woman s been calling and chatting with me for some months now , though we are far away. I hate having things with married women honestly cos i wouldn't want same with my wife.

She ll be video calling me all the time , even when she knew I obviously ignores her , she still won't stop angry .


Thank God we are faraway,she for don rap... lipsrsealed grin
it is good that you kept your cool. tho, not have anything to do with her doesnt mean guy/guys won't do anything with your wife if she is the promiscuous type.
it is the irony of life bro.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by gfon(m): 10:56am On Mar 16, 2021
Sacrosanct12:
no vex gee, no be fault say for bed you be like stallion.
lolz,i come pity the babe join sef,she go just dey gasp for breath.i kuku free am before i go kill person pikin.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Lordave: 11:11am On Mar 16, 2021
Ok, after sex on 29th December, I accompanied her to where she took a bus to her village.
She arrived her village later that day and informed me. We kept communicating till 1st Jan when she called at around 12:07 am to wish me a Happy New Year from her church where she attended crossover night. We spoke for 2mins and that was it.

This spirit took over me, I didn’t call her throughout that day and when she called in the evening and the next day I didn’t pick up.

After 4 days she was tired of calling, she then started to write messages asking if I’m ok and why I haven’t bothered to pick her calls. Omo, that spirit dey tell me say “na wrong messages be these, no be you get these messages” I was trying to overcome the attitude but the spirit dey tell me say “if you pick this call you be bastard” I had to keep ignoring the messages and chats, I sabi my mama and papa.

A week later she left village and paid a surprise visit to my office, fortunately I wasn’t around and one of my colleagues told her that I haven’t been to work since this year and na lie oo. She texted and told me that she came to my office and couldn’t find me, that I should better be home cos she’s going to my house immediately. Thank God I wasn’t home either.
She reach house knock tire, luckily my brother came around, met her outside and sensed we haven’t been in good terms from the way she was talking. My brother wey wan come catch cruise throughout the day come say he just came to pick up something he forgot last night.
So my bro went inside house and just randomly picked up my router and told her he’s going back to his place. There’s no way he’s leaving her alone in that house without my consent and she also needs to return to the village.

To cut a very long story short, I don’t even know why I refused picking her calls or replying her messages. She go write some sweet things to take trap me, but that spirit of ghosting strong pass anything you can possibly throw at it. She wrote many bad shits accompanied with curses on how I was treating someone I claim to love and call my girlfriend.

Many dramatic scenarios took place while I was ghosting her till time for me to travel got close. By then her Mum don even call me tire and she has told most of her friends that we have broken up and that they should stop calling me on her behalf or for whatever reason, but she was still texting me like mad saying that I should have let her know earlier that She wasn’t in my plans for 2021, I that should give the chance to see so that I will tell her to her face that I don't want her anymore.

4 days before traveling, I intentionally bumped into her, if you see as this girl take grabbed me : shocked shocked e be like where Sars come raiding for Bunk, she hold my hands begin dey shed something like tears and I was like “oh my babe I have missed you, it was a long story, that my travelling plans have materialized and I’m leaving soon and that’s why I haven’t been available anywhere she could think of. That tears like something come dey commot wella, I had to control myself else I would have shed that thing too. cry cry

As soon as we were done talking 2hrs later, I started to realize say body no be firewood bro, this Linda to fine for someone to see and still decide to be criminally celibate.

The next day, she came over and I took her out to our favorite spot. It was fun as usual and she looked genuinely happy, was unusually all over me even some of the staff noticed, one even asked me if I bought her a Benz grin cheesy. After 4 hrs there, she started asking me how tomorrow is gonna be and since I have resigned and not going to work, we should spend time together.

I knew it was going to be a bloodbath, awar of love kiss kiss so I chose a hotel rather than home make family or even Jehovah witness no spoil things for this girl.

Quarreled about how I ghosted her for 3weeks and all that, of course we wrestled like usual, this babe loves a lil bit of rough play before going down. Come see me that day, didn’t give this babe any chance, this choke wey una choke for internet bah, I choke sense commot for her body grin grin wink wink eye red and she was loving it kiss kiss tongue tongue but I was like, I'm too harsh take it easy bro. The I come remember say my I never even wrap my SK angry angry shit, I had to abort mission. Rush the wardrobe, took the SK, na 2 e dey, commot my purple colored Riz tie 2 blunts. While she was all over me, Babe decided to get high on Kiss Apple Ciders, you know women and these fancy drinks wink wink

Jesus shocked shocked should have been only ghosting experince I come dey write shit join.. Will come back to remove the unnecessary post.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Humanoid01(m): 11:24am On Mar 16, 2021
Reex12:
I bleeped a bitch and ghosted her the next day, I couldt even remember her name thereafter, c-somtin, whatever, I threw her outta my house, stupid hoe kept buzzing my line, i didnt even bother, just ghosted her I aint got time for hoes

I guess I can call it a one night stand
And you think this is something to be proud of? You treat people like crap and you come online to brag about it. Shame on you.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by daniel7328(m): 11:30am On Mar 16, 2021
77up:
This married woman s been calling and chatting with me for some months now , though we are far away. I hate having things with married women honestly cos i wouldn't want same with my wife.

She ll be video calling me all the time , even when she knew I obviously ignores her , she still won't stop angry .


Thank God we are faraway,she for don rap... lipsrsealed grin



where she dey stay na
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by eazyduzit: 12:00pm On Mar 16, 2021
gfon:
Just ghosthed one now,babe been calling me for days now,not picking.Reason been we got to knack twice now,babe wouldn't let me cum,always complaining of fatigue during the match.Shey na my fault i dey last long...omo the thing pain me die,i just ghost am sharpaly

Just exactly my case with one Southern Kaduna babe recently.Painfully,she go come my house come chop food finish before we knack oooo0 she go come first me cum afterwards,come dey complain of tiredness na so my anaconda go com weak join.
As Tarzan wey I be,I spirited her from my list of babes.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by Mrscarter(f): 12:10pm On Mar 16, 2021
Tedpgrass:


Depends on the extent of the trauma.. Some take longer.


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I guess but from my experience n i had alot of tearing n still only took cpl weeks.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by BabaIbo: 12:13pm On Mar 16, 2021
I have done that severally.

Few of the times...

1. Promised to take her younger sister on shopping because the mumu girl don yarn her did sey I get money.

2. I was chatting with this babe and she has already fallen but then she replied my chat with "K",that was the end. She message me sotey she commented "is that so/na wa o" on my post but I still no send.

3. I had two ladies I was using for cruise during my NYSC program,i didn't tell them I have rounded up the program, when they realized they tried reaching me but I don move on and I wasn't giving them any attention. The third one that knows because she is my neighbour's gave up when she tried checking on me and I was posting her.

4. The recent one, this one has already fallen in love kpatakpata, she's even thinking we may be getting married(when I never open my mouth ask her out) but for my mind I'm looking for a way to push her off without hurting her because I don't want to hurt ladies anymore.


I just want to marry and be a responsible husband not all these games.
smiley

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 1:04pm On Mar 16, 2021
omaclarry:


Guy na she ghost you.... not the other way round.... my condolence sha
,..yes nah,...she ghost me,..we come meet for class,..me too kon ghost her,.for exam hall,...I no look her face,...she kon dey try in many possible way's to make me notice her but I no send.

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Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by MeekySmudger(m): 1:09pm On Mar 16, 2021
fedorahat:

Somewhere in PH,
,..I stay in Lagos,..but I school in Ondo state,...so that distance is far.
Re: Share Your "Ghosting". Experience by omaclarry(m): 1:19pm On Mar 16, 2021
MeekySmudger:
,..yes nah,...she ghost me,..we come meet for class,..me too kon ghost her,.for exam hall,...I no look her face,...she kon dey try in many possible way's to make me notice her but I no send.

guy once u hav been ghosted, u re a ghost no clap back for ghosting

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