alfamale:
Don’t go chasing butterflies; nourish your garden, and butterflies will come.

Magnoliaa:


Online fronting? Wtf are you even saying? How does your comment ever relate to my comment that you quoted? Mtchew.

Splitmind:
Try this, just stop initiating conversation with her and wait for her to start it, either calls, text or meeting personally.

If she doesn't say anything just drop her like that, many men make themselves into tools by chasing women who aren't giving back what they get.

Magnoliaa:



[color=deeppink]You go wait tayaaaa. Or I will even initiate 100% conversations 100% of the time and you will still see there's nothing there.

And, I'm a feminist, by virtue of being played and dumped several times - so which men still wan dey approach me dey prove love to me?

Men don't come our ways, you remember?

Magnoliaa:




Why are you soliciting 'advice' from me? You don't know the way to your red pill threads on here?

Lilpen3758:
Are you broke?

PataAlhajaKeji:

Oshey!
Tupac Shakur!

Splitmind:


I said



You said


Online fronting for the sake of pointless argument since by your own admission men don't approach you anyway.

Magnoliaa:


Stop saying nonsense.

I can initiate ALL the conversations, ALL the time and it still won't make me feel jack for you. You are trying to say eagerness and activeness on the woman's part translate to interest. And I personally disagreed with that. OR if you like be as distant as the moon, hoping that'll make me come after you - you go wait till eternity, 'cos I won't move shit.

So has my meaning gotten through to you now that I've broken it down like this?

Again, how did anything in my comments to you mean 'fronting online?' Where's the fronting in the fact that I can be as approachable and disinterested as I like - which is what I was saying?

Clear off, joor.

steeltrust:
from one rich nigga Now ex

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

Greatfullheart:
yea kind off! Too many lows in my life gat to stay high.

Splitmind:


What are you trying to prove by initiating conversations with men you don't like just to waste their time?

phazotron:


I no talk say relationship no be gra gra abeg

Of course she must get to know you

But I disagree when you say you must be friends first

A girl doesn't need another male friend before she knows he will be her lover

Two weeks max is enough

Edit the "friendship first" part to "getting to know her" first.

PataAlhajaKeji:


Shey Jesus get toto?

Abi the two of una be gay?

Tbvxl:




I was stupidly in love my brother

steeltrust:
I chased my childhood love for 11years
And now we re together even after she having two kids and we re planning to get married. Want for introduction last month.

When you love some one them no go tell you

Remember they say love is blind

seyi360:
Men have varying pursuit capacity, some have a short fuse while some have developed thick skin for insults upon insults from women. It has been said many times that women mean yes when they say no at times. How long shall a man continue to read in between the lines of a woman. What are the red lights a man should watch out for?

Magnoliaa:


Hmmmmmmmmmm. No telltale, specific, fine-tuned signs? How about chameleonic girls? Yunno ladies are inherently deceptive. You can hardly 'catch' them? What if a lady is just being extremely extremely friendly, she likes to meet people, is flirty and just being herself by trying to get to know the person in return?

Feelings can misfire oh. And you can misreceive them.

Strained communication? Okay, it's under probability. I can't seem to come up with any other reason for that now...

Begging to see, high billings... hm.

If she's deliberately trying to know, will that not come off as being too willing, free and alladat, that the guy will lose interest? And hey, remember men always say they are the chasers. Something something about it giving them thrills. I don't know, though. Do you believe it? Where do you put that in this case?

So, I'm your student, teach me...

Lilpen3758:
I feel you brother.......trust me i do

bigpicture001:


Guy... The main reason I dragged on was cuz I strongly gave up on other girls, put in a lot emotionally.... We both are anticipating marriage next year....

I just focused on my financial upgrade since av secured the future wife... We have a perfect understanding, alas, babe is thinking something else. As in ehh it took me by major surprise that I thought she was outta her mind....

I dragged on ND tried talking sense into her... But she was long gone

PrimadonnaO:


This is cracking me up!

Abeg, I'm tired of you. LOL.
The idea of friendship first just seems to be so annoying to you.

Yanbaba4u:
Girls in my department really made a mockery of me, I invite people tire from my 200lv, non showed up, ask few out all declined, even my girlfriend then started showing attitude, until she dumped my sorry ass �
Poverty is bad, fast forward to present day, boy don freshen up, come fine like madt, all the girls that turned me down started wondering, because the way I take change ee, the thing sef shock me,
They started seeking my face, even begging for visits, but I had to ignore them and face the one who later accepted me for who I am, I am with her now, and have no intention of cheating.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

PataAlhajaKeji:


You send ID card because of toto!

Wonders ...

I weep for the future of Simpism.

heartbraker:
lol, e be like say ur werey na five star, so out of all girls 4 dis world na person wey don born 2 pikin for another man u wan marry? Ur parent still dey? Cus dey need to go seven mountains, seven valley, seven river, seven junction, seven underground, seven cave, seven burial ground along with 7 cows, 7 palm wine keg, 7 basket of tomato, 7 basket of pepper, 7 packet of maggi, 7 bag of rice, 7 create of star lager beer each for 7days to appease d gods to comot hand 4 ur matter.

Artisticity1:


you try shaa

zedman1:
I understand, I used to take relationships seriously too when I was still single, but it's just a natural thing I learnt with time. It's difficult to not chase, you could try a little but the more you chase, the less likely they'll listen and turn back to you.