drlateef:



Daddy GO
Boss at work
Film producer
Benefactor
Family friend
Neighbour
Facebook friend
Tweeter friend
IPOB brother
Palm wine club gyrating friend.
Endless list.

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

joyandfaith:


Daddy friend has been sleeping with her even before the wedding. Paternity test and divorce. Cheating partner is a killer.

Mariangeles:
First things first, he needs to be away from his so-called wife to prevent him from doing something (in anger) he might later regret, and also some time off to himself to get himself together and process his thoughts on what next to do.
Whatever decision he decides to make, he should be supported because it is not going to be easy in any way.

What a world shattering situation.

PraisesPblaze:
Screenshot evidences and conduct dna test secretly b4 questioning her.

I see breakfast being served. Your life needs peace, not a cheating wife

tenry:

Bro, I can't be wasting my time here at this time when I should be enjoying my sleep. My wife and I cannot sleep. Few minutes ago we called them, he had already packed her things in their sitting room, waiting for a day break before sending her to her parents. Still appealing to him to call her parents that she will be coming and also release her phone to her. We felt this is necessary should anything happen , her family won't request him to produce their daughter.

Lexusgs430:



He should start with DNA.........

If the child is his, and his wife is truly apologetic..... He should forgive her.......

If he refuses to forgive her, can he swear he has never cheated on his wife?.....

AquaPetals:





He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.

AquaPetals:





He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.

Lexusgs430:



He should start with DNA.........

If the child is his, and his wife is truly apologetic..... He should forgive her.......

If he refuses to forgive her, can he swear he has never cheated on his wife?.....

igbowoman:


Why can't he forgive her?
Yes
He should forgive and forget

ahnie:
Open marriage should be practiced in naija it would save us the stress of cheating.
Funny enough most of these people shouting **send her away*go for DNA test** are fucking people's wives and or people's husbands are fucking them.

Most of their kids does not even belongs to their house-bands.

The only ground I would advise the man to divorce his wife is...if their child does not belong to the man.but aside that...they should trash this infidelity issues out and settle their lacuna.

tenry:

I married his sister. In other words, the husband is my wife's younger brother.

Lexusgs430:



He should start with DNA.........

If the child is his, and his wife is truly apologetic..... He should forgive her.......

If he refuses to forgive her, can he swear he has never cheated on his wife?.....

Lexusgs430:



He should start with DNA.........

If the child is his, and his wife is truly apologetic..... He should forgive her.......

If he refuses to forgive her, can he swear he has never cheated on his wife?.....

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie

Daddy GO
Boss at work
Film producer
Benefactor
Family friend
Neighbour
Facebook friend
Tweeter friend
IPOB brother
Palm wine club gyrating friend.
Endless list.
He's just my fitness trainer and he even suggested this tight training pants for me so that I can become fit in a record time.

Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

macrodata:

childhood friend
Choir master
"That small boy"

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Nwaezehopr:
I did introduction recently but the news about cheating lately really disturbing. I'm having a rethink because I have been having a trust issue with her. I need a happy home.

Mood11:

List updated bro

eyinjuege:
He needs to do a DNA test on their child and if the child isn't his, let the father of the child know.
I would implore him to forgive his wife though, because the next woman may not be any better.
Even Jesus forgave the woman caught doing adultery, and asked those without sin to throw the first stone.
This is the first and only person he has caught her with, so I believe she can actually stop any communication with him.
He needs to also be very prayerful because the devil is roaming about trying to destroy marriages. Marriage is for better for worse and since there is no case of violence here, they can still work out things.
Also, get to the bottom of why she is still seeing this man after marriage, and if there's something he needs to work on, he should.
Is it money related? Is it fitness related or is her husband's bedroom game not so good? Any of these things can be worked on from his own part.
There is no marriage without it's ups and downs.
God will show you the next step to take, if you seek his face.

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.