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Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 6:17pm On Mar 24, 2022
Earlier today I came across a thread titled "Any Man That Collects Back His Gift From A Lady Is A Weak Man" obviously posted by a female...
https://www.nairaland.com/7036313/man-collects-back-gift-lady/1

"Any qualities in a man that a woman finds useful, she calls masculine, all others, of no use to her or to anyone else for that matter, she chooses to call effeminate."
- Esther Vilar

Delving into this thread, I came across an army of Men of different ideologies--coming together to give that gender hot hot.

This... This almost brought a tear to my eye. Men standing by men---putting down nonsense and standing for what is right and rational.

The aforementioned quote by Esther Vilar, in a way, resonated with this comment by Francismeek - "Caring about what shawties think of you is the most stupid thing a man can do."

Of course, the typical responses from females would be s.i.g.n language; as much as I applaud the men who commented in that thread I should also mention that nothing reasonable would come from arguing with children, because children are not renowned for their rationality, accountability and selflessness.
For those curious (or unaware) of Female Nature you may take a look at my previous thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6940959/women-essentially-children-waec#109396885

So, I dedicate this thread to those who are fighting the good fight, because...

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by AwesomeDuru(m): 6:33pm On Mar 24, 2022
Word brother!
Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 6:57pm On Mar 24, 2022
Woman's solipsism is the fusion reactor that powers their greed and selfishness.
You could say "If the man collects anything he gave you then simply do the same for him" but that hinders their solipsism because they didn't give him anything of substantial value during the relationship (at least anything that wasn't mutual i.e. sex).

Okay, what if the above isn't the case then she can simply take back what she got him while he does the same, right?
Nope. This also affects their solipsism negatively because in a vast majority of relationships whatever the man gives them is far greater than whatever they give the man so they'll be at a loss.

This peculiar trait---this solipsism---prompts her to make sure she has the best pie in ANY situation, or in other words, have her cake and eat it.
It is the same reason why they would scream "equality" during times of peace then gladly identify as the weaker sex if an Ukraine-esque incident breaks out.

"If a man takes women seriously, he must disdain peace of mind."

When the issue of women and children leaving Ukraine while men of ages 18-60 were forced to fight you heard comments from females along the lines of "Men started the war they should fight it"---that's that solipsism.
They wouldn't fight for their country but they'll want to reap the benefits alongside the men who did fight, like that silly "gender equality" bill they tried to pass a while ago.

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 7:13pm On Mar 24, 2022
AwesomeDuru:
Word brother!

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by holicupp(m): 8:02pm On Mar 24, 2022
Nothing makes me happier than seeing men waking up to reality
And also thanks for the heads up
One love

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 8:29pm On Mar 24, 2022
The comments on that thread just dey burst my head as I dey read them

Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Toktee(m): 8:35pm On Mar 24, 2022
holicupp:
Nothing makes me happier than seeing men waking up to reality
And also thanks for the heads up
One love
Thank you comrade....nothing do you. grin

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 9:01pm On Mar 24, 2022
Toktee:
Thank you comrade....nothing do you. grin
Boss una give them firing squad for that thread, they no even get chance talk pim talk less of to use s.i.g.n language

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 24, 2022
Do people still take women & relationships serious this days? undecided...
Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by JustforMen: 9:25pm On Mar 24, 2022
Dizzyyish:
oyokometer omicron123 leo10000 twilliamx gaspology toktee justformen 00FFT00 Daniel7543 addictiv tiswell Wakeup0oo goooodharddick

Men dey house!

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Toktee(m): 9:38pm On Mar 24, 2022
Dizzyyish:

Boss una give them firing squad for that thread, they no even get chance talk pim talk less of to use s.i.g.n language
grin no we just made sure they understand their position in the scheme of things....but if you look at it closely they are inconsequential apart from procreation.
Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 10:07pm On Mar 24, 2022
Toktee:
grin no we just made sure they understand their position in the scheme of things....but if you look at it closely they are inconsequential apart from procreation.
Abi o.
Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by 00FFT00(m): 10:34pm On Mar 24, 2022
A woman after my heart advised me to not trust or take a woman that much serious, including herself. In her own words, "we are a conundrum of confusion and self inconsistencies".

Wetin pesin wan hear again?.

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 11:18pm On Mar 24, 2022
00FFT00:
A woman after my heart advised me to not trust or take a woman that much serious, including herself. In her own words, "we are a conundrum of confusion and self inconsistencies".

Wetin pesin wan hear again?.
Lol. She said it all.
Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Leo10000(m): 5:10am On Mar 25, 2022
The first commenter said most of what I have in mind,they are so manipulative in their doings that if you are not smart,a step ahead of them,they will make you a fool while you are smiling at being that.
I wonder what the previous generation of men were thinking by putting in place unreasonable laws to favour a species of gender without them working for it.
They want the world to revolve round them.
Don't let a woman ever fool you with the words I love you as they are not capable of loving,they are only transacting with you base on what you can offer.
Like in some other thread where a girl said a man's money is for everybody while hers is for her alone,the topic was so disgusting that I had self provoking thoughts on it,even in a mutual friendship between people,if one party wears that selfish crown of na only your own we go chop,I ll only blame myself if such parasitic friendship continues,now not to talk about a love affair that should be filled with sacrifices here and there. I have always grew up with the provider instinct as a human not just for myself or any woman alone but for everyone that I come across, who is in need of help,be it friend,stranger, neighbor, that is what our instinct should be as a human. For crying out loud, how will you want to come into my life in form of a loving-up relationship with a calculative selfish instinct about your resources,the amount of what I bring to the table will decide how you will show me love ,love and sacrifice are synonymous.
At a point,even our parents that brought us into this world who has the sole responsibility of taking care of us will one day believe in your kindness,you will reciprocate that love to them when you start earning.
Is your love and respect for your parents dependent on only when they can provide for you?
If money s what you all are after,then you have no right to question my loyalty to you or sticking up with only you,if I have the resource,then I should go after every girl I know cos you have all choose to portray yourselves as commodities.
This generation of ladies are worst set of female so far,so entitiled, lazy asses, betrayal full their body, all for the transaction only. Trust me,when it comes to gaming them when ever you realise you are tired of her selfish nature, such ladies are easy to discard,just form small broke, they will start forming attitudes, from there you waka with your head high.
They only start showing fake love when they are declining in their sexual market,an average girl can't wear a simple cloth without raising her top up so as to show are asset to the world,they can't take 10 pictures without 8 or 9 displaying their asses,they are consciously and unconsciously sexual objects.
In one of these comic pages,a guy said in this generation,na olosho every guy go marry,the problem na if your own dey popular or not,it was funny but I saw truth all over it.

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by twilliamx(m): 10:08am On Mar 25, 2022
Kk
Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 10:34am On Mar 25, 2022
Leo10000:
The first commenter said most of what I have in mind,they are so manipulative in their doings that if you are not smart,a step ahead of them,they will make you a fool while you are smiling at being that.
I wonder what the previous generation of men were thinking by putting in place unreasonable laws to favour a species of gender without them working for it.
They want the world to revolve round them.
Don't let a woman ever fool you with the words I love you as they are not capable of loving,they are only transacting with you base on what you can offer.
Like in some other thread where a girl said a man's money is for everybody while hers is for her alone,the topic was so disgusting that I had self provoking thoughts on it,even in a mutual friendship between people,if one party wears that selfish crown of na only your own we go chop,I ll only blame myself if such parasitic friendship continues,now not to talk about a love affair that should be filled with sacrifices here and there. I have always grew up with the provider instinct as a human not just for myself or any woman alone but for everyone that I come across, who is in need of help,be it friend,stranger, neighbor, that is what our instinct should be as a human. For crying out loud, how will you want to come into my life in form of a loving-up relationship with a calculative selfish instinct about your resources,the amount of what I bring to the table will decide how you will show me love ,love and sacrifice are synonymous.
At a point,even our parents that brought us into this world who has the sole responsibility of taking care of us will one day believe in your kindness,you will reciprocate that love to them when you start earning.
Is your love and respect for your parents dependent on only when they can provide for you?
If money s what you all are after,then you have no right to question my loyalty to you or sticking up with only you,if I have the resource,then I should go after every girl I know cos you have all choose to portray yourselves as commodities.
This generation of ladies are worst set of female so far,so entitiled, lazy asses, betrayal full their body, all for the transaction only. Trust me,when it comes to gaming them when ever you realise you are tired of her selfish nature, such ladies are easy to discard,just form small broke, they will start forming attitudes, from there you waka with your head high.
They only start showing fake love when they are declining in their sexual market,an average girl can't wear a simple cloth without raising her top up so as to show are asset to the world,they can't take 10 pictures without 8 or 9 displaying their asses,they are consciously and unconsciously sexual objects.
In one of these comic pages,a guy said in this generation,na olosho every guy go marry,the problem na if your own dey popular or not,it was funny but I saw truth all over it.
The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defence, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning. Dissimulation is thus inborn in her and consequently to be found in the stupid woman almost as often as in the clever one. To make use of it at every opportunity is as natural to her as it is for an animal to employ its means of defence whenever it is attacked, and when she does so she feels that to some extent she is only exercising her rights. A completely truthful woman who does not practice dissimulation is perhaps an impossibility, which is why women see through the dissimulation of others so easily it is inadvisable to attempt it with them. – But this fundamental defect which I have said they possess, together with all that is associated with it, gives rise to falsity, unfaithfulness, treachery, ingratitude, etc. Women are guilty of perjury far more often than men. It is questionable whether they ought to be allowed to take an oath at all.
- Arthur Schopenhauer (1788 - 1860)

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Leo10000(m): 12:28pm On Mar 25, 2022
Dizzyyish:

The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defence, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning. Dissimulation is thus inborn in her and consequently to be found in the stupid woman almost as often as in the clever one. To make use of it at every opportunity is as natural to her as it is for an animal to employ its means of defence whenever it is attacked, and when she does so she feels that to some extent she is only exercising her rights. A completely truthful woman who does not practice dissimulation is perhaps an impossibility, which is why women see through the dissimulation of others so easily it is inadvisable to attempt it with them. – But this fundamental defect which I have said they possess, together with all that is associated with it, gives rise to falsity, unfaithfulness, treachery, ingratitude, etc. Women are guilty of perjury far more often than men. It is questionable whether they ought to be allowed to take an oath at all.
- Arthur Schopenhauer (1788 - 1860)

Tit for tat,you exclusively gave an insight to the topic from a philosophic point of view not until I even saw that a philosopher made these statements.
Just like every other bad character exhibited by human which we have all spoke and fought against from time past till date through laws,
Penalties and repercussions, these traits from the female species needs to be checkmated as it's dangerous to humanity.
We spank kids for lying,stealing,bullying and every other bad character that might be a bad influence in molding them in becoming an upright adult,same measures should be put in place in taming this selfish traits of theirs. As you have said,it's an in-born,natural to them from birth,then we need to start re-orientating our girl child.
Even though, they are mild, the repercussion of these traits is playing out in our society today,we have lots of irresponsible, unproductive and lazy girls in our society today,who believes the society owes them just for being female without them lifting a finger.

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 12:57pm On Mar 25, 2022
Leo10000:


Tit for tat,you exclusively gave an insight to the topic from a philosophic point of view not until I even saw that a philosopher made these statements.
Just like every other bad character exhibited by human which we have all spoke and fought against from time past till date through laws,
Penalties and repercussions, these traits from the female species needs to be checkmated as it's dangerous to humanity.
We spank kids for lying,stealing,bullying and every other bad character that might be a bad influence in molding them in becoming an upright adult,same measures should be put in place in taming this selfish traits of theirs. As you have said,it's an in-born,natural to them from birth,then we need to start re-orientating our girl child.
Even though, they are mild, the repercussion of these traits is playing out in our society today,we have lots of irresponsible, unproductive and lazy girls in our society today,who believes the society owes them just for being female without them lifting a finger.
True but it starts with men drawing the line, unfortunately, most men are unaware of the chaotic female nature.
"The predatory nature resides in almost all women. The predatory female is amoral, and it does not get better with age."
- Lawrence Shannon

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Leo10000(m): 5:58pm On Mar 25, 2022
Dizzyyish:

True but it starts with men drawing the line, unfortunately, most men are unaware of the chaotic female nature.
"The predatory nature resides in almost all women. The predatory female is amoral, and it does not get better with age."
- Lawrence Shannon
I think our generation and the ones that come next will address the issue better as many men are getting aware of this on a daily,just like how this forum has given people round the globe to discuss and decipher issues like this.
In the quest to protect the girl's child from manual labours and the the rest which requires the man's physical and mental power,the previous generations has made them handicaps and liabilities, wearing them the false princess syndrome.

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by LocalStandard1(m): 9:57pm On Mar 29, 2022
I love the intellectual discussion going on here, these are good stuffs.
I wonder why there isn't many views

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Re: Never Expect Coherency [From] Other [Gender] (NECO) by Dizzyyish: 4:58pm On Mar 30, 2022
LocalStandard1:
I love the intellectual discussion going on here, these are good stuffs.
I wonder why there isn't many views
It do be like that sometimes

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