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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by EagleSquare1(m): 12:57pm On May 18, 2022
Me thinking there’s some romantic feeling here. Just tread softly sha

Nikrose:
hmmm okay

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Chuksmill(m): 12:57pm On May 18, 2022
Ask him out, he'sin love but can't make the move or simply subtly ask him why he's constantly on ur ass grin
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Maverick777: 12:58pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
Whatever your first instinct tells you, is 100% correct.
just stop making excuses in your mind.
a lady's first instinct is never wrong
He's hitting on you the best way he knows how to, and you know that very well!
knife and yam are both in your possession.
red flag tho, for your career sake!

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by BarrElChapo(m): 12:59pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

Do you like him ? Will you consider being in a romantic relationship with him.. if yes it's coming lolz.

There are many reasons he maybe doing it for you, wait to see cos it wouldn't be for long.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by pennywys(m): 1:00pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
u be mumu for bringing this out here, abi ur mind never tell u say the guy like u
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Emoney2M: 1:02pm On May 18, 2022
paulolee:

who b dis wan?

Your Gay admirer O!

I don laff taya!
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by SunMusk(m): 1:02pm On May 18, 2022
No be every body you go reply to oooo. This is Narialand
Nikrose:
You are a very bitter soul, may God heal your wounded heart! Fraustrated and broke redpillars everywhere! Cry boy

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by AnahJewel: 1:04pm On May 18, 2022
He likes you, when you guyz starts dating, he will begin to act very different �.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by FireUpNow(m): 1:05pm On May 18, 2022
Just tell him to stop over-protecting you since you don't like it or you are reading different meanings to it.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by delightglobal(m): 1:06pm On May 18, 2022
He might like you naturally with no motive.... but better still you can give him chance to tell you his mind
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Gabbiedee: 1:06pm On May 18, 2022
Jehova carry you de go. Carry you to your husband house.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Slurity(m): 1:06pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
I am a guy and I can tell you the fact. He really like you and don't know how to ask you out. He is a shy type

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Asianjollof007: 1:06pm On May 18, 2022
You don't need a soothsayer to tell you what he is up to.
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by prophetfire: 1:07pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
. He is a dumbass SIMP who doesn't have balls to talk to you and ask you out.
If you are a good girl with good upbringing, ignore him and don't give him a chance because this type would be battling with low self-esteem in the relationship.
If you are a bag girl, set trap for him, chop his money enough and dump him off.
I dislike dumb men.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by RepoMan007: 1:08pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
it doesn't have to be romantically inspired. It could be the need to protect you from office politics of backbiting, backstabbing and diabolical moves. These things are real.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by jimcaddy(m): 1:13pm On May 18, 2022
Since he isn't bold enough to ask you out on a date, maybe you can allow me to do the needful.
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by ExcelDBM: 1:15pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
You are a very bitter soul, may God heal your wounded heart! Fraustrated and broke redpillars everywhere! Cry boy

You can't even spell properly
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by frankson1(m): 1:17pm On May 18, 2022
davidadenrele:
quote author=Nikrose post=112929429]At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

Lalasticlala






Hello,

It's obvious the guy question likes you, had a crush on you but he's probably afraid to walk to you and express he's feeling for the fear you will turns down he's request been that you guys are collegues and you won't like the idea of dating your collgue in the office to avoid been gossiped about in office, it's either you let him know what's he's motive for doing so as you are not too comfortable about he's been defensive and over protective of you or you wait and see wheres motive and action leads to but If iam in your shoes, I will ask him to avoid strories that touches the heart or been labelled an ingrate from a collegue who had a crush on me let know take advantage of you.





Haba!!! I opened this thread to read comments, kindly make it easy for me grin grin grin

Thank you.
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Nobody: 1:19pm On May 18, 2022
RepoMan007:
it doesn't have to be romantically inspired. It could be the need to protect you from office politics of backbiting, backstabbing and diabolical moves. These things are real.
hmm thanks for this insight and reason, I never thought about it this way
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Nobody: 1:20pm On May 18, 2022
delightglobal:
He might like you naturally with no motive.... but better still you can give him chance to tell you his mind
ohh alright thanks

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Nobody: 1:21pm On May 18, 2022
SunMusk:
No be every body you go reply to oooo. This is Narialand
Okay! Chai crazy people everywhere

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Emoney2M: 1:21pm On May 18, 2022
paulolee:

oga pass abegi...i no need ur moni, if u no see bea or guy around, Break wall Mk d get hole n chook ur deek or find stone around, Gv am hole n suit urself..
no mention me again abeeg
.

Guy I love your reaction to the Bastard!

He's simply always soliciting for sex from unsuspecting guys in this platform.

Na Idyot e be!
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by enonche85(m): 1:21pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
My close friend in same dept also noticed

I know what it means to like your colleague... so trust me, the dude likes you.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Akanimo001: 1:22pm On May 18, 2022
paulolee:

who b dis wan?
Jesus Christ
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Nobody: 1:23pm On May 18, 2022
LaconicINC:
Careful! He is obsessed with you and probably a psychopath!
hm a psychopath indeed, thanks
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Akanimo001: 1:24pm On May 18, 2022
Give him a chance I think he love u
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by Onyeziokwu(m): 1:25pm On May 18, 2022
paulolee:
Gv am chance, d simp no get mind to ask u out...

Baba your mouth no good at all lol laugh wan kii me here reading your comment
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by frankson1(m): 1:28pm On May 18, 2022
Dickjo:



..ok so u ssyin Paulolee is yor booo,like he yor girlfriend..correct?bro r u tryna get him pregnant? bro be careful oo..ig police catch u, they jail u for 14years sir. how can u be gay? angry





What brand did you inhale today cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by AbujaCitiBlog: 1:32pm On May 18, 2022
Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it undecided

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me
He wants to Bleep. That's how hegoats behave. Senseless. If you like a girl why don't you approach her, lay out your heart and if she doesn't agree or is doing shakara, you dump her ass and move on.

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Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by TheGift: 1:34pm On May 18, 2022
Let Him know you appreciate it BUT you are big girl, and that you will like to be treated as one.
That means you want to be able to stand for yourself and take responsibility for your actions both right and wrong- especially in the work place.

If He is mature, He should understand.

If He has other motives , He can quickly move on to step 2.
Re: My Male colleague is over-protective of me, I Need Advice! by paulolee(m): 1:37pm On May 18, 2022
frankson1:





What brand did you inhale today cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
leave d mofo

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