She’s definitely not cheating on you

Next question please ?

Did you catch her red handed with the married man? She said she didn't sleep with him na...

He maybe trying to get to her pants with the spending

Maybe you are quick to notice on time before she spread her legs on the man's bed like an eagle

Bola146:



When I tried reaching her around 8pm (she's usually always reachable) and she didn't pick the call, the phone was later switched off ...I called her room mate and was told she's not at home



Only these are red flags!!!!!!



Like seriously.... trust my foot! She can't accept her man to have a dinner with a lady now, I know she will be jealous when she couldn't reach you in the night when you are not picking calls!!!! Do unto others as you want others to do unto you! Having a date with a married man intimacy with a married man and 30 minutes inside her apartment when it's not official? What are they doing?! Watching movies koburu oooo. Office talk or what? Why not be in the office and end there? She is a real cheat!!!! Irresponsible lady at that, so Wake up!!! Okay ooo let me keep quiet

If na sense, you get am

Pelaguis:
Hi guys, I'm in dire need of advise....I've been in a relationship with a very beautiful lady for the last 8 years. We started dating since we were in high-school and we are finalising plans to spend the rest of our life's together. She's currently serving and we plan on getting hitched after her service year. I recently found out that she's been in a situation-ship with a married man. I had my suspicions few months ago. When I tried reaching her around 8pm (she's usually always reachable) and she didn't pick the call, the phone was later switched off ...I called her room mate and was told she's not at home. She later explained that she went to the cinema with her female friends. She's a bit of a photo freak and does not miss the opportunity to take a good picture...so it was surprisingly convenient when I asked to see pictures and was told there was none. Fast forward to a few days ago

I needed her email details to update an account, I was still logged in when an alert of 40k came in.....we are extremely close hence I'm very familiar with people that could send her money. The name attached with the transfer was non I was familiar with. I confronted her and she came clean, that it was from a married colleague of hers, that he's sent her money twice. She claims there's nothing attached to it, he comes to her apartment once in a while, parks outside and they sit in the car and talk for 30mins to an hour they text almost everyday for long hours (4-5) and he's sent her one or two gifts. She swears they've never been intimate and that they've just gone out once the day she claimed to be at the movies with her friends.

I think they've never been intimate, and I'm tempted to forget about the whole thing but she broke my trust and lied to my face multiple times when I confronted her about things I'd noticed, she insisted I was acting out of proportion for being suspicious and assured me nothing was going on, when you've been with someone for so long you know the person almost completely...so I could tell something was off. The thing is she's adamant that all she did wrong was lie about going to dinner with him, she's making feel crazy for thinking she emotionally cheated on me, she feels collecting cash and spending so much time texting and chilling with a married man in the car is not an issue, especially when he's asked her out and is clearly interested in shifting her pants. Am I wrong to feel cheated on, should I continue with someone that thinks this way, is this a red flag??

You think they've never been intimate? Lol. Bros don't set yourself up o. That baba don shift her pants. Besides go and do an STD check, for your own safety.

The next one won't be better either, all of them are like that...stick to the 'devil you know' adage...

khan:
I advise you start looking for responsible and faithful woman to marry.

lol @ responsible and faithful....sounds like a future impossible tense...

DrayZee:


You didn’t see where he stated that it started from secondary school?

I saw it...it still does not change my opinion.

It is very unfair to tie down a lady for almost 10 years!

Bros that man don already Bleep your babe several times. Talking from experience. Once your instinct gives you those vibes, bros forget am. She has been bleeped and refucked

I remember one Sunday morning I went to see my chick, now ex, and she wasn't home when I got there. I called and she said she was at home, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt thinking she quickly stepped out to buy something.

However, not to be a much, I asked one of her neighbours when she went out and the bobo told me she didn't sleep at home and that he hadn't seen her that morning

Didn't call her back or anything. I left the house, got a bike and went home. After like 3 hours, this babe was at my house knocking my door saying she could explain. Aunty, abeg explain what, I ask you question? If you explain, who go market your script? Me?

Guys, please, stop fooling yourselves if it looks like shït, smells like shït and feels like shït, you don't need a prophet that you're dealing with shït. Flush the damn thing asap

Opus85:
Bros that man don already Bleep your babe several times. Talking from experience. Once your instinct gives you those vibes, bros forget am. She has been bleeped and refucked

The man is the sugar daddy na. I can bet my left ball he has caned her in his car countless times. For a man to dash you money in this country, there must be something involved. He no get cousins wey need money?

Only a fool would be asking the kind of question the OP is asking

Lol painful truth is ur girl has been fvck..ing the dude and not just once..she know say she fit manipulate u and shez doing good so far so good..bro,u better get another chick fast and remove ur mind from a future with this ur hoe..keep fvck.ing her sha..be wise,im speaking from experience.

My people right from Nursery school, I de get luck on fine babes. But guys with money nd cars always snatch them from me. After crying one day na so I enter monk mode, come hustle well and buy a very sweet ride. Na so I begin bleep girls like say 2morr no dey. Your chances of stopping a guy with good money and car not to bleep ur typical Nija girl is 0.0%

I recall a day, I was lodge with a girl and her bf Kept calling, girl told him, she went to visit her aunt, guy could sense she's lying but she cried and insulted him for not being trusting of her, soon. The guy was the one apologizing and begging her.

I don't have time for nonsense, I told her to put phone asides, and me don set her ass up for another doggy, we ended up placing the phone on speaker with some TV sound, while he begged her for forgiveness, I had no mercy for her pvyssy, as I had to find a way to save manhood.

@Op
Let me buttress what others have been saying.
Your girl has been fu.cked.
Now I know your problem.

You said she is beautiful. And that beauty is the reason your don't want to lose her.
Ok. If you can live with it.
But know say, die die ni imu elede n wo ogba if you eventually allow her beauty to blind you to her waywardness.

E get wetin Mosdii see o. Before e wake up one day start dey scream everywhere say Naija girls are useless. E even put all of them join.

Think with your brain. Not with your third leg.

If you like, marry her. But no be from my mouth you go hear say the king mother na winch.

Oluwa a wa pelu e o.

Womanizer:


I saw it...it still does not change my opinion.

It is very unfair to tie down a lady for almost 10 years!

So her cheating with a married man is the solution for him tying hey down for 10 years? Ko buru.

Opemiposii:
wow.. 8years of relationship.. o.k.. tell me you have never cheated on her all these years

Cheating is reciprocal abi? Continue.

ComputerOperato:
@Op
Let me buttress what others have been saying.
Your girl has been fu.cked.
Now I know your problem.

You said she is beautiful. And that beauty is the reason your don't want to lose her.
Ok. If you can live with it.
But know say, die die ni imu elede n wo ogba if you eventually allow her beauty to blind you to her waywardness.

E get wetin Mosdii see o. Before e wake up one day start dey scream everywhere say Naija girls are useless. E even put all of them join.

Think with your brain. Not with your third leg.

If you like, marry her. But no be from my mouth you go hear say the king mother na winch.

Oluwa a wa pelu e o.




So her cheating with a married man is the solution for him tying hey down for 10 years? Ko buru.



Cheating is reciprocal abi? Continue.

i did nt say dat tho.. datz nt wat i meant

Ur babe don dey nack married gbola, u dey here dey confuse ursef!
Ur instincts are very correct, soo leave Dat girl for the streets

Pelaguis:
Hi guys, I'm in dire need of advise....I've been in a relationship with a very beautiful lady for the last 8 years. We started dating since we were in high-school and we are finalising plans to spend the rest of our life's together. She's currently serving and we plan on getting hitched after her service year. I recently found out that she's been in a situation-ship with a married man. I had my suspicions few months ago. When I tried reaching her around 8pm (she's usually always reachable) and she didn't pick the call, the phone was later switched off ...I called her room mate and was told she's not at home. She later explained that she went to the cinema with her female friends. She's a bit of a photo freak and does not miss the opportunity to take a good picture...so it was surprisingly convenient when I asked to see pictures and was told there was none. Fast forward to a few days ago

I needed her email details to update an account, I was still logged in when an alert of 40k came in.....we are extremely close hence I'm very familiar with people that could send her money. The name attached with the transfer was non I was familiar with. I confronted her and she came clean, that it was from a married colleague of hers, that he's sent her money twice. She claims there's nothing attached to it, he comes to her apartment once in a while, parks outside and they sit in the car and talk for 30mins to an hour they text almost everyday for long hours (4-5) and he's sent her one or two gifts. She swears they've never been intimate and that they've just gone out once the day she claimed to be at the movies with her friends.

I think they've never been intimate, and I'm tempted to forget about the whole thing but she broke my trust and lied to my face multiple times when I confronted her about things I'd noticed, she insisted I was acting out of proportion for being suspicious and assured me nothing was going on, when you've been with someone for so long you know the person almost completely...so I could tell something was off. The thing is she's adamant that all she did wrong was lie about going to dinner with him, she's making feel crazy for thinking she emotionally cheated on me, she feels collecting cash and spending so much time texting and chilling with a married man in the car is not an issue, especially when he's asked her out and is clearly interested in shifting her pants. Am I wrong to feel cheated on, should I continue with someone that thinks this way, is this a red flag??

sorry

Is an indigo flag.

Opemiposii:
i did nt say dat tho.. datz nt wat i meant

That's exactly what you mean.
Bye.

Mehn.. I'm afraid of relationship these days. It's becoming difficult.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!