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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Bngf: 4:40pm On Sep 12, 2021
These hoess are smart

Don’t be fooled
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by shadeyinka(m): 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
He has told you the truth, he doesn't want a relationship with you. Break off before you claim he broke your heart.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by viceddy95(m): 5:02pm On Sep 12, 2021
@ O P,will you have feelings for him,if he was broke cheesy wink ….since the guy is not interested in a relationship with you,distance yourself from him or just be a friend..
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Sterling111: 5:06pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
No dear... grin


No ?

But you said that you are already about starting to catch feelings �
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by obinna58(m): 5:35pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
We call it game of the masters and that how smart guys roll.
Most guys like him are not looking for the pusxy but if you offer it still good, they're simply looking for a good woman who can match up their standard.
Better start developing yourself in every aspect
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by TPound(m): 5:50pm On Sep 12, 2021
Dissap:
They ain't worth no shit, mehn!!!! Fvcking asshóles!!!!!!!

How much is your mom? grin
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by EndRape2(f): 6:21pm On Sep 12, 2021
He told you his mind, why not kill the feelings and move on, you can not force a man to love you, it will lead to problem, move on.









ote author=empress101 post=105717656]HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...[/quote]
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by showafrica(m): 6:41pm On Sep 12, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

He is ok with friends with benefits... Don't push forward. Along the line, if you see another person ready for a serious relationship/marriage you move and never look back. By the way, whats is special about relationship. Anything outside marriage is nonesense. You are friends already, why are you asking for a relationship? If he likes you too much, he will propose marriage not relationship. For now, he is not convinced yet.

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nobody: 7:14pm On Sep 12, 2021
If he seem like someone that has connections, friendzone him
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Bolarineliza202: 7:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
waywardpikin:


Does she have to walk away from his life? It's not that deep and he might only genuinely like her as just a friend. You guys need to get that straight.
It seems you don't understand girls,what if she finally gets emotionally attached to him forever and the guy in question doesn't give a damn.......wouldn't she have herself to be blamed then ,will the whole thing not get complicated then undecided undecided
The best thing is to be a friend,family and a problem sharer to the one you are dating. You know it won't be right if she eventually start dating another guy and probably she quarrels with her boyfriend and start seeking advice from the guy she was attached to in the first place.

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by themanderon: 7:34pm On Sep 12, 2021
If you know what is good for you RUN.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Nekky5(f): 7:57pm On Sep 12, 2021
Hmm!!!!! Just run and forget him since he is not interested in you. Leave and have your dignity intact as a woman.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Frank83: 8:04pm On Sep 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So because you have an outie means you are somehow on another level from those who have an innie? undecided

For Pete's sake, how old are these kids who frequent these sections on nairaland abeg? undecided
.. Your admonition to the upper post is the lore reason why most times I remain silent on topics here.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by lovchalice(f): 8:05pm On Sep 12, 2021
I don't think so
Loi
Sounding like a broken record
Lol
[Pquote author=Bornsinner7 post=105717700]Are you alright??[/quote]
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by wizi4tyn: 9:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
No be wetin babes Dey do us on a steady be this? He’s nice cos he told u the truth. Babes don’t usually tell you the truth but they’ll still do it to you anyways
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by wizi4tyn: 9:45pm On Sep 12, 2021
Why is everyone saying she should run? Can’t the guy just want a real platonic friendship from her even though she’s attracted to him? That he's saying he doesn't want a relationship but wants her around, doesn't mean he wants sex except they're already doing the do. I personally know that I’ve been attracted to different girls in times past who are my friends and it didn’t change anything. Because he doesn’t want a relationship doesn’t mean they can’t be friends. Why women dey like do this thing? “If I can’t have you, nobody can! If we aren't dating, we can't be friends!!"

One of my best friends till now is someone I'm attracted to. She knew I liked her, a part of me still does. She's asked why I wanted just friendship, I told her. Although I told her the half truth on this issue but we're still good friends. She's prolly the female I trust the most who isn't part of my family, and this is better than I would have attempted starting a relationship with her. I've known her almost a decade now still counting.

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by blacknoir: 10:53pm On Sep 12, 2021
Confused ? After a guy told u that he only wants you around. My dear carry urself and find another man ,all this "I am feeling this and that" is nonsense ,emotions are fukking unstable use ur brain do the maths unless u want to be used as a sex doll.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Suremikky(m): 11:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
Una dey advise person wey dem don dey nack already
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Hassanmaye(m): 11:33pm On Sep 12, 2021
Greystone:


My advice is this: Walk away.

He may fancy you a little but he definitely doesn't want you enough to be with you.

At best, you are a spare tyre in case other relationships don't work or worse since he knows you like him, you will become his booty call whenever he wants to have sex.
Are you sure even when money is involved
I am a guy and I will tell you the truth;

If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Hassanmaye(m): 11:34pm On Sep 12, 2021
muller101:
Pussy creatures see the way they are giving one of their kind advice as if they get sense.
Lol
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by chaloskyx: 12:35am On Sep 13, 2021
HE WANTS YOU AS A PLAY TOY ONLY AND HES JUST BEING POLITE AND PUTTING IT MILDLY
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Legalbeing(m): 6:51am On Sep 13, 2021
Who be that slowpoke that comment first.
He is indeed a product of a failed mother...
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Shagbatshagba: 7:05am On Sep 13, 2021
My advice for you is this...just be in another relationship as well and just like him for someone to hang around with coz if u love him much when he does something that pleases him which may get u jealous he would say he is not at fault since he told you he doesn't want a relationship.....from experience

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by HRMK: 7:28am On Sep 13, 2021
empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...
U AV NO FUTURE WITH SUCH A MAN!FORGET ABT HIM!!
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Dabliss02(m): 7:52am On Sep 13, 2021
Love no dey run
Go hustle fess
Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Dagr8tosyn: 9:31am On Sep 13, 2021
If you can cope with friendship, go ahead with him, not all guys want relationship at first, he may want to know more about you before taking decision on relationship but you must avoid infatuation. Note, if you cant cope with the guy as a friend, avoid him totally to avoid luring him into having sex or false relationship with you and dumping you later. Cheers!

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by BRATISLAVA: 5:21pm On Sep 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So because you have an outie means you are somehow on another level from those who have an innie? undecided

For Pete's sake, how old are these kids who frequent these sections on nairaland abeg? undecided

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Re: He Doesn't Want A Relationship BUT... by Ralphjoe(m): 10:50pm On Sep 13, 2021
BlackyOne:



Confusion everywhere

I met this girl I liked and wanted a relationship with, I've been asking her out till she eventually visited on a Sunday after she closed from church.

We gisted for over 2 hours and when it was time to go we hugged and I kissed her & she kissed back and then smooshing and fingering begins but she was in the mood already for some knacking but I held back because I don't want her feeling like I took advantage of her and because I wanted a serious relationship and not just a one-off or sex only thing...

Long story short, she withdrew from me since then, she intentionally avoided me and started staying away, this is someone we played and talked a lot before that Godly Sunday....

What do women even want

This is what we are talking about, one would be thinking that wonen love a man that respect principles and morals but taking a cue from this story that you have shared, it can be inferred that all girls are not the same in that aspect, I will only advice you to continue with what you believe in, if you see a girl that believe in what you believe in, then it means that you guys might actually be compatible and work out

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