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Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Nobody: 1:57pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Sending her back to her family is the best option unless you are ready to keep criminal and be paying for her crime in expensive way 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat: Wait. You mean you searched her and find #200,000? How much did your sister said was missing from her POS business? Don't be too harsh on her. It might be the money she got from her boyfriend. Just advice her with serious warning. This life can be funny and nobody knows what it holds. Treat and advice the way you will treat your blood sister. Be very cautious |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Saig: 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat:I think your suggestion is good. Let her see a counselor |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by ReneDaniels: 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Baba my advise to you is, every family has one bad egg or a black sheep as people say. It’s quite unfortunate it had to be her. She’s still your sister and from your story y’all grew up together.imagine if you kick her out, what’s gonna become of her? Think about it. Just manage her and y’all have to be careful with handling cash around her. My advise is, get her engaged with a job or something that will take her outta the house and reduce the time she spends with her peers. God bless |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Saig: 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat:I think your suggestion is good. If you behaving like oyinbo will make her better an see save her life do it. Let her see a counselor |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Blackdisciple(m): 2:12pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Hmmm, She just got bad friends now. To me she'd your cousin sis and tye money has been found caution her warn her not to repeat such again, because since the money is found no need to maltreat her or locking her in the guard room as suggested by your brother... Just caution her |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by grandstar(m): 2:13pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat: If you can't place your own sister in guard room, do not place her there. The best you can do is to report her to her blood parents. One or both parents may come and give her the beating of her life. They may even want to take her away. Of course, she will beg not to be taken away. One of you can step in and plead on her behalf but with a caveat that if it happens again, she might have to go. The problem isnt as big as you make. She's going through what the Apostle Paul called "the bloom of youth" (Read 1 Cor 7:38). This the time when youths want to taste life. Sadly, some steal during this stage. They eventually outgrow this period and desire to settle down. Your mum can call her and talk sense into her. Ask her probing questions: "Do you want to ruin your sister's business? What wicked thing did she do to you? Has she offended you? You can tell me, you can confide in me? Your mum can tell her that she too was sissy when she was young. She can show her old pictures. That though she was sissy, she never stole! The most she ever did was to borrow other people's clothes (if true). But to steal, never! Guardroom is too much. My relation was locked up by his dad for 2 days in SARS cell for unrepentant stealing. Did he change? Flat no! A friend of mine was brought up by his aunt from the age of 2. In his very early 20s, he was kicked out and died around 30years of age from kidney complications. Even before then, he had a broken arm that never fully healed. No funds to treat it properly. I still think of him. Don't ruin what you've started. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
WHITELIGHTER: Since 3? How did she know she is not part of the family? Wow! |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by WHITELIGHTER: 2:19pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
oldtruth: She was with my grand mom as after her parents died, at 3, she was already street smart because of the freedom she had staying with granny. So we took her in…. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by ANON333: 2:28pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
The girl's your family, treat her like you'd your family. We've all seen and heard stories of children who betrayed their parents and vice versa, it is not a new thing. If you're certain she's new in the business, forgive her and caution her. By the way I noticed your story did not really add up well. You mentioned this cousin of yours was suspected by your sis cause she was spending large yet you found the exact amount that was missing untouched |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Gentlevip: 2:37pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
No age, no idea how you raised her,or how deep you pampered her, or how you avoided koboko in her upbringing And you dey dia they talk of therapy likesay na white man country youu dey |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Babatojide: 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Keep her away from phones and social media for a month or two Hopefully She would get back her Default/factory settings... |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by idomytin(m): 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Maturity at it's peak. Your head get oil.. Ebubechuwku: |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by PennywysCares(m): 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat:you said she leave with you guys from age of 5 and has become part of the family and blood, so treat her as you will treat ur sister. Sending her back to her parents isn't the solution |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by schoolboymatt(m): 3:23pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Richy4: cousin's sister is still cousin lol. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by rosamaris: 3:24pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Hmmm this reminds me of Bimpe in ''my siblings and I''. Honestly my humble submission is thieves dont change. She will do it again and again and again if she gets the opportunity. So if you cant send her away, then be kind enough to quietly endure the coming episodes. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by orion7: 3:25pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat:treat her as you would your biological sister. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by remiopash: 3:31pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Sit her down, talk to her about the consequences of being wayward. Give her live examples of what may befall her if you eject her from the house. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by domchike(m): 3:57pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
The best bet is to send her home to her parents let her brain reset Any punishment you net out to her might boomerang |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Djuggernaut(m): 4:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Easy. If she apologized, we all deserve second chances. She is still family. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by valentineuwakwe(m): 4:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Forget this your family feelings for her n sentiments......allow them treat her like a thief and send her back to her parents.......yu may regret this if you choose otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Christmasdon(m): 4:02pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
The case so simple. send her to her parent .yes let her know herself. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Okhuadams(m): 4:05pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamwhat:Involve her parents if they are still around or family members that are genuine and see their reaction that will give u a clue on the next line of action |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by bizhop01: 4:11pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Nairaland children story book |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Hkff: 4:26pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Really |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by peculiar2233: 4:41pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
My candid advice for u is to give her a second chance since such thing has never happened before and try to help her by talking sense into her skull. But if she try such nonsense again, send her to where she belong. All man/woman for himself/herself |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by freedomfloyd(m): 5:17pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
People differs, there are some people who you will give hard punishment and there will become worst, there won't see it that you are trying to correct them rather there will see it as if u hate them, So my advice is this let this one slide just advice her and give her serious warning, that next time You won't let it slide. tell her what you wanted to do to her before you decided to warn her that next it's repeat it self she will have to face the consequences of her actions At least with that piece of advice if such repeat itself and you are passing your judgement on her you won't be feeling bad cuz u warned her |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by phemmyflexxy(m): 5:35pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Treat her as though it's one of siblings that committed the act. She is family Family is family |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Goldentulip2: 5:37pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
How old is she op? Her age will determine the best course of action. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Shinor(m): 5:45pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
So until she uses you or anyone else close to you for ritual abi? She has shown you she doesn't appreciate all you have done for her. Act now. Detach emotionally and let her go. Do not entertain pleading from family members. We are too emotional in Nigeria. Let your reaction be final. Thank you. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Shinor(m): 5:47pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
So glad to see many agree with me on the issue. No second chance. Give another chance and you may live to regret it. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by otokx(m): 6:08pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
maestro299: I had to look at it again and again and again. |
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