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I'm Confused About My Guy by ucohinya(f): 7:04pm On Jul 26, 2007
i have a guy who i love very much,he said he loves me too but his action is sometimes quite different 4rm what it should be.eg.no access 2 his phones,don't call me always though he visits me.and there's this other guy dat wants me and do give me hope 4 2morow.i don't really know what 2 do pls advice me.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by BlackMamba(m): 8:00pm On Jul 26, 2007
ucohinya:
there's this other guy that wants me and do give me hope 4 2morow.

Hope is just what it is, HOPE. May turn out to be a nightmare compared to the reality of your current boyfriend.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by CrazyMan(m): 9:33pm On Jul 26, 2007
Don’t rush yourself here.
Sit your present boy friend and talk to him about his present attitude, (ie. how he doesn’t call you always, and how impossible it is for you to reach him on phone) if he doesn’t change, then you know he isn’t interested in you.
You just have to quit that relationship as soon as possible.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by efuah(f): 12:09pm On Jul 27, 2007
BlackMamba:

Hope is just what it is, HOPE. May turn out to be a nightmare compared to the reality of your current boyfriend.
na true o
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by LEVI2ME(m): 1:14pm On Jul 27, 2007
pls, dont be confused. Everyone is confused this day, most especially concerning thing of the heart.
but my advice listen to what your guy says, if he says go then go ahead, move on
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by funloving(m): 2:15pm On Jul 27, 2007
Maybe your boyfriend is one of those who likes his personal space, hence not calling you everyday and stuff like that.

Just talk to him about your concerns and if he doesn't give you a satisfacotry answer, move on with your life. There is NEVER a reason to stay in a relationship that does not give you joy
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by luxoire(f): 2:27pm On Jul 27, 2007
funloving:

Maybe your boyfriend is one of those who likes his personal space, hence not calling you everyday and stuff like that.

Just talk to him about your concerns and if he doesn't give you a satisfacotry answer, move on with your life. There is NEVER a reason to stay in a relationship that does not give you joy

je-je, no wahala
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by sillyboy(m): 2:51pm On Jul 27, 2007
@ TOPIC

I've got nothing to say. Sorry.

@ Lux.

Where have you been pal? I've bn wondering wassup with u. Thank God you are back. Pal have got a good news for you. Do you still remember lady we were talking about then? The one that doesn't want to admit some stuff? Please tell me you do remember! Well, she finally "jelled"! cool. I've got gist, but don't wanna share it here.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by jdizzy(m): 3:53pm On Jul 27, 2007
ucohinya:

i have a guy who i love very much,he said he loves me too but his action is sometimes quite different from what it should be.eg.no access 2 his phones,don't call me always though he visits me.and there's this other guy that wants me and do give me hope 4 2morow.i don't really know what 2 do please advice me.

Why does it seem like Naija's based in Naija fall in love sooo quickly? Not sure people understand what love really is.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by bluesky4(f): 4:27pm On Jul 27, 2007
jdizzy:

Why does it seem like Naija's based in Naija fall in love sooo quickly? Not sure people understand what love really is.


i know wat u mean undecided

@topic
talk to ur boyfriend about is distance behaiviour. has he always been like this?

@sillyboy
share it with us wink
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by mhenry: 11:28am On Jul 28, 2007
i hate to hear people say that. check yourself. something is wrong somewhere. its like u are not even focused
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by temidable: 12:00am On Sep 08, 2010
u dont have to do anything. just get urself busy and stop thinking about men. you have a whole live ahead of you. build urself up and u will see them come running after u.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by googles: 12:09am On Sep 08, 2010
temidable:

u dont have to do anything. just get urself busy and stop thinking about men. you have a whole live ahead of you. build urself up and u will see them come running after u.

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

you are advising the OP after three years. . . wow lipsrsealed
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by Marhoski(m): 12:20am On Sep 08, 2010
^^ lol grin
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by Nobody: 4:33pm On Sep 08, 2010
ucohinya:

i have a guy who i love very much,he said he loves me too but his action is sometimes quite different 4rm what it should be.eg.no access 2 his phones,don't call me always though he visits me.and there's this other guy dat wants me and do give me hope 4 2morow.i don't really know what 2 do pls advice me.
are u sure that's not me in question!?!
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by Nobody: 4:35pm On Sep 08, 2010
okay, u are almost falling in your profile. please go back and try adjust it, okay? wink
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by karjard(m): 10:19am On Sep 17, 2010
you have to follow your heart and not your head,HOPE would always be what it stands for so babe be wise.
Re: I'm Confused About My Guy by snthesis(m): 1:11pm On Sep 17, 2010
googles:

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

you are advising the OP after three years. . . wow lipsrsealed
beta late dan neva grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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