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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Chillp44: 9:01pm On Jul 04, 2022
Let me tell you something young man,
The best advice I'll give is to take up your ass and start working, tomorrow nobody would want to hear excuse of yours that your dad refused to pay your fees,
What about orphan.....?
Who still hustle despite their condition.

My friend don't bring your dad to social media cos it won't help you in any way.
Start a legit hustle and let your mum back you up with prayers. Let him know your more than him, besides we were all born to be greater than our parents.

Don't threaten to make him suffer or bury in a shallow ground, what kind of message are you going to pass to your children as a good father you said you will be.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by olamoses75(m): 9:01pm On Jul 04, 2022
Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle sad
a 19 years old man and you're shouting "hustle and live like a man". If man or i should just call him "boy" can not be entitled to his parents money, then who should? What type of hustle should a 19yrs old undergraduate boy engage in? I know you wouldn't even be saying this if he's a girl.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Fatigah12: 9:01pm On Jul 04, 2022
Hi We don t determine , which family to been born into. Who should be our father or mother, sisters or brothers.

Your beliefs effect your choices.

Your choices shape your actions.

Your actions determine your results.

The future you create depends upon the choices you make and the actions you take today.

The secret of success is to make your mind work for you.-not against you. This means constantly being positive, constantly setting up challenges

you can meet either today, next week, or nexth month etc.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Obnoxious2001(m): 9:02pm On Jul 04, 2022
My only advice to op

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by micflo28(m): 9:03pm On Jul 04, 2022
If you can relocate to abuja, I can get you busy till school resumes
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Shugargal(f): 9:03pm On Jul 04, 2022
Raspberries:
Bad advice... Africans are damaged thanks to this mentality...

You mustn't suffer to be responsible... Compare yourselves to your mates in the West... undecided

Your independence was borne out of a need to survive... Your father messed you up... Cause his father treated him bad, he did the same to you? And you think that's normal?

Children should grow in a home with supportive parents who help them transition into adulthood... Not abandon them...

And the op mustn't reconcile with his father... If someone doesn't love you enough, then you let them go... undecided

A father who watches his children suffer is irresponsible... There's no excuse or reason for his selfish actions...
Oyel dey your head, like you said, there's really no excuse for his irresponsibility. Had it been his father doesn't have at all, with the little he has, he still takes care of his family, this little boy won't come here to complain rather he will always push for his betterment and that of his father.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Tingotoe: 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:

I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary
He might even get to bury you. You're a disgruntled entitled kid. Life will direct you to the right path

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by 5gee: 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
What kind of man earns so much money every month but finishes it in the first week.
Even to pay my school fees and buy textbook is an issue

At my young age am forced to collect loans to keep myself a float.
At just 19 am owing debt, I pity this man when I graduate, I'll show him pepper like mikel showed to his father.
At 19 you are a man and ideally, he does not owe you anything again. He can also choose to spend his money as he likes. This may be the best time for you to get a job and save for the future.
Do not envy the wicked.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by pharrelaustin: 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Your problem is in your mind.
your mind is making you believe you cant be independent..
you said you are 19 and still rely on dad to do some things for you.
its time to take responsibility.. Just like myself dad left wen i was nt born yet. But i have lived my life as though am fatherles. Am proud to say am doing fine at 26yr now though he is still alive enjoying his money.
you just need to believe in your self. Set target for yourself and work hard toward meeting that target but dont steal or soil your hands in evil.
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide
sorry bro i feel your pain
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Cold141114(m): 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Fashdeejay:


No matter what your father does, you are a product of his sperm upgraded. Focus the energy you are using to hate to become better than he is.... I do not support any father no being a good father but you'll realize more when you are old enough, you'll understand the reason why he is like this.... My dad once said to me and I quote him 'my father didnt do it for me, so why should I do it for you?' .... I became independent from my early teens, working and hustling, my mom tried her best and supported me with prayers.... But one thing I did was take care of them both.... Irrespective of the pain my dad put me through, I spent on him well before he died and he was appreciative of it. Don't be like your father.... Let the hate dissipate and love him irrespective and instead of burning all that energy hating, channel it into making your own greatness ..... The true victory in such battles is when you show him you are better by having him learn from you... Sometimes na bad situation dey jingah growth....


I want like this million times but nairaland don't give

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by buttlover(m): 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Try act as a good child around him. During this time, find details of all his bank. On a good day, run away with his 1 million. God punish such a dad. Mine is same. I show am shege. I wouldn't want my child to near him in future to avoid my own karma

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Awoleesu(m): 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2022
Raspberries:
My dad makes solid cash... But he's never given me a dime... grin

Douchbag... When he's old he expects I would forgive him... I wish he were dead...

Even hell wouldn't take him..
Calm down son!

It's easy to heap all the blames on your Dad and feel so entitled...

But have you ever paused to ask yourself why he acts towards you the way he does?




Lemme give you a cue...

Ask your Mamma if you're truly his biological son! undecided


If you don't gerrit, forgerrit!

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by etrange: 9:05pm On Jul 04, 2022
You didn't say you don't have a roof over your head. You didn't say you've got nothing to eat. Your anger is that you aren't driving big cars and using iPhones like some people? Sad

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by harjay1986: 9:06pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:


I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

Get to your destination first.... and perhaps maybe you should ask your mum if she do any background checkup for your fathers lineage ... sometime love is not enough ..... but no dey give treat now just pray for long life and a good job after u finish ur education .... it get reason
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:06pm On Jul 04, 2022
Cravemore:
person wey never see suffer, dey say em done suffer from em papa hand, and na still d same parent push am go school. I sure say em papa money dey inside oh.
He doesn't know he is the one punishing himself now and not the father. His eyes will soon clear.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Masturbator2020: 9:06pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide
ASUU strike put you home, and you also claim you have got the medicine? That's confusing

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Goddyj(m): 9:06pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide
I understand perfectly what you're going through.
Don't give up, it'll get better.

As a parent, it is your duty to train and guide your children until they can stand on their own. Prepare them for the tasks ahead. If they're academic, give them good quality education to prepare them for the tasks ahead.
If they're business minded, train them up in their chosen business fields, guide them until they become successful.

As a parent you don't have any moral right to expect a child you haven't trained or prepared for the future to now become your retirement plan when you get old.

Giving birth is not enough. You're not doing any child a favour by giving birth to him or her. Nobody begs to be born, you parents chose to bring them to the world, so prepare them to live and survive in the world.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Thespagchef(m): 9:07pm On Jul 04, 2022
Cypress042:
Shhh that's my opinion and you know that grin


Well, your opinion is trash because if your child at 19 is paying his own school fees, feeding and accomodation in school, then you suck as a Dad, more than that you are a failed parent.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by duchaB(m): 9:07pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in.......
I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.

Everything in life is a matter of perspectives, nothing and nobody is useless in the grand scheme of things..
And you shouldnt allow your emotions take a better part of you, dont create a vicious cycle cos whatever karmic current in that negative recurrence would keep flowing. Its makes sense to be compassionate, save energy and transform the entire situation to your own benefit. Life is not fair.

What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?

There is no cause without an effect, and no effect without a cause...
Maybe you were a very bad Father to your own kids in a past reincarnation and so the Lords of karma made you return inorder to have a good taste of your own medicine. Be smart about it

Well, in life, there is no evil that lasts a 100years...
Everything passes, so this too shall pass, dont let it consume you...

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Ibyno(m): 9:07pm On Jul 04, 2022
What if u die before your father ?

What if u never make it in life ?


What if .......... ?

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Midas01: 9:07pm On Jul 04, 2022
Please I beg you in the name of God, forgive your father.

Whatever he did to you in the past, please put it behind you.

There's absolutely no need paying evil with evil.

African men are fond of doing that. And in his old age when you finally do all that you've said here people will say it was your mom that poisoned your heart against him.

And please don't listen to those calling you entitled saying you should go and hustle. In Africa it is the duty of the parents to train up their child and in old age it is the duty of the child to care for the parents.
Failure44:

I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by harjay1986: 9:08pm On Jul 04, 2022
Awoleesu:

Calm down son!

It's easy to heap all the blames on your Dad and feel so entitled...

But have you ever paused to ask yourself why he acts towards you the way he does?




Lemme give you a cue...

Ask your Mamma if you're truly his biological son! undecided


If you don't gerrit, forgerrit!

May God bless you brother alot of question he need to seat him mama down with cutlass to make her voice out the truth about paternity .... not every man is a deadbeat but some secreate turns alot to be

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Kemadealadire(f): 9:09pm On Jul 04, 2022
Hmmn
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Thespagchef(m): 9:09pm On Jul 04, 2022
pharrelaustin:
Your problem is in your mind.
your mind is making you believe you cant be independent..
you said you are 19 and still rely on dad to do some things for you.
its time to take responsibility.. Just like myself dad left wen i was nt born yet. But i have lived my life as though am fatherles. Am proud to say am doing fine at 26yr now though he is still alive enjoying his money.
you just need to believe in your self. Set target for yourself and work hard toward meeting that target but dont steal or soil your hands in evil.

Ah brother
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Dottormentor: 9:10pm On Jul 04, 2022
You can hook up and become husband and wife, we nairanlanders will grace the occasion, op see ur future wife.
Ode.
Raspberries:
We're alike... smiley
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by JoyousFurnitire(m): 9:10pm On Jul 04, 2022
Cypress042:
Is my opinion and you can't do sh*t, get that clear sad

That's a foolish thing to think. To even think you typed it undecided

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by koxi: 9:11pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Young man, the mere fact that you’re reasoning like this shows you really not mature enough.
First of why are you borrowing at such young age? Are you responsible for your rent, feeding and schooling?
Do you live by yourself?
The monies you’ve borrowed what was it meant for and why? Now, say your answers to all the above is YES. What happened to you going to work with your hands and getting paid your own money. You are a grown ass man, put on your manly boots and get a job!
Thank God you’re studying for MBBS, that and your mother should be your driving force.
Every right thinking person prays and works to be better than their parents and not being driven by this kind of hatred. You are RESPONSIBLE for your own outcome in life, so take your life seriously and be better than your father.
If what you’re saying is true, then your dad is leading an irresponsible life. But how are you any better if you harbor all that hatred in your heart and then wishing him dead? What makes you think he’ll die before you?
When you’re not God and tomorrow is unknown?
Now focus on yourself!
Get a (part time) job!!
And lead a better life than your dad’s - one that your own wife and kids can be PROUD of!!!
Above all, be a better man.
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by seanwilliam(m): 9:11pm On Jul 04, 2022
So since your childhood , your father never did anything good to you before?

Did your mom single-handedly train you and your useless siblings up to age?
An your mama Dey pay rent , pay for foods and all house bills since you were young?

What kinda rubbish is this self?

Or your dad just started beating your mom for no reason ? Is he a psychiatric patient?

Nonsense. See this foôl. From the time you dey pregnancy up to this age, na you Dey take care of yourself?

I started husling real time on my own at age 16 with little to no support ..
would I keep blaming my parents for my failure?
We will be here to see what will become of u in the future , mumu.
Or you think because you’re studying medicine , future sure for you , you go suffer if you don’t take time ..
Kill your fhuckin entitlement mentality..

As far as you’re above 18 you’re no more your parents’ responsibilities. Whatever they do at that age will be out of connection and compassion ..

No be everyone go Dey babysit you .

When you get to his age, you will understand life better.

Akun omo..
you were praising your mom and rubbishing your father in public? Even if him do bad, nairaland is the best place to wash your parents you this foôlish boy?

Infact may thunder strike your fingers.
U don vex me self

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Cypress042(m): 9:12pm On Jul 04, 2022
olamoses75:
a 19 years old man and you're shouting "hustle and live like a man". If man or i should just call him "boy" can not be entitled to his parents money, then who should? What type of hustle should a 19yrs old undergraduate boy engage in? I know you wouldn't even be saying this if he's a girl.
Carry your arguement waka pass me abeg undecided
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by manny88ng2000: 9:12pm On Jul 04, 2022
God will not only punish your father for your ill fate. God will punish will punish this our government too. They're the major cause of your problem. They keep you away from school and can't even provide a good legal base for you sue your father.

What a failure.

Failure44:

What can I do?
I'm not financially independent, I tried learning forex but I don't have the capital to bear the losses.
I don't have a skill because I spent all my time trying to gain admission to study medicine.

Now I'm in 200 level waiting for ASUU

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