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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Innobee99(m): 9:16am On Nov 14, 2021
[quote author=Amozever12 post=107599495][/quote]Thank u so much
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Innobee99(m): 9:18am On Nov 14, 2021
1Sharon:


Lol it's perfectly safe to have sex with a pregnant woman and besides you can try other positions.
Am not talking about just s3x.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Akalia(m): 9:23am On Nov 14, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Being with a manipulative partner
Simply put, you can't submit to a man.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Opeyemiextra(f): 9:42am On Nov 14, 2021
Hey, easy there. Men manipulate just as much so don't make it a woman thing. Afraid of myself grin I'd like to know exactly what gave you that impression
BigBashiru:


Not surprised since u be woman. Na una dey manipulate pass. Guess you are afraid of yourself.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Opeyemiextra(f): 9:46am On Nov 14, 2021
Is that what manipulation is to you? Please, think again and do it better this time.
Akalia:
Simply put, you can't submit to a man.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by cayorday89(m): 9:56am On Nov 14, 2021
greatiyk4u:
This question goes to the married and the single pro-life individuals who believe in marriage but have had some fears due to their current experiences (for the married) or what we see, read and hear outside about challenges in marriage courtesy of socio moral implications of globalisation on Africans.

Looking at the society in general today with reference to Nigeria, the general euphoria and enthusiasm attached to marriage is gradually going into extinction by miasma of wrong narratives from those against marriage...I guess.

I still hold on to this believe that any functional and healthy adult who cannot manage both marriage and family is irresponsible and just as my culture and religion accord such respect of been responsible to the married.
There are certain cultural engagements, responsibilities, benefits that are made only for the married persons,
You can't be coronated a traditional ruler without a wife and so do I think of swearing in of Governors and Presidents

Why shy away with the proliferation of religious bodies and their core mandate of teaching LOVE
Let love lead because LOVE Is a beautiful thing especially when you found the right companion.

Share your opinion
It's okay you have your views but why back it up with a lie? Are all married people chiefs, president, governors, if my memory serves me well, Ooni married after he became a king. Only you talk about cultural engagements only you still talk about Religious bodies teaching if love which I am sure you sre referring to the churches, which are totally against some of our cultural practices.
And ask yourself how many people still practice the dictates of our culture and even the Christianity, it's all about eye service for the majority and the fear of not been punished by God.
It's way beyond whatever you think it is why some people are not married, if there are 10,000 unmarried people I can bet you there 20,000 plus reasons they are unmarried.

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Akalia(m): 9:58am On Nov 14, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Is that what manipulation is to you? Please, think again and do it better this time.
I know what I meant when I wrote that and I want to believe that I didn't quote you out of context. Just bear in mind that when you get marrried someday, you must do the bidding of your husband whether you like it or not. That's submissiveness.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by deltateam: 10:02am On Nov 14, 2021
My fear is not meeting up with the unending financial billing, marrying a leech, someone who cooks water with a touch of melon and oil, someone who uses pucci as a reward.

Infact marriage looks scary.

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by seyz91(m): 10:15am On Nov 14, 2021
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by seyz91(m): 10:19am On Nov 14, 2021
yes he is for real as marriage is not for everyone

even me myself don't see myself or ever imagine myself in a marriage life

greatiyk4u:


Are you for real?

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by MsFaith: 10:44am On Nov 14, 2021
Labour/child delivery
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by greatiyk4u(m): 10:45am On Nov 14, 2021
cayorday89:
It's okay you have your views but why back it up with a lie? Are all married people chiefs, president, governors, if my memory serves me well, Ooni[b] married after he became a king. [/b]Only you talk about cultural engagements only you still talk about Religious bodies teaching if love which I am sure you sre referring to the churches, which are totally against some of our cultural practices.
And ask yourself how many people still practice the dictates of our culture and even the Christianity, it's all about eye service for the majority and the fear of not been punished by God.
It's way beyond whatever you think it is why some people are not married, if there are 10,000 unmarried people I can bet you there 20,000 plus reasons they are unmarried.

Are you sure?
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by douglasatung: 10:53am On Nov 14, 2021
My fear of getting married bows down to financial freedom.

I hardly find it comfortable asking people for help so I hope to be stable at least financially before settling down.

That's my fear

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Ekg911(m): 11:28am On Nov 14, 2021
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool dat my wife might tell me to stop smoking WEED. WTF MAN
real matter bro.

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by sihamey: 11:29am On Nov 14, 2021
Polynek:
The thought of another man lashing Her angry in my absence angry

You are afraid of that because you are involved in lashing other girls
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Teymanhenry(f): 11:40am On Nov 14, 2021
Iyaebe:
Joy ke?anyways there'll be housemaids to take care of that aspect.
Its responsibility one should be ready to take if he/she wanna make babies. Remember, the house helps are humans just as we are
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Teymanhenry(f): 11:42am On Nov 14, 2021
Only thing I'm scared off is a disrespectful wife
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Nobody: 11:44am On Nov 14, 2021
Teymanhenry:

Its responsibility one should be ready to take if he/she wanna make babies. Remember, the house helps are humans just as we are
Let him not try that with me
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Goldbw122(m): 11:49am On Nov 14, 2021
Well it is the fear of going broke and not being able to support the family financially if I can solve or conquer that fear that means marriage is easy.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Juliusmomoh: 11:49am On Nov 14, 2021
Hassanmaye:
Hahahhahahaha
Oga hassan., grin grin
The matter shock you abi?

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Myexdisturbs: 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2021
Wizywiz:
No comment oooo....me am done with marriage oooo...I can't go Into it again oooo....the one wey I come out from don clear my eyes ooooooo... marriage isnt for me anymore....make the prospectives talk their mind
What happened, tell us
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by akdjr(m): 12:14pm On Nov 14, 2021
Make she no go born quadruplets

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by lookingfly: 12:34pm On Nov 14, 2021
greatiyk4u:
This question goes to the married and the single pro-life individuals who believe in marriage but have had some fears due to their current experiences (for the married) or what we see, read and hear outside about challenges in marriage courtesy of socio moral implications of globalisation on Africans.

Looking at the society in general today with reference to Nigeria, the general euphoria and enthusiasm attached to marriage is gradually going into extinction by miasma of wrong narratives from those against marriage...I guess.

I still hold on to this believe that any functional and healthy adult who cannot manage both marriage and family is irresponsible and just as my culture and religion accord such respect of been responsible to the married.
There are certain cultural engagements, responsibilities, benefits that are made only for the married persons,
You can't be coronated a traditional ruler without a wife and so do I think of swearing in of Governors and Presidents

Why shy away with the proliferation of religious bodies and their core mandate of teaching LOVE
Let love lead because LOVE Is a beautiful thing especially when you found the right companion.

Share your opinion
not knowing fully who am getting married too.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:57pm On Nov 14, 2021
Manipulation: The usage of psychological influence over a person or situation to gain an outcome at the expense of another person.

Submission is different from manipulation and I wonder why it looks and sound the same to you.

Manipulation itself is a form of abuse. Submission comes from a place of love and respect.

Akalia:
I know what I meant when I wrote that and I want to believe that I didn't quote you out of context. Just bear in mind that when you get married someday, you must do the bidding of your husband whether you like it or not. That's submissiveness.

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Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:02pm On Nov 14, 2021
larryking540:

wats your definition of a manipulative partner
One who emotionally and psychologically exploits another but I'm sure you know this already. So, what exactly?
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by shomutuski(m): 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2021
greatiyk4u:
This question goes to the married and the single pro-life individuals who believe in marriage but have had some fears due to their current experiences (for the married) or what we see, read and hear outside about challenges in marriage courtesy of socio moral implications of globalisation on Africans.

Looking at the society in general today with reference to Nigeria, the general euphoria and enthusiasm attached to marriage is gradually going into extinction by miasma of wrong narratives from those against marriage...I guess.

I still hold on to this believe that any functional and healthy adult who cannot manage both marriage and family is irresponsible and just as my culture and religion accord such respect of been responsible to the married.
There are certain cultural engagements, responsibilities, benefits that are made only for the married persons,
You can't be coronated a traditional ruler without a wife and so do I think of swearing in of Governors and Presidents

Why shy away with the proliferation of religious bodies and their core mandate of teaching LOVE
Let love lead because LOVE Is a beautiful thing especially when you found the right companion.

Share your opinion

jhj
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Akalia(m): 1:26pm On Nov 14, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Manipulation: The usage of psychological influence over a person or situation to gain an outcome at the expense of another person.

Submission is different from manipulation and I wonder why it looks and sound the same to you.

Manipulation itself is a form of abuse. Submission comes from a place of love and respect.

Nne toss your lexicon quote aside. When it comes to marriage this manipulation thing you just defined exists in a subtle way, it's inevitable. You are either coerced or coaxed by your spouse to do something or believe something. By the way women are more notorious in applying subtle manipulation in marriage than men.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by Greatric213(f): 1:29pm On Nov 14, 2021
Choosing the wrong partner
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by IAMPEDRO: 2:23pm On Nov 14, 2021
Iyaebe:
The thought of cooking daily and cleaning my future baby's poo ewwwww.
My dear there is great joy in cooking for your man and kids. Am not a lady tho, I feel joyous whenever I see a lady joyfully cleaning his/her baby's poo. That shouldn't be your fear, at least someone cleaned yours too, as that you should reciprocate it.
Re: What Is Your Greatest Fear In Going Into Marriage by liver123(m): 3:12pm On Nov 14, 2021
Fear of not having money to meet up with the family needs

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