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Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by tayooluwole: 3:06pm On Jul 15, 2021
omo what i thought was a joke became evident just yesterday that it’s far from what i am thinking. I work in a federal firm (name withheld ). I am a level 10 officer and i have a boss who is the assistant manager and specifically the boss in the department of my duties.

For a while now and while performing my official duties on my table, he usually comes over from his office, stands at my back, in a formation that overshadows my sitting position in the name of giving instructions to me and stylishly touching me in the process. I didn’t count it as anything serious until when he started telling me that he likes me specially (though jokingly).

Before now, he has invited me to his house for a number of times and which i declined.

Just yesterday, he came out clear and sent me some messages which represented his interest in me.

It’s becoming irritating and i am not finding it funny anymore. I am thinking of sending a note of warning to him not to ever come near me again and send such message to me.

Pls guys how best can i handle this situation ?

Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by decatalyst(m): 3:10pm On Jul 15, 2021
I wish you best of luck.

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by donbachi(m): 3:13pm On Jul 15, 2021
Dont ever eat anything from him,dont stay late at the office alone with him,dont ever in ur life visit his place,dont attended parties on his invite and always cover urself with the blood of Jesus.he could go diabolic.

To avoid further danger.quit the job if u can.

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Bigredmachine: 3:14pm On Jul 15, 2021
donbachi:
Dont ever eat anything from him,dont stay late at the office alone with him,dont ever in ur life visit his place,dont attended parties on his invite and always cover urself with the blood of Jesus.he could go diabolic.

To avoid further danger.quit the job if u can.

That's as good as sacking himself or resigning
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jul 15, 2021
Best thing is to warn him and if he doesn't stop then punch his throat or just faint am I guess that's much better.
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by tayooluwole: 3:20pm On Jul 15, 2021
donbachi:
Dont ever eat anything from him,dont stay late at the office alone with him,dont ever in ur life visit his place,dont attended parties on his invite and always cover urself with the blood of Jesus.he could go diabolic.

To avoid further danger.quit the job if u can.

Thanks for the advice but i can not quit the job

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jul 15, 2021
Mm
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by sunshineV(f): 3:35pm On Jul 15, 2021
omo wahala no dey finish grin
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by hybrid11(m): 3:36pm On Jul 15, 2021
I'm confused
Are you both male??
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Hyland(m): 3:37pm On Jul 15, 2021
Just tell him you aren't interested and if he keeps on disturbing you and you ain't comfortable with it then just quit the job.

Note: Threatening him isn't the way to go; just settle it amicably.

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Blackfire(m): 3:38pm On Jul 15, 2021
I don't care if you ffckkk a tree, but you will start having problems when you use ya lifestyle to disturb me..

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jul 15, 2021
Lols... Someone up there even advised him to quit his job. For real? In this current situation, quit his job just because of one modafvcker?

Just keep enough evidence,call recordings etc, get yourself a strong biro and stab his gay ass undecided

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jul 15, 2021
Padlock your yansh!!!!!! shocked

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by tayooluwole: 3:50pm On Jul 15, 2021
hybrid11:
I'm confused
Are you both male??

Yes we are
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Candidlady: 3:53pm On Jul 15, 2021
hybrid11:
I'm confused
Are you both male??


Yes
They are both REDPILLERs cheesy

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by hybrid11(m): 3:56pm On Jul 15, 2021
tayooluwole:


Yes we are
Drop me your location, we need to beat him blue and black for being an aberration
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by hybrid11(m): 3:56pm On Jul 15, 2021
Candidlady:



Yes
They are both REDPILLERs cheesy
And you're a bluepillers
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by zed7: 3:57pm On Jul 15, 2021
Quite disgusting. I can imagine what women go through, having a guy you are not attracted to making advances at you.

Anyway, keep all messages. Very soon, he will try to maltreat you at work. This will be your defence.
Don't be alone with him and don't take any gifts from him. Watch your six always!

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Jeon(f): 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2021
tayooluwole:
omo what i thought was a joke became evident just yesterday that it’s far from what i am thinking. I work in a federal firm (name withheld ). I am a level 10 officer and i have a boss who is the assistant manager and specifically the boss in the department of my duties.

For a while now and while performing my official duties on my table, he usually comes over from his office, stands at my back, in a formation that overshadows my sitting position in the name of giving instructions to me and stylishly touching me in the process. I didn’t count it as anything serious until when he started telling me that he likes me specially (though jokingly).

Before now, he has invited me to his house for a number of times and which i declined.

Just yesterday, he came out clear and sent me some messages which represented his interest in me.

It’s becoming irritating and i am not finding it funny anymore. I am thinking of sending a note of warning to him not to ever come near me again and send such message to me.

Pls guys how best can i handle this situation ?

Are you handsome and tall?

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by OnyeObodo: 4:10pm On Jul 15, 2021
You are same person with your boss and you.

You doctored those chats. What you intend to achieve with all these is still a mystery to me.

Lets keep on watching. You will be arrested soon.

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by illicit(m): 4:24pm On Jul 15, 2021
Invite him to your house


Let a third party listen in on your conversations...
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Divoc19(f): 4:52pm On Jul 15, 2021
Snob him. Give him silent treatment.

Remember, you can't sack him and you're not his first victim.

Better still work your transfer

Bad bad bad cry
tayooluwole:

Pls guys how best can i handle this situation ?
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by greatcrown: 5:04pm On Jul 15, 2021
Decline his offer politely.

And promise him that his secret is safe with you.
Continue to relate with him normally in the office but always avoid anything that will make the two of you to be alone. Moreover be extra careful around him as he may trust you with the secret in your hand.

I wish you well.

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2021
Na wa o

"Let us get to the closeness of bathing together"

Guy sef no suppose talk this kind thing to girl not to talk of fellow guy

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Austeeenxx: 6:59pm On Jul 15, 2021
Bathing together? Blood of Zachariah!
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Johnsown1(m): 7:22pm On Jul 15, 2021
If I am to be in your shoes bro, this is how I will handle it.

I will send him text, requesting to have a face to face discussion with him in a lonely place, outskirt of the town, I will pay area guys to be around that place smoking and drinking. I will make sure that I greet each and everyone of them on my way in then I will go and sit with my guest. Then I would tell him that I like him with his pretty face too as a man that he is and nothing attached. That the reason that you invited him their is to tell him that your not a gay and your not planning to be one. Then tell him to stay clear of your lane concerning the gay stuff. Buy him beer and soups. Then live their without him while greeting your men as you go out

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Limassol(m): 7:32pm On Jul 15, 2021
donbachi:
Donom him,dont stay late at the office alone with him,dont ever in ur life visit his place,dont attended parties on his invite and always cover urself with the blood of Jesus.he could go diabolic.

To avoid further danger.quit the job if u can.
Op never in your lifetime quit a job that put food on your table because of a mere mortal. That is the single biggest act of cowerdice a man will ever commit, heaven forbid you do that. Listen, you have to be straightfoward,smart as well firm about this issue. Invite him for lunch/dinner during weekends in an open resturant, halfway while dining stop eating and with a stern-looking face explain to him why the whole damn thing aint gonna work, also let him know there would be consequences should he persist, be firm and mean every damn word you say then walk away. No fear, nothing him fit do you, las las hin go vex leave you alone. Meanwhile, gather as much evidence as you can should he try blackmailing you.

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Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Obakashdee(m): 7:47pm On Jul 15, 2021
Abobi I no fit laugh abeg, he for fit Dey kiss you! Your boss na kolo man.
Well if na govt job then you are safe if you decline
tayooluwole:
omo what i thought was a joke became evident just yesterday that it’s far from what i am thinking. I work in a federal firm (name withheld ). I am a level 10 officer and i have a boss who is the assistant manager and specifically the boss in the department of my duties.

For a while now and while performing my official duties on my table, he usually comes over from his office, stands at my back, in a formation that overshadows my sitting position in the name of giving instructions to me and stylishly touching me in the process. I didn’t count it as anything serious until when he started telling me that he likes me specially (though jokingly).

Before now, he has invited me to his house for a number of times and which i declined.

Just yesterday, he came out clear and sent me some messages which represented his interest in me.

It’s becoming irritating and i am not finding it funny anymore. I am thinking of sending a note of warning to him not to ever come near me again and send such message to me.

Pls guys how best can i handle this situation ?
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Jaapu: 8:19pm On Jul 15, 2021
tayooluwole:
omo what i thought was a joke became evident just yesterday that it’s far from what i am thinking. I work in a federal firm (name withheld ). I am a level 10 officer and i have a boss who is the assistant manager and specifically the boss in the department of my duties.

For a while now and while performing my official duties on my table, he usually comes over from his office, stands at my back, in a formation that overshadows my sitting position in the name of giving instructions to me and stylishly touching me in the process. I didn’t count it as anything serious until when he started telling me that he likes me specially (though jokingly).

Before now, he has invited me to his house for a number of times and which i declined.

Just yesterday, he came out clear and sent me some messages which represented his interest in me.

It’s becoming irritating and i am not finding it funny anymore. I am thinking of sending a note of warning to him not to ever come near me again and send such message to me.

Pls guys how best can i handle this situation ?

Funny thing be say your boss is married to a beautiful woman. Wahala no dey finish
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by legallyminded: 8:22pm On Jul 15, 2021
Candidlady:


Yes They are both REDPILLERs cheesy
Another stinky vagina
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by Stupidquestions: 8:45pm On Jul 15, 2021
Ur yansh will soon be bursted grin
Re: Photo: My Gay Boss Is On My Neck, Frequently Asking Me For Privacy. by meobizy(f): 11:13pm On Jul 15, 2021
The easiest solution is to either quickly delete yourself from the job or tender a resignation letter. Being a Nairalander, you'll continue the job until the man leaves or retires. Na una way here. It's no different from the homophobes here who keep applying for first world country visas.

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