sageb:


Good morning
Yes

wow
Nice to meet you bro

We all went through this phase in life! Mine was worse! At a point I did not remember the faces nor the ladies I toasted or slept with! That made a lot of them mad, cry and hate me! Dont worry, you have not met the one!

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

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You need to be free??
How??
Free from what exactly??
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Yet you will rush into the next bondage almost immediately,, and start needing to be free again??
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If I advise you now to stay off relationships for now in order to stay out of the nonsene bondages, (and use the time of being single to learn how to love yourself by yourself), you will think that I am giving you bad advice.
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You don't know what you want.
You don't know what is wanting you.
You don't know what you're doing.
You don't know what is doing you.
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When you grow, you will understand better.

dauntless15:
Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, then my conscience is acting funny because she predicted last week that I would break up with her when I texted her that we need to talk and it'll feel like I'm now discarding her because I used her( that's what they think sex is right? Using?) but that's not the case, I am the problem I know, but she won't understand, right now I just want to be single, and free, the calls and care is too overwhelming even though I loved her from the start and the relationship is barely two months old, I literally need space even though the poor girl doesn't deserve such bullshit treatment from me.

So, she herself is not the problem, but her overwhelming attention??
Then tell her what the issue is.
At least, if she didn't change, you can tell yourself that you have a reason

Well if u ask me I would say you have a spiritual problem...you need deliverance,your spiritual wife is the one making you lost interest all of a sudden �

czarr:
sure, Let us shame him because he doesn't worship women.

He's gay..nothing you won't tell me.
There's nothing to glorify when you hurt a human being..

Anniemae:


He's gay..nothing you won't tell me.
There's nothing to glorify when you hurt a human being..

I agree that hurting someone is bad but that doesn't make him gay stick to the issue..we've all hurt someone at least once in our lives even you sef e get some guys wey you for done disappoint after dem spend money for you.

czarr:
I agree that hurting someone is bad but that doesn't make him gay stick to the issue..we've all hurt someone at least once in our lives even you sef e get some guys wey you for done disappoint after dem spend money for you.

Nah..I try as much as possible to be honest to any guy that wants to spend money on me..I don't like you..I don't like you..money can't change it.. He's going to keep hurting women out there who like him genuinely..if that's not evil I don't know what is.

bepositive11:


What made you that way? Why aren't you interested in side chicks?

I learnt my leason long ago,i girl i was datin the same time when i havn't marry my wife,if not God the girl as single moda went spiritual 4 me to abandon my wife to be which is now my(wife) ever since i lose myself from her i started to dislike single girls.

sageb:


Good morning
Yes

just seeing this, long time dear.... how have you been

You don't have a spiritual problem, you just need to meet the one that keeps you on your feet, no be all those ones wey dey form wife material even before the wedding...... Hian make I hear say I wash man clothe for am, hei God�

gees101:
just seeing this, long time dear.... how have you been

Fine Binaowei

But if she be rich man piking( dangote or otedola)you no go tire abi? Even if you tire you will surely find a means to bring back d love..

LilMissFavvy:
Stop all relationships and stay single, maybe in old age you will see the need to marry and have one or two children. By then marriage/relationship will be meaningful to you, stop playing with the heart of ladies. After all if they tell you it might be a spiritual problem, you will say there is nothing like spiritual problem.

Replace the word Spiritual Problem with Psychological Disorder or Mental Issues and You ma self go dey OK!

Westernequinox:
Let me help you diagnose your condition, you see That is what emptiness does to a man, since you have taken the liberty to take what is meant to be sacred to fufill the cravings of your fallen heart, Most of the feelings stem generally whenever you have fornicated with the girls, their value depreciate when your lust is fufilled.

For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life

See, The same thing Might happen to someone who has never had Relationships before or inexperienced.....

You may not be able to Handle a Man or Your Woman ... that's why you see Runz girls can easily marry better guy while the Sister Holy Holy and Brother Holy Holy would keep having relationship Problems to be settled by Mummy GO ... The Reverse could also be the Case either ways ...

The Most Important is having Maturities and Understanding of this world and Your Nature such that when You go Astray You can find yourself Back to Normalcy Because Once addiction sets You are in Fix ....

Anybody can go astray because asking people to maintain straight Course could be a Mental Problem in itself ... You can't be God that's the Only Perfection and the only force whom we all correct ourself Upon

The Mind operates like Superglue Once You Develop Neuro Paths for Strings of Characters to reverse that Paths is a Job which You might not be able to do Yourself ...It's like Root Beneath a Tree the stronger your addiction is the stronger the Neuropath which would be affecting other motor functions and aspects of your life !


You would need Help and Many Religionists are not helping because most of them are senseless in themselves ... There is different between Sorcery and Sciences !

Science would show Bacteria infection:

Sorcery seen in Vision would show Demonic Bodies ....

Who slaughters Goat to Kill Malaria Parasites

The Fact is that Once You are in Disequilibrium with Nature and Your Nature ...... You are bound to have issues ...

All Human and Creations are in Disequilibrium... The extent from the Center is what Differs!

Nature Abhors Extremism whether Good or Bad...

Be Moderate and Matured !

bepositive11:


I know. It's different for men and women

Men can detach emotions from sex but most women cannot

The man easily loses interest if it was lust not love. But the woman develops stronger emotions either way. If the man loved the woman, he won't lose interest after sex

Lol How Could She ....
You don't poke the internal organ of someone for Minutes or Hours with Different sex styles on different rhythms on a Heavenly Journeys then You expected her to forget you in a Jiffy .... .. .... !

Tye Emotions go strong Gan no be small !

omoplaycool:


There's a big fire on the mountain and people can't say they don't notice ..Lately I realised the society is full of damaged people (including celebrities) moving about seeking who to damage too and the circle keeps expanding.
In my opinion, I think you shouldn't habr any business dating until you fix yourself. You might hurt a good girl today and she in turn hurts a good guy tomo who later think "hurting " others is okay.

Once the Economy is Harsh and Means of Sustenance is Harsh .... Expect More Damaged People ....

The More the Struggle for Economic Viability the More the Struggle to Maintain Optimum Family and the More the Struggle to Maintain Sane Society !