| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by countryman13: 7:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Hmmmmmmm! If u are unable to fulfill ur promises of heaven n earth for them, then b prayerful so that they dont end up sending u to dt heaven earlier before ur expectation. U just have to define what u want before going into a relationship. Perfection comes after so many trials. I ll advice u to figure out dt thing dt normally bring u down n work on it prayerfully n i pray dt God Almighty ll see u true.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by dingbang(m): 7:55pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
bepositive11:
If it's lust not love, the guy will lose interest. In that case, it's even better to not get married. If not the guy will lose interest in the marriage i tell you. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Dudeforall(f): 7:59pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
oscaruzie:
jman06 is right...
the average nigerian girl doesn't put you on edge...it's always the stereotypic 'you've gotta provide and take care of all my generational needs, being your woman is contribution enough'...it's almost fruitless.
in this age and time, since women have decided to be 'woke', then it should be equal, y'all ladies need to bring to the table, spice your relationships up by healthily competing with your man, creating value between partners, else, just like OP and most of us, it's always gonna be short term and we'd move on, to da next...
suck on this... Read the post of the Op and that of the guy before you very well, you will surely know Nigeria men have serious issues. Women cares for you, stay loyal, committed and serious na wahala you go still find an excuse to dump them, okay they do the opposite na to still dump them. So out of the 6 different ladies Op dated last year with the current one that makes them 7 whom he is about to dump again, none of them could spice the relationship at all? None brought nothing to the table nor create value etc? Just Imagine the guy that posted before you saying his girlfriend's caring attitude and calls is overwhelming hmmmm... All these innocent girls they are treating and dumping like trash, you expect them to treat same gender well in their subsequent relationships? men are not perfect in anyway either you need to stop doing this or stop complaining about the females. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 8:01pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
kwaso2:
that'll be a temporary solution. What happens when he finally get intimate? Everyone gets tired at some point in their relationships, you'll fall back to the friendship you share with the person. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 8:02pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Yusufisraelj:
Madam this not a reason, I'm not supporting careless living,ost likely this guy may have not been intimate with them.
Six girls! Stop treating a psychological or most likely a spiritual challenge with physical phenomenas. There's more to this. lol spiritual challenge? Has he tried that one and it did not work? Una too like sex. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by dauntless15(m): 8:03pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Yusufisraelj:
Yeah same here brother, but e no get as e be find a way, my add maths teacher go say don't prolong the evil day, just do it, Lols. But find what works for you, maybe her friend or just be direct.
You may pray about it or seek counsel. Lol I would take time to reflect and do it when we're alone, after spoiling her on Valentine's day. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Munzy14(m): 8:05pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! There is a fear inside inside you, you must conquer. Free yourself....Before you hurt the next lady...You.never know when you will carelessly push away your wife. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 8:06pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
AdeniyiA:
Sorry, most girls see sex as assurance and seal of love, and are willingly and most times desperate to give it to any man who they love in return. Failure of the man to have sex with them is seen as though the man does not truly love them, besides many ladies only have their body to give in relationships You're right but those girls lack real love and affection, if they've ever met a guy who treats them like a queen without sex involve, they won't be feeling that way about sex. Sadly, that's something some girls might never experience. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
dauntless15:
Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, . You're a narcissist. Go on and read on it. Idealisation, devaluation and discard. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 8:07pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by goodman5(m): 8:11pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Same with me, i can't date a girl for 4 mouth out breaking up with them, I don't know what is wrong with me  1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Estellie: 8:12pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Infatuation Focus on one girl and let your feelings grow. Just maybe it might become love. Just let it grow. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by dauntless15(m): 8:12pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
nighter:
You're a narcissist. Go on and read on it. Idealisation, devaluation and discard. Wow, thanks for analyzing someone you know nothing about and thinking you're right. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
dauntless15:
Wow, thanks for analyzing someone you know nothing about and thinking you're right. My pleasure. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:16pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
missimelda01:
lol spiritual challenge? Has he tried that one and it did not work? Una too like sex. Agreed, like say una too no like am, but changing women like that isn't ordinary. Look a lady knows a promiscuous guy and vice versa on the opposite sex, after some time together. What stops them from leaving that relationship? And this is my sincerest opinion, a reasonable and responsible guy would never leave a lady he claims he loves bkos he slept with her before marriage (though it's not ideal before God) but shit happens, people should learn to live right. OP's case is special and the way to his solution is first be human in his approach, secondly define what he wants and why, thirdly is to have a solid conviction that backs his believes. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by toujurs: 8:17pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
bepositive11:
We both agree that women develop stronger emotions after sex
The way I see it, those men who put in less effort after sex have kind of lost interest. They'll break up when they meet the next woman they desire to conquer No o, they haven't, okay it's just like getting into a marriage, you know the love and spicy sex will be shacking the couple but after a year, or after the first child, you start hearing names like mama nkechi. That's what i meant by the eagerness of the touchy touchy reducing. It's not like the man would leave her or doesn't love her, the love just reduces after sex, It's natural for men, and that's when the lady love emotions explodes. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by toujurs: 8:21pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
missimelda01:
Except a lady is using sex as a business, she'll always cherish the intimacy that comes with sex. Although I've seen ladies who care less after sex, so it goes both ways. i agree, let's set the discussion aside and get to know each other  |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by jonandez: 8:24pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! I also have this problem |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 8:25pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
dauntless15:
Lol why is everyone fixated on the sex, a guy has stuff to loose too you know? Lol! What do I know? |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by folks4luv(f): 8:28pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.
So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest. Only him dated 6 girls within a single year and you think Nigerian girls are the problem? When will y'all stop blaming other people and tell one a other the real truth? Hian! 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by robosky02(m): 8:28pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! I hev the perfect solution for you If I tell you will you believe it? OK very simply 1.take your mind away from seeing women as sex object Once you do... You woo them for that and once you win their love like a trophy and have your way ..... There's nothing left to be desired in them again So 1.first built a friendship with them 2. Look out for other areas of mutual help or growth both of you can focus on and pursue Life is more than having s.ex |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by shinealight(m): 8:38pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! One could start sending all manner of ‘epe’ (curses) in your direction but that will not do any good because you’re already cursed. Sorry but that’s the truth! You can only get out of this if you genuinely repent and realise that Womanhood is made out of the loin-cloth of the Almighty Creator. So, every genuine Woman (not the caricatures of womanhood enticing men all over the place) that you abuse and throw away, is a curse on your soul by your Maker. You need genuine repentance to get out of the stranglehold of the Darkness!! If you cannot change your ways to give genuine affection and love to the next woman, then stay far away from them to save your soul. Just my two cents! |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by cococandy(f): 8:41pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Goldbw122:
Is virgin the right one ? According to alpha logic 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by intruder15(m): 8:42pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! I think you need a toxic partner. Someone you can't predict her next move and line of action. That way, your mind is occupied. |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by InsanePsycho(m): 8:44pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! Google "post nut clarity" |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Angy55(f): 8:45pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
dauntless15:
Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, then my conscience is acting funny because she predicted last week that I would break up with her when I texted her that we need to talk and it'll feel like I'm now discarding her because I used her( that's what they think sex is right? Using?) but that's not the case, I am the problem I know, but she won't understand, right now I just want to be single, and free, the calls and care is too overwhelming even though I loved her from the start and the relationship is barely two months old, I literally need space even though the poor girl doesn't deserve such bullshit treatment from me. Na them  |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by uthlaw: 8:48pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Goldbw122:
Companionship, advice or wisdom from your partner, helping doing house chores and many other value that she can provide apart from sex
. okay ooo...make I no talk sha! |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by dauntless15(m): 8:56pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by jerobua: 9:02pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
My candid advise to you is to seek spiritual intervention, don't wait until someone tells you, you have a spiritual wife. Imagine only you dated 6 girls and must have had sexual intimacy with them, girls are flocking around you right now I guess..... It won't always be like this.... a time will come there will be a DRY SPELL..... and that time is when you want to settle down.... some people call it the HAMMER OF GOD!
Just seek spiritual help, work on yourself, and try not to be a guy who goes for anything under the skirt.
God help you |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by PaNnamdi: 9:04pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
iamDrRhymes:
Mehn! Please stay away from marriage. Try and kill the thought of it.
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Good luck! Op never jam mad woman with "so na me u wan dump ehhn" mentality Until one mad girl break his head or pour hot water for him prick him mind go come down |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by sript: 9:07pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Comrade 
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Deepsky(m): 9:22pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Don't know if you are a Christian,if yes .
Ask God to show who you really are.
Relationship is not meant for everyone.
I'd use myself as an example, had to break up and forget anything relationship and focus on God.cos God himself told me that the life I'm living is not in line with what he brought me into this world to do.
That i should forget about girls [specifically],and since then I'm beginning to see the reasons. |
