fortuneerondu:


Oga the white man you praise so much is worse. Stop talking with a slave mentality. Stop idolising the white man. Africans don't hate ourselves, we've just been socialised the wrong ways to believe the wrong things plus our leaders and living conditions are really tough plus we're easily being exploited on all fronts by everyone so these things make us do things that are not who we are. You should read up on domestic violence cases in other countries then maybe your mind might open up to the fact that Africans are better off.

Are Africans children or complete dolts that everyone is exploiting us? Making us do things that are contrary to our nature? That sounds like we are animals being trained by the rest of the world. Do you realize how stupid and unremarkable this your useless write up makes us sound?
Everything that is wrong with us is all our fault.
Pointing fingers at everyone but yourself like the typical African.

Nonexisting:
You must be very stupid and empty brain headed. Have you heard the other side of the story? Have you not seen where women use makeup in disguise for bruises to claim victims of domestic abuse. Don't you ever quote me again with empty brain.

A person came here to pour out the fact that she gets beaten by her husband in front of her kids and you are looking for the other side of the story, talking about makeup.
Your head must be full of shit.

Beverlyjean:


When you say abusive, do you actually think being abusive is only when a man goes physical on a woman. verbal words are also an abuse which we women should stop. Why can't some women understand that men are mostly physical when angry, why provoke him with harsh words.

How do you know she provoked him with harsh words?

Beverlyjean:


She must have insulted him terribly...if it was her boss , she will not insult him terribly...lets be objective here....women should also be held accountable for their actions

See this one assuming bullshit. Did she tell you she insulted him terribly?

You are a monster.

chidooh1:
please, why did you mention Abia state

Cos abia state men no dey try at all.

You are sick for still staying in that marriage, what is your plan to leave?

Call your bothers the to beat him too, or report to Dsvrt in alausa Secretariat.

sazzyyarns p ost=109820200:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid and partial... What could a grown human being to to warrant such?

You're trying to justify the man's actions... Ask yourself, if it were his boss who had offended him... Would he react like this?

Most of you men are cowards who can't challenge a fellow man but you prefer to act like rabid dogs when there's an altercation with a woman...

You'll see many of them here; the way they mouth off when it comes to women. But they turn into meek sheep when a guy is involved. Cowards.

Datboredberry:
There's a difference between discipline and assault...

So your statement before the comma makes no sense.

Stop responding to this individual. You are probably wasting your time. Flog an adult.! WTF!

Sterope:
Does your family know? Do you mind reporting to the police? What is your family dynamics like?

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POLICE! For Nigeria!!.

apple30:
wahala

My sister! Wahala be like aboki and hin kettle!

Saao:
lol, in this bubu regime, if u offer divorce paper to any man, he will quickly sign it with joy

Make I hear, men fear divorce pass anything

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Had he changed up till now?

sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

Are you still alive?

Nonexisting:
What kind of alterations? What do you normally do to warrant such. Don't come here with half baked information.

So u mean the beating or flogging could be justify base on what she did to the Man.

The man is insane...