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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 5:08pm On Nov 29, 2022
OvertheTop:


Good,
Using this Same Logic,
if the Lady Sincerely or Really Really need Help, She should Visit the Nearest Bank / Loan Shark
Simple, isn't it?
Lmao... Who's she going to use as a guarantor? grin
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by OvertheTop(m): 10:53am On Nov 30, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lmao... Who's she going to use as a guarantor? grin
Her Brother/Father/Sister...and member of her family...will be ok

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 30, 2022
Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.
Why do girls leave their father and ask money from a total stranger ? Let's start from there .

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 9:18pm On Nov 30, 2022
SKIDDOLEE:

Why do girls leave their father and ask money from a total stranger ? Let's start from there .
This can be seen in two diff situation.
1: Some girls are naturally shameless
2: Some doesn't av a fam to ask.
You guys seen to misunderstood something
Am not saying you guys should be helping any girls that come to you for money... I mean someone who really need it and there's a crystal proof that she really does.

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 9:20pm On Nov 30, 2022
OvertheTop:

Her Brother/Father/Sister...and member of her family...will be ok
Those that can't even afford what they need is going to pay a bank loan? grin grin
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Tobest94: 9:21am On Dec 01, 2022
Another beggar spotted. Why be say some girls beg pass Fulani children
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by TheCongo2: 6:10pm On Dec 05, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... Just a question bruh... Funny enough I didn't say I need money from anyone and since I know myself I have never ask for money from a guy b4 and it will never happen . Mind u m not poor. And my son can use his money the way he like it none of my business grin


On ne dit jamais à la fontaine que "Fontaine, je ne boirai jamais ton eau"
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 10:00pm On Dec 05, 2022
TheCongo2:



On ne dit jamais à la fontaine que "Fontaine, je ne boirai jamais ton eau"
Smile... Tu as raison puisque je ne suis même pas encore marié smiley
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Suunnn(f): 10:45pm On Dec 05, 2022
Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.
Mentality indeed

Im hurt that judgement come in, and it is placed on every while and when it has to do with quoting majority

How about minority who do not?

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 11:02pm On Dec 05, 2022
Suunnn:

Mentality indeed

Im hurt that judgement come in, and it is placed on every while and when it has to do with quoting majority

How about minority who do not?
My point exactly.
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Bahamas95(m): 1:42pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.
Most times Nigerian girls take guys generosity as stupidity. The only way to avoid that is by getting something in return.......Apart from my sisters and very close female friends I don't feel comfortable helping random girls. I would rather help a male stranger.

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 2:05pm On Dec 07, 2022
Bahamas95:
Most times Nigerian girls take guys generosity as stupidity. The only way to avoid that is by getting something in return.......Apart from my sisters and very close female friends I don't feel comfortable helping random girls. I would rather help a male stranger.
Hmm
That's true. I concur
I started noticing this their entitlement lately
And it not nice but some girls are out there without this concept but majority have taken over the minority smiley

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by headbasher96(m): 5:07pm On Dec 07, 2022
The way this people the ask money fear the catch me this days but if u ask i the gree na to send am na him be wahala


How can i meet a girl in mid november lets say 15-17 there about and she need 30k cash for her xmas and another 20k for her tailoring apprenticeship
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 5:19pm On Dec 07, 2022
headbasher96:
The way this people the ask money fear the catch me this days but if u ask i the gree na to send am na him be wahala


How can i meet a girl in mid november lets say 15-17 there about and she need 30k cash for her xmas and another 20k for her tailoring apprenticeship
Wahala grin
Maybe she think you av money tree in ur backyardgrin
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by headbasher96(m): 5:39pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
Wahala grin
Maybe she think you av money tree in ur backyardgrin
babe get effontery tell me say i the run for her because of xmas money person wey if u check km wey we dey apart e long i jejely tell her say me i no want long distance stuff
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 5:51pm On Dec 07, 2022
headbasher96:
babe get effontery tell me say i the run for her because of xmas money person wey if u check km wey we dey apart e long i jejely tell her say me i no want long distance stuff
Lol... Smart guy
Those type of entitlement girl are nothing to write abt and they got absolutely nothing to offer than sex smiley

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by headbasher96(m): 6:49pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... Smart guy
Those type of entitlement girl are nothing to write abt and they got absolutely nothing to offer than sex smiley
make she meet all those guys she the post so that she go bill them

Calling me baby will not change anything baby o babe o all na billing strtegy
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 8:51pm On Dec 07, 2022
headbasher96:
make she meet all those guys she the post so that she go bill them

Calling me baby will not change anything baby o babe o all na billing strtegy
Hahaha
Smart guy grin
Seriously some girls need to change their mentality smiley

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by headbasher96(m): 9:01pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
Hahaha
Smart guy grin
Seriously some girls need to change their mentality smiley
as in eh i dont understand why this girls no want pursue financial independence as a woman dont just what for a man to use as scapegoat hustle and see your wealth attract a husband of your choice

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 9:27pm On Dec 07, 2022
headbasher96:
as in eh i dont understand why this girls no want pursue financial independence as a woman dont just what for a man to use as scapegoat hustle and see your wealth attract a husband of your choice
I'll say peer group influence is really d issue. Most girls that doesn't av that entitlement b4 easy get influence by friends
Like wannabe
And some girls are lazy
They feel like they can easily get the money from guy so why stressing themselves.
Seriously, some girls av use this mentality to spoil other girls reputation smiley

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by headbasher96(m): 9:31pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
I'll say peer group influence is really d issue. Most girls that doesn't av that entitlement b4 easy get influence by friends
Like wannabe
And some girls are lazy
They feel like they can easily get the money from guy so why stressing themselves.
Seriously, some girls av use this mentality to spoil other girls reputation smiley
it is only a foollish girl that will leave hard working girls to following all this 2k hookup scums that have littled our social media i really pity them see what is happening in lagos today u can book numerous pussies at the comfort of your home once u have cash to throw around not even minding their own safety

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 9:35pm On Dec 07, 2022
headbasher96:
it is only a foollish girl that will leave hard working girls to following all this 2k hookup scums that have littled our social media i really pity them see what is happening in lagos today u can book numerous pussies at the comfort of your home once u have cash to throw around not even minding their own safety
Lol... You really underestimate peer influence
E go shock
Hookup is now the latest work now grin
B4 girls keep it as a secret but now they'll even say it will pride cheesy
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by LINTUNE(m): 9:41pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
No I only make the thread bcoz I saw a post abt a girl that ask for 3k and the way the girl asked was polite so I think a simple no will be ok but the way the op trash d girl as if it all girls that beg for money make me open the thread. To know y guys think of girls like that.
y can't guys ask too, are we not the same human beings?...how will u feel if every guy that knows u ,begs u for money..or u think we guys don't need money?...stop feeling so entitled, same way my ego will not allow me beg a random girl,why can't most girl feel same way begging from a random guy.....we all have our problems..

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 11:39pm On Dec 07, 2022
LINTUNE:
y can't guys ask too, are we not the same human beings?...how will u feel if every guy that knows u ,begs u for money..or u think we guys don't need money?...stop feeling so entitled, same way my ego will not allow me beg a random girl,why can't most girl feel same way begging from a random guy.....we all have our problems..
Lol... Is it every girls that you know that beg for money? If yes
Then sorry to type, you're moving with the wrong crew grin
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Geovanni412(m): 11:53pm On Dec 07, 2022
Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.

There is no free lunch in life. Reason am: if you worked for 5 hrs to earn 10k naira, would you be willing to just dash it to someone just because they are a girl and they have a pretty face? It makes no sense, business wise.
That said, as a girl, if you really want money from a guy, you have to sell to him that there is a possibility of sex occurring. The girls who know this, don't complain about men- they have unlimited guys in their DM sending them money just because they think their pictures are sexy on instagram. Men spend more money on the possibility of sex than on sex itself. How else do you think only fans models can rake in 100's of thousands of dollars?

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 12:04am On Dec 08, 2022
Geovanni412:


There is no free lunch in life. Reason am: of you worked for 5 hrs to earn 10k naira, would you be willing to just dash it to someone just because they are a girl and they have a pretty face? It makes no sense, business wise.
That said, as a girl, if you really want money from a guy, you have to sell to him that there is a possibility of sex occurring. The girls who know this, don't complain about men- they have unlimited guys in their DM sending them money just because they think their pictures are sexy on instagram. Men spend more money on the possibility of sex than on sex itself. How else do you think only fans models can rake in 100's of thousands of dollars?
Lol... You got smart business mind.
You got a point smiley

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by headbasher96(m): 1:52am On Dec 08, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... You really underestimate peer influence
E go shock
Hookup is now the latest work now grin
B4 girls keep it as a secret but now they'll even say it will pride cheesy
honestly speaking oo

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by sweetman2022: 10:22am On Dec 08, 2022
Some girls feel entitled to any help you are rendering to them. I blame their upbringing and their lazy altitude.
Some are even working class but still feel entitled because they believe it is a woman thing.
Though I can say few are an excemption. I have this girl in which we have being friends for like 2 years now.
We have gone on a date before and she has never ask me for a dime.
I wish most girls can be like her but they are not. The day she will manage ask me for help, I won't hesitate a bit to help her.
How can you give a girl some cash and she will still be telling u it is small or can't you do more than this.
It feels irritating knowing that you work for this money and someone feels entitled to it without working for it.

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 11:17am On Dec 08, 2022
sweetman2022:
Some girls feel entitled to any help you are rendering to them. I blame their upbringing and their lazy altitude.
Some are even working class but still feel entitled because they believe it is a woman thing.
Though I can say few are an excemption. I have this girl in which we have being friends for like 2 years now.
We have gone on a date before and she has never ask me for a dime.
I wish most girls can be like her but they are not. The day she will manage ask me for help, I won't hesitate a bit to help her.
How can you give a girl some cash and she will still be telling u it is small or can't you do more than this.
It feels irritating knowing that you work for this money and someone feels entitled to it without working for it.
Hmm
I don't even know where to fault coz you're right smiley
What i sill don't get is where their entitlement mentality come from undecided
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Kelvin3476: 6:28am On Dec 14, 2022
Sweetvie:
Thank u... Like those ones that they're still feeding will also be making mouth saying he can't give his money to any girls. M alws felt so irritated when belittle girls smiley
NO VEX DEAR BT GIRLS BELITTLE THEMSELVES THE MOST.
WHAT WOULD HAVE BEEN UR REPLY IF GUYS ARE THE ONES WHO BELIEVE THAT "THEY SHOULD BE AT THE RECIEVING END ALWAYS".

JUST ASK A GAL OF SOMETHING AND HEAR HER SAY " ME AND U WHO SUPPOSE GIVE EACH OTHER SOMETHING ? ".

I KNOW ITS NT ALL BUT THE PROBABILITY IS 97 TO 3.
TOO HIGH

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Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Kelvin3476: 6:34am On Dec 14, 2022
Sweetvie:
Lol... Just a question bruh... Funny enough I didn't say I need money from anyone and since I know myself I have never ask for money from a guy b4 and it will never happen. Mind u m not poor. And my son can use his money the way he like it none of my business grin
saying is none of ur business if ur son choose to lavish his is a big lie.
na when u become mother we go know.
Re: Nigerian Guys And Their Mentality by Sweetvie: 6:37am On Dec 14, 2022
Kelvin3476:

saying is none of ur business if ur son choose to lavish his is a big lie.
na when u become mother we go know.
Lol... Then let that time come grin grin

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