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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by captainspear(m): 1:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
Dissap:
All these Nigerian women are asshóles! They are only made to fvck and to be fvcked. Drill their asses and fvck em real hard like a real cholo. Damn it bro!
this guy must be gay
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by AZControversial(m): 1:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

The last statement you made is your only escape from your dilemma... if... and only if.... you want a serious relationship.

Peace!!!!
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by NACE13: 1:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
nenyewrites:



He wants to be having sex with you for free. Better stay away from him. There are many man around, don't let a sly and selfish one destroy your self-esteem.

What do you mean "for free"? Are you supposed to attach a price to sex? There's nothing wrong if two adults come together to just have sex with no strings attached.
Comments like yours is why most guys see sex as the only thing a female can offer. Stop it, please.

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Moz22: 1:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
Sup with that your boyfriend that went blank on u..?
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by moneyissues(m): 1:18pm On Sep 12, 2021
I am ready for a relationship of only u would accept me.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by LastProphet: 1:18pm On Sep 12, 2021
Bola146:
Jesu! What do is a mumu question sad

Or continue giving him attention, give him sex too( that is what you are waiting for too grin grin) and don't ever come back here to ask questions or rain curses on him how he used and dump you for another lady that is sensible cheesy

Did you ask her if she wants the sex too? Must every sex be a relationship? Is there no time a lady just wants sex too from a guy and nothing more? Why are black people so dumb in large numbers?

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 12, 2021
Akakkio:
But he wants sex
The GUY was being genuine and Truthful.
Many would have brainwashed her since most ladies are known to have Light brain.

Must you date every LADY you SEX?
Sometimes SEX can be offered to people for their act of kind gesture/benevolence.
IF u must date & marry every Lady you sex, what then are PROSTITUTES still doing in the streets?

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 12, 2021
NACE13:


What do you mean "for free"? Are you supposed to attach a price to sex? There's nothing wrong if two adults come together to just have sex with no strings attached.
Comments like yours is why most guys see sex as the only thing a female can offer. Stop it, please.


For free means with no commitment, marriage commitment attached. But because you already have dirty thoughts and guilty conscience, you rushed to spill that rubbish up there.

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Ishilove: 1:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
OGraffix:
grin

The guy dat comments first, hope he never enter market so?
E don dey tear cloth small small
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nobody: 1:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
Same way they do to all your sisters and future daughters. Even ur mom is not spared.
Dissap:
Yo Hommies! I just wanna tell you something;
Fvck 'em all, bro. They ain't worth no shit! Damn! Drill every hole they gat to offer... Make them bitches scream like their ain't no tommorow!
Fvck them bitches! Fvck 'em real hard like a real cholo! Damn!
All these women are all whores!
Drill their ass and make them SCREEM your name while you ride them like a fvcking cheap horse! Damn it!
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by manee2(m): 1:22pm On Sep 12, 2021
Dissap:
All these Nigerian women are asshóles! They are only made to fvck and to be fvcked. Drill their asses and fvck em real hard like a real cholo. Damn it bro!

This account has been hacked
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by McOluOmo: 1:23pm On Sep 12, 2021
That dude is my niggar








Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by iceybux(m): 1:24pm On Sep 12, 2021
Bola146:
Jesu! What do is a mumu question sad

Or continue giving him attention, give him sex too( that is what you are waiting for too grin grin) and don't ever come back here to ask questions or rain curses on him how he used and dump you for another lady that is sensible cheesy

Why do y’all think giving sex is like giving a trophy.. sex is a norm and has noting to do with ur damn emotions

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by manee2(m): 1:27pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Ordinary bang all man de do e reach your turn you begin catch feelings

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nobody: 1:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
Wrong move you stand a better chance of making him fall for you if you stick around for a bit....I assure you if you cut communications na you go miss am pass. Poke the bear a little further he go fall for you last last cool
empress101:

I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by caandi: 1:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
Don’t force the relationship. Believe me it won’t end well. Be focused girl!
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by perdollar(m): 1:29pm On Sep 12, 2021
Allow him to fuccck u n go

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nobody: 1:30pm On Sep 12, 2021
Including your mother abi? You be mumu man
Dissap:
All these Nigerian women are asshóles! They are only made to fvck and to be fvcked. Drill their asses and fvck em real hard like a real cholo. Damn it bro!
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by merits(m): 1:32pm On Sep 12, 2021
Dissap:
All these Nigerian women are asshóles! They are only made to fvck and to be fvcked. Drill their asses and fvck em real hard like a real cholo. Damn it bro!
O boy wetin women do you na? Take it easy not all of them are whores many of them are good to be with.



Drink this cold eva and calm down.

Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by AntiWailer: 1:33pm On Sep 12, 2021
He will Bleep u and abandon you

Carry the dignity wey remain and walk away.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by longjosh: 1:37pm On Sep 12, 2021
Greystone:


My advice is this: Walk away. He may fancy you a little but he definitely doesn't want you enough to be with you.

At best, you are a spare tyre in case other relationships don't work or worse since he knows you like him, you will become his booty call whenever he wants to have sex.

I am a guy and I will tell you the truth;

If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.
You just broke the bro code

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by remotecontrol: 1:38pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Turn the table around, do you feel same way?
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by NACE13: 1:39pm On Sep 12, 2021
nenyewrites:


For free means with no commitment, marriage commitment attached. But because you already have dirty thoughts and guilty conscience, you rushed to spill that rubbish up there.

You can pass your point without being aggressive or uncouth, you know. Must there be a commitment before a girl can sleep with a guy she likes? That's still a price you are putting on sex. But you were so belligerent, that you have already attributed it to dirty thoughts in my head. Spoilt child

Chinenyenwa, las las, I'll beat you before I break your head.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Kazim88: 1:40pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
.


Op, Only A true man can understand.

For men, liking or wanting to be with you etc is secondary,
The primary concern is finance, obviously you are due for marriage, he his also due but in Africa of today starting a relationship is more expensive than starting a business.

So, what he is simply saying is I like you too but I am still considering the cost of starting a relationship with you.

Let me give a free tip to everylady, here the day your boyfriend believe or assume when he marries you he will be richer or his life will be better, he will marry you, 100%.

If he marries you and his life goes worse, he will silently blame you but if his life improves he will stick with you forever

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by funkemary(f): 1:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
The answer you seek has already been given so what is left is for you to do what is right

...that was how one fellow corper told me that he is not married, has a girlfriend whom he loved but he is open for new opportunities when I asked him what he want. Very funny

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
Nigga with scope. You should appreciate his honesty.

He believes having u around would definitely, one day, give him access to tha coochie.

While u give am the coochie, no commitment from him.

If you're cool with him, u can enjoy it while it lasts.

If u wanna know what he's interested in, try opening the honeypot for him and see weda him go wan do.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by BambamRalph(m): 1:45pm On Sep 12, 2021
He periodically just wants to have sex with you without any form of attachment. It’s left to you to decide if you want same too.

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by ashawopikin(m): 1:47pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
girls of nowadays, always confused
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by CountVersailles(f): 1:48pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Why is it always all or nothing for you girls? Can't you just be friends and try leave feelings out of it? He wants to be friends. Then be friends. Don't let feelings take over. Guard your feelings, stay friends. It's that simple!

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by JennyOfOldstones(f): 1:48pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
Better start running, the earlier the better. Once a guy says he's not ready for a relationship but wants you around, you should always take the sentence before the but as his true intention and toss the rest aside. If you stay hoping that with time things will change then I'm sorry that's an extremely foolish decision.

Don't try to remain friends with him, You're not on the same page emotionally so there can be no such thing as a friendship between you guys for now. Maybe after you've sorted out your feelings then you can resume your friendship. Cut all contact with him for your own good

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