Eketem:


The Violence Against Persons law has extended the definition of rape to cover marital rape. The Penal Code excluded it but seeing that this happened in the South the VAPP law is applicable and he is lucky he is not being used to set a precedence on marital rape

Daniel7543:
You Nigerians don't listen to corrections. I've explained to you there's nothing like marital rape, you're still arguing.

Show us or qoute the panel code here, let everyone read and get assured there's a penalty for marital rape.

Daniel7543:
Rubbish talk.
why should his wife run away with his child?. Court sef won't even give either of them full custody of their daughter. If you read the op previous post you would understand that he's remorseful and he has tried every way to make peace with her and the wicked wife family. Go and read his previous post, he married his wife legally. Women are evil.

Back to Noah: you need to find a senior officer in the military that would sanction that your foolish brother in-law.. I mean, why will he be hoarding your wife and kid? E dey craze?

Oga, there's nothing like rape in marriage.
There's no law that state a man will go to jail for raping his wife... Can't you Nigerians think. They are married for goodness sake. He performed the marital rights for crying out loud.

Eketem:


You cannot even read basics why should I waste my time explaining anything further to you.

Daniel7543:
You Nigerians don't listen to corrections. I've explained to you there's nothing like marital rape, you're still arguing.

Show us or qoute the panel code here, let everyone read and get assured there's a penalty for marital rape.

Eketem:


You cannot even read basics why should I waste my time explaining anything further to you.

Carcholce:


It is not about if law recognizes marital rape or not. But why would a man rape his wife is the question. Why would a sane man rape his wife?

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

Felimax:
At four years old what do you want to do with the poor girl? You must be a very wicked man.

You are not entitled to that child at that age whether you are working or not.

Meanwhile, you need to be really remorseful if you must see your family back. Na your type dey come Nairaland come make mouth and you are lucky you were not properly beaten at Abuja.

You be man, you see your fellow man you nor fit fight am collect your daughter back.

Be completely remorseful and humble yourself and you will see your family back anything short of that go and get another family.

thorpido:
Have you tried the court?

Skyview01:
@OP, you are lucky not to be in jail already.

Saintmary:



Go through this moniker's previous topics.




He raped his wife.

Daniel7543:
Oga, whether the op is going legally or not it will always be in his advantage.

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

Daniel7543:
Rubbish talk.
why should his wife run away with his child?. Court sef won't even give either of them full custody of their daughter. If you read the op previous post you would understand that he's remorseful and he has tried every way to make peace with her and the wicked wife family. Go and read his previous post, he married his wife legally. Women are evil.

Back to Noah: you need to find a senior officer in the military that would sanction that your foolish brother in-law.. I mean, why will he be hoarding your wife and kid? E dey craze?

Oga, there's nothing like rape in marriage.
There's no law that state a man will go to jail for raping his wife... Can't you Nigerians think. They are married for goodness sake. He performed the marital rights for crying out loud.

Daniel7543:
Please don't make it seems like I'm trying to support rape here.

Why should a married woman also deny her husband sex (for 3 months) without any tangible reasons?

Felimax:


Oh my God! In fact, thank you.
You see, we have lots of men like him nowadays who thought women are nothing.

When I told him he has an hidden agenda all his types came for my head. I wonder why he is so desperate to take his daughter of four years old from the mother, I cannot imagine such level of wickedness.

Women are really suffering, I pity the poor wife. Beast!

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

cococandy:

You support rape. Shut up

frozen70:

Calm down before you destroy yourself with drinks
You didn't mention what you did to her that made her death with you
You did not mention what made her pack out
She may never release that child to you just to punish you so that the next woman that will come into your life will not experience the same fate
Eveey thing can not be gotten bye force
Women can be tough and when they want to deal with you she will make sure you suffer double of what you put her through
Go back to her parents and this time go alo e to avoid further disgrace
Let them know that you want her back, that's the only reason you will see that your daughter
Humble yourself and talk the talk with her parents alone they have the power to convince her to come around she may not want to come with your daughter, she will purposely keep her out of your sight and see if you have realy changed
Then maybe the next visit, you can go with your family to see them and this time around your daughter will appear
If truly you have ever treated her bad, eat the humble pie and apologise to her and her family and stop behaving like devil's advocate
But if you are sure that you can't go through all I have said, then you better forget about her and move one day your daughter will look for you
She did not off her phone, she actually removed that sim card from her phone and probably changed her life
You must have been naughty for her to block you in everything including calls

Saintmary:



He should explain to the court how he raped his wife.

Righteousness2:
You seem to be a good man. Tho what you did was very bad and inhuman. But I believe that as long as their is life and someone is genuinely remorseful , Forgiveness is available.

My admonishment to you is to calm yourself down very well. Being remorseful is one thing, but repenting , seeking for Forgiveness and Surrendering Genuiely is the main thing.

There is no Home JESUS cannot repair and rectify.
There is no Heart JESUS cannot touch.

Instead of roaming round beer palours and jumping here and there, use this solemn Moments to Genuiely turn to JESUS Christ, in Repentance, righteousness and Holiness. Use these times to read, study the word of GOD and build your personal relationship with JESUS.
When your relationship with JESUS is settled, then ask HIM to touch your wife and restore your home.

This is the where real lasting solution lies.

Felimax:


Oh my God! In fact, thank you.
You see, we have lots of men like him nowadays who thought women are nothing.

When I told him he has an hidden agenda all his types came for my head. I wonder why he is so desperate to take his daughter of four years old from the mother, I cannot imagine such level of wickedness.

Women are really suffering, I pity the poor wife. Beast!

Daniel7543:
But guy, the op is remorseful and he regretted his actions. He has also asked his wife and her family members for forgiveness many times. He really want to make peace.

We are humans, we make mistakes sometimes, no one is perfect. What else do you want him to do??

Do you read where the op said his wife denied him sex for months without any reason.

A lot of things would be going through his mind.. Like maybe his wife might be seeing another man reason she's denying him sex.... And many other thoughts..

Felimax:


I know women can be really terrible, I know. I am married.

My concern is his desperation for the poor little girl. I insist the girl is too young to be separated from the mother, so he should keep his cool.

I don't want to talk about what is going on with the wife but if for any unknown reason my wife decides to deny me sex I will not rape her. In fact, with my kind of person she will not dare me. Pikin wey cry dey hungry if you beat am wetin she go do?

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

cococandy:
Rapist