Daniel7543:


Let’s hope you stay out of jail.

Daniel7543:
olosho, don't you have dogs to sleep with in order to get paid? Please stop quoting me. Fvck off!!

cococandy:
not your dogs so not your business

Daniel7543:
make sure the dogs put on condom before they fvck you okay!

Bye!

cococandy:

All this meandering doesn’t change the fact that you are a rapist

Daniel7543:
the op isn't asking for too much sir, he said he wanna be part of his daughter's life too... Like taking care of his daughter's bills but his wife is in her hideouts.

If the woman can poison the mind of her family members to detest her husband, don't you think she could also poison her daughter's mind too? That's why the op is been conscious.

Even court won't give the woman full custody of their daughter.

Even if the woman nd the daughter choose to stay with her family members, atleast the man should have access to also talk to his daughter on phone, send money for his daughter school fees and up-keep.

Don't you understand.. He's not asking for much.

Daniel7543:
Baby girl.... Your father raped you doesn't mean you should tag every men a rapist.

I understand your frustration and bitterness dear. You will heal okay. This would be the last time I will quote a damaged wh0re like you.

Spits on your kpekus!!

skoskosko:
@Op, you married a woman who was not ready to stay married and she got tired and irritated of you. There is no justifying conjugal denial for months, and funny how people overlook this fact. If she was not sleeping with you for month, she was definitely sleeping with someone and now has the perfect excuse. The more reason you should have also moved past her.

I have clearly told you to move on with you life, and live like she don’t exist, find love and get married. Forget the child, get other kids, whatever will be will be. Be better and successful, you child will seek you out on due time.

Lastly, I read some people ignorantly claim you raped your wife! While what you did is despicable and a no no for me, it has no basis in law as there is nothing like marital rape in Nigeria. The Vapp act 2015 only expanded the definition of rape but ended up excluding marital rape. Since it said in its concluding paragraph that spousal rape can only occur if the spouse was impersonated,(i.e, if it was you, you did not rape your spouse). Again, it is only active in the FCT since non of the state assemblies domesticated it.

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

Daniel7543:
You this damaged wh0re.. Go and tell your fellow wh0res to stop denying their husbands sex.

If I marry you legally and you're denying me my marital rights for months.. Uhmmm.. Let me rest my case.

I swear I even blame op for being remorseful... He should stop Simping around and allow his wife go to hell

Go and read his previous posts and see the reason why his wife ran away.

His wife still has that spirit of oloshoism in her, the stupid wife denied him his marital rights for months without any tangible reasons. Then the op dealt with her wonderfully... Then she ran away.

Probably she was fvcking another man somewhere.. You know that You wh0res can't be trusted.

The op still went to beg for forgiveness yet all to no avail, what do you expect him to do? Kill himself? You women are so dangerous. Spits!

skoskosko:
@Op, you married a woman who was not ready to stay married and she got tired and irritated of you. There is no justifying conjugal denial for months, and funny how people overlook this fact. If she was not sleeping with you for month, she was definitely sleeping with someone and now has the perfect excuse. The more reason you should have also moved past her.

I have clearly told you to move on with you life, and live like she don’t exist, find love and get married. Forget the child, get other kids, whatever will be will be. Be better and successful, you child will seek you out on due time.

Lastly, I read some people ignorantly claim you raped your wife! While what you did is despicable and a no no for me, it has no basis in law as there is nothing like marital rape in Nigeria. The Vapp act 2015 only expanded the definition of rape but ended up excluding marital rape. Since it said in its concluding paragraph that spousal rape can only occur if the spouse was impersonated,(i.e, if it was you, you did not rape your spouse). Again, it is only active in the FCT since non of the state assemblies domesticated it.

Daniel7543:
God bless you bro.
May God continues to increase you in wisdom, understanding and knowledge.

Exactly what I've been trying to explain to Carcholce, Eketem, cococandy and others.. But they called me a rapist. Thank God there are still reasonable people like you who reason like me.

Well, this is Nigeria and Nigerians are so ignorant. So I don't blame them.

Eketem:


People just come online and spew ignorance. VAPP is currently passed in 32 states only Gombe, Kastina, Zamfara and Kano have not domesticated. Borno and Cross River have passed and signed after this update. This map hasn't even been updated. You people stay stuck on what you learned at law school and refuse to update common knowledge.
VAPP didn't exclude marital rape like the penal code did.
We await a precedent judgement to put to rest this debate.

Eketem:


People just come online and spew ignorance. VAPP is currently passed in 32 states only Gombe, Kastina, Zamfara and Kano have not domesticated. Borno and Cross River have passed and signed after this update. This map hasn't even been updated. You people stay stuck on what you learned at law school and refuse to update common knowledge.
VAPP didn't exclude marital rape like the penal code did.
We await a precedent judgement to put to rest this debate.

skoskosko:


True, I just realized a lot of states have domesticated the Vapp law, so it should hold true in any state where it has been domesticated.

However, the issue of marital rape does not find favour in its framing. The keep word there is impersonation in the case of a married person, meaning the real you could not have raped your spouse. This clause clearly defeats spousal rape just like in the criminal code. I took time to attach screenshots, read slowly the last statements of both the criminal code and the VAPP act. So instead of waiting for a landmark judgement, your argument should be based on amending or updating the law.

Eketem:


Consent obtained by force is not limited or exempting any spouse. The law was drafted not to exempt anybody male.or female married or single.
Again this argument remains redundant till it is tested in court and the court rules for or against.

Till then

Noah9:
Hello, what are you saying? Is my child I'm talking about here.

Noah9:
Is this all you have to say? Even Human rights didn't utter such statements to me.

Anyway thanks for your advice.

skoskosko:
You may have to wait forever, because it is thesame clause that invalidated spousal rape in the criminal code which had been in operation for decades.

So it’s inclusion in the VAPP act invalidates marital rape. Law is law, not emotions. The wording clearly states that coercion does not hold true for a spouse. The words “in the case of a married person/impersonation. It’s in black and white, and unless it is amended, it has effectively invalidated spousal rape like it did with the criminal code.

NB; I don’t support forced sex before you guys also tag me a rape apologist. I am only stating the law. Where there are no laws, there are no sins.

Daniel7543:
You this damaged wh0re.. Go and tell your fellow wh0res to stop denying their husbands sex.

If I marry you legally and you're denying me my marital rights for months.. Uhmmm.. Let me rest my case.

I swear I even blame op for being remorseful... He should stop Simping around and allow his wife go to hell

Go and read his previous posts and see the reason why his wife ran away.

His wife still has that spirit of oloshoism in her, the stupid wife denied him his marital rights for months without any tangible reasons. Then the op dealt with her wonderfully... Then she ran away.

Probably she was fvcking another man somewhere.. You know that You wh0res can't be trusted.

The op still went to beg for forgiveness yet all to no avail, what do you expect him to do? Kill himself? You women are so dangerous. Spits!

Righteousness2:
You seem to be a good man. Tho what you did was very bad and inhuman. But I believe that as long as their is life and someone is genuinely remorseful , Forgiveness is available.

My admonishment to you is to calm yourself down very well. Being remorseful is one thing, but repenting , seeking for Forgiveness and Surrendering Genuiely is the main thing.

There is no Home JESUS cannot repair and rectify.
There is no Heart JESUS cannot touch.

Instead of roaming round beer palours and jumping here and there, use this solemn Moments to Genuiely turn to JESUS Christ, in Repentance, righteousness and Holiness. Use these times to read, study the word of GOD and build your personal relationship with JESUS.
When your relationship with JESUS is settled, then ask HIM to touch your wife and restore your home.

This is the where real lasting solution lies.

Eketem:


Save this post I will remind you in a bit

Felimax:


Oh my God! In fact, thank you.
You see, we have lots of men like him nowadays who thought women are nothing.

When I told him he has an hidden agenda all his types came for my head. I wonder why he is so desperate to take his daughter of four years old from the mother, I cannot imagine such level of wickedness.

Women are really suffering, I pity the poor wife. Beast!

LilMissFavvy:
What do you mean by "she should give you your daughter"? A woman carried a child in her womb for 9months, suffered to birth the child and breast fed the child for a year, and you think the child belongs to you. The baby belongs to the woman who carried it in her womb, Or it belongs to you and her. A child can never belong to the man alone. Try and have conscience and let her keep the baby, because if the baby was important to you, you shouldn't have hurt your wife and make her run from her home. Send money to your child, never frustrate a child because of the issues you have with your wife.

I just want to confirm if you were serious with that statement @ bold and red colour?.. Can u send me a link on where u got it from

Shortcut2life:


You’re very mean with your words the fact he has done something wrong doesn’t mean he has an hidden agenda … there must have been some sort of altercations that led to him having sex with his wife without her consent , he prolly has anger issue or lack self control … But calling him a beast is hurtful and you are biased ..
if he doesn’t show effort to wanting his kid Back na still your type go call am deadbeat dad werey …
You go Dey yarn for nairaland like sabi people finish .. mtchew

Daniel7543:
Rubbish talk.
why should his wife run away with his child?. Court sef won't even give either of them full custody of their daughter. If you read the op previous post you would understand that he's remorseful and he has tried every way to make peace with her and the wicked wife family. Go and read his previous post, he married his wife legally. Women are evil.

Back to Noah: you need to find a senior officer in the military that would sanction that your foolish brother in-law.. I mean, why will he be hoarding your wife and kid? E dey craze?

Oga, there's nothing like rape in marriage.
There's no law that state a man will go to jail for raping his wife... Can't you Nigerians think. They are married for goodness sake. He performed the marital rights for crying out loud.