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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by bluefilm: 4:59pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

But why don't you want to marry her?

I perfectly understand your situation because I've been there myself.

Even if I had stayed with her for 10 years, I still wouldn't have married her.

My reason is because she wasn't intellectual enough.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by silvoclaira: 5:00pm On Nov 11, 2021
Newboss:


The word "lord" is a title. The word "god" is also a title. You can make anyone your lord and you can also make anyone your god.

When someone say "lord" or "god", they could be referring to anything or anyone imaginable. Don't always assume they're talking about the person that you're thinking about.
Okay
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Maobichek: 5:00pm On Nov 11, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:

Exactly how your future daughter's deceiver or your sister's deceiver will be advised.

Hahahaaaaa!!! You no get joy oh! The guy is wicked, all he wanted was sex and he must have had more than enough of her. This is pure wickedness.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 11, 2021
Jman06:
And so


So because they had sex with each other, they must marry even if they're not compatible

The double standard you folks use in judging matters like this is nauseating. Reverse this scenario now, let it be a lady that wants to dump a guy, y'all will encourage her.

Oga you cannot read or you're just simply blind or is it comprehension skills you lack? He said he'd been deceiving her, knew from the get-go he wouldn't marry her yet outrightly told her he would.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by HolyTrader: 5:00pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.


Please, don't destroy the lives of your yet unborn descendants because of your foolishness.

It is now you are talking of “before it is too late.” E-diot, with the way you are behaving towards this Sister, it is already too late to avoid God's anger upon your life.
How many years of her life have you already wasted? And this wasting is ongoing.

Curses are generational, and Karma is real. If you escape God's punishment, one of your future Daughters or Grand Daughters is going to bear the brunt of this your ungodly, deceptive, heartless life you are living.

You are carelessly destroying another person's life, and you think there will be no repercussions for your behaviour. Think again!

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by geechy: 5:01pm On Nov 11, 2021
Kalapizim:
Similar case with me now, I am trying to break up with this woman because I don't see us going further.

We don't share the same views or even dreams and she is not mature enough.
I have tried everything possible to avoid getting intimate with her and even broken up once but she came back stronger.

I am thinking of how to make extra money but she is there disturbing me with why didn't you eat this morning type of questions.

Chai, sorry for you wen you're tired of a lady of 3days

When she constantly wants to know wwat you ate and comes over to prepare your food...know that she don catch you.
And when you're the type whose stomach is the way to his heart, chai, you're done for
......my broda, run oooo

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by rolams(m): 5:01pm On Nov 11, 2021
You are lucky to see the girl who really understand you now and you dey form BOSSS. Don't worry, your eye go finally clear when you go fall for one smart girl wey go show you hell. Why can't you marry her?

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mom007(f): 5:02pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.
See, you wicked people, someone you have known from day one that you will not marry, why did you lie and string her along? For your mother and co to know her that means you took your deception as far as introducing her to your family. Then to crown the insult, you want to dump her and make it look like her fault. You cannot even own your shit like a real man.
Well, I don't have advice to waste on you. You will still meet your size, this I have seen.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Piptocoin: 5:02pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

How can you live with yourself knowing you are constantly feeding her a lie about getting married to her?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Alabule: 5:02pm On Nov 11, 2021
iceybux:


Yes every relationship must not end in marriage.. that’s the major issue with naija girls.. bcus u guys had sex they feel it’s entitlement to marriage rights.. babe we bleeped each other... it works fine if it doesn’t life goes on.. gbam

But the Op has been promising her marriage for the past 3 years.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by kanmi4gold: 5:04pm On Nov 11, 2021
Can you let us know the reasons you want to leave her after three years
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Jman06(m): 5:05pm On Nov 11, 2021
toren:


Oga you cannot read or you're just simply blind or is it comprehension skills you lack? He said he'd been deceiving her, knew from the get-go he wouldn't marry her yet outrightly told her he would.
Even if he told her he would, he also has the right to tell her he wouldn't anymore. No be by force
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by sandra50(f): 5:07pm On Nov 11, 2021
Evil soul..you kept someone's daughter for 3 years just for free sex..leave her now..let it be your fault but Oga you will want that girl back some day and she will be far gone when the bad girl most have finished dealing with you..evil soul..why keep her for that long?
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Prayfortheworld: 5:07pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
i want it to be in the form of a set up, i don't want her to blame me because i don't know how she will feel
How you wan take do am?
Anyhow wey you take do am she go still be heartbroken
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Prayfortheworld: 5:08pm On Nov 11, 2021
hibeebeeking:
Sit her down and explain. How? How will you feel if you are the girl ? Don't you know that girs are different. Their heart are fragile. Most of them can't stand it. She fit break bottle o.
Make em continue dy deceive the girl na abi
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Astrid4(m): 5:08pm On Nov 11, 2021
Bola146:
May we never meet agbako people in life sad Hummmmmm... People should be very careful with your type of human being, as friends oo shocked shocked 3years and you can't still tell her You don't want to offend her or you are done with her? Koburu embarassed The same way you rise her legs, use the same method to tell her undecided undecided intentionally you are really hurting her seriously by still wasting her time when you could said the truth to your people since, haba!!!! It's better you tell her the truth now! If you still continue making use of her to dump her later hummmm... if she curse you it will come to pass for sure but if you tell her now, she will shout and keep quiet. Some ladies don suffer in the name of bad and crazy relationship sad

No curse will come to past on this poor dude abegii, he has his own reason for the breakup,the fact the woman has been giving her sex for the past 3 years doesn't mean he should be marry her, the question is the woman really committed to this dude??,abi no be you girls ??the babe will surely have a second option/fiddle if he should breakup with her then the poor gal that will move on, I will only advice him to do it fast so he won't waste more of the babe's time. There is nothing bad in this, bad relationship is better than bad marriage. Don't make it sound like OP has just committed murder or anything
#insidelife

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Fabulouslouie(m): 5:08pm On Nov 11, 2021
wahala too much for this life

Person below go get something to talk
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by praise11925(m): 5:08pm On Nov 11, 2021
Na me go first tell Devil to punish you,,, guy this is wickedness. You wasted her life for 3 years Abeg go n wait for corner as nemesis will meet you for a brief meeting
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by marsup: 5:09pm On Nov 11, 2021
You are related to the the devil....... 3 years of deceit. Time waster.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Viraltrends123: 5:09pm On Nov 11, 2021
chii8:
Hmmm.....tell her you aren't feeling the relationship again like you used to and that you would want a little break for 3months and that if God wills it, you will both come back together.But meanwhile,do you know that, for the 3years she was with you,she may have sent serious suitors away thinking she was in a courtship with you.


You have already broken her heart with all these thoughts in your head,the earlier you close the deal, the better.Christmas is around the corner maybe God will have mercy on her and give her a better man that she will marry.

To the ladies,any relationship not been concluded officially to a permanent site after 6months should be deserted.

The young man doesn't love this lady,so no point preaching love to him.
Just 6 months, seriously. Haven't you listen to Mr. Reason with me,where a girl left him because she's tired of waiting, need he is a multimillionaire.

As for me, I will go back to our yoruba tradition and islamic way of not dating. Have friends, male friends, female friends, anyone that likes you will have to see your parents first.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Champneys: 5:09pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.



ONKR! angry
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 11, 2021
Kalapizim:
Similar case with me now, I am trying to break up with this woman because I don't see us going further.

We don't share the same views or even dreams and she is not mature enough.
I have tried everything possible to avoid getting intimate with her and even broken up once but she came back stronger.

I am thinking of how to make extra money but she is there disturbing me with why didn't you eat this morning type of questions.



Teenager questions....
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by JennyOfOldstones(f): 5:12pm On Nov 11, 2021
Jman06:
Even if he told her he would, he also has the right to tell her he wouldn't anymore. No be by force
By the time she sues him for breach of promise to marry, he'll also learn that he has the right to remain silent by not making promises he can't keep
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by sharpwriter(m): 5:12pm On Nov 11, 2021
oghenetega100:
You are very wicked!!! She may not know it now but she is about to dodge a bullet.
Otega, Oghenetega, Oghene miyeruwe Oghenetega, ejiro Oghene, Oghenetega grin smiley kiss
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Trust22(m): 5:12pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
i want it to be in the form of a set up, i don't want her to blame me because i don't know how she will feel

Nawao.. People dey oo
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by NGArmyTerrorist: 5:13pm On Nov 11, 2021
Make I follow Nigerians go emotional.. When Lust and fornication enters your head, things you can't do does not exist! Go kneel down, cry and beg the girl. Confession time! Goodluck!
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Kirkman: 5:14pm On Nov 11, 2021
@ Op Mylordmygod1, if you must leave this lady; please let her know the areas in which she had erred and you don't like and if she's willing to make changes and be a better person for you by all means stick with her.
To start with someone new isn't easy at all; except you have someone new in mind already that you want to settle down with. They say the devil that you know is better than the angel that you don't know..
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Semaj77(m): 5:14pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.


I don't get it , you wanna look good while doing bad ?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Viraltrends123: 5:14pm On Nov 11, 2021
rita25:
IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pls send me her no let me tell her with style....pls dont marry her and suffer her for nothing.
Funny, calm down. What if it's the other way round.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by YoungBlackRico(m): 5:15pm On Nov 11, 2021
Look at this devil!
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Maobichek: 5:16pm On Nov 11, 2021
PeachtreeReside:





You are mean!!!!!!




You are such a mean individual.

Please calm down ok, he is mean and no one will support him but this thread really brought out the anger in the heart of Nairaland ladies; his conscience is pricking him and he need to consider the girl in question, this thread can make him reconsider his stance, pls let's not kill him but encourage him to do away with wickedness cos the girl in question is a human being, thank you.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Jman06(m): 5:17pm On Nov 11, 2021
JennyOfOldstones:
By the time she sues him for breach of promise to marry, he'll also learn that he has the right to remain silent by not making promises he can't keep
Nonsense! How many guys have sued ladies who accepted to marry them only to dump them at the eleventh hour Oh, I forgot, it's a different standard when a guy is at the receiving end. Or have you not heard of ladies dumping their fiances even on the eve of their wedding??

I don't blame y'all, I blame some guys who can't brutally take decisions like real men but bring up issues for hypocritical people to guilt trip them.

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