Opeyemiextra:
Being with a manipulative partner

Mind u ladies are naturally manipulative, eve. Without them knowing

Get ready she will find away to become your boss by style,today she is the nicest gentle & quiet just wait and see, omo! story after crucify jesus. u go hear weennn

Fiscus105:



Bursted? Which freedom u fear to loose o

Going to club? Having male bestie, missing beer

Don't let some small boys say, woman don't know what they want jare

Oga when I say freedom I mean freedom to do what I want to do at any particular time. In marriage you always have to consider your spouse or kids before doing anything. But when you are single, you’re only responsible for yourself and can do anything you like at anytime you like. You can use your precious time however you want without having to think of anyone. You can spend your money how you like. You can travel when you like. You can visit friends when you like. You can just be carefree and not be bothered. That’s the freedom I’m talking about not freedom to change dick

helinues:
Getting married to a wrong person.

If you ever experience true love before, then taking time in choosing the right partner is not really a waste of time

You know when phones can be dropped without any snooping, when calls can be received without using ok, yes , hmmmm

When the daily communication are easy flowing, grudges last less than a day

Apart from little misunderstanding, cheating is out of what to worry about

Stuffs ike that

SHUT UP!!!

YOU KNOW NOTHING

Juliusmomoh:
Fucking only one pussy i can't

Me too

My wedding is December. My fear is getting intimate with my wife when she's heavily pregnant. Am always scared of getting close to heavily pregnant women.




Don't know if am he only one with that feeling. Like I don't want to woman's belly to touch me. I'll be so fvcking scared

Iyaebe:
Joy ke?anyways there'll be housemaids to take care of that aspect.

yes o, and the house maid too will take a cut of the banging aspect too sha

Fiscus105:



When partners start seeing marriage as step-up in stage of life, a stage of higher responsibilities, If you prepare ur mind ready before such task, you won't see it as a cage as some people assumed.


When a guy of 23 with all luxury of freedom, thinking he would continue leave such life going to 30 and 40s, such person planning to leave a life of total irresponsible and not freedom.

Responsibilities not to spend all ur income bcoz of wife and kids, not to hang out with friends till late night, not to drink and smoke to stupor, are not cage but showing level of responsibility.

Couples dey try, I am Middle aged but still want to be free. Maybe I will marry by 40. Omo e no easy sha

None at all. My God whom I serve will take control of my marriage...

Iyaebe:
Joy ke?anyways there'll be housemaids to take care of that aspect.

I pray I don't meet your kind of person
you are worst than the devil himself

I don’t know

Wizywiz:
No comment oooo....me am done with marriage oooo...I can't go Into it again oooo....the one wey I come out from don clear my eyes ooooooo... marriage isnt for me anymore....make the prospectives talk their mind

What happened? Care to share your experience with us?

Paternity fraud

EjaikreTheViper:


SHUT UP!!!

YOU KNOW NOTHING

Why naa? If you have nt experienced real, true and undiluted love, sorry ooh and pls try find one cos they still exist.okay?

That I will get tired of my wife

Polynek:
The thought of another man lashing Her in my absence

If your pikin no resemble you nko?

shantti:



Thank God for your life. The way i hate self entitled women eh. My neighbor's girl friend was shouting at him the other day


Girlfriend "I am now a grown up big girl, by right I am not supposed to be collecting money from my father again, you should be the one taking care of me and paying my school fees.

Her boyfriend my neighbor is someone that is basically living from hand to mouth, he is really struggling to get by each day. Yet this girl doesn't care, if she is coming over, she comes with her siblings, and since her bf no get food, they usually descend on my food, (we share the same kitchen) I don't know how to tell them to stop without sounding offensive, her bf and I lives like brothers, we share things together but the idea of this girl coming with her entire family to finish my food doesn't sit well with me. I just endure. my neighbor is currently using his money to register jamb exam for the youngest of the girls siblings and the way am seeing things, the girl is expecting her boyfriend to start training all of them in school. (Remember that the guy struggles to get by each day). May God help us men

That guy is not a man. A dead man is better Dan him. No woman born of a woman can control me like DAT, "you dey madddd". In fact both of una are maddd!!!.

helinues:
Getting married to a wrong person.

If you ever experience true love before, then taking time in choosing the right partner is not really a waste of time

You know when phones can be dropped without any snooping, when calls can be received without using ok, yes , hmmmm

When the daily communication are easy flowing, grudges last less than a day

Apart from little misunderstanding, cheating is out of what to worry about

Stuffs ike that

You watch too many Disney cartoons.

ISelectMySins:


What happened? Care to share your experience with us?

I will when am emotionally disposed to do so

Wizywiz:
I will when am emotionally disposed to do so

Omo! Your wife do you strong thing ooo.

ISelectMySins:


Omo! Your wife do you strong thing ooo.

..my brother it's well..I have to leave for my mental health and we'll being... happiness is a choice

..... Of not being able to meet up family needs.

Marrying st*pid women like amotolongbo and co.

Very s*lly set of people.

If he dies

Him not being who I thought he was

MeghaneMorgane:


Oga when I say freedom I mean freedom to do what I want to do at any particular time. In marriage you always have to consider your spouse or kids before doing anything. But when you are single, you’re only responsible for yourself and can do anything you like at anytime you like. You can use your precious time however you want without having to think of anyone. You can spend your money how you like. You can travel when you like. You can visit friends when you like. You can just be carefree and not be bothered. That’s the freedom I’m talking about not freedom to change dick

I agree sis. And when kids start coming just forget it.

Innobee99:
My wedding is December. My fear is getting intimate with my wife when she's heavily pregnant. Am always scared of getting close to heavily pregnant women.




Don't know if am he only one with that feeling. Like I don't want to woman's belly to touch me. I'll be so fvcking scared

Lol it's perfectly safe to have sex with a pregnant woman and besides you can try other positions.

Opeyemiextra:
Being with a manipulative partner

Not surprised since u be woman. Na una dey manipulate pass. Guess you are afraid of yourself.

greatiyk4u:


Sapa has tenure, it doesn't last forever as far as you dey hustle the right and smart way.

pls, what does sapa even mean?

My greatest fear of going into marriage is being a victim of the female selfish nature who always do what is convenient for them at all times.... being on my own even when stuck with a woman - who tries to force me to spend my hard earned cash on her in the name of wife....

These are fears of going into marriage:

1. Marrying someone that wil be lying to me and saying the truth when it favours her because there is no trust.
2. Pretense and fake love among couples
3. No genuine trust or respect, so when either makes a mistake or become weak, the other will take advantage and dishonour the other.
4. Quarrelling and fighting all the time
5. Unfaithfulness
6. No commitment to each other goals
7. Keeping alot of secrets and can't confide in eachother
8. Couples who use eachother
9. Enduring eachother instead of enjoying eachother, accepting eachother's flaws and working together to help eachother develop.
10. Couples who switch attitudes when things no longer favour them or things get rough.

The list goes on. Some people are in living hell in the name of marriage. My advice is marry who GENUINELY loves you and you GENUINELY love too.